Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[RedFurBull]

Originally Posted by giggsy_11

Sorry to say this but this ML doesn’t even know how to play!
Should have fish u longer instead of this 420

Well I can sense such lying bitches
So instead of being cheated of $42K I just watch her poor acting skill for $420 - this is called gaslighting with style

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by giggsy_11

Have u tried double booking her to see who will she choose ?

Her response and her actions will determine your level of importance.

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Yeah should try this.
I think one of our concern is what’s our level of importance to them and how to determine it

This test don't really give an indication.
Double book using new account meaning booking as new customer. Usually if you are a confirmed regular or big customer giving $100 or more tips, they will cancel the new customer as they do not know if the new customer will surely turn up or even talk on extra. But you as a regular, they know you will turn up and give tips on extra.

The compare only comes when another regular giving same tips book same time as you.

For the ML I am seeing, whenever there is customer booking, it is always customer 1st, I 2nd. because it is money 1st. Even if new customer without taking extra, the entrance adds on to her monthly target.

Then in the spa, other then own customer booking, there is queue system. I actually hate most is when she is next in the queue after my slot or when we are having dinner together. You will not know when the next customer will walk in. On such days when I go in shop, it is always quick job in 20-30 min and off I go. Also, dinner together can be cut short when the shop call her in, either I dabao the rest of the food for her or just wait, depending whether the walk in customer book 1 or 1.5 hour.

I understand she do not want to miss the chance of walk in customer.

Anyway, during the time she is working, I am always working at cafe nearby her. 5 days a week. She knows I am always around.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Coming to this thread is good to remind oneself of what is real and what is possibly fake. All they want is mostly money. Ans we are there just ready to give them whenever they do something to make us think we are special

At your stage, just continue being regular to her. Also find other ML occasionally so that other ML can "pull" you away from this ML you got feel with.

While being regular, keep observing if she is being real to you before you commit anything further. Have you meet her outside her work hours, during off day? Dinner or supper after work?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

Mine even better
Told me she’s not feeling well at noon n ask if I can but her half day off - $420
So I helped - knowing it’s fake

The ML I seeing, she is never a fan of buying hours. Not me, not even agreeing to customer buying hours.

So far only one time buy 1 hour before official knock off time.
Her boss was oversea, we had plans to go somewhere but it will be too late if she knock off on time. So we discussed and decided that she will run off 1 hour earlier. But alas, the 2nd boss came to shop in evening and we need to buy the 1 hour.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

Another trick I tried on one of the ML
I gave her little by little eg end of month ask her hey how much from target is she short? I just give her like $170, $240 etc to make up - it’s a small amount for me n to test her as well
Of course she held back many ‘services’ but still give GFE
One fine day I decided to stop looking for/ message her n after 2 weeks she message to ask how come I never message her, I just told her : oh I miss u so much I just have to endure, thanks for thinking about me, can we get married?

Got a customer use similar trick on the ML I seeing leh
She blocked him.

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

At your stage, just continue being regular to her. Also find other ML occasionally so that other ML can "pull" you away from this ML you got feel with.

While being regular, keep observing if she is being real to you before you commit anything further. Have you meet her outside her work hours, during off day? Dinner or supper after work?

We ever discuss about meeting for supper as she say usually don’t meet guys on off days. But think we are working towards meeting on off days. Slowly but surely hopefully. As I rather go hotel than be at the massage place. 😅

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Slowly but surely hopefully. As I rather go hotel than be at the massage place. 😅

Alright. You are safe.
Deeper down, this is not love. This is lust over her bah.
It is just how much you need to spend on her to go hotel.

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Alright. You are safe.
Deeper down, this is not love. This is lust over her bah.
It is just how much you need to spend on her to go hotel.

Haha I don’t know man.
She ever ask me to buy her hours if want her to go out during normal days. Now talking about bringing her out shopping. She seems to be ok with it. Hotel is just another location because we more or less done the deed. 😅 let’s see how it goes.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by bumblebuzz

Haha I don’t know man.
She ever ask me to buy her hours if want her to go out during normal days. Now talking about bringing her out shopping. She seems to be ok with it. Hotel is just another location because we more or less done the deed. �� let’s see how it goes.

Don't be confuse if you done the deed.
What is your ultimate goal with her?

We are married man. Maybe same as me, its just finding a 2nd person to love and care for. If financially ok (check my post for rough amount) then go ahead to spend and keep as fb/mistress. Take time to find out if she really can be a kept woman. If not the right one, i.e. she 2 timing, take it as just a fling.

Enjoy the process with no ending. But don't ever hurt or forego the family

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Don't be confuse if you done the deed.
What is your ultimate goal with her?

We are married man. Maybe same as me, its just finding a 2nd person to love and care for. If financially ok (check my post for rough amount) then go ahead to spend and keep as fb/mistress. Take time to find out if she really can be a kept woman. If not the right one, i.e. she 2 timing, take it as just a fling.

Enjoy the process with no ending. But don't ever hurt or forego the family

I’m same as u, married.
Also not sure what’s my ultimate goal.
Maybe as a fb and will try to take care of her if I can. Money not so much an issue as long not ridiculous.
Also not sure how to detect if she two timing or have other guys.
Any tips?

For sure is won’t give up family for this coz never worth it.