Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality

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Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

Someone in this forum recommended me Platinum calling card . I have been using it to call thailand, landline or mobile. Gives more than 120 min of talk time (more than 140 if you call and dont hang up). the card can be purchased at Geylang for $8 per card. Of course you call using landline. works out to be about 8 to 10 cents per min. Very good deal. And very clear too.

This sounds too good to be true I will try. Do u know if its per minute billing or what? Thanks a million

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sg69

i very much appreciate all brudders with their frank opinions, advice and information. i will try to dig out as much info as possible and post it here. sorry for the late reply as i m working through this short week and have been talking to her briefly. nothing much to report. how she gets her $ really do bother me but my feelings for her is beyond dat.

put it this way, if realli she is doing any sideline to maintain her lifestyle, i think i will most likely bail her out if possible. i feels that i m in this too deep but i just cant stop myself.

anyway, will try to fish out more info using brudder siamcutey idea...but i must do it gently before she discovers i m treating her wrongly. i just dun wan to lose her. in the meantime, i guess i have to be patient.

by the way, using starhub normal line cheaper than starhub prepaid? becoz, my 2nd hp is just to call her. i sms her using my M1 line. anyone knows what is the rate if use starhub prepaid to call sillypore from LOS?

brudders, thank you in advance again.....

why not u subscribe a starhub line instead of using starhub prepaid. U don't need to even sign a contract.

As for the idea, I suggest that now u don't ask her on the phone about where she get her money.
On your next trip then find an opportunity to ask her through casual conversations.
But first talk some crap about your work and family first to bring her guard down, then you start attacking her with ur own set of questions.


Meanwhile, just talk normal with her on the phone.

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[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

Someone in this forum recommended me Platinum calling card . I have been using it to call thailand, landline or mobile. Gives more than 120 min of talk time (more than 140 if you call and dont hang up). the card can be purchased at Geylang for $8 per card. Of course you call using landline. works out to be about 8 to 10 cents per min. Very good deal. And very clear too.

The latest cheapest card at the moment is "EAGLE CARD" which cost $8(if u buy at lor 8 Geylang )and it can have a airtime up to 202 minutes for connecting to a thai mobile phone line. But you must a fixed line in order not to incur extra charges on your hp.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by Cat Man

seriously speaking, you can pay her housing loan or not? we paid off our housing loan with her earnings from her GL tour of duty and some help from me. so now only got car loan to pay off.

thank bro for the advice. after much consideration i have decided to stop this so called nosense partly because i'm not mentally ready with a WL.
better to be play safe than to be sorry...i'm more towards the negative

[sg69]

hi brudders, was quite busy lately with work and to my surprise this thread can only be found on page 4. anyway, i have some info to update and seel brudders' observations and advice.

1. I found out the apartment and car are being paid by dad.
2. brother won't go to bkk soon n staying with grandma at another province.
3. she was given about 1mil baht for her studies and allowances. but she said it is drying up soon after these few years. lucky thing is that she is graduating soon (waiting for results) and will find a job once she passed her last papers.
4. she is coming to spore next week to see me and i am really excited. not her 1st time here. came here twice but didn't like sg. me too actually. she said everything expensive and sg is so boring. i cant agree more. she just want to come over to see me. (she is the 2nd thai girl who did this)
5. i kept having this feeling that she is genuine. till now, she did asked for any help (financially or otherwise). maybe i am just biased. so i hope brudders here with so much experience will enlighten me more.

thaks in advance again for your frank opinions and advice.

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by sg69

1. I found out the apartment and car are being paid by dad.
2. brother won't go to bkk soon n staying with grandma at another province.
3. she was given about 1mil baht for her studies and allowances. but she said it is drying up soon after these few years. lucky thing is that she is graduating soon (waiting for results) and will find a job once she passed her last papers.
4. she is coming to spore next week to see me and i am really excited. not her 1st time here. came here twice but didn't like sg. me too actually. she said everything expensive and sg is so boring. i cant agree more. she just want to come over to see me. (she is the 2nd thai girl who did this)
5. i kept having this feeling that she is genuine. till now, she did asked for any help (financially or otherwise). maybe i am just biased. so i hope brudders here with so much experience will enlighten me more.
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1) Her dad (or Pa) must be very rich.
3) Not many Thai has 1 million baht liquid cash.. espcecially a student...
4) Not many young Thai (decent and average class) has the opportunity to even travel overseas. Let alone travel S'pore twice... did u ask why she still come 2 times when she said she don't like S'pore?

Not many University student stay in a 8k baht per month apartment. 8k baht can rent a 1 room with 1 or 2 bed rooms apartment.. why'll a University student need such a luxury room?

Ultimately, if u feel u've the chemistry with her, and u don't mind her "secrets" then good for u and all the best!

cheers

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by sg69

3. she was given about 1mil baht for her studies and allowances. but she said it is drying up soon after these few years. lucky thing is that she is graduating soon (waiting for results) and will find a job once she passed her last papers.

