Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by coach

Just curious, do they need to change religion, renamed to be called like "Ali Mahmud", before get married?

how abt their kids, also need to follow the religion ??

Sorry just need to clarify ....

In this context, non-chinese ladies means pinos, thais & viets. I never heard them say must change religion or change their names

SEA means South East Asia

[sun814]

Originally Posted by sun814

sorry correct me if i m wrong, but u looks to be very bias against the PRC ladies, but i wonder which sg lady, or for that matter thai/malaysian/vietnam and the list goes on, don't expect us as guys to shower them with money (even if not directly but in kind) and gifts in the process of wooing them? as the lady says, she don't mind staying in PRC, don't be surprise that they can live much more comfortably over there than in singapore.

RealEstateGuy: Someone else did. Brother, I got no enemies on this board. I'm only trying to help. I cant go back and reread all the threads, focus on things that advance me not points on this board. Im only trying to help the OP and someone attacked me. But its meaningless and I dont place high value on the attack nor willing to put up the energy to respond. The only thing I will do is try to help by reasoning with people. If it was not you then applogies brother.

RealEstateGuy, are u refering to my post above? i have already said "sorry, correct me if i m wrong" and yet somebody zapped me for don't know what reason.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

One of my good friend said Msia women is almost the same as SG women both are fxxk up personality.
Most of them find pinos, thais & viets as wife.

In short.. most of my friends like non-chinese women

They said non-chinese (SEA) are much less $$$-minded even when some of my friends lost their jobs during economy downturn.
Their foreign wifes (non-chinese) stand by them. They even said if foreign women (SEA) choose you because of love not your job or your money unlike Chinese women (SG, Msia & PRC)

please lah, every person (including men and women) who wants to go to live in another country (which also means away from their family and friends) their main purpose is to get a more comfortable life irregardless of race, religion, from which country and of course gender. of course if it means extra $$$$$, that will be a bonus lah!

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by sun814

please lah, every person (including men and women) who wants to go to live in another country (which also means away from their family and friends) their main purpose is to get a more comfortable life irregardless of race, religion, from which country and of course gender. of course if it means extra $$$$$, that will be a bonus lah!

Bro sun814, sometimes their countries have no future for them that why they have to leave their countries. They also know in another country does not guarantee a comfortable life. There is also hardships involved.

I think bro CD dog still like PRC girls despite PRC girls have the most bad reputation of all foreign women

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, love has no boundaries no borders and is unconditional. If you meet a gal who shows you that and you can do the same and trust each other then it doesnt matter if the are Pinoy Viet or whatever. Some Pinoy gals are very church minded. If you are too meeting one there should be quite good for you. Strolling around Orchard Towers and trying to convert a Pinoy from there is a doomed project. Im not saying its not possible but you need to look at the reality of things. I hope you brothers eventually quit this board or come here to advise others instead of looking for someone to support your doomed story when you know in your gut you are not thinking with your top head straight.

[HotSpot881]

I did married a nice, homely girl.. at the end, still have to seperate ... sigh

So answer is , No such things as taking prevention now.., how do u know what kind future can be ??

just a cup of milo can patched up after a heated quarrel, or just a simple argument can compound into a forever hatred, than divorce

A PRChicken can transform into a demure, caring wife or a simple, kampong girl can also transform into a money minded high class Chicks..

U can do alll sort of prevention, At the end its your still your fate too.

[justfuckit]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

PRC girls have the most bad reputation of all foreign women

Bro peggie, is it really so bad for prc girl's reputation? How you compare prc girl to the local sg girls?

PRC so big, there always good ones and bad ones. SG so small but still got good ones and bad ones, it is all how guys choose and his destiny

[justfuckit]

Originally Posted by justfuckit

PRC so big, there always good ones and bad ones. SG so small but still got good ones and bad ones, it is all how guys choose and his destiny

Sometimes just fuck and forget is the best choice

[MsChrome]

Originally Posted by HotSpot881

U can do alll sort of prevention, At the end its your still your fate too.

It remind me of a saying, "ren suan bu ru tian suan".

[hardpoke]

anyhow, thanks for all your opinions.. basically, i am just gathering some views to help my decision.. i won't marry her so fast lar.. just wonder if i should start a relationship with her and find out more.. anyway, you guys have been helpful.. thanks!

[arizona]

To be honest, I really dun understand the exotic numbers of local guyz really taken by the PRC woes and bitter life story and thus tot by providing them a roof over their top and a simple lifestyle will do...

Go all the troubles to get them here. Got tied up with ICA, monetary, lodging... for LOVE? Be pragmatic mates, what can u provide?

