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Old 26-06-2016, 03:17 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

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Bro,

No charm needed, just judicious use of money and a badass gentleman mindset.

You must be bold, dominant, confident, assertive, but respectful n and kind.


End of the day, what are the objectives of this BY game?
Is it for sex? For companion? To prove some Theory of Mankind? Or to actually conceal the hidden insecurity, inferior complex or the longing sense of validity of ones worth?
Bro AAdam,

The objectives of BY would vary a lot, depending on the persons involved. It's like asking what are the objectives of human life? Or of marriage? Or of education?

Personally, It's wonderful for a lao chee ko pek like me to BY pretty SYTs, as it's great for my physical n mental health. Yes, it's primarily for my sexual gratification n companionship. But it's much more than that...BY-ing a pretty SYT full-time is like getting married to her, with all the benefits, but w/o the drawbacks n negative consequences.

I hv written many posts to share my opinions on female attraction, sexology n how a MAN should behave to maintain a smooth long-term RS w/ his women.

In my BY journey in the last 7 1/2 yrs, I hv discovered THE most attractive masculine trait - emotional strength or mastery. However, my attempt to achieve awesome emotional mastery has taken me further n further into the spiritual realm, unexpectedly. I now realize that it's impossible to achieve absolute emotional mastery w/o enlightenment. And it's impossible to achieve enlightenment w/o knowing n understanding one's true self. How to fully know n understand one true self? It's up to each of us to find out.

Cheers!

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I have promised Bro Warbird that I will share an insight when I returned to Singapore and here is me delivering on this promise.

Please kindly note that I am currently am NOT a patron for a BY and that my last BY was more than five years ago. This alone should serve as a caveat that whatever advice I dispense here may not necessarily be salient or have sufficient recency to be of use to you here. The world of BY, like a lot of social phenomenon, evolves and changes while still operating on certain core fundamentals.

Talking about core fundamentals, I shall talk elaborate about one important aspect here in this post: The identification of a prospective BY (in a KTV setting).

A KTV setting, ipso facto, advantages you at the outset and frames the relationship dynamics that is quite analogous to a BY. A prospective BY has to put on her best behavior, present her best appearance, tolerate your idiosyncrasy – all for the almighty dollar.

I would presume here that you would already know the difference between a wife, girl friend(s) and BY(s) by now so I shall not delve much into this except to underscore the fact that a BY’s time and energy “must” revolve around you. For a price! .... mostly monetary!

As an analogy, you are like the sun, giving life sustenance to the BY’s earth. Without you, there is no life (as we know it) in the BY’s world.

(BTW, it’s a sex forum, so do not start talking about planetary microbial life, panspermia etc here in this thread. I am not a Michio Kaku or Carl Sagan!).

To get a person to organize her life around you takes a certain personality type. It’s really YOUR choice what behavior turns you on, it may even be a “dominatrix” (in this case, it’s only apparent power i.e. facade). The key to it, is that with a snap of finger, you can assert your demands onto a BY and she has to submit to it.

For me, I therefore prefer to find a personality with a predisposition to OBEDIENCE in all my BY relationships. You may tame a wild horse or find one that has a tendency to be domesticated. Both can be championship racehorse thoroughbreds. Do NOT equate feral and wild as being more passionate and more physically robust to deliver on sensual pleasure. An OBEDIENT personality can take on behavior that is wilder, more spontaneously passionate than a wild one. Just trust me on this one ……

Now that I have provided a conceptual framework, let’s delve into the nuts and bolts: The praxis itself on how to identify an OBEDIENT personality.

(To be continued as I got to run an errand …… but here is a “teaser” for my next posting on identification of an Obedient personality)

“One favourite modus operandi of mine is to take your prospective BY to place where she is not familiar with the food.

It’s good that a prospective BY possess an attitude of openness and receptivity to trying out new things. Not will this allow you to introduce sexual fetishes down the line, its also a gradual way to ease a girl who is a neophyte and “virgin” to the world of BY.

As a suggestion, know that there are still many China Girls who eschew “raw” taste of sashimi or can’t take the aroma or “strong” taste of curry. Once you persuade a prospective open minded BY to enjoin you for a meal whereby she is not familiar with the food, it’s actually good that your prospective BY do NOT like the food served.

You can now show your “displeasure” on her attitude and “force’ her to have an some additional bites and serving. This is the part whereby you have to observe her body language very carefully. If she is insistent that she does not like the food and that no amount of “persuasion” can make her eat any additional food, she does NOT possess an obedient personality.

