Sugar Daddy

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by OldTrafford

Danger zone? Hmm.. not that there's anything I can do about it is there..

Ask her to change job meh..

Of course lar. You prefer her to change job or change husband? If I were her boss, I will create scenarios that allow me to get close to her. Organise an overseas D&D, get her away from you then get her drunk. Or asking her to accompany me on overseas trip.

Or send her flowers in office so that everyone knows I want her. Even if she is innocent, people will gossip and make it sound as if it's true. Or Install a hidden camera in my office and spread some $1000 notes on my table. Then ask her to clear my table when I'm not around and see if she takes any of the $1000 notes. If she does, I would have proof of her stealing and can then blackmail her.

How? Better show her that you love her. But 1 thing is that since she tells you about her boss, it means she trusts that you will not get worried.

[overair]

Originally Posted by OldTrafford

My wife's boss is interested in being her sugar daddy.. zzz..

anyone gotch kena this type of situation?

like one bro says, congrats bro for having an attractive wife!!! ... mine is one attractive one but she does not like to show ... hahah ... so no one offer her even though i won't mind ...

like another bro says, go direct ... no confront or show who is the boss ... but negotiate a big fat deal ...

like another bro says too ... take the money ... wealth too if possible ... so you build yourself up to be in the same position to offer your wife back!!! level the playing field for yourself!! rather than feeling helpless!!!

[OldTrafford]

Hey guys, really interesting to read all the responses...

My wife's really attractive especially since she started working.. it's like a pretty girl's just a pretty girl, but put her in office wear with nice make up on.. To be honest I was really surprised (pleasantly) at how good she looks every morning when she leaves for work..
(you know, the type of colleague that you WISH you had?)

Anyway, to summarise things up and to avoid giving away too much details (Singapore's too small to risk it...) her boss had been extremely nice towards her since she joined the company, much nicer than fellow female colleagues who entered the firm around the same time.

He tried to be more of 'friends' with her instead of a 'boss-employee' relationship, and I knew right from the start he's up to no good. (come on we're all men... )

SMSing her frequently after working hours.. asking her out for 'coffee' on weekends..
He even eventually bought her expensive gifts like handbag, jewellery etc 'just to be nice' since she just started work and ain't earning a lot. Always timing his departure from the office to knock off together so he can offer to drive her back home too..
(what to do.. he earns truckloads of $$$.. really. -_-)

I mean, anyone can tell he's obviously interested in her.. (he's married with kids, but who cares nowadays eh) it pissed me off quite a bit, I didn't stop my wife from accepting his favours as long as he didn't try to make any 'advances' on her..
if he wants to shower gifts, just take lor.. see how long he can keep it up....

As expected... due to my wife keeping the relationship strictly as 'good friends' with him, the gifts steadily dried up and he's not 'as aggressive' anymore...

It's great to have an attractive spouse, but gotta deal with all the male colleagues hankering over her... (can't blame them, I would be trying to get in my wife's pants too if I were her co-worker)

Sorry for the lengthy post, just getting some of my feelings down here..

[Oralcraz]

Well, at least he back off abit.

[CasinoRoyal]

Hi

Could not help but agree to some of the posts here. esp. "golden pussy". LOL

I have been SD in past and in Singapore as well. Lot of wannabe Sugar Babes here don't actually know what it is. Monthly allowance can vary from 1k-15k depending on lot of things. like how long the arrangement is for? she had previous experience? how much of her time is spent on it ? How much does SD enjoy her company etc.

One more thing to note here is, if she is looking for reliable and long term SD, then ask her to expect less fancy life and financial help.

if she needs more, then she needs more of luck or go other way(FL)

[katelim]

i wan a sugar daddy too!

[Dirk Kuyt]

Originally Posted by Toyota Honda

Wife is also human, and humans do err when the opportunities arrives. Its a matter of when.. Really. Beware...

You got beautiful wife so wat? The modern world now is money talks. If I can afford to throw enough money your wife will be my plaything

Welcome to the real world.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by katelim

i wan a sugar daddy too!

mind an intro? age/race/height/weight/cup size/vital stats/frequency of meeting/scope of action/desired length of deal?

[waiwaiz]

Originally Posted by katelim

i wan a sugar daddy too!

Somebody calling me?

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[Clearwaters]

After reading all the post, I think being a sugar daddy has its pros and cons. For one, you must have deep pockets if you choose to have a better quality mistress.
I had 3 mistresses all in all. However I am not married yet. When I was based in China, i used to tell the girls that i want to 'bai' that i am married, even though i was not. This allows me to switch their mindset to being my mistress/gf/fb rather than thinking of marrying me themselves (which can be useful for the wilder street gals or the ktv gals).

