Girl with issues of extreme high sex drive (just a discussion)

[rav_taz]

I dun c any issues wif high sex drive. So long as it doesnt affect your day to day life etc.
Doesnt mean that only guys have high sex drive, gals too jz that mayb they dun talk abt it as openly as guys do.

[Joris]

Girls with extreme HSD might find that their partners could not satisfy them enough hence the DIY. I think its quite normal since SIS is in her early 20s. However, it all about mind over body. A visit to a specialist ur choice might answer all ur questions. Last but not least, take care sis

[Bangster]

Sis TS,

I think you should just enjoy it and look at it as a gift.

Just be mindful not to let it overtake your life....

[havefun3]

ok if a guy ..lets say a male friend arouse u and show u his cock will u suck it??

[HungHubby]

Everyone has their own levels of sexual desires, though i guess most peeps in here do have a higher sexual drive than average. There's nothing wrong in having a partner whose different in terms of the sex drive, even if u got together by heading to the bedroom first. Age gap and stuff doesnt play a part, everyone has their own fantasies and fetishes that not even his/her partner might approve of..

Seriously, u dun need a doc or anything. Just ask yourself if ya in this relationship for the sex? the companionship? mutual benefits? or a lifelong partner etc?

I've known friends and encounters FBs, FWBs or whatever u wanna call them. But where and when to draw the line? Do u foresee yaself getting married to this guy and still have a different partner in terms of lust? Or do u foresee things getting better once u both got a place to your own?

Like what i always advise my pals, have a good talk before thinking of anything else. Things might just improve and u both would be better off..

[Slaver29125]

Everything is relative…
Everyone is different…
But DEFINITELY enjoy what you have… Seek help if it becomes disruptive...

[miss22]

Originally Posted by yummymocha

lol, there is no need to see a doctor for having high sex drive, unless to the extend that u rape any guy on the street u see. For me as a guy when i feel horny and when im not busy like when im at home nothing to do, then i would just watch porn and masturbate. I think thats enough for me lol. BTW im 19 and a virgin.

Keep that virginity of yours. do you know that alot of my girlfriends (and myself) always fantasize making out with a virgin boy?

[devan69]

hi miss 22 i have the same reaction the same as u .when i see them on streets coms or porns ,i really get turn on .im askin myself the same question too but they say try nt to eat too much oxyster all tat jus cant control it dun u ?

[chucky69]

Stop complaining. lots of us are willing to satisfy your needs...Annabel Chong, your Singapore most famous porn star fucked everyone in her College and then decided to do PORN and broke the world record of having over 250 men in a gang bang session.

U could start this by sending each guy in this thread a location, time and day adn I amusre we will FUCK U hard and in every hole as well.

[terrible ted]

Originally Posted by chucky69

Stop complaining. lots of us are willing to satisfy your needs...Annabel Chong, your Singapore most famous porn star fucked everyone in her College and then decided to do PORN and broke the world record of having over 250 men in a gang bang session.

U could start this by sending each guy in this thread a location, time and day adn I amusre we will FUCK U hard and in every hole as well.

so crude.

[miss22]

Originally Posted by terrible ted

so crude.

Yeah its such a turn off isnt it?

I have a feeling he treats the other gender as objects.

[miss22]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Great post. Lots to discuss and issues to delve deeper into. (no pun intended... ya right...) Well, obviously you don't have a physical problem, unlike some ladies who can't even achieve an orgasm. You may have a psychological problem though.

Has this issue ever disrupted your life in a destructive way? You know, you are late and rushing for time but because of your high sex drive, you got to orgasm first. Thus you are later than ever before. You mentioned you get wet looking at attractive ladies (hoping you are as attractive as them so that your bf will want you more). How about attractive men? Ever slept with 1 just because you think he may be a great fuck, only to end up with regret because you really love your bf and your high sex drive has caused you to betray your love? Etc. If you have such incidences, you may have a sex addiction problem. You may need professional help to regain control of your life.

What is it about an orgasm that keeps you returning for so much more than usual? A lot of us love how it makes our bodies feel more relaxed. When a guy sleeps with many women, the orgasms he experiences, besides making him more relaxed, can also represent an extra ego boost. He feels skillful/attractive. Esp so in cases of unattractive men who keep succeeding in bedding attractive women. The desire for orgasm may be really a desire to continually boost his ego. You ask such guys to DIY only, they will find it unsatisfactory. Some people like to make love in public. Why go through the risks of being peeped all just for an orgasm right? Well, these people may want others to look at them. The real 'orgasm' could be the satisfaction that you can control the urges and desires of the people peeping at you. What does an orgasm mean for you? A need to feel attractive, to be wanted?

If you feel positively in control of your sex drive and will only release it in non-destructive manners (DIY or with bf only), then maybe you need variations in acheiving orgasm to make up for your bf's lower sex drive. I read your other posts. Seems you like it when your bf finds you attractive and irresistible. Especially so when he does something totally unexpected. Why not develop this angle further? Go buy a remote control vibrator. Use it when you are out in the streets with your bf. Let him hold the control and surprise you. Your role is to try to look normal on the outside while shopping like a normal couple in Orchard Road... How does this idea sound to you?

Hope my post makes sense. If you want more ideas, I can share them later.

Hhaha. No darling, I do not get wet looking at sexy women. I just have those sexual vibes running though my body for a few seconds and it ends there. If I got wet just by looking at other girls in short skirts, I think something is VERY wrong with me then. haha.

I like what you said about orgasm. I guess its the whole process of being satisfied and feeling good about one own self.

If you feel positively in control of your sex drive and will only release it in non-destructive manners (DIY or with bf only), then maybe you need variations in acheiving orgasm to make up for your bf's lower sex drive. I read your other posts. Seems you like it when your bf finds you attractive and irresistible. Especially so when he does something totally unexpected. Why not develop this angle further? Go buy a remote control vibrator. Use it when you are out in the streets with your bf. Let him hold the control and surprise you. Your role is to try to look normal on the outside while shopping like a normal couple in Orchard Road... How does this idea sound to you? - THIS, is really interesting. Yes, It really turns me on when my own lover finds me attractiv and irresistible and does something unexpected. I like surprises. But he doesn't and def not into such things. Atleast not. Perhaps I should talk to him about it. He doesn't exactly like talking about sex, atleast not when we are not doing it, during sex is fine.

Thanks for your suggestions. Its pretty interesting What other ideas to you share then?

[Bangster]

Some of you people really have no manners leh....

People is a girl with a high sex drive and you are treating her like an object.

Please leh, dont throw the faces of MAN like this leh...

Got cock doesn't mean you superman, ok? In here, a lot of people got cock, and these people(basically called "Ta Bor", aka "Men") also know how to fuck. So it's not only you. Dont post such buay hiao bai things leh.

By the way, I won't zap you cos my points are for upping those who deserve it.

And lastly, if YOU still dont know who YOU ARE

I think you'd better go to another forum lah.

[Tripster]

Nothing problematic in having a HSD. If you need relief, MASTURBATE. It is completely natural, better still perfect your orgasmic zones and enjoy the process. Just don't go hunting for partners to fxxk...because it can be damaging psychologically...

trip

[icy_boi]

i can help u heheee~~