Home Wrecker

[Enzo]

I agree that benxmanda bro you did the right thing, finally. For quite a while I thought you're just going to sit there and watch from the sidelines. We cannot predict what the outcome is going to be, but most importantly the thing is that your conscience is clear because you did your best the best way you know how and not just sit there and watch.

[DarkAsh]

Originally Posted by benxmanda

Regretted telling DH about HW and IVS. I am just another fool who can’t keep secrets.

You aint the fool bro, you did your part as a friend ... the rest is up to DH. A real DH if he takes it easy

[bloggert]

Wait a minute - before we all jump headlong into this development, I guess we have to ask if this is for real or just one of those write-ups intended to spice up the story? Maybe TS can confirm that before everyone starts responding in earnest.

[benxmanda]

Told DH already, but I didnt tell him about the whole thing. I just said I saw HW and IVS together. Asked him to be more careful with HW's movements. For DH, he needs to establish the case himself.

[blackwhack]

bros here shouldn't get so worked up about the situation. real or not doesnt matter. just take it as another story. we are not here to judge IVS or HW or even TS or DH. admit it - the horny bastard part in us just cant wait for the inevitable to happen. lets not adopt a holier-than-thou attitude.

[blackwhack]

bros here shouldn't get so worked up about the situation. real or not doesnt matter. just take it as another story. we are not here to judge IVS or HW or even TS or DH. admit it - the horny bastard part in us just cant wait for the inevitable to happen. lets not adopt a holier-than-thou attitude.

[unger]

Just my little point of view:

1) she no longer bother about things you used to do together.
2) it doesnt matter to her about what went wrong, even though she used to make a big fuzz out of it.
3) every little thing you requested, she will say that you are asking for too much.
4) lots of lies.
5) what ever happened, you are alway the last one to know.
6) everything you ask for will be fine to her, cos it not important to her at all, it just like giving to charity.
7) whatever, however you tried it will not irritate her at all.
8) she used to tell you every little thing that happened at work and everywhere she is going but, it would not ever happen again. it doesnt consent her at all whether you know what is happening to her.
9) she can be sleeping with you in the same bed, she can be moaning out loud when you are having sex, you can be touching her from head to toe and she is playing along, but when the kissing come in that will be hundreds and one excuses not to kiss.
10) immediately after sex, she will go straight into the washroom and clean up regardless of the timing of the night, she will make sure is properly washed to cleaniness.
11) she will not want to touch your penis again, let not talk about blowjob. It seem too toublesome and dirty to her.
12) waking up in the night, she will not be by your side. she will be in the kitchen talking over the phone or smsing. the reason to give is to check for sms from colleague still at work, who are having problems with the system, which you know she dont understand the system at all.( she used to complaint to you about her work)
13) receiving calls after mid night will not annoy her anymore though she used to complain about late calls. talking over the phone with her back facing you and in low soft voice.
14) none displayed number are appearing on her phone more often then your kid will to call her. your number is no long in her incoming/ out going or even missed call list. yours will be push out of the list faster then any other in the world.
15) things you used to do to make her laugh, will be lame to her.
16) she will be asking you very often, is she a burden to you.

the above are just my little 2 sense, please do not get offended if you dont agreed with me.

[genius]

Agrreed with most points except no. 7. Every little thing will irritate her. She no longer interested and don't really care. She don't want to listen to your voice when ever possible.

Originally Posted by unger

Just my little point of view:

7) whatever, however you tried it will not irritate her at all.
en, is she a burden to you.

the above are just my little 2 sense, please do not get offended if you dont agreed with me.

This is what I came across...

[dann0620]

Originally Posted by benxmanda

Breaking News

I spilt the beans when I drove him home yesterday after our bachelor night out, not that kind with booze and pussy. Futsal lah.

I didn’t tell him about the spying, I just told him that I saw HW and IVS together in public on few occasions. He asked how sure I was, I told him I saw both of them many times and buying sexy lingerie together on one occasion.

I told him that’s all I knew. I told him to better confirm the whole situation before we could come to the conclusion something fishy between HW and IVS.

DH asked me if he should confront HW but he scared if nothing really happen then it would be like not trusting HW.

I asked were there any tell-tale signs that DH might have missed, like dressing, hair style, sex, etc. DH told me that HW shaved her pussy, dressing quite hot also, better temperament, etc.

He also told me some funny SMSs in HW’s handphone but he thought they were just wrong number and stuff like that nature.

I told him to keep an closer eye on HW and give him a very serious advice, no matter what happen, cool down and think first before doing something really stupid and no turning back.

Shit, what have I done?

Regretted telling DH about HW and IVS. I am just another fool who can’t keep secrets.

For those bros who had been there, mind to share with us the tell tale signs that your beloved was ABC XYZ behind your back?

Yo bro I take my hat off for you. Yes, I know the truth hurt like hell, but as i say before, true friend will tell you the truth even when it gonna hurt him. Now is all up to DH to swallow them, but at least you stop that asshole from ripping the family apart.

[Megatronzombie]

Originally Posted by benxmanda

For those bros who had been there, mind to share with us the tell tale signs that your beloved was ABC XYZ behind your back?

This reminds me of my wife. She one time during one of her trysts also have wierd smses with a guy sending her and calling her with some stupid cute names and I demanded to know who the hell that guy is and why he calls her that. At that time I was stupid and she explained in a very brushed off and rushed way and I just forgot abt the whole matter. Thinking back, they were fucking like rabbits back then. knn..

[Megatronzombie]

Oops forgot to mention: kudos to bro TS!! No matter what happened next you have done your best as a friend already. To tell DH more would have made you looked like you overstepped your boundary. To not tell at all is to have a long term pain for DH if the matter gets worse (which I am sure, with HW's horniness, definitely will). Lets see what happens next!!!!!

[Vectra]

[QUOTE=unger;3022929]Just my little point of view:..QUOTE]

Nice deduction, once the partner change heart you will be the one very first to feel it..

[Fowler09]

Originally Posted by Megatronzombie

This reminds me of my wife. She one time during one of her trysts also have wierd smses with a guy sending her and calling her with some stupid cute names and I demanded to know who the hell that guy is and why he calls her that. At that time I was stupid and she explained in a very brushed off and rushed way and I just forgot abt the whole matter. Thinking back, they were fucking like rabbits back then. knn..

so are u both still tgt

[unger]

Originally Posted by genius

Agrreed with most points except no. 7. Every little thing will irritate her. She no longer interested and don't really care. She don't want to listen to your voice when ever possible.



This is what I came across...

Bro, sorry to hear that, but you have to get the right point first.
Initially, she will be like what i say, thinking that the best way to
hide the cat, is not to shake the bag. but when they are heated iron,
it will be exactly like what you said. Correct me if i am wrong, you
discreption sound more from a broken marriage.

[humpcheepang]

Originally Posted by benxmanda

Told DH already, but I didnt tell him about the whole thing. I just said I saw HW and IVS together. Asked him to be more careful with HW's movements. For DH, he needs to establish the case himself.

Any further update on this bro!?

Anymore MSN between the two?