Do you all think people practice swapping of wife? - Page 3

Lian&Hua · #31 10-02-2011, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Johnston

I for three take my hat off to you for being so protective, you going to have to go to medical school to be her doctor. Not only you have to be a GP, u also have to be a surgeon, gynaecologist, and if any brain things come out, u train be neurosurgeon..... how about dentist, Anesthesiologist, etc etc etc....

Oh and not to forget her colleagues, father, grandfather....

And also remember if the Polices ever catch her for anything... not to touch her

LOL. I like that. LOL

bochapsing · #32 10-02-2011, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ttocaw

Envy would be an understatement.

My wife and i have not progress beyond a BJ swap and have been stagnent for a while.

Good that your entry to the community occured naturally, not all smooth sailing on my side.Having been together with my wife for 8 years, 5 of which as gf, our sex life has kinda reached a bottom. I cannot remember how long we talked about this before venturing the first step.

I felt exactly the same as the day i lost my V during our first soft swing encounter.
Looking at her giving another guy a BJ is enough to send me into a frenzy.

envy, envy and still envy....

bro, at least u've taken a big step towards fulfilling ur fantasy...

i always wonder how did u guys manage to bring up this topic to ur wifeys?

i've heard stories here that the wife was super conservative (same as mine), but somehow the guy managed to "convert" her...

nookie7 · #33 11-02-2011, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by bochapsing

envy, envy and still envy....

bro, at least u've taken a big step towards fulfilling ur fantasy...

i always wonder how did u guys manage to bring up this topic to ur wifeys?

i've heard stories here that the wife was super conservative (same as mine), but somehow the guy managed to "convert" her...

yea...would like to know how to convince wife/gf to do that...

budly55 · #34 11-02-2011, 06:40 AM

me too..always wonder how some other guys managed to convince their gf/wife..and even your wife/gf agree, where to find the right person to do it...

allen3128 · #35 11-02-2011, 11:12 AM

To convince the wife takes time, effort and lots of ingeniuty. Afterall, they have been conditioned to be conservative and it means changing their mindset.

But once the wife is converted, wow....., its definitely worth the effort.

But before that, actually its us who have to change our own mindset and the possesiveness and jealousy of seeing the wife with another man....Its easy to fantasize but never easy to see the wife the first time with another man.

Cheers

nookie7 · #36 11-02-2011, 11:42 AM

i feel that the convincing part will be harder compare to our jealousy seeing our wife/gf with another man since it's our fantasy..

i guess alcohol plays a lil part in it...

Yardstick · #37 11-02-2011, 12:11 PM

I guess the Asian society is still rather conservative. Most men in the forum would probably think of this as a fantasy than a real life act coz we all know that our wives or gfs are unlikely to agree.

For those who have cross the line, i do hope that the swapping has brought about more sparks in your love and sex life. I have heard of some couples who split after swinging, which is quite sad.

bochapsing · #38 11-02-2011, 01:37 PM

i think most girls r still not able to seperate "love" n "sex"...
unlike guys, they cannot accept sex w/o love...
my wife cannot even accept any chance of zaogeng or "expose" bit of flesh to people...

long, long, long way to go...

monger02 · #39 11-02-2011, 08:15 PM

to the brothers who convinced their wives to do it, do u had kids already?

Before my kiddo comes along, wifey shared her fantasy of doing wit my buddy. She even moaned his name while doing with me (which i encouraged her). Super turned on then. Now, she has no more such tots. Not sure is it becoz of the kiddo.

allen3128 · #40 12-02-2011, 11:51 AM

mine was after the kids arrived and are grown up beyong toddler stage when she is not so stressed out by them.

I guess that also means that the familiarity and boredom have set in after years of marriage and opening up was exciting for her and me too....

ahbey · #41 12-02-2011, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by allen3128

mine was after the kids arrived and are grown up beyong toddler stage when she is not so stressed out by them.

I guess that also means that the familiarity and boredom have set in after years of marriage and opening up was exciting for her and me too....

Fantasy on swapping wife in local but scare meet someone know ...
Oversea are more peace of mind....

nookie7 · #42 13-02-2011, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ahbey

Fantasy on swapping wife in local but scare meet someone know ...
Oversea are more peace of mind....

agree with u...my gf did say she can be wild if it's outside the country...so ppl wont recognize...

sonicsnap · #43 12-06-2011, 08:20 AM

My wife and I have been thinking of meeting other couples. Our plan is to start with soft swing, i.e, no swapping and then move onto oral swap and slowly ease into full swap. The problem is that it is hard to find a couple online that we can trust. Our comfort level is if the couple is a married couple (to each other) and not a guy getting a pros to pass off as his "gf". Well, when the time comes, we're sure up for it.

cplsgchn · #44 12-06-2011, 09:53 AM

Swinging fun do exist all over the world. You just need to have a good mutual understanding and agreement between you and your wife before proceed to meet people to chat and share.

We are a swinger whom had met some people in here to enjoy some share of great fun. But at times, the fun might turns bad if not handle with care.

For example, you can consider to chat with people or exchange email to have some understanding before talking over the phone to have a feel.

If everyone do feel comfortable, than arrange to meet for a drink to chat without obligation to enter.

Should the comfortable level and chemistry is great to enter, there is no harm enter into same room sex for a start to kick off.

If acceptable and base on mutual consent after entering into same room sex, you and your partner might like to move a little further to go into soft swap like petting or oral for a start.

Wish you good luck.

Cheer!

Pierre · #45 22-06-2011, 06:55 AM

Wife swapping is another level of fun and trust, my wife rather see me bonking other girls with her permission rather den i go steal eat before her back. Same goes to me, when i see her enjoying fucking other guys with my permission it is a different kind of feeling that make me feel abit song too.