GF asks for breakup. What should I do? [Chase her back or turn her to FkBuddy?]

Urs at least ok.mine is one year 4 months.and there is a third party.woo her when I'm fucking busy with work.damn.

[twinresist2]

There alot of things in life that sucks.. love life.. married life.. working life.. i happen to feel that way at work. One of the things i learn about is that i cant change the people i work with, the company culture etc.. but i can change how i look at it.

What you focus on expand.. if you keep focusing on her and your loss.. you will go down the path of endless misery and heartache. If you channel your focus on doing exceptionally well in your degree so you can get a good career after you grad. More doors will open, and you may meet someone better or she may realize that she lost a gem.

My 2 cent worth of advise, get out of this whirlpool in your own mind, and look at the big picture. hope this helps

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by twinresist2

There alot of things in life that sucks.. love life.. married life.. working life.. i happen to feel that way at work. One of the things i learn about is that i cant change the people i work with, the company culture etc.. but i can change how i look at it.

What you focus on expand.. if you keep focusing on her and your loss.. you will go down the path of endless misery and heartache. If you channel your focus on doing exceptionally well in your degree so you can get a good career after you grad. More doors will open, and you may meet someone better or she may realize that she lost a gem.

My 2 cent worth of advise, get out of this whirlpool in your own mind, and look at the big picture. hope this helps

yup i know.

but ever since she dumped me, i have been thinking about her. i tried to do activities but it only takes away the pain a while.

- when i was receiving my dental treatment i thought of her
- when i went to aunt place to play card i thought of her
- when my buddy came to my place to chat with me, i also thought of her.
- when i went out to fix my spects, i also thought of her.

[DotaEr]

many people said that its her loss for giving me up. my parents also said that its her loss and not mine.

my parents said that comparing our family background, wealth, education level, appearance and size.. she is way below my level.

but.. love works in a strange way. i still find myself attracted to her.

[alvinskoh]

Bro, you no cure Liao. Just because of1pussy. You dun have other friend to do other activities. If you think of her than find another to fuck and see if you still can remember her. Bird language.

Originally Posted by DotaEr

yup i know.

but ever since she dumped me, i have been thinking about her. i tried to do activities but it only takes away the pain a while.

- when i was receiving my dental treatment i thought of her
- when i went to aunt place to play card i thought of her
- when my buddy came to my place to chat with me, i also thought of her.
- when i went out to fix my spects, i also thought of her.

[lammpeb]

Must be 1st gf or 1st pussy,....finish your study get a job mix around there will be other girls that will be interested in you.....in real world no money no love.....let go,set your career priority right first....alot of woman out there...wake up boy.....dont let your parent sad just because of one girl

[Likeucare]

haha u are still so young..

pls some guys i know 33 also not married yet and life is not a bed of roses.. ha a lot of shit comes after marriage. enjoy study and play hard find a nice gf who can meet your expectations and she meet yrs too. its really important to think on the same wavelength. believe me if u gt no common topic. just let it go.. trying to adjust to the other persons need u will give up eventually. too tiring already with work n life and to try to adapt to the other person. I think u miss the sex life only. i have that kind of feeling with my ex too. and i try not to think abt it too much cos love and sex is really different. if u can find someone with both.. u hit the jackpot =) i bet everything in life is just a breeze heh

Not trying to make life sound sad fo you but life really works like that

[otur]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

i am going to be 26 this year. and i have one more semester before i graduate from my accountancy course in a local uni. i should be working by late december or early jan next year.

but to say the truth bro, i find that i am already an old man. i am afraid that no girls would want to date with me.. or i am unable to find another gf. and people are like getting married at 28? and i am 26 but still single.

i got married in 27. after 8yrs porblem started and i became active in this forum sharing info from my commercial sex encointers. needless to say ended up divorce. that was 12 yrs after i sign my 1st married cert.
shortly after i married again. i m 42 and my wife is 29.
as long as u have a stable income and can be a caring man, its never too late.
look forward to better gal.....

[GrieGzEters]

TS, forget about her n whatever reason she gives for the breakup. The best way to get back at her is to come out stronger an make her regret for giving u up.

[teehee]

A girl who initiates a breakup through whatsapp really shows how insincere she is towards the relationship. Like what other bros said, she might have another boy waiting out there, so don't give up a tree over a forest.

[BEAT]

I guess bro here already give the most all of the answer to you right? Now is you need to choose your path. Our bro here only give you active, the rest is what path you choose. Please choose wisely bro and hope your path you choose is right one.

[desire082]

she ditched you because all her friends think you are a dork
stop gaming make friends with guys who are good with women, learn real social skills and start acting like an alpha male

u can be the sought after guy
u can be like tony stark
u can be an avenger!

[Lormeelover]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

i am going to be 26 this year. and i have one more semester before i graduate from my accountancy course in a local uni. i should be working by late december or early jan next year.

but to say the truth bro, i find that i am already an old man. i am afraid that no girls would want to date with me.. or i am unable to find another gf. and people are like getting married at 28? and i am 26 but still single.

dude the fact that you are in accountancy degree you should just dump your girl and go in your Big4 or other firms whereby you go find those girls who are willing to slog for her future.

Benefits are:
1. Given that she is willing to slog shows that she is working hard for her foreseeable future with family.
2. In any case, if you have kids with this kind of woman, you'll prolly find her awesome because other than work, its you and her kids. Kids are a great tool to bun girls down.
3. You can also jump to work in a bank after you're married and you'll prolly land in a senior banker position. There you can start recruiting young hot girls who thirst to be bankers and guess what, given Singapore's more and more materialistic social scape you'll most likely gonna fuk them.
4. Then after your wife's cunt gets looser and you get richer, well you can even have more fun and always be a good hubby and wonderful father back home

So PLEASE FORGET ABOUT HER. 50% of the girls in a Big4 Tax dept I saw have C cups. Its like a cup forest bro. With your cert what is your gf? I mean seriously?!?

[Lormeelover]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

yup i know.

but ever since she dumped me, i have been thinking about her. i tried to do activities but it only takes away the pain a while.

- when i was receiving my dental treatment i thought of her
- when i went to aunt place to play card i thought of her
- when my buddy came to my place to chat with me, i also thought of her.
- when i went out to fix my spects, i also thought of her.

Symptoms of Onegina bro. Not good for health. Especially when you step out to work. Your female colleague shoot a glance at you and you get a hard on. Not good bro.

Fuk more girls and attain enlightenment so that you can concentrate on work. I am serious. Previously I was one who looks at my classmates for her figure and boobs but after my boss brought me to KTV and enjoy a few hot snowy white viet cunts I became much more mature.

I don't even really care about those girls who reveal their cleavage and sorts on Orchard now.

The most important thing is fuk till the extent you are numb to fuking, then you will automatically focus on work and more importantly, you can see what is love, especially when your girl try to "Starve" your sex appetites to control you.

Been there, done that.

And I am 23 bro. Hope you don't get bullied in the office with 50% female working environment

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

what do you mean by eyeing for a longer dick than mine? actually when we broke up she said that she is no longer wants to be in anymore r/s to avoid all the problems like this. and she say we are young and she just wants to concentrate on matters on her hand such as her studies.

"but there were some occasions.. where she met up with guys online on a 1-1 basis. there was once when i met her for dinner and then she brought along a guy friend.. and i didnt know that she brought along someone.

there is also another guy she met online and the guy is asking her out for meals etc.

so third party is a possibility."

In your own words. She is just being kind to you denying there is no 3rd party. Wake up! Like I say don't be a wimp. You'll get over it faster than you think!