Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Triton]

I have a friend who has been a samster for some time. When I ask him how come so threads don't have frs at all, is it price too expensive and nobody wants.

His Reply : You don't warn ppl if there is nothing to be warned about. You only warn when something is wrong.

By the same extension, even though there is a lot of bad rep on prc girls as diggers and materialistic, there are others living happily. It is just that the negative ones get publicized and garners much more interest.

My personal knowledge -

Girl is prc factory worker, guy is malaysian singapore pr also in same factory. They got married and the girl contributed all her savings, about 50k to buying a house. They were my colleagues.

Guy is singaporean, got fined $9000 for don't know what offense. He did not have enough money to pay the fine. His prc gf who was at court rushed to bank and withdrew the money and paid the fine. Also a factory girl. The prc girl is a good friend of my ex.

They are not all bad, it's where you find them. The negatives always gets magnified.

[action81]

bro triton,

you hit the nail on the head.
this is a online forum, just like car forums, the negatives get blown out of proportions and will always outnumber those whom have positive experience. In fact, those who have happy ever after story don't come here to post , this is a sex forum : not for "pretty woman" fairy tales.

SG vs PRC vs Thai vs Viet ...the list goes on. each and every nationality will have their + s and - s . what matters is once you made your decision, stick with it and make it good.

[Risis]

Well saying all PRC are bad or gold diggers is like saying all Singaporean Women are fantastic girlfriends or wives. I guess it's perspective.

China is a very polarised society today. there are urban females whom behave like singaporean women and some even dress better, more educated and more ambitious. But then you have the majority coming from the countryside or third tier cities. Most of these have little or no education, brought up by communistic parents whom have no concept of hard work, future planning or anything.

To these girls from experience, they have no idea what is future planning, they do not understand what the word "career" we come to use freely means.

Some will be materialistic, but some would live for love and protection. So end of the day it's really down to how much you know her. I have seen PRC Girls that would give up their savings to boyfriends out of love (or stupidity) only to have them gamble it away etc...

well, take your time, understand her and what goes on in her mind. Test her most importantly! good luck!

[S.B.Y]

Well said Mas (bro) Risis

Most Mas then to rush into "long term relationship" and yet falter.

Generally PRC girls tends to be the flavor when Mas pockets are thick but when the thining process starts well then that's where/when we can judge the true colors of the so-called special one

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

In short, regardless of the woman's country of origin. We all want a good wife and she is someone we can depend upon and trust fully. Cheers

[colins]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

In short, regardless of the woman's country of origin. We all want a good wife and she is someone we can depend upon and trust fully. Cheers

A little shorter than that, we just want to be happy.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Hi Bro colins, thanks for above

[colins]

Hey bro Ichigo, you are most welcome. Sometimes what we want can be simple, but we get detour around so much that we forget what we set out to do. How many bros here actually set out to look for a wife who is dependable and can be fully trusted? Aren't we enticed by their bodice, looks and 'availability'? If we are, then how can we turn around and start to measure them on their trustworthiness? Are we marrying for the wrong reasons and then throw the blame at the product of our choices? If you dun know what you set out to find, whether it is looks or trustworthiness, then for certain you will be confused when a girl comes along. How simple can it be?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Well said. Very true indeed to above.
Hahaha...Should be "Regret Marrying Ms. Wrong"

[drekman]

Do not be cheated by cheena girls.

[Chengdu dog]

I read Xin Min newspapers on 19 July 2010. A 42 year old man married a china woman from Hainan islands. He refused to be her guarantor for applying PR status and she also refused to mate with him

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

I read Xin Min newspapers on 19 July 2010. A 42 year old man married a china woman from Hainan islands. He refused to be her guarantor for applying PR status and she also refused to mate with him

Interesting, wander why they got married @1st place, they are on par both well educated but married Mr.wrong with Ms.wrong

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

a good wife and she is someone we can depend upon and trust fully. Cheers

We are someone she can depend upon and she is someone we can trust !!

We should not depend on girls for marriage or whatever, maybe only one thing - give birth

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by Uniman

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We should not depend on girls for marriage or whatever, maybe only one thing - give birth

Hi Bro, You misinterpreted my post's meaning. Cheers....

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by Uniman

Interesting, wander why they got married @1st place, they are on par both well educated but married Mr.wrong with Ms.wrong

The 42 yrs old guy don't want his Hainan wife to get Permanent Resident status and his wife responsed by not mating with him.

Normally foreign wife will expect his SG husband to apply PR as fast as possible for him. China women is very smart ones immediately she know what her SG husband is thinking. Don't apply PR for her anything go wrong can send her back to China.

I did read such cases in earlier papers while SG men sent their PRC wife back to China after the PRC women showed their true colour