Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by lelele

Not a problem, think SG only have 3.3 million people, of them say 10% marry prc only got 33,000 man marrying same number of PRC woman, that is not a big deal comparing to PRC population 1.4 billion

But that will cause big problem for SG society here

i read sometime back they will have a short fall of about 20millions by 2020. 20millions is a huge number!!! SG take part of the pie, other countries like japan, taiwan, south korea join in the fun as well

in the end, the shortage become bigger. millions of people without a hole. where will happen? scary thought.

but what will happen to the excess 33,000 SG women here

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by ahit1

Well, in my point of view, if you find your PRC wife is making use of you, you better have her blacklisted by the government as soon as possible man. Let them never to step in our grounds. Or else if things turn nasty, she will come back and use women chapter haunt you. You will be in the loosing end.

Just to share my point of view. Dun flame me if i am naive.

don't worry. we are mature enough to deal with this very real problem

but how are we going to do that? even if they can't come back into singapore, i believe a lawyer will settle thier problem isn't it.

[happy000]

Not to worry. They will get the shortfall from Vietnam, Burma, Laos and even Africa.

All along it's the richer countries will get from the poorer countries if there is a shortage. It's the poorest countries going to suffer.

Originally Posted by Black_Hawk_Up

i read sometime back they will have a short fall of about 20millions by 2020. 20millions is a huge number!!! SG take part of the pie, other countries like japan, taiwan, south korea join in the fun as well

in the end, the shortage become bigger. millions of people without a hole. where will happen? scary thought.

but what will happen to the excess 33,000 SG women here

[lelele]

Originally Posted by happy000

Not to worry. They will get the shortfall from Vietnam, Burma, Laos and even Africa.

All along it's the richer countries will get from the poorer countries if there is a shortage. It's the poorest countries going to suffer.

Agree, poorest countries going to suffer.

PRC short of good man, and SG short of good woman, good match

[lelele]

Originally Posted by Black_Hawk_Up

but what will happen to the excess 33,000 SG women here

No need worry, they will look for white dick, and this is happening now u not notice?

[Max77]

I met one PRC divorcee last week. She's like those PR who got half of everything her husband got and monthly payment type. She wrote to court wif some excuse to hav their son sent to China for education-while the men keep paying for both. She's now earning 15k per month on the average if she rest during the week ends.

I've talked to the gentlemen about it. Both of them hav problem you n i can't solve. After married, the women wanted more and better life-a pathetic image of wealth her husband portrait before they talk about marriage. The guy is now as good as a dead man. His hand bandaged from the wood-cut he got, smashing their wedding photo. His old mother is taking care of him wif her dish washing job. The huge house is waiting to be sold and money split.

The women has found herself a "shelter" before leaving him. A powerful protector cum lover. On the day she left the house empty after selling off the tv and the fridge to the garang guni man for 50bucks each, is a sms telling her husband to wait for lawyer's letter. The women hav wish to earn at least 3 million SGD before she head back to hometown and retired. She occasionally went back to prepare everything and visit their son who's wif her father.

The man resist every possible help from anybody...he fall asleep drunk on the doorway oni to wait for his old mother to drag him back into the living room.

I've talked to the mother, who oni want everything (the divorce) to end as quickly as possible. When she told me how loving they r when in courtship and how the gal shower generousity and filial pity on her, she has a great smile on her face. Even show me the Rolex on her hand and those QiPao (chinese traditional clothing) in her wardrobe.

She's in her 50s. She's the smartest women i've ever seen in my life. She has await for this moment to come. Letting her son learn something very useful in his life. The PRC still visit her at her work place on and off. She didn't make things difficult for her.

She told me-like i'm a son to her, she want her son to know wad's the consequences of unconditional love towards the wrong person in ur life. Her husband is a master of the great-four (Eat, Drink, Prostitue, Gamble) she joked to me.

I've pull her and my mum together to go to C.C. every now and then to cheer her up. Everytime i fetch them home and carry tat bro into the living room, my mum will always remind on the road tat :"a men should always concentrate on his career before think about marriage"

I've already tot of wad my future wife has to agreed and sign upon before my marriage. After all these experience, i believe i'm able to turn around and walk away if the women refused to bulged.