If however, she forces herself to eat more of the food that she finds distasteful to her palate, she just puts another proverbial “tick in the box” in the OBEDIENT personality test.”
Bro Justime,

Thanks so much for ur insightful n witty post. You're still -a true master of BY.

Your "obedient personality test" is brilliant!

In fact, this is also one of many tests that can be used to qualify a prospective legal wife.

I invite u to contribute regularly to this thread if you hv the time.

Hope that you could join one of my outings soon.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Bro WB, thanks for sharing. Have a nice weekend.
Thanks for ur support.

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.. and if she forces herself to eat everything in the plate - all just so as not to earn your displeasure or disapproval - to the point whereby she gets teary eyed and obvious physical discomfiture in order to not waste YOUR money ... put THREE ticks in the OBEDIENT personality box!!!!!!!!
I like such a doll!

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Thanks for sharing your experience. Yes! For me I also like to take BY to strange place and you can see how she would endure man.
Yeah, we all hv much to learn from bro Justime.
Cheers!
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Old 26-06-2016, 10:40 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

May I know what's BY stand for ? I think SH is standard hour right ? Thanks.
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Old 27-06-2016, 10:16 PM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Bro warbird

Hope to join your session one day.
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Old 28-06-2016, 10:35 AM
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May I know what's BY stand for ? I think SH is standard hour right ? Thanks.
Yes, SH is standard hour.

BY = Bao Yang

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Bro warbird

Hope to join your session one day.
Bro,

Pls join one of my outings,

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

Do u know what are the four most dangerous words in cheonging, BY-ing and, in fact, in EVERY man-woman RS?

This (my) girl is different.

No, she is NOT! NOT to me n billions of other men. It's a pure illusion in the mind of the hapless man who got deeply KC-ed.

So thought the "Sexiest Man Alive" Johnny Depp about his wife Amber Heard, a bisexual golddigger. I assume that King Fuchai must hv thought Xi Shi was somehow mysteriously different from all his other concubines. Billions of men in human history also thought their women were somehow unique, yeah?

But YOUR girl, no matter how beautiful, sexy n perfect YOU think she is now, will get old, ugly, sick n die. Her beauty n uniqueness are temporary n illusional, at best.

I'm a member of a wechat grp of KTV gals n hoes. There are 498 members. I use a female ID to get in. Why? Because “知彼知己, 百战不殆"

There are dozens of ad such as the two below:

"福建福州招美女,酒店式公寓,到手300-500一单一结,综合自身条件做最稳妥价位,需要条件身高1.55以上25岁以下,没有生过孩子或无明显疤 痕和妊娠纹,每天5-8单,每月3-5万有意私聊.注:需要提供照片,自拍.艺术照皆可 ,微商务扰."

"🇨🇦加拿大🇨🇦Moonwaiting 公司诚聘高素质女生[表情]高档公寓一对一应有尽有[表情],私密性极高,绝对安全可靠,客源素质高以华人为主,美眉到手[表情]8000-10000 每天,外加小费[Grin],不PK,最短可做3个月,亦可长期做,无需频繁换场。收入可观,资源丰富,一切问题都可以帮您解决,有问 必回。持有美国绿卡🇺🇸,台湾🇹🇼,香港🇭🇰,新加坡🇸🇬,澳门🇲🇴护照的女生可免签直接进入 加拿大。
   [表情]有意的女生可加微信私聊[表情]"

Simple deduction tells me that almost ALL PRC gals who come to work in the nite scene in SG hv previously worked in brothels, saunas, KTVs, private clubs/hotels or as 141 gals in China/HK/Macau and elsewhere.

The difference when they come here? They are older n uglier now. Oh, there is another difference.

(From post #4342 "Picking up KTV gals outside KTVs")

The value of their pussies would shoot up 300-1,000 %. Even more if they get BY-ed haha. Most of them would play hard to get in SG. Imagine a hoe turning into a nun right after landing at Changi haha!!

Therefore, we must put everything into perspective and don't treat these gals as if they were virgin nuns, ok?

Cheers!

