Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

- superb SYT that can be tackled, but 'red' day - heavy petting only loh

'red' day not only heavy petting.... I will ask for HJ and BJ and CIM/COF...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

You sure hug and chat and sleep together u can control? If the gal is good in bed, i think there will be more interest.


you give me money i can hug and sleep with you also


For me I sure cannot control. Even over night never bonk (maybe due to tiredness), in the morning, cock sure marikita and need find hole to insert. heehee.
Further more now over night in hotel no cheap anymore. Thats why I like to go to the beach

can control why not? not everytime want fark one mah....

knn u give me money ask me to let u hug and sleep with u i also dont want

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by technofreak

It would be finding a needle in a haystick if a good one comes along...

I hope my vn girlfriend is the needle in the haystick...

Originally Posted by technofreak

I experienced a situation similar to u (Known her on plane)...But her true colours was revealed 6 months later. Started to ask for a MOTORBIKE (S$3k for birthday), $2k for opening cafe there, air-tickets n accommodation etc. over a period of another 6 months. But I only bought her air-ticket once...N I dumped her soon!!

I experience something of the same kind with my vn girlfriend. Know her for nearly 2 years already.

1st year only frequent visit to VN.
1st year birthday, ask for HP... bought a $100 2nd hand hp. She damn happy. Now the hp spoilt, she still keep it. She asy its my 1st present to her.
near end of 1st year... she say parents owe money, need $1500. I helped.

2nd year, i intiate to help her in her rental. $200/mth
2nd year birthday, I see her going work in 'xe om' everyday, I heart pain. So I initiate to buy her a motorbike. She source around and found 1 2nd hand Honda xxxxx. $500.
mid 2nd year, brother go school need notebook. I buy 1 notebook $1100 paying 2year installment. But deduct $50 from her mthly allowance till installment is paid up.
near end 2 year (now), again family owe money. Helped her family again with $2000.

Money is always involve somehow at certain point of time. but it really depend on the cc they ask for. My girlfriend seems to be a small cc... machiam a QQ car.

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

can control why not? not everytime want fark one mah....

knn u give me money ask me to let u hug and sleep with u i also dont want

better two of u give me the money and i arranged for both of u a room to chit chat and sleep....

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by toucher1972

better two of u give me the money and i arranged for both of u a room to chit chat and sleep....

ok. $200. I want a room in Fullerton...then me and KangTuo will go find VN SYT and bring them there

[Me Siam Bu]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ok. $200. I want a room in Fullerton...then me and KangTuo will go find VN SYT and bring them there

wah that is a high class hotel bro

[toucher1972]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ok. $200. I want a room in Fullerton...then me and KangTuo will go find VN SYT and bring them there

...........hmmmmmmmm

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Me Siam Bu

wah that is a high class hotel bro

we talking about $200 mah..then he offer mah...take lor

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ok. $200. I want a room in Fullerton...then me and KangTuo will go find VN SYT and bring them there

We split cost $100 each...
Dunno Fullerton is 'girl-friendly' or not huh? hahahaha

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

We split cost $100 each...
Dunno Fullerton is 'girl-friendly' or not huh? hahahaha

nvm, I pay all the $200, ur duty is to help me find VN SYT

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Very the sure. u want try ? give me money i chat with u whole night

I dun mind paying... when u free to chat with me whole night?

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I dun mind paying... when u free to chat with me whole night?

ur one not just chatting leh...like that must pay much mroe liao

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I hope my vn girlfriend is the needle in the haystick...



I experience something of the same kind with my vn girlfriend. Know her for nearly 2 years already.

1st year only frequent visit to VN.
1st year birthday, ask for HP... bought a $100 2nd hand hp. She damn happy. Now the hp spoilt, she still keep it. She asy its my 1st present to her.
near end of 1st year... she say parents owe money, need $1500. I helped.