P/S:i did not told tat man i've always fuck his ex-wife hard and always "accidental" cim. The feeling i get when fucking her is wierd and exciting. Sometime, i feel like i've fall in love wif her when she "accidentally" swallow some of my sperm.

[sun814]

u only know her for one week, but u always been fxxking her?

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by Max77

I met one PRC divorcee last week. She's like those PR who got half of everything her husband got and monthly payment type. She wrote to court wif some excuse to hav their son sent to China for education-while the men keep paying for both. She's now earning 15k per month on the average if she rest during the week ends.

I've talked to the gentlemen about it. Both of them hav problem you n i can't solve. After married, the women wanted more and better life-a pathetic image of wealth her husband portrait before they talk about marriage. The guy is now as good as a dead man. His hand bandaged from the wood-cut he got, smashing their wedding photo. His old mother is taking care of him wif her dish washing job. The huge house is waiting to be sold and money split.

The women has found herself a "shelter" before leaving him. A powerful protector cum lover. On the day she left the house empty after selling off the tv and the fridge to the garang guni man for 50bucks each, is a sms telling her husband to wait for lawyer's letter. The women hav wish to earn at least 3 million SGD before she head back to hometown and retired. She occasionally went back to prepare everything and visit their son who's wif her father.

The man resist every possible help from anybody...he fall asleep drunk on the doorway oni to wait for his old mother to drag him back into the living room.

I've talked to the mother, who oni want everything (the divorce) to end as quickly as possible. When she told me how loving they r when in courtship and how the gal shower generousity and filial pity on her, she has a great smile on her face. Even show me the Rolex on her hand and those QiPao (chinese traditional clothing) in her wardrobe.

She's in her 50s. She's the smartest women i've ever seen in my life. She has await for this moment to come. Letting her son learn something very useful in his life. The PRC still visit her at her work place on and off. She didn't make things difficult for her.

She told me-like i'm a son to her, she want her son to know wad's the consequences of unconditional love towards the wrong person in ur life. Her husband is a master of the great-four (Eat, Drink, Prostitue, Gamble) she joked to me.

I've pull her and my mum together to go to C.C. every now and then to cheer her up. Everytime i fetch them home and carry tat bro into the living room, my mum will always remind on the road tat :"a men should always concentrate on his career before think about marriage"

I've already tot of wad my future wife has to agreed and sign upon before my marriage. After all these experience, i believe i'm able to turn around and walk away if the women refused to bulged.

P/S:i did not told tat man i've always fuck his ex-wife hard and always "accidental" cim. The feeling i get when fucking her is wierd and exciting. Sometime, i feel like i've fall in love wif her when she "accidentally" swallow some of my sperm.

That is a really tragic story. It shows you as you said unconditional love toward the wrong person can lead to a spiral down never imaginable. I hope brothers read these threads with seriousness instead of as if they are jokes. The consequences are real.

[Max77]

Originally Posted by sun814

u only know her for one week, but u always been fxxking her?

Nope, i've been fxxking her for quite sometime already. Don't wanna tell grand mother story about it. She seems to enjoy quite a lot on top of me. Think she kind of fall in love wif my cock already-maybe she fallen in love wif many others who knows.

My story is wad's happened during tat one week after she has "pour her bitter water out" on me about her poor hubby who gave up almost everything for her. I tot of sharing her ctc here but i can't (she don't sell herself along the road). I tot of writing their story out but it haben over. I tot of many things during last one week. It's kind of a life changing one week for me. I've grown natured a bit more. I roughly know wad's the ending of tat guy who mother loved him so much. Right now, i'm jus pondering, whether to make thing more interesting by meeting up wif tat powerful veggie-head sugar daddy-she has been really candid and truthful towards me...

Everything happened so damn fast. She's next to me sound asleeped. I normally don't sleep at night. When u r very closed to someone, u can feel them. She doesn't feel like a bad women to me. She feel like a baby who lack security in her life. Constantly looking for a shoulder to lean on. Once she wakes up, she'll has to put on a brave front again. Continuing her quest to earn tat amount tat she strongly believe will make her old life in luxury.