Bro WB
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

yesterday i went to one ktv at selegie. my friend got one china girl. she very happening and let him lick her boobs. later on as i went to the toilet i saw another friend from another room. go in to say hi and saw the same china girl servicing his friend by letting him lick her boobs too.

now i'm thinking that the china girl let so many guys lick her boobs without cleaning..yucks! lucky i only touch mine, never go and kiss any part of her.
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Old 01-07-2016, 12:00 PM
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yesterday i went to one ktv at selegie. my friend got one china girl. she very happening and let him lick her boobs. later on as i went to the toilet i saw another friend from another room. go in to say hi and saw the same china girl servicing his friend by letting him lick her boobs too.

now i'm thinking that the china girl let so many guys lick her boobs without cleaning..yucks! lucky i only touch mine, never go and kiss any part of her.
Bro,

Most WLs are like that.

Exclusivity is expensive and often not 100% exclusive. Even if the man is two times the "sexiest Man Alive" n a mega movie star like Johnny Depp.

King Fuchai owned the body of Xi Shi for many years, but her heart always belonged to Fan Li. He lost her to him in the end, and he also lost his country, his family and his own life.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

I'm planning a SH outing to Lido Saturday, tmr.

For timing and damage, see previous post.

Please confirm asap.

Cheers!

Bro WB
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Old 02-07-2016, 10:37 AM
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Good morning!

If you still feel a bit of uneasiness and frustration when you get rejected by a very beautiful non-WL, you're no prestigious badass gentleman yet n you still hv insufficient emotional mastery. You're still reactive and u really don't consider yourself the PRIZE.

Here is a little help from a guru, until you hv gained more emotional mastery n are able to get your act together.

3 Things You Must Do If You Get Rejected

You’re sitting at the bar when you see her looking at you.

She’s smoking hot and totally your type…

… and she’s smiling and making eye contact over her pink girly drink.

You’re thinking about going over there and talking to her…

And that’s when the voices start.

What if I screw this up?

What if I run out of things to say and look like a dumbass?

What if she’s an ice cold bitch and humiliates me in front of everyone?

What if everyone sees me get rejected and I get laughed out of the room?

Look, man.

Let me ask you a serious question…

What action do you take in that moment?

Do you go for it, or do you back down?

Do you plow through your mental barriers and emerge victorious and confident on the other side?

Or do you let your fear of rejection keep your ass glued to that stool at the bar…

… and quickly order another drink so you can pretend like you didn’t just wuss out?

Look, if you fall in that second category, I totally get it, I really do.

But you don’t plan on staying that way, right?

Of course not. Otherwise you wouldn’t be here reading this right now.

Well, the cold, hard truth is…

When you make the bold decision to step off that comfortable bar stool and approach the women you really want…

Yes, you will get rejected from time to time.

But that’s okay!

You just need to know how to handle it, so it doesn’t ruin your mood and wreck your chances with every other girl.

So let me give you some rock-solid advice that I wish I would have known when I was in your shoes.

Here are 3 things you must do if you get rejected:

1 - Take the high road. Even if she’s being a huge bitch…

Don’t react to her. Be BETTER than that.

She doesn’t even know you - she’s just emotionally reacting.

It may not even have anything to do with you - you can’t know or control that.

A confident guy would never allow himself to get flustered or thrown off by things he can’t control.

2 - Smile. Even if you’re seething mad on the inside…

Because no one else knows that you just got rejected...

UNLESS you show it on your face.

Then it’s obvious, and every other girl who sees that will probably reject you too.

3 - Move on immediately. Find another girl, a friend, a bartender… literally anyone else to talk to.

The last thing you want is to stand around by yourself, feeling butt-hurt because some random girl who knew you for 1 minute didn’t like you…

It does nothing for your confidence, and it makes you less attractive to every other girl.

So make like Taylor Swift and shake, shake, shake it off, bro.

Make sense?

You can totally see yourself doing that, can’t you?

You’re goddamn right you can.

And now nothing can stop you.

Get out there and make it happen this weekend.

Rooting for you,

- Mike Wright




A prestigious badass gentleman would feel sorry for the hot gal because it's her BIG Loss.

BTW, I hv an outing to Lido for SH today and coming Monday. Pls see my previous posts for terms n estimated damage. Confirm asap.

Cheers!

Bro WB
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Old 04-07-2016, 11:27 AM
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Good morning!

Do u consider yourself THE PRIZE to all women of your type?

Are u always very calm, relaxed, self-assured, confident, assertive, bold, yet caring, kind and humble?

Do you hv awesome emotional mastery?

If you answer YES to all the above, you're a prestigious badass gentleman or PBG!

In that case, you will never be insecure or become jealous when your lovers say 有很多人追我...

Because if you do, they will leave you, eventually.

