the concept of wife, husband and family

[ahpui99]

hi bros
my 2 cents worth. getting married keeps one anchoured. otherwise, too free to whore ard and go china all the time. if bored, eat a bit outside but always be careful and do it wisely. it is the ususal pratice for guys to spread seeds ard.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

you are certain but there's no example? some bros? who are they? hmmm, or is that thought a hope? maybe you are just hoping there's true love?

I have witness a few... But is my real life friend

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

I have witness a few... But is my real life friend

what you see is on surface. we outsiders will never be able to tell if our friends are having great time in the house or outside the house. tio bo? faith is so intangible. but the fact is, humans exploit opportunities. that's how we built civilizations also. so with every bit of chance, we makan outside but then we also want a life partner to keep us company till old age. greedy maybe? well, how can we change it? maybe start with the system of marriage? I think the system got prob..but what to do..have to abide to law if want to get married.

we are consumers afterall.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

what you see is on surface. we outsiders will never be able to tell if our friends are having great time in the house or outside the house. tio bo? faith is so intangible. but the fact is, humans exploit opportunities. that's how we built civilizations also. so with every bit of chance, we makan outside but then we also want a life partner to keep us company till old age. greedy maybe? well, how can we change it? maybe start with the system of marriage? I think the system got prob..but what to do..have to abide to law if want to get married.

we are consumers afterall.

Ha

One of them just stay opp me same level.
He was a gambler he owe 200k from banks and his monthly salary was on 3k plus. His current wife used to be his ex.

They get back together on my grandpa wake, chat and start contact. Got married one yr later. Wife no complain help him out to pay the loan he owe. Simple marriage.

Can't afford maid so she need to do own housework but my friend will help out. Kids have to bring to nanny when they go work.

There are argument but after awhile they are fine. His wifey and me are close so when she confide to me I will listen.

Guy also my best buddy, I always remind him to treasure this wife. She is good looking. Can easily look for a guy doing much much better then my friend. What I can said both compromises each other alot and change to adjust to each other habit and temper. In order to make this marriage work out.

How to find a gal does not even went holiday after married? They can only after to go Malaysia. But they are happy on that.

[Summerhillt]

Wa piang she so nice ah your friend. Go back go a gambler yet still work hand in hand go settle the 200k debts. Most people already run road le. Respect your fren.. Plus summore u say she not bad looking.. She never go out test market see got others want her anot? Why go back to a 烂赌鬼

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

Wa piang she so nice ah your friend. Go back go a gambler yet still work hand in hand go settle the 200k debts. Most people already run road le. Respect your fren.. Plus summore u say she not bad looking.. She never go out test market see got others want her anot? Why go back to a 烂赌鬼

My friend he change lar
Now only at home play mj with our regular buddies. Go eat or movie only.
Everyone is suppose to give second chance right?

Ha she like me always work late hours.. Love is blind de..

As friends we also help out with him on the money side. (=

[Absolute]

I have met couples who have no regrets about their marriages and I have also met couples who really regret marrying one another but are stuck because of children.

It is not a simple problem to tackle but being human beings, we definitely have the wisdom, mental resolve and heart if we want relationships to blossom. It takes two to tango though.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by Absolute

I have met couples who have no regrets about their marriages and I have also met couples who really regret marrying one another but are stuck because of children.

It is not a simple problem to tackle but being human beings, we definitely have the wisdom, mental resolve and heart if we want relationships to blossom. It takes two to tango though.

Yeah (= agreed

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Yeah (= agreed

200k debt is kind of a sad ending isn't it?

the woman has proven worthy to be loved. your friend must really treasure her wor. dont later after a few years (touchwood!), got money already then look for young grass.

one bro here has a saying: a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has no money. a man's loyalty is tested when he has money.

time will tell..i certainly hope that the love is mutual for the both of them.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

200k debt is kind of a sad ending isn't it?

the woman has proven worthy to be loved. your friend must really treasure her wor. dont later after a few years (touchwood!), got money already then look for young grass.

one bro here has a saying: a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has no money. a man's loyalty is tested when he has money.

time will tell..i certainly hope that the love is mutual for the both of them.

Ha credit card kills la

Don't worry. He is blessed to know me and a group of buddies we will constantly remind him.

Every weekend we will catch up for talks with or without his wife type (:

Later I'm meeting 3 married couple ha