Not desirable?

[lalakers]

talk about it.

one thing why so many intimacy problems are left unsolved are because couples do not talk about it.

Ask him why or what and tell him that you have needs that you want satisfied also, and you chose no one else but him to share it with you.

If he doesn't speak then it will be tough, or you will have to find out yourself.

good luck!

[snowleopard2010]

Guessing it could be due to work and/or work-related stress which can really kill the mood. Because his mind is bothered by the stuff which prevents him from being aroused by you until no mood for s*x.
Women also have moods and temperaments which acts both ways.

[Phuket]

Originally Posted by Sextimental

Hello brothers and sisters,

I am married, 1.6m at 50kg, I am deemed by people as sweet looking or to some, even pretty. I am a full B cupper and decent butts too. But why does my husband do not find me desirable? We hardly have sex, once a quarter if I am lucky

Hubby always cite work stress as an excuse, I do agree with him but I have my urges too but he can't match my thirst for sex... Besides telling me he might be "fed" outside, which I think quite unlikely, is there any other reason/s why he does not want to have sex with me? I am lost and badly in need of "relief"...

Hi Sis Sextimental,

I am a 38 year old male, exactly in your same shoe. Wife is not interested about sex ever since the birth of our boy. I almost got to wank it off everytime my need is here.

Sorry to be bold, why not we help each other? Be friends 1st and let's see thing grow from there. If we do feel comfy about each other, let's help to relieve each other. I believe we both do love our family, it's just this small little things our partner cannot help us. Let solve this "problem" by ourself... i mean if u don't mind. Pardon me for my boldness, i m also in despo mode.... hahaha Anyway, have a nice day!!!!

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[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Phuket

Hi Sis Sextimental,

I am a 38 year old male, exactly in your same shoe. Wife is not interested about sex ever since the birth of our boy. I almost got to wank it off everytime my need is here.

Sorry to be bold, why not we help each other? Be friends 1st and let's see thing grow from there. If we do feel comfy about each other, let's help to relieve each other. I believe we both do love our family, it's just this small little things our partner cannot help us. Let solve this "problem" by ourself... i mean if u don't mind. Pardon me for my boldness, i m also in despo mode.... hahaha Anyway, have a nice day!!!!

Cheerios:
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wow got beaten to that hahahaha good lucky i doubt the sis is looking for anything outside her marriage is not she wouldn't be posting such asking for feedback. Nonetheless

your Boldness +1

[Greendevil]

Seximental, from the numerous response and concerns, you are not undesirable at all. Sis, suggest you look for the opportunity to discuss or drop hint with your hubby on this issue. If all else failed, keeping it to yourself in not healthy as well. Look for a friend or someone that you are comfortable to share your agony an frustration, it better to let it out in the air than to keep it bottle up.