Her dad must not only be very rich, but very trusting of her. Not many rich parents will give their uni-level kid so much money in one lump sum to finance their studies, even if they could. they usually pay when the course fees become due, and give monthly allowance.

I'm not saying it's not possible, but you must find out more. have you been to the dad's house? have you met and talked to the dad?

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by Cat Man

I'm not saying it's not possible, but you must find out more. have you been to the dad's house? have you met and talked to the dad?

hehehe I think thats too fast lah... I think he mentioned he only spent 5 days together with her?

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

hehehe I think thats too fast lah... I think he mentioned he only spent 5 days together with her?

wah, SRT, wake up from your late Saturday night booze already ah?

today very sianz leh, not many people post in the usual threads.

[sg69]

again & again i must thank all brudders for their contributions and advice. I definitelt have not met her dad. This time round, she is coming to sg just to meet me. 1st time she came over was with her family and 2nd time was with her friend whom never been to sg. She didn't like sg but just missess me alot and can't wait til dec when i go over....hehehe....

anyway, i will find out more when she come over and through our daily conversations. i think her dad shld be doing ok and gave her the lump sum maybe because of guilt. she did mentioned her mom passed away and her dad is some what got something to do with her death. well, i m just guessing.

she shared rooms before but she can't stand her housemates because she is pretty tidy and her housemate are not, so she moved out to her studio apt. well, i got to fish for more information and seek more of brudders' advice.

thank you again.

[Cat Man]

Bro sg69, even if she is working sideline or sponsored by sugar daddy, if you don't mind this, it's still okay to have r/s with her. just be careful if she ever start asking you for $$$, or you start feeling soft-hearted and offer to sponsor her

[sg69]

thanks bro cat man for your advice. i m not that rich to sponsor her. but i will probably buy her some gifts as i can't control myself doing that. i sure hope she is not doing any sidelines or anything like that. i hope everything btwn us is genuine. i am just praying for the best. i m so crazy abt her that i stop hooking up with my local gfs or even go hunting in sg. guess i m hopelessly devoted to her....hehehe......

[Cat Man]

Originally Posted by sg69

thanks bro cat man for your advice. i m not that rich to sponsor her. but i will probably buy her some gifts as i can't control myself doing that. i sure hope she is not doing any sidelines or anything like that. i hope everything btwn us is genuine. i am just praying for the best. i m so crazy abt her that i stop hooking up with my local gfs or even go hunting in sg. guess i m hopelessly devoted to her....hehehe......

Have you asked yourself what you will do if you find out that she is really doing sideline or sponsored by sugar daddy? Will you:

1. Ask her to stop sideline / break off with sugar daddy?
2. Let her continue and you just enjoy the benefits (the "pee chai" path)?
3. Break off with her?

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by sg69

again & again i must thank all brudders for their contributions and advice. I definitelt have not met her dad. This time round, she is coming to sg just to meet me. 1st time she came over was with her family and 2nd time was with her friend whom never been to sg. She didn't like sg but just missess me alot and can't wait til dec when i go over....hehehe....

anyway, i will find out more when she come over and through our daily conversations. i think her dad shld be doing ok and gave her the lump sum maybe because of guilt. she did mentioned her mom passed away and her dad is some what got something to do with her death. well, i m just guessing.

she shared rooms before but she can't stand her housemates because she is pretty tidy and her housemate are not, so she moved out to her studio apt. well, i got to fish for more information and seek more of brudders' advice.

thank you again.

So how is she going to have money for her airticket? Lodging? Meals?

There is an issue here. A girl not working, still studying, stays in an 8K rent condo all by herself(this I believe have 2 bedroom in pattanakarn King's Hotel Area right?), I seriously have many doubts as to where her source of her money comes from.

The most impt issue here now is MONEY MONEY MONEY. WHERE WHERE WHERE?

No matter how lump the sum her father gives her, it will finish one day.


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[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Cat Man

Have you asked yourself what you will do if you find out that she is really doing sideline or sponsored by sugar daddy? Will you:

1. Ask her to stop sideline / break off with sugar daddy?
2. Let her continue and you just enjoy the benefits (the "pee chai" path)?
3. Break off with her?

1. The solution to these answers is as follows, if he wants her to stop sideline / break off with sugar daddy, he will have to compensate her financial loss also mah. Talk love and no monetary replacement u think feasible?

2. If sg69 can live with this fact, I think he can chose this path lor.

3. Break off? This path I don't think sg69 will choose. 1% chance

So the best option seems to be option 1 right? But then once u start paying her, can still find out through other ways and means of whether she got make any contact with her sugar daddy or still in sideline.

And I do know some girls will say they have sugar daddy cos they are poor and then once u song sarn them, you start to tell them to leave the sugar daddy and u sponsor her. But then the girl start to have 2 SUGAR DADDIES NOW. So even if you want to pay, also must pay wisely and not pay to a girl who is smarter than you

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