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Re: Why are you hooked to your girl (WL)?
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sorry i wait for u but no action so i start this ...maybe can ask sammy to link both our threads together.... Quote:
for most of us, great sex is sometimes wrongly interpreted as great love but then this are WL so its the same with other guys u never know....... love from sensual perspective is tougher, but can be great if approached from the non-lustful point of view. In a view this is not easy cos our big bro are the one controlling us ..... so 1 must segreagate our the feelings to be sure of wat 1 wans ...
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well, ur WL may b smart n lie low 4 a while as she either genuinely love u o dat she jz wanna avoid detection first... maybe she'll go back 2 d trade on FL basis due 2 a few reasons: a) family got problems but dun wanna tell u as u may not be able 2 handle it. b) got another giggolo outside she fancied (another lau gong)... c) getting lonely as u work all d time (not enuff sex)... etc... i've seen cases of pple WL got settled down for goot.. n oso sum dat dun turn out dat well.... how d fella suspected it? well, same as how gals suspect us... new hobbies lah, new group of frenz lah, etc...
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Let me try to relate my own personal experience with WLs.. I, for one, don't really go for different WLs.. usually stick to one when there is chemistry and we both feel comfortable with each other.. the first one i got stuck with, was like 3 years back.. at that time it was more the lust than the love.. more the various sexual positions and her willingness than anything else that made her come back to her.. and of course the free bonks after a few paid sessions.. but after a while.. it became obvious that she was sticking with me more for the money than anything else.. but i understood her situation - twice divorced, three schooling kids and a mother to look after.. tried to support her for some time, even helped her pay off some loans without her knowledge but had to "pull handbrake" after my wife gave birth and spent less time with her.. so it died a natural death..
Recently in the midst of some marital problems.. went back to the HC where she worked and tried out another girl.. the former's good friend in fact.. this girl was of course surprised that i requested for her instead of her friend.. and asked if i wanted to switch.. anyway there was chemistry between me and her too.. but having kena bitten once, i didn't want to spend too much of my resources with her.. the bonk is better though.. but so is the bond.. she is married with 4 kids.. but having some marital problems.. we became quite close partially because i was on reservist and had the opportunity to visit her everynight.. not for the bonk but more for the companionship.. confide in each other on our problems .. have to say with her advice my married life is better than ever now.. but we are still close, picking her up and sending her to her workplace or having lunch whenever i could.. especially since my nature of work is such that i have to be mobile most of the time.. i dare say there's less lust but more love now with this one.. we seldom bonk but when we do it's like the national day fireworks.. Didn't stop her from working at the HC or bonking her customers.. i know the nature of her work but can't stop her.. no right to stop her from doing it.. but she told me all about her customers.. never hide from me... she confessed it's for the money to support her kids and utilities (abusive good for nothing husband never gives her a single cent from his pay).. but unlike the other girl, she never asked me for money.. The previous girl of course was aware of my relationship with this one.. we maintained diplomacy with each other.. no hard feelings.. Why am i hooked to her? It's the comfort.. the closeness.. the bond that we share.. even though we know that we can't be together unless our marriages break up, something which we both do not want.. it's been exactly a month.. so i guess it's still the honeymoon period.. sorry if i bore u guys with my story |
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i do agree with wat u say "the comfort & closeness" ......
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anyways.. was wondering.. if brown sugar refers to minahs.. what would be an appropriate term to refer to the guys? brown rods? heheh |
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Sometimes we wana just get pampered by somebody different, other than our wives or gfs, especially if it is those SYTs types, sure kena hooked for a couple of months, before moving to the next target...
Cheers...
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well, there is no result cos i dun go and sian viet gers... i just have my drink and appreciate the eye candy.. hehe!!! Last edited by wahpiang; 15-02-2005 at 06:58 PM. |
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comfort, closeness, bonding, different treatment from gf/wife ... all seem to be the key words. knowing that it is most likely (cannot say never right?) not going to end up a stable relationship, yet we stll fall headlong into it. guess bro lament is right. small bro is the starting factor in most cases.
If the girl is horny, calls you up for a quickie (paid or free), would you resist? guess not. hehe! anyway, thanks for sharing your experiences. there must be many other bros who have similar experiences. To all, good luck and Happy CNY! |
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when something new comes around, it rekindles that feelings in us once more and thats wat some craves for whether its real or surreal Quote:
people often mistook great sex for great love .... but years of bonking have brought me to realise that it is not the case ... Quote:
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think most brothers cannot resist free bonks. keke! wait till one offers you free or even pay but look like kena lorry run over then you will know. |
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