Found my dream girl, but..

[blu3fin]

Originally Posted by randtech

I’m 35, I’m just your totally average dude, I have a decent job, and my family are well do to but that’s pretty much it. I never had any luck in sex or relationships, until recently, I got to know this girl under the strangest of circumstances. Although never in my wildest dream would I have expected it to progress to the stage where are are at now.
She’s skinny and pleasant looking, I have a thing for girls like her(don’t like them too pretty, kinda fake/unrealistic) BUT she has an insanely hot body, wild in bed, submissive at the right moments, eager to please, all that a man can wish for. Oh o
boy I can go on and on about her flawless skin, delicious pink pussy, seductive moans, I have never in my 35 years had such mind blowing sex(3 previous partners, I do not partake in paid sex).
The thing is, she’s 21…I know that what’s going on between us it’s legal and consensual a

If you are serious about her as a life time partner, be patient and go with the flow.
A 50yo man is closer than a 30yo woman than a 35yo men is to a 21yo woman.

She needs a few more years to mature.

[smlee]

Originally Posted by randtech

(accidentally submitted before i managed to finish my post)
It's just been going on for a few months and I don't know what to think about it do I continue or put a stop to it, I'd like to find out more about what do you guys think about our 10+ year age gap
I asked some of my male friends, they didn't seem to be very much bothered about it, I live alone so it's fine by me.
But I know that socially and morally it's rather frowned upon.

10+ shouldn't be a concern. https://www.straitstimes.com/life/en...-huge-age-gaps

[CarbonCopy9]

Originally Posted by smlee

10+ shouldn't be a concern. https://www.straitstimes.com/life/en...-huge-age-gaps

Thanks for sharing.

[NoMoneyTalk]

Originally Posted by blu3fin

If you are serious about her as a life time partner, be patient and go with the flow.
A 50yo man is closer than a 30yo woman than a 35yo men is to a 21yo woman.

She needs a few more years to mature.

Agreed and thanks

[Latent]

If I were you, will just enjoy it while it last.
Don't know how long these good times will endure, no point overthinking it.
She is at a young age, still blossoming, you might as well blossom with her.

[porkchop3210]

Originally Posted by randtech

Appreciate all the replies, no more hesitating then. We'll jump right in, vacation sex!

Very nice share, thanks

[randtech]

Thankful to everyone for your kind advice, and points.
My mind is open now, so are her legs...

[secretlurker88]

Originally Posted by randtech

Thankful to everyone for your kind advice, and points.
My mind is open now, so are her legs...

Nice share!

Btw the other bros are right. Just enjoy it. Then see where it leads. One tip/advice though, learning from my experience..Don't take it too seriously. She might be taking it very seriously now, but their mind changes fast at that young age.

Dated one 20 year old influencer/model last year..even had her parents involved in the rs. Sex was great while it lasted, creampied alot and she was real wild too, still ended anyway.

Enjoy it. If it lasts, great. If it doesn't, you still had a great ride.

[sony2002]

Originally Posted by secretlurker88

Dated one 20 year old influencer/model last year..even had her parents involved in the rs. Sex was great while it lasted, creampied alot and she was real wild too, still ended anyway.

may be influenced by another guy, envy you that at least you get to creampie into her young beautiful body

[klkk555]

Originally Posted by sony2002

may be influenced by another guy, envy you that at least you get to creampie into her young beautiful body

amen brother

[bigmannow]

Interns nowadays very hiong.. got another one in the colleagues thread, G

[donut88]

Dude, don't worry about it.

Trust me on this. I'm speaking from experience.

It's good to have 10 years or 10+ years gap, because

1. Gals like older men generally coz of maturity level.

2. Gals enter menopause stage in 40s to 50 yr old. In yr case, u will be 50 to 60 yr old by then, which is just nice. Your sexual need also going down at that time while yr wife goes through menopause. Reduce conflicts. Imagine your wife is same age as you. At 45 years old, if she enter menopause, you are still at your sexual prime. She likely won't be interested in sex anymore. What you going to do? Find ML, FB, FWB, Hookers, SB? And end in Divorce?

My FB is 11 yrs younger and I'm enjoying it because she likes my maturity level (her hubby same age as her and she's finding him too childish and insensitive)

In fact most of my FBs are 10 years younger on average. I draw the conclusion that most gals look for older men for sense of security and maturity.

So trust me on this. Yours is 21 yrs old. No issue at all.

[dchar]

Fully agree with donut bro here, similar situation

Originally Posted by donut88

Dude, don't worry about it.

Trust me on this. I'm speaking from experience.

It's good to have 10 years or 10+ years gap, because

1. Gals like older men generally coz of maturity level.

2. Gals enter menopause stage in 40s to 50 yr old. In yr case, u will be 50 to 60 yr old by then, which is just nice. Your sexual need also going down at that time while yr wife goes through menopause. Reduce conflicts. Imagine your wife is same age as you. At 45 years old, if she enter menopause, you are still at your sexual prime. She likely won't be interested in sex anymore. What you going to do? Find ML, FB, FWB, Hookers, SB? And end in Divorce?

My FB is 11 yrs younger and I'm enjoying it because she likes my maturity level (her hubby same age as her and she's finding him too childish and insensitive)

In fact most of my FBs are 10 years younger on average. I draw the conclusion that most gals look for older men for sense of security and maturity.

So trust me on this. Yours is 21 yrs old. No issue at all.

[Tiber]

Damn good luck Bro, gratz to you.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by randtech

(accidentally submitted before i managed to finish my post)
It's just been going on for a few months and I don't know what to think about it do I continue or put a stop to it, I'd like to find out more about what do you guys think about our 10+ year age gap
I asked some of my male friends, they didn't seem to be very much bothered about it, I live alone so it's fine by me.
But I know that socially and morally it's rather frowned upon.

The #1 regret people have on their deathbed:

I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

Think of that, bro.