what if you found your wife is cheating you? - Page 3

sg_brother · #31 11-04-2010, 05:24 PM

I think it is the IN thing now that wife is cheating around. My wife also cheated on me not once but three times, which I recently found out. I admit that my wife is pretty. Remembered when I went fortune telling at Beach Road when that fortune teller told me my wife was having an affair. Initially, I did not believe him. Went to another fortune teller at Simei which told me the same. Went to the third at Bedok and he also said the same. As I still refused to accept, I treated it as they were bullshitting. But the truth came to light when I found out evidence of my wife affairs that all three of the fortune teller was saying the truth. Confronted her but she denied vehemently but after I took out the evidence, she started crying and admitted her affairs. I was very upset as how she could do this when I am faithful to her, and yet she could have three different affairs. Worst is, she did raw with all three of them just because she is on pills.

Was going to divorce her but she begged and pleaded for forgiveness. After some times, I did forgave her but the fact is, I cant forget. Because I knew and met the first two guys before she had affairs with them, while the third guy is through MSN. All the three guys are married men.

Even though I had forgiven her, my imagination will sometimes run wild when I am having sex with her, even till now. I had thought of revenge but till now I did not make that happen.

Eaglet · #32 11-04-2010, 08:35 PM

Organised your finances. Hide your assets. Used your credit facilities to the fullest.

officelady · #33 11-04-2010, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by J.Bonk.003

Mind tell us a full detailed story?

Then we can give better advice (If 'advise', Boss will comes in correct me.)
Just joking Boss, don't come in zap me....

hi bonk

well.. i can share with u more details privately rather than here. my email is [email protected]

bochapsing · #34 12-04-2010, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by sg_brother

I that all three of the fortune teller was saying the truth..

wow...!!

the fortune tellers so zhun..??!!

bro, pls keep them to yrself, dun spread their ctc...

else all our oc go to them, then we all jia lat liao...

naturegreen · #35 12-04-2010, 11:08 AM

I do have many married female friends around me who fuck behind their husband's back as well yet they are still married, thus I have thought of this before. Anyway, I'll just sit down and have a good talk with her. I'll most probably propose this:
"Want to fuck, fuck in front of me, not behind me. If you want, I can arrange a session with another couple and we swing together. Hard of soft, you decide." *Not joking* At least I am mentally prepared just in case this really happens.

chimpchimp · #36 12-04-2010, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bochapsing

wow...!!

the fortune tellers so zhun..??!!

bro, pls keep them to yrself, dun spread their ctc...

else all our oc go to them, then we all jia lat liao...

maybe the fortune teller was having an affair with the wife....so very zhun!

dont flame me just a joke....

sexualfantasi · #37 12-04-2010, 12:43 PM

i think i can accept it coz i'm more into open marriage and hotwifing

stephan · #38 12-04-2010, 02:27 PM

Nowadays, many of couples dishonest with thier spouse included me. If nothing found, living happily forever... but if found out by any party, mostly gone case.

If ur EQ very high, maybe u can balance urself by cheating back to ur wife, majority of SBF bros here kio kway b4 right?

yang punk · #39 12-04-2010, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by officelady

Guys.. i am interested to know what are your feelings about if you find out that your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you while you are on business trips? and worst still is you also discovered that she a dark side too which you thought she was a good girl.

Dear OL

If you want to cheat then better don't get caught. If you are caught then I think 9 out of 10 men will not be able to forgive and forget! Men have double standards!

jjooll · #40 13-04-2010, 01:46 AM

[QUOTE=sg_brother;4762891]I think it is the IN thing now that wife is cheating around. My wife also cheated on me not once but three times, which I recently found out. [QUOTE]

wa bro. 3 times is a lot how u tahan sia? i got cheated on once by my gf im still with her but i still cant get over that incident. anyway u shld plot ur revenge get back at him and her. take the time to plan wad u wanna do and make sure when u hit a man u hit him so hard he can nv get up. i sapport u ar.

dear ts,
u get dumped u deserve it. a moment of lust a lifetime of regret.

z3r0in · #41 13-04-2010, 03:17 AM

divorce is top of my list...
when im devoted to her i also ask for the same treatment

BABYG · #42 13-04-2010, 12:19 PM

i think i will divorce her. need nt think twice.

kurosaki ichigo · #43 14-04-2010, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by officelady

hi bonk

well.. i can share with u more details privately rather than here. my email is [email protected]

Well you just opened the floodgates to your email with guys bombarding you for more info

rav_taz · #44 15-04-2010, 01:44 AM

Different pple will react differently.
But I think for guys not everyone can be like so bros here, open to let their wife flirt n hv flings outside... Majority will not be able to take it as I feel this will b a major blow to their ego..

studdyme · #45 15-04-2010, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by rav_taz

Different pple will react differently.
But I think for guys not everyone can be like so bros here, open to let their wife flirt n hv flings outside... Majority will not be able to take it as I feel this will b a major blow to their ego..

true.

1 thing is when people say 'forgive but can't forget', they may say they have forgiven, but whenever the matter arises in their minds, it still hurts. Still that anger is there. What to do? imo, it's just that with the passage of time, the memory remains but the pain, anger and agitation won't be so vivid as before.