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[ghostcow]

Hi senior bros, before and after marriage the sex frequency changes drastically?

[sc slayer]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros, before and after marriage the sex frequency changes drastically?

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[sbwow]

Originally Posted by wantedbryan

Reading all this, how many men can be 100% honest with their wife?
Does your wife knows about your activities in SBF?

I am not married but looking at all the stories here really make me think twice about marriage.

Doesn't matter whether anyone knows.

You can openly have sex on the hard concrete floor, no issues bro. HAHAHA.

[marcussia]

My wife is the opposite of girls I ever had...

She is very conservative (first bf/husband). So I have been hinting, and brainwashing her to wear some more seductive clothes (or at least something I like), less resistant when I bring up the topic, but still not willing.

But sex-wise, very minimal. I initially thought I had ED, but realize it works like normal when with other ladies, just not the missus. Maybe 3/10 times will get hard enough. Not sure if other bros have this situation.

Do I love her? Yes.
Does she love me? Yes.

Do I have a 2nd hp (LOL) I have multiple, all kept in office...

[Sexadd1ct]

Originally Posted by marcussia

My wife is the opposite of girls I ever had...

She is very conservative (first bf/husband). So I have been hinting, and brainwashing her to wear some more seductive clothes (or at least something I like), less resistant when I bring up the topic, but still not willing.

But sex-wise, very minimal. I initially thought I had ED, but realize it works like normal when with other ladies, just not the missus. Maybe 3/10 times will get hard enough. Not sure if other bros have this situation.

Do I love her? Yes.
Does she love me? Yes.

Do I have a 2nd hp (LOL) I have multiple, all kept in office...

Mine is willing to do anything FLs do for me. Even sexy outfits to spice up the night. But yeah, i need to watch lots of porn before sex with her, else there's a high tendency to go soft mid-stroke. But with other girls, i can go for > 1hr without ever going soft. Not to brag, but there are girls who are hooked on sex with me. Yet back home I'm like this limp uncle who can't get it hard.

I think its got to do with our sub-consciousness... honestly i've yet to figure out a way to let me treat her like how i would my playthings outside.

[wildpig69]

That is why there is this Chinese saying:
the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence。。。

[sxem]

Nothing new if you dont get stimulated as much by your long term gf/ wife.

I tried not wanking for a couple days thinking it will put me in the mood, knn not even 10 mins after starting with my missus I fired.

My plan literally backfired on me.

[Laker]

Not sure if any bros answered this before but I am curious if any bros use dating apps/wechat near you function?

When asked if you are single, what is your answer?

I would naturally say I am to increase my chances of getting laid. But when things get serious I have to ghost them already. Tried once and felt bad about it so I stopped from then onwards.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Laker

Not sure if any bros answered this before but I am curious if any bros use dating apps/wechat near you function?

When asked if you are single, what is your answer?

I would naturally say I am to increase my chances of getting laid. But when things get serious I have to ghost them already. Tried once and felt bad about it so I stopped from then onwards.

It is the correct thing to say you are single, even when you are an old man and married.

But it was stupid of you to stop.
You wasted so much of your time trying to hook up and stopped for nothing.
It was really dumb of you. HAHAHA.

[marcussia]

Originally Posted by Sexadd1ct

Mine is willing to do anything FLs do for me. Even sexy outfits to spice up the night. But yeah, i need to watch lots of porn before sex with her, else there's a high tendency to go soft mid-stroke. But with other girls, i can go for > 1hr without ever going soft. Not to brag, but there are girls who are hooked on sex with me. Yet back home I'm like this limp uncle who can't get it hard.

I think its got to do with our sub-consciousness... honestly i've yet to figure out a way to let me treat her like how i would my playthings outside.

Yup, I think its really something sub-conscious. Quite depressing...

Originally Posted by sxem

Nothing new if you dont get stimulated as much by your long term gf/ wife.

I tried not wanking for a couple days thinking it will put me in the mood, knn not even 10 mins after starting with my missus I fired.

My plan literally backfired on me.

I tried this also, and same blew my whole load all over her within 5mins...

With FLs/FBs I can do like solid 30mins, hard all the way.

[bowlofsoup]

there is a difference when your wife was your gf and now become wife.

Sex are not frequent at all. maybe once or twice a month. the urge is not there.

but with other women, it is a different ball game.

my guess is because wife you can always have sex with her so the urge is not there. where else other women is right place right time only can have sex.

[phantomboyz]

The worst is tiagong from my friend, within both hand fingers count in 10 years post first son was born. Guest the toilet paper manufacturers got rich thanks to his years of contributions.

[Lios]

Originally Posted by Laker

Not sure if any bros answered this before but I am curious if any bros use dating apps/wechat near you function?

When asked if you are single, what is your answer?

If I was married, I would say yes but......
You get the drift ?

[MonzterAntz]

Mine is totally different from what most men experienced. My wife was cold towards sex when we got married 26 years ago. If I'm lucky, we will fuck twice a month. When we decided to have our first child, we did it almost everyday for 2 months. When she was pregnant, we didn't had sex during the whole pregnancy and almost 1 year after the baby came out. After a few years, accident happened and we had a pair of twins. Then we were 34 years old. A few years after the twins came out, her sex drive got higher, she got more daring and bold. She maintained her figure till now and she still looks like in her 30s instead of early 50s. For many years, we fuck almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. I'm a happy man, happy husband and also a happy father. We're planning for a trip to Bali next year and we wanna try to fuck in the water. Think I'm one helluva lucky married man in Singapore.

[wantedbryan]

Originally Posted by MonzterAntz

Mine is totally different from what most men experienced. My wife was cold towards sex when we got married 26 years ago. If I'm lucky, we will fuck twice a month. When we decided to have our first child, we did it almost everyday for 2 months. When she was pregnant, we didn't had sex during the whole pregnancy and almost 1 year after the baby came out. After a few years, accident happened and we had a pair of twins. Then we were 34 years old. A few years after the twins came out, her sex drive got higher, she got more daring and bold. She maintained her figure till now and she still looks like in her 30s instead of early 50s. For many years, we fuck almost everyday, sometimes twice a day. I'm a happy man, happy husband and also a happy father. We're planning for a trip to Bali next year and we wanna try to fuck in the water. Think I'm one helluva lucky married man in Singapore.

Wah bro you are super lucky, Wonder having so much activities at home do you still eat outside? I notice that I only eat outside when i don't get to eat at home.