For a young 20 year old University Wuhan student, I paid her 4000RMB a month (approx 800SGD). She was sweet, very GFe and tall/modelisque (1.74) She was schooling and only came by on weekends by train to see me. Lasted 6 months.
For a 21 year old XinJiang KTV gal, I paid 8000RMB/mth (1600SGD). This included her rent and living expenses. When I am not free, she goes to work. This girl had one of the smoothest and fairest complexion ever. And her body is something out of a plyamate magazine. Couldn;t take her hot temper in the end. Lasted 5 months.
For a 23 year old Anhui KTV gal, i paid 5000rmb/mth (1000SGD). She had a superb body with nice long striaght hair. But i stopped supporting after 3 months cos she wanted more money and wasnt super in bed.
For a 26 Nanjing KTV gal, I paid 6000RMB a month (+80000rmb to start a shop). She was a great lover but mostly she had the 'dream babe' looks that i always like in my women. Her body was super hot. She quit her KTV job and took care of me like a wife. Lasted 10 months but eventualy had to break up cos she asked me to marry her.

Some of my previous 'mistresses' overlapped. Hence these gals were condensed over a 1.5year period. All in all, i think if you had a salary of SGD15000, it was comfortable to 'bao' these gals at the same time. It was fun but there was pain involved too. Every separation must be handled carefully with some emotional backlash. The money also runs pretty fast cos you sometimes had to buy addtional gifts. I typically limit my 'baoing' expenses to 20% of my salary max.

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by Clearwaters

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

Bro, what do you mean by too many girls and get spoilt for choice? As in too many girls interested in you or?

[dgsk]

Originally Posted by Lumix

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

http://a.imagehost.org/0651/edited.jpg

So TS, what has your friend decided to do?
Has she offered her availability known?

[Lumix]

Guys sorry for lack of updates, i've received many pms , she is going thru them 1 by 1 , she is indeed looking for a sugar daddy, She is willing to be full time . What are the info required, she will not meet up easily as i know how many imposters get a thrill of just seeing a lady who is offering herself in real just for cheap thrill

[dgsk]

Originally Posted by Lumix

Ok i've a simple and short question here. If i have a friend who is looking for sugar daddy, how much should she be expecting to get ? I'm asking this because i do not have the ability to be a sugar daddy hence maybe some experienced bros can help me out, she can do anything less anal. She just want someone to pamper her and some TLC

If you have nothing good to contribute , my advice is next page pls.

Below is a rough pic of shat she is like

http://a.imagehost.org/0651/edited.jpg

Originally Posted by Lumix

Guys sorry for lack of updates, i've received many pms , she is going thru them 1 by 1 , she is indeed looking for a sugar daddy, She is willing to be full time . What are the info required, she will not meet up easily as i know how many imposters get a thrill of just seeing a lady who is offering herself in real just for cheap thrill

Then you short list for her lor.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Clearwaters

After reading all the post, I think being a sugar daddy has its pros and cons. For one, you must have deep pockets if you choose to have a better quality mistress.
I had 3 mistresses all in all. However I am not married yet. When I was based in China, i used to tell the girls that i want to 'bai' that i am married, even though i was not. This allows me to switch their mindset to being my mistress/gf/fb rather than thinking of marrying me themselves (which can be useful for the wilder street gals or the ktv gals).

For a young 20 year old University Wuhan student, I paid her 4000RMB a month (approx 800SGD). She was sweet, very GFe and tall/modelisque (1.74) She was schooling and only came by on weekends by train to see me. Lasted 6 months.
For a 21 year old XinJiang KTV gal, I paid 8000RMB/mth (1600SGD). This included her rent and living expenses. When I am not free, she goes to work. This girl had one of the smoothest and fairest complexion ever. And her body is something out of a plyamate magazine. Couldn;t take her hot temper in the end. Lasted 5 months.
For a 23 year old Anhui KTV gal, i paid 5000rmb/mth (1000SGD). She had a superb body with nice long striaght hair. But i stopped supporting after 3 months cos she wanted more money and wasnt super in bed.
For a 26 Nanjing KTV gal, I paid 6000RMB a month (+80000rmb to start a shop). She was a great lover but mostly she had the 'dream babe' looks that i always like in my women. Her body was super hot. She quit her KTV job and took care of me like a wife. Lasted 10 months but eventualy had to break up cos she asked me to marry her.

Some of my previous 'mistresses' overlapped. Hence these gals were condensed over a 1.5year period. All in all, i think if you had a salary of SGD15000, it was comfortable to 'bao' these gals at the same time. It was fun but there was pain involved too. Every separation must be handled carefully with some emotional backlash. The money also runs pretty fast cos you sometimes had to buy addtional gifts. I typically limit my 'baoing' expenses to 20% of my salary max.

In the end, I sorta felt that baoing in china is not as worthwhile. Cos there are just too many girls. You get spoilt for choice and there are too many new interests. The best is to work from girl to girl short term , I feel.

Hi bro,

Thx for sharing ur experiences in BAO-ing MMs in China. Where were u based?

Just too many gals? All very chio? Hmmm...perhaps I should spend half of my remaining life there.

Cheers!