Her husband can't provide her wif wad she wants. She don't want 3k of pocket money. She knows she need more...(everything is calculated and kind of in her head a long time ago)

China produce such citizens tat bring million n million of dollars back every year. I'll like to crack a joke here. Maybe both Govt has a agreedment. U let my man go over to dig gold while i'll let ur gal come over and dig...lolz fair and square

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by lelele

No need worry, they will look for white dick, and this is happening now u not notice?

i think the numbers is still relative small although i do agree there is an increase.

in my last company, there are a numbers of ang mo who had been working in spore for many years. a number of them found their asian wife locally. but none is local either thai or PRC. it seem our local chick is not that attractive to ang mo as wife material too all my slibings is not married to local gal too

[Black_Hawk_Up]

Originally Posted by Max77

Nope, i've been fxxking her for quite sometime already. Don't wanna tell grand mother story about it. She seems to enjoy quite a lot on top of me. Think she kind of fall in love wif my cock already-maybe she fallen in love wif many others who knows.

My story is wad's happened during tat one week after she has "pour her bitter water out" on me about her poor hubby who gave up almost everything for her. I tot of sharing her ctc here but i can't (she don't sell herself along the road). I tot of writing their story out but it haben over. I tot of many things during last one week. It's kind of a life changing one week for me. I've grown natured a bit more. I roughly know wad's the ending of tat guy who mother loved him so much. Right now, i'm jus pondering, whether to make thing more interesting by meeting up wif tat powerful veggie-head sugar daddy-she has been really candid and truthful towards me...

Everything happened so damn fast. She's next to me sound asleeped. I normally don't sleep at night. When u r very closed to someone, u can feel them. She doesn't feel like a bad women to me. She feel like a baby who lack security in her life. Constantly looking for a shoulder to lean on. Once she wakes up, she'll has to put on a brave front again. Continuing her quest to earn tat amount tat she strongly believe will make her old life in luxury.

Her husband can't provide her wif wad she wants. She don't want 3k of pocket money. She knows she need more...(everything is calculated and kind of in her head a long time ago)

China produce such citizens tat bring million n million of dollars back every year. I'll like to crack a joke here. Maybe both Govt has a agreedment. U let my man go over to dig gold while i'll let ur gal come over and dig...lolz fair and square

sad to hear that. hope things turn out well for your friend and his mum.

i hear and read of such stories from time to time. thankfully, all of my friends who married non-local wife have a rather happy marriage. those that i know personally i have not heard of any such problem. but they have been married for at least +- 10years? maybe it was not so bad back them.

whether local or not, it is very damaging when the woman we married is not the correct 1. just that marrying a non-local have an increase risk of getting a gold digger

[QQBoy]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

I think this website charge members for communicating.

Want to get to know PRC girls, the free and easy way is to join QQ. I have connected to more than 100 grls from 16 - 40 years old. Of course you must be able to communicate in Chinese with them.

[Max77]

I hoped local guys can look deeper into wad their intended-future-sprouse's needs before deciding to get married. Young gals r often very romantically involved during courtship. It's the guy who r always the more sober one. At tat time they won't ask for more but her man's love. But when the reality kick in after marriage, they finally realise wad a mistake it is. And in the most panicky time of their life, they push to the limit. Knowing tat it's either now or never.

Who is to blame? The more sober one ofcoz. If u claim u aren't sober enuff at tat time, then u hav jus hav to pay the price of ur action. Every piece of chee byes has a price. Not all parallel exports r cheaper. If u can't giv them wad they need then better stay far away from them. Becoz those tat r matured n realistic won't fall for u, those tat r seeking for romance oni need ONLY ur cock. Don't giv them ur future-bcoz it'll never be enuff.

[RealEstateGuy]

So the conclusion is what brother?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bra RealEstateGuy, the conclusion shall be for Bros to marry the right person and lived happily ever afters without a gloomy conclusion