2nd year, i intiate to help her in her rental. $200/mth
2nd year birthday, I see her going work in 'xe om' everyday, I heart pain. So I initiate to buy her a motorbike. She source around and found 1 2nd hand Honda xxxxx. $500.
mid 2nd year, brother go school need notebook. I buy 1 notebook $1100 paying 2year installment. But deduct $50 from her mthly allowance till installment is paid up.
near end 2 year (now), again family owe money. Helped her family again with $2000.

Money is always involve somehow at certain point of time. but it really depend on the cc they ask for. My girlfriend seems to be a small cc... machiam a QQ car.

Hey Bro, your situation is quite same as mine or even a lots of bros out there, but yours is gf, mine is wife..

Their Family keep calling after a short period of time. I've been sending money more punctual than another working adults pay day.. But i can predict confirm there are something coming again and again.. This one sick, that one accident, this one give birth, that one study.. Seems that every problem also arise to me.. Me 1 person working have to feed my baby, her and her family.. But luckily after been a long time, when somethings arise from her house, only giving a very small amount. Otherwise, i also married for having a happy family or just a ATM machine..

Sometimes keep just thinking, if i no need to send money to her family in VN, that would be good. At least my new car instalment would be lesser by half.. Her mum got daughter, got son, but how come none of them is supporting, but me as a son in law is doing it..

Sometimes keep thinking got married wrong person or from wrong country. But as for my wife spending, still okay, only occasionally likes to buy a bits of clothing which i think 99% gals would do so, otherwise This Fashion can have so much outlets.. But the main headache things is still her family side..

Bros out there. how many got the same or similar situation as me?

I think some would be worse. But of course i'm not condeming vn gals. Still can see some are good also.. But some really cannot make it and can do anything just for money.. So sad... Even Betraying their husband...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by technofreak

Hmmm on seeing your post, I recalled what my gal (whom I met on the plane to HCM) told me before...That she went hotel overnite with customer n was paid $200, only chatting but no lam tinh. Does anyone believe??

Bro, it's up to you to believe her story....girl can say anything she likes....for me I normally discount at least 50%.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Hey Bro, your situation is quite same as mine or even a lots of bros out there, but yours is gf, mine is wife..

Their Family keep calling after a short period of time. I've been sending money more punctual than another working adults pay day.. But i can predict confirm there are something coming again and again.. This one sick, that one accident, this one give birth, that one study.. Seems that every problem also arise to me.. Me 1 person working have to feed my baby, her and her family.. But luckily after been a long time, when somethings arise from her house, only giving a very small amount. Otherwise, i also married for having a happy family or just a ATM machine..

Sometimes keep just thinking, if i no need to send money to her family in VN, that would be good. At least my new car instalment would be lesser by half.. Her mum got daughter, got son, but how come none of them is supporting, but me as a son in law is doing it..

Sometimes keep thinking got married wrong person or from wrong country. But as for my wife spending, still okay, only occasionally likes to buy a bits of clothing which i think 99% gals would do so, otherwise This Fashion can have so much outlets.. But the main headache things is still her family side..

Bros out there. how many got the same or similar situation as me?

I think some would be worse. But of course i'm not condeming vn gals. Still can see some are good also.. But some really cannot make it and can do anything just for money.. So sad... Even Betraying their husband...

Maybe mine is only girlfriend that is why she never ask for more. Actually she has a cousin in USA who is supporting and sending money to her brother (only vn guy I know who is supported by a gal) and family. Lately she gave birth and don't send alot back to them. The amount and frequency my girlfriend asked, I think it is still alright and reasonable as compared to those higher cc vn gal. I am also thinking if I will just be like her family daily/weekly ATM once we got married.

Afterall as a couple, need to support each other family. If wife really take care of the house and my parents, I think supporting her family in monetary terms once while is ok.

Girls definitely like to go shopping. At least I see many vn gals go to THIS FASHION rather than some expensive boutique in the city. My girlfriend in vn never buy clothing for herself. Usually is her friends who go back to vn after earning some money in sillypore bring her out shopping and buy for her. She also rely on richer neighbour who will pass her clothing which they don't want anymore.