Can a sg guy and a PRC be friends? --- platonic friends without any sexual relations - Page 3

oakleyeug · #31 14-11-2005, 10:54 AM

My friend none of us r rich lah for your information, I think it is if you want to do it or not. Maybe she is just trying to test water? Try to find out more from her like which part of provinces she from and things like that if from 四川then u better be careful cause I know they are the nasty few.

Good luck,
Oak

KLKOOL · #32 14-11-2005, 11:11 AM

I think your predicament not only in SG leh. Across the causeway also can find a lot of ppl in your predicament. There are a significant amount of students who are quite well off. I know of a few who are actually from very well to do families. For those who are genuine, we have to look at ourselves and be honest, what is attracting them to us? I have a lot of PRC girlfriends in KL, but most of them are platonic. Just clubbing and drinking buddies. No touching for me.

Then there are WL's looking to hook onto somebody, usually around ages of 26 - 27, cos their demand is much lower at this age. They look at us like exit strategy. These ones have to be careful. My bro, the answer is inside you one, sometimes, just not willing to see it only

I dun believe that all PRC's are bad, its just that a lot of PRC's in SG/Malaysia are WL's or in the sex trade, so that makes us generalise them as "EVIL"

hornyclown · #33 14-11-2005, 11:13 AM

hmm seems u know quite a few here.... she told me she is from guangzhou
she is from middle income family..quite well off as both her parents are engineers back in homeland
her family sends her SGD$400 every mth and her sch fees are already paid off

singexpat · #34 14-11-2005, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by hornyclown

no i am not rich though i wish i am rich hahaa

well i tried acting poor...saying i no enough cash but sometimes expenses spent on food, transport and groceries i think are quite reasonable cos they are somewhat neccesary

Bro.. u mentioned that u r only friends..
then y will u need to pay for HER groceries??

If u dun wan anything out of this (love, sex, fling etc), y would u wan to invest so much time n energy into this "friendship" rather than getting to know a "better prospective"??

Sorry if u feel offended but I juz tot u might need someone to remind u of ur decisions so far...

oakleyeug · #35 14-11-2005, 12:08 PM

Friend Guangzhou is very very big and altogather there are a few near town near there called Panyu etc...

广州 is also known as 省会 (the capital of 广东省), there are alot of immigrants in that area. 深圳，珠海 and 广东 is also a place for immigrants cause it is easier to find jobs there.

Engineer frankly speaking is not very well off max to max both earn S$2000 unless they are very courrpted and take bribe, China is known for taking money for every transcation that they make.

S$400 is like RMB$2000 so I cannot say much for sure cause 1 of my ex customer 1 month commission is like USD$6k per month.

You still have to ask her if she is from 广州 or migrate from somewhere, if from 广州 also does not mean she is rich.

Good luck mate,
Oak

hornyclown · #36 15-11-2005, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by singexpat

Bro.. u mentioned that u r only friends..
then y will u need to pay for HER groceries??

If u dun wan anything out of this (love, sex, fling etc), y would u wan to invest so much time n energy into this "friendship" rather than getting to know a "better prospective"??

Sorry if u feel offended but I juz tot u might need someone to remind u of ur decisions so far...

errmm friends cannot pay for her groceries? well i not trying to act generous here but i feel that since she came all the way from china and maybe i should play a good host and pay a little for her groceries as a friend to her?

maybe my thinking is stupid.... ok nvm thanks anyway

wildbeast · #37 15-11-2005, 12:10 PM

Bro hornyclown, juz a quest. did u know her at Joker pub at Katong?

naemlo · #38 15-11-2005, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by hornyclown

errmm friends cannot pay for her groceries?

Can why not, then u should have a lot of friends??

Please if she is a he from PRC, will u be so nice??

If she is a he, will u purposely go to his condo to c him swim?? Ask all these questions.

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Originally Posted by hornyclown

maybe my thinking is stupid.... ok nvm thanks anyway

No, your thinking is too holy.

xen0n · #39 15-11-2005, 01:19 PM

Platonic friendship is possible in any form, IF u know how to restrain urself.

hornyclown · #40 15-11-2005, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Can why not, then u should have a lot of friends??

Please if she is a he from PRC, will u be so nice??

If she is a he, will u purposely go to his condo to c him swim?? Ask all these questions.

No, your thinking is too holy.

hahaa i like your answer...it got me thinking
maybe i should rephrase the title to be... can a sg guy have a love relationship with a prc?
will they have a happy ending?

naemlo · #41 15-11-2005, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by hornyclown

hahaa i like your answer...it got me thinking
maybe i should rephrase the title to be... can a sg guy have a love relationship with a prc?
will they have a happy ending?

SG guy can have love relationship with PRC, y not but whether happy ending, then only god knows.

Shoe · #42 16-11-2005, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

SG guy can have love relationship with PRC, y not but whether happy ending, then only god knows.

Agree, heard of lot of good and also bad ending. It all depend.

oakleyeug · #43 17-11-2005, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Shoe

Agree, heard of lot of good and also bad ending. It all depend.

Juz ended mine some time back, might be because I did not understand what my gal wants. If you really want to get into a relationship with a PRC you must really understand what the hell is going on before you commit.

I did not regret this relationship cause it only add more fire to my career, I think most people would call me stupid cause of the mistakes I make during these period of time.

True is Singapore friends say I am right but China friends and those who have stayed in China long enough say that it is my fault. I learn a new lesson everytime in love nothing is right or wrong it is just how you picture it.

I have a few Taiwanese friends who does not hesitate to put the flat under their gf or even wife (China), they told me that they are only buying their time and if they cheat them it is only a few hundred thousand.

I learn another quote, if you are happy and everyone tell you you are cheated would you still feel happy? The answer is yes cause happiness is what you feel not what other people felt.

Sorry about the long essay do not mind me cause I nothing better to do liao..

Oak

yanki1 · #44 17-11-2005, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by oakleyeug

if you are happy and everyone tell you you are cheated would you still feel happy? The answer is yes cause happiness is what you feel not what other people felt.

i like this quote.

oakleyeug · #45 17-11-2005, 03:33 PM

Haha thanks, I think tonight I will go out to release my stress need to really release and bang out my anger.

For a long long time I keep thinking when will it be my turn to have a family? When will it be my turn to have a house? I realized again I have been making a lot of stops and I really am sick of stopping in between already, I wanted to stop. But seems like fate playing a joke on me, just after break off I clinch a good sales fig, passed my audit with flying colors and best all the customer that I cannot close previously have called me back to enquire about the pricing and stuff like that.

Irony life rite? TO HELL WITH IT MAN.......

OAK