If you're a PBG n if your lover leaves u for a younger, richer, better looking man, it's her BIG loss. Her new man will be an insecure little boy, like 99.9% of men, and sooner or later, she will want to come back to you haha. Don't take her back!! Because you hv many younger n prettier gals of your type lining up for u.

Here is an email from a guru on the subject.

Please Don't Ever Be That Guy

Hey My Friend,

Did you go on that date?

I hope you did.

And if you didn’t get that date, I hope you did your best.

As long as you did everything in your power, it doesn’t really matter if you went on that date or not.

The only thing that matters is that you took action.

Failing is okay and an inevitable part of the process. Not taking action, however, is inexcusable.

What if you went on a date with a beautiful girl and you can even imagine a relationship with her?

Then you should know the one thing that you should NEVER be around a woman.

No matter if you just had your first date or if you are already celebrating your first wedding day…

Don’t be the jealous guy!

I am dead serious.

Jealousy is the number one thing that destroys relationships and kills love faster than you can say “labia”.

The real reason why jealousy is so unbelievably dangerous is because the media displays it as something romantic, as a sign of deep love.

Well, it’s not.

It’s a sign of deep insecurities.

The true reason why you are jealous is because you feel unworthy of her.

If you felt worthy of her, you wouldn’t be so freaking paranoid about her leaving you for another guy.

What can you do to get rid of your jealousy?

Realize that you are a valuable human being.

You don’t need a yacht, a Rolex, or a sports car to have value, even if the advertisement industry tries to sell this poisonous idea to you.

Become aware of your positive features and accept the fact that you are an awesome guy.

She is together with you because she knows that you are an awesome guy.

Don’t allow your jealousy to change her mind.

Your Friend,

Sebastian



Cheers!

Bro WB
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Good afternoon!!

What a fantastic day!!

Some new bros only want to join my outings to budget joints for HH. So I like to update my outings info below.

I'm inviting kakis to join my outings to two types of joints:

First, you must meet two criteria. 1) be a very light drinker, and 2) willing to smoke outside the room.

Second hand smoke is very hazardous to health. I intend to stay healthy so that I can bonk as many pretty dolls of my type as possible, for as long as possible.

The two types of joints:

A) HH at Peace Centre joints, Dynasty or Jade/China doll. 5:00 till 9-9:30pm.

Expense per pax $30-60. Booking $150, butterfly $30-50. Only booking at Dynasty.

B) SH at P8 n Lido or other high end joints. 9:00pm-2:30am.

Estimated expense per pax $100-150, booking $300. Some gals may want $500! If I hv a balance, expense per pax could be as low as $70!

I usually leave early n I don't drink one drop, but will share the expenses equally. Fair enough?

For high end joints, I like to keep a new bottle for as long as possible. Sometimes many months! I tip the mummy generously, n in return, she will get the room charge reduced to a token. It's a win-win-win-win situation. Obviously good for us, the mummies n the gals. It's also good for the joints. Why? More customers beget more attractive gals which in turn beget more customers...

Peace Centre joints hv the most number of dolls for viewing at HH. Whereas prettier dolls may be available for SH at higher end joints. There is considerable overlap though.

PM your ctc if interested. Pls indicate your interest, option A or B, or both.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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If you hv been w/ a doll/woman long enough, there will be times when she is upset, perhaps very rarely. Because You are The Prize n she is afraid to lose You.

I got this email from a RS guru:

What She Really Wants From You When She’s Upset


Now I know that men are forever expected to be able to fix everything; that broken shelf, the car, the computer… the list is ongoing. And women love that you do this, seriously.

It’s hot when a guy wants to fix the oven himself rather than get someone in.

But there is ONE important time in your relationship when your lady doesn’t WANT you to fix it. When you trying to fix it is only going to make it WORSE.

Have you ever had a woman in your life tell you a problem, then get all mad and upset with you when all you did was try to give her some advice?

Makes absolutely no sense, right!

But here’s the reason behind the madness: what your lady REALLY wants from you when she’s upset and telling you about a problem is NOT your advice on how to fix it, but simply your ACTIVE LISTENING and SUPPORT.

Huh? But if she’s telling me about a problem, doesn’t she want the solution?

Sure, she does want to fix the problem. And she probably even has a good idea of how to do this. But fixing it is not on her mind right now. What she needs to deal with first is the EMOTION that has come along with this problem.

Right now, her negative feelings are the problem.

For example, the anger she feels at being passed over for a promotion at work.

