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[Durategra]

Originally Posted by Uujaan

Turn off the gps in your phone.
But if the relationship is already that bad, then you have bigger problems.

Relationship is, pretty fucked.. for some reason we’re both hanging on to it. Yea, it needs ton of work or just go separate ways

[Durategra]

Originally Posted by sbwow

Playing hide and seek with wife.
Lmao, guy trapped in a sexless cage while the tigress looms.
How did you end up with such a control freak. HAHAHA.

You described it as it is man! Got fucked over by a fling who blurted every single shit between us with extra sugar and spice, hence the current situation..
hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

[Durategra]

Originally Posted by Northern

Did you get caught by your wife before ?

Yea I did..

[Uujaan]

Originally Posted by Durategra

Relationship is, pretty fucked.. for some reason we’re both hanging on to it. Yea, it needs ton of work or just go separate ways

The bad is that you are being chained.

The good is that she still cares enough about you to chain you.
At least there is something to work on.
Don't try the second phone trick, if you are caught with 2nd phone, then it will be the definite end.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Durategra

You described it as it is man! Got fucked over by a fling who blurted every single shit between us with extra sugar and spice, hence the current situation..
hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

It's kind of ironic.
You fucked them physically, both of them fucked back mentally. HAHAHA.

Playing the sitting duck would have been much better. HAHAHA.

[Durategra]

Originally Posted by sbwow

It's kind of ironic.
You fucked them physically, both of them fucked back mentally. HAHAHA.

Playing the sitting duck would have been much better. HAHAHA.

Alot of surrounding factors somewhat contributed to the situation where I “faltered”. Gotta admit I was an ass but turned around quite drastically. Sadly, the angst from the whole episode is still lingering ie: tracking app and shit. It’s gotten to a point where I’m just plain annoyed being questioned everytime there’s suspicion with any of my regular activities, as regular as they may seem. Pms, mods swings being the contributing factors.

[Durategra]

Originally Posted by Uujaan

The bad is that you are being chained.

The good is that she still cares enough about you to chain you.
At least there is something to work on.
Don't try the second phone trick, if you are caught with 2nd phone, then it will be the definite end.

You’re right, she still cares. But it gets very overbearing. And it sort of takes a toll on me. I definitely didn’t consider a second phone even though I could. It’s the hassle.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by Durategra

Alot of surrounding factors somewhat contributed to the situation where I “faltered”. Gotta admit I was an ass but turned around quite drastically. Sadly, the angst from the whole episode is still lingering ie: tracking app and shit. It’s gotten to a point where I’m just plain annoyed being questioned everytime there’s suspicion with any of my regular activities, as regular as they may seem. Pms, mods swings being the contributing factors.

This is going to be your life, her intrusion into your privacy is not going to stop.
She loves to be in control, not because she loves you.
Anyone who loves you enough wouldn't make your life miserable. HAHAHA.

[Raynor]

Remembered there was this thread, had to look through page 2 to find it.

Off topic a bit, but saw something today I want to share.

Saw this youngish mother, below 30, with her boy, maybe 3-4. They were coming back from from preschool, the type below hdb blocks.
The boy was carrying his own bag, the mother walking beside. Then the boy trip and fell. the mother did not kancheong and lift him up, but squat beside the boy to wait for him to pick himself up.

I think the mother did very very well, did not baby or pamper, but have an eye on her boy. feels like he must pick himself up, if he can't after trying, then I will.
I think this gives less stress to the mother, and subsequently less stress to the family unit as a whole.
Cant really boogie with the wife if theres too much stress
And the boy will be more independent too

just something I felt was interesting and wanted to share.

[fastshot]

Originally Posted by Raynor

Remembered there was this thread, had to look through page 2 to find it.

Off topic a bit, but saw something today I want to share.

Saw this youngish mother, below 30, with her boy, maybe 3-4. They were coming back from from preschool, the type below hdb blocks.
The boy was carrying his own bag, the mother walking beside. Then the boy trip and fell. the mother did not kancheong and lift him up, but squat beside the boy to wait for him to pick himself up.

I think the mother did very very well, did not baby or pamper, but have an eye on her boy. feels like he must pick himself up, if he can't after trying, then I will.
I think this gives less stress to the mother, and subsequently less stress to the family unit as a whole.
Cant really boogie with the wife if theres too much stress
And the boy will be more independent too

just something I felt was interesting and wanted to share.

nice sharing but can't see how you made the jump from that to "I think this gives less stress to the mother, and subsequently less stress to the family unit as a whole."

lol!

[Raynor]

Originally Posted by fastshot

nice sharing but can't see how you made the jump from that to "I think this gives less stress to the mother, and subsequently less stress to the family unit as a whole."

lol!

The mother will not fret over everything, or any little thing concerning the child.The mother I saw was calm about her child, having the child carry his own bag.
Most mothers stress about children or money or both. This mother was collected on her own child.
If the wife/mother is less stressed about the child, wouldn't the family as overall be less stressed ?

[wantedbryan]

Reading all this, how many men can be 100% honest with their wife?
Does your wife knows about your activities in SBF?

I am not married but looking at all the stories here really make me think twice about marriage.

[ferr4ri]

Originally Posted by Uujaan

The bad is that you are being chained.

The good is that she still cares enough about you to chain you.
At least there is something to work on.
Don't try the second phone trick, if you are caught with 2nd phone, then it will be the definite end.

to not be caught with the 2nd phone, use a 2nd phone all the time.... 1 for surfing forums (and other stuffs) 1 for banking

[Arion]

Originally Posted by wantedbryan

Reading all this, how many men can be 100% honest with their wife?
Does your wife knows about your activities in SBF?

I am not married but looking at all the stories here really make me think twice about marriage.

How many men are 100% honest with their wife, SBF or not ?
Anyways, being in SBF does not mean we are sex maniacs or whore mongers.

Whats wrong with being a Samster ?

[deployedrelayer]

maybe wives need to ask themselves why their man is looking to fuck other women