Marital affair

[ston]

Originally Posted by pychan

dear all,

thanks for all advise.

I am really not ready to let go both.
and i also know i cannot have both together, as it will hurt someone.
At the end sure someone will get hurt.

she is a very good girl to me, she into NSA because of pressure / stress and lack of time by her bf. beside this is a caring, filial, nice, pretty, elegant, profesional. her bf is much a good person, wealth, nice looking, only lack fo time for her.
She willing to give up all this just to be with me. Frankly speaking, i am not handsome, i am not rich, but she like my companionship and caring to her.



i am not sure this is "2nd spring", as i know the feeling is much stronger than my first gf or my wife when we start dating ( i am comparing the most peak of moment compare my previous 2 woman). I mean beside sex, she always in my mind now, whenever i free, i miss her, when i driving, i also thinking of her. Reading her emails and sms, make my days brighter.

I still cant figure any way without hurting anyone. I cant be selfish to let woman hurt, this i know clearly , but i really dunno what to do now.

very stressful now

Married here with kids and also looking out for fun.

Bro, like/xi huan is not love.

Love is a commitment, even if ugly or sick etc, you also love and take care. That is your wife.

Now there is this new girl which you like, just like ur old girlfriend (now wife).

American mama san say. Sometimes, men stray to stay...

Sometime it is hard for men to stay with just one, we go out to de-stress and have some fun only. Keep it that way.

[demonorc]

Bro,
Being someone that is somehow similiar.

To her,it is painful as she has to see you go back to your and not spend important dates with her such as new year christmas.

You have to consider very carefully before making an decision if youwant to be her.
Gotto discuss if she accepts being your mistress.

[ston]

Originally Posted by demonorc

Bro,
Being someone that is somehow similiar.

To her,it is painful as she has to see you go back to your and not spend important dates with her such as new year christmas.

You have to consider very carefully before making an decision if youwant to be her.
Gotto discuss if she accepts being your mistress.

If worry she painful, wife not painful meh?

TS action already prove he is a bastard already, just be a good fuck buddy. Rest of it, just be bastard lah. Nan bu huai, nu bu ai.

If he marry new gf, nothing good will come out too.(both cheating type).

[demonorc]

Wat one does not know does not hurt. Make sure both stay happy

[thomas88]

I'd say it depends on whether you and your wife are still an item before and after you met this NSA. If you both have been treating each other as husband and wife(with or without sex) til now then you should tell the NSA that you can never leave your wife as you've made the wedding vow with her.

If she understands and won't mind just to be your FB then you're lucky else leave it and return back to your family. To me......nothing is more important than family. Even though you don't have kids with your wife, you've created a place call home with her.

[bombshell]

Going back to the wife end of the day is still the answer.Remember what u guys agreed on when u start the fling?Like what one bro mentioned..won't she do it behind your back too when she can do so to the boyfriend...she got nothing to lose..you stand to lose everything.well this is just my views,u still got to decide cos it's still your own personal affair.

[LovePotion]

Go back to your wife mate.. Cheating is never right.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by ston

Love is a commitment, even if ugly or sick etc, you also love and take care.

really moved by this phrase.. thanks for reminding me about it..

[dream888]

Sorry mate,

Only cheongsters here, cheong outside and don't bring it home, remember that!

IMHO: A lot of girls always like married man, because they can commit unlike single cheongsters. If U set a precedent, what's to stop U in few years time to leave this woman for another upgrade.

[LovePotion]

Mate.. a family is never worth breaking up man. The love of a family is one that cannot be found elsewhere. But whatever u may choose to do.. I hope you have a clear conscience

[Lexus118]

If you leave, Wife will Whack Half your Asset Away!
You're got to pay Maintenance for kids and Wife.
If you Ready to give up All that for the other party, then go find your True Love.

[navras]

Bro, end out the day.
YOU have to decide who to be with,
Wife or GF.
But be warned,if you dragged it for too long eventually all 3 parties will be hurted.

[mrhumsap]

not worth getting serious with a NSA

[Forastart]

Bro...now might be the honeymoon period between u both..but think,didn't this 'period' also happened before to your wife n u? Theres nothing more to think now at this time, just get yourself up nd running back to your normal self..else u be hurting all 3..time will heal.. 人走茶凉...

[iossshee]

bro thats a great problem its all depend on you ...

to me you enjoy sex with this girl ... if you stick with your wife do you think that u still can perform on bed that well with your eyes stare into your wife eyes or you just close your eyes and finish it for the day just for the sick of a husband duty ???? pls woman can sense it .. especially your wife been sleeping with you for that long ... do you think is fair to your wife ???? your is thinking of the girl while you are F'king your wife ...

I am in this position before .... is all really up on you .... ???