How hurt she feels after a fight with her best friend.

How anxious she feels about a big presentation she has to do.

What she needs is to be able to share these emotions, and make sense of them. Only once she has dealt with her emotions can she go on to find a practical solution to the problem.

What it feels like to her if you try to give advice:

When you jump in and tell her what she needs to do to fix it (no matter how good your intentions are), she feels like you are not actually listening to what she is trying to communicate to you.

She feels angry and frustrated because you are missing the point.

You are trying to tell her how to fix it, while she is trying to tell you about her feelings.

She gets mad and upset because you are acting like she can’t even handle the problem herself.

Wow. Can you see why she gets those claws out now?

What it feels like to her if you just listen and support:

It empowers her when you listen without telling her what she should do, because she is still in control of the situation.

When you just pay attention and listen, she feels heard, loved and cared for, which fuels feelings of closeness towards you.

It may feel like you’re not really helping, and this can be really hard. But know that by not trying to fix it, you are actually helping her the most.

HOW to Actively Listen and Support

If you’re a guy who has always approached problems with a practical, fix-it attitude, then trying to step back and just listen rather than offer a solution may be a real challenge for you.

It may make you feel useless, because you don’t feel like you’re helping, or frustrated, because it seems like her problem could be solved with such a simple answer.

But the key is just to remember that it’s her EMOTIONS that are the problem.

So let’s go through how you listen and attend to these emotions now and ‘fix it’ in a way that you never have before.

1. When your date, girlfriend, or wife approaches you with a problem, give her your full attention. Make eye contact and keep your gaze on her, sit down together if you can, and try to block out any distractions.

2. Let her get it ALL out – allow a short silence if you need to, to make sure she has finished. Try to avoid jumping in too early and cutting her off at all costs.

3. As she is talking, take note of not only the actual problem she is facing, but also what her feelings are about the problem, that she is communicating to you.

Remember back to one of our examples above – “I feel so angry that they gave Sandra the promotion at work over me”.

Here, the PROBLEM is being passed over for a promotion, but her FEELING is anger.

4. The most effective way of making her feel heard and supported is to mirror her emotions back to her.

For example; “I can see how that made you feel really angry”

“I’m sorry that hurt you, babe”.

5. Use touch! Even if she seems really worked up, what she really needs right now is your touch.

Giving her a hug, putting an arm round her shoulder, wrapped your arms around her from behind, kissing her on her forehead, or holding her hand – any of these will help to calm her emotions and make her feel really loved and supported by you.

6. Once you have comforted her and worked through her feelings, you may be able to talk through a solution to the problem together. But just make sure this is initiated by her – she may or may not want to do this.

What if she does ask for my advice?

If she does directly ask for your advice or opinion, help to guide her to come to her own solution. It will still help her to feel better about herself if she feels she was able to come up with a fix, even if it was with your guidance.

At the very least, be gentle and thoughtful about how you come across when giving your advice, rather than just bombarding her with ‘Do this’. For example, you might ask in a questioning way “Hmm… do you think it might help if (fill in your suggestion here)?”

This way, you are offering a suggestion but still asking for her input, which keeps her in control.

So men, resist the urge to fix.

Remember this simple rule: Pay more attention to what she is saying about her FEELINGS than the PROBLEM itself.

And be prepared to become the world’s best boyfriend.

Brooke Ryan
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Re: Picking up KTV gals ouside KTVs

Bro warbird

"Booking" means the girl will be with you thru out your whole session, strictly no butterflying ?

Other than this, I understood all you wrote above the dotted line. Those below dotted line too chim. Lol.

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Good afternoon!!

What a fantastic day!!

Some new bros only want to join my outings to budget joints for HH. So I like to update my outings info below.

I'm inviting kakis to join my outings to two types of joints:

First, you must meet two criteria. 1) be a very light drinker, and 2) willing to smoke outside the room.

Second hand smoke is very hazardous to health. I intend to stay healthy so that I can bonk as many pretty dolls of my type as possible, for as long as possible.

The two types of joints:

A) HH at Peace Centre joints, Dynasty or Jade/China doll. 5:00 till 9-9:30pm.

Expense per pax $30-60. Booking $150, butterfly $30-50. Only booking at Dynasty.

B) SH at P8 n Lido or other high end joints. 9:00pm-2:30am.

Estimated expense per pax $100-150, booking $300. Some gals may want $500! If I hv a balance, expense per pax could be as low as $70!

