The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by surfer888

Yup, Terrible.

I only knew about it when he was in the hospital. Prior to that, I knew he was over the moon about his baby boy and kept showing us photos.

The only good that came out of this so far was that he managed to quit smoking... albeit at too high a price.

to an extent whereby, he might not see his child passed the age of 2.

my heart goes to him.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

actuali stil in the process, but once we decided to reali settle dwn, thats when she realised i was also suitable for her. glad that she is learning to appreciate me mre than last time. hopefuli it stays all the way like tat.

i am happy for u.wish u two eternal happiness.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

i am happy for u.wish u two eternal happiness.

thanks bro. being wanting to say, that siggi pic of urs reali look pwer.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

thanks bro. being wanting to say, that siggi pic of urs reali look pwer.

hahaha..its the kinda of gal i want to hv as gf but apparently it's not gonna be easy.that explains y i am still unattached yet.

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

hahaha..its the kinda of gal i want to hv as gf but apparently it's not gonna be easy.that explains y i am still unattached yet.

actually shes my friend's friend. but sad to say im not close to this friend.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

actuali stil in the process, but once we decided to reali settle dwn, thats when she realised i was also suitable for her. glad that she is learning to appreciate me mre than last time. hopefuli it stays all the way like tat.

bro..really happy for u..ur story give pple hope tat sometimes things can turn out for the beta if u believe hard enuf

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

hahaha..its the kinda of gal i want to hv as gf but apparently it's not gonna be easy.that explains y i am still unattached yet.

hey bro..dun ever be disheartened..believe in urself..

tats the only advice i can give u

[asdfghjkl]

how many times do you encounter a couple who love each other as much one.. every time is guy like gal, woo her.. then she like him BECAUSE HE LIKE HER.. and vice versa.. i feel they are faking their feeling about liking someone who woo them.. but bo pian.. life on this earth is like this one.. even if i like him very much, also got many women behind me like him what..

lets say some guy like me and i like another guy now.. if the latter marries liao.. am i suppose to wait for him to divorce to be with me?? of course not la! but i must admit i get turned off when guys try to know me and then give up easily.. like i very cheap like that one.. worth only one attempt to know..

nowadays ah.. sg women are highly educated.. they dun care means they dun care one.. not like last time they are obedient and willing to compromise type.. sacrifice for their husband.. save a few like chee's wife.. willing to go through thick and thin together.. to give an example.. now you try to enter SDP to contest election.. your wife will immediately scream and threaten to take the kids and jump down man.. this is a true story ah.. from SDP one..

so my advice is this ler.. dun need to wait for so long la.. chinese got a saying.. mountain compare liao still got higher one.. you are going to wait until when then you can stop?? i bgr time also think i love someone the most but another guy still managed to replace the old one.. i also puzzled ler..

[angie II]

u mean nowadaze can still find true love in sg meh?
How cum i still cannot find ROMANCE at ROSE PALACE leh? roro.. r u reading dis?
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[sg115cr4]

u r damn right bro. cause normally theres no more luv after married. is more of commitment n responsibilties. the othere side is always greener bro.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

hahaha..its the kinda of gal i want to hv as gf but apparently it's not gonna be easy.that explains y i am still unattached yet.

dun worry lar bro. ppl always say, if its destined to be urs, it will eventualli come. once u get it eventualli, u will cherish it even mre becoz u wrk hard for it. dun be disheartened, u can do it.

cheers.

[Know_yr_role]

sorry double postings....sbf abit lagging, not sure if posted also too, hur hur hur

[Know_yr_role]

I think its rather common for some people to marry someone whos not yr true love, first n foremost, how many can truely say tat they have found a partner whos "everything you ever dream of" "your soulmate" "the man/woman" of your dreams....

I think most of the common people will settle for the closest or next best partner they encounter....Not everyone is perfect, tats human nature, we are not born perfect, so there are bound to be flaws which we must accept and be able to live with them....

Next there are the cat which marry for the wrong reasons,

1 shot gun marriage
2 thinks tat he/she owes the person something which he/she would have done her them
3 the person u loved most got married with someone else and u let with no choice but settle for someone else
4 MOney
5 many many more stupid reasons...

so in a nutshell, most people dun marry the one they truely love....jus settle for the next best person i guess...

just my 0.002 cents cheers

[Archduke]

Originally Posted by sg115cr4

u r damn right bro. cause normally theres no more luv after married. is more of commitment n responsibilties. the othere side is always greener bro.

There is still love after marriage just that it is often forgotten amongst all the responsibilities of running a household. The best way is everyone pitches in and never forget to respect each other.

It's always how you look at things. Always go for a balanced view.

Cheers

[Know_yr_role]

I think its rather common for some people to marry someone whos not yr true love, first n foremost, how many can truely say tat they have found a partner whos "everything you ever dream of" "your soulmate" "the man/woman" of your dreams....

I think most of the common people will settle for the closest or next best partner they encounter....Not everyone is perfect, tats human nature, we are not born perfect, so there are bound to be flaws which we must accept and be able to live with them....

Next there are the cat which marry for the wrong reasons,

1 shot gun marriage
2 thinks tat he/she owes the person something which he/she would have done her them
3 the person u loved most got married with someone else and u let with no choice but settle for someone else
4 MOney
5 many many more stupid reasons...

so in a nutshell, most people dun marry the one they truely love....jus settle for the next best person i guess...

just my 0.002 cents cheers