I usually leave early n I don't drink one drop, but will share the expenses equally. Fair enough?

For high end joints, I like to keep a new bottle for as long as possible. Sometimes many months! I tip the mummy generously, n in return, she will get the room charge reduced to a token. It's a win-win-win-win situation. Obviously good for us, the mummies n the gals. It's also good for the joints. Why? More customers beget more attractive gals which in turn beget more customers...

Peace Centre joints hv the most number of dolls for viewing at HH. Whereas prettier dolls may be available for SH at higher end joints. There is considerable overlap though.

PM your ctc if interested. Pls indicate your interest, option A or B, or both.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Bro warbird

"Booking" means the girl will be with you thru out your whole session, strictly no butterflying ?

Other than this, I understood all you wrote above the dotted line. Those below dotted line too chim. Lol.
Bro,

Yes, you understand booking well.

Read it again a few times, it's NOT too chim.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

Some musings on man-woman RS.

IMHO, the most powerful attitude a man has in terms of getting n keeping his dream girl/woman or any desirable female of his type is to communicate, by body language, voice tonality n words, that he wants her BUT he doesn't need her. There is a huge difference between wanting n needing!

Yes, he must show interest in her. He must let her know he finds her very attractive, sexy, feminine...and he wants to make love to her, again n again. But he doesn't need her at all because he is the PRIZE n he behaves as if 100 beautiful dolls...

And, he has zero fear of losing her. Even if he has deep KC for her n he loves her dearly. She can take it or leave it. It matters not whether he has known her for 20 secs or 20 years. He can behave this way because of his awesome emotional mastery n his gal knows it. It creates massive attraction in her subconscious mind. Even if she leaves him for whatever reason, she will try to come back to him. Because she has fallen for him. I'm 100% certain.

Here is a brief article which is relevant to what I'm discussing.


The Power of Walking Away


Mark

April 2, 2015

Having the balls to walk away from a potential lover, business offer or situation that doesn’t meet your own needs is one of the most powerful things you can do. It communicates to others that you are a Man who knows what he wants and values his own time.

I have had a number of consultations with Men who have learnt this one principle and they have told me it has changed their own life for the better.

Example from recent client email follow-up:

I can’t thank you enough for all your advice from our last consultation! Since the last time we talked I have dedicated more of my time doing things I want to do and not allowing the opinions of others to dictate what I want. I feel my confidence has developed ten fold. The one thing I’ve noticed is the new found freedom and respect I get from others who before never exercised much respect towards me.

My attraction in the eyes of Women has gone up massively. Last week I blew off a date with an extremely sexy young Woman because she was fooling around with the original plans I laid down. Rather than get upset or angry I simply called the date off and made other plans for that night. Couple days ago she contacted me saying shes going to make it up to me and to cut a long story short she came over and the rest is history . I would never have thought this possible and I used to believe I had to make sure I was pleasing Women rather than directing and leading the way I wanted things to go. The Power to walk away is so powerful I wish I did it years ago in all areas of my life.

I am not going to lie…this brought a large smile on my face. This was a drastic turn around and a massive realisation for him. He listened to my advice and trusted what I was teaching him and he is now reaping the rewards in his own life.

I have had a number of people contact me offering business opportunities that were not in alignment with what I am all about here on my blog. My younger self would have become persuaded with their offers, however knowing that I wasn’t 100% sure on whether it was right, becoming resentful and feeling out of pocket later on. The Power to Walk away and say No is a must to become a Man.

Yes Men don’t get as much respect as Men who exercise No when they aren’t satisfied. You always know what you want. You aren’t getting what you want? You’ve always got a choice to walk. You can follow blindly in hope but remember if you get lead down somewhere you do not like you have to deal with that fact you gave up that control by following in the beginning.

A Man has to demonstrate he can be decisive and make decisions.

So what do you do if you don’t feel you are getting what you want after expressing what you want?

You Walk


Your comments?

Do u have the balls to walk away from your dream girl/woman? If you do, she may fall for u! She can't help it.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Bro WB, thank you for guidance. Have a great Sunday.
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Good morning!


The Power to walk away is so powerful I wish I did it years ago in all areas of my life.


Your comments?
Do u have the balls to walk away from your dream girl/woman? If you do, she may fall for u! She can't help it.

Cheers!

Bro WB
Yes! The power of walk away is damn power ! Out of 10 women I walk away 3 came back and wanted me.
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Seems like it is a game of Art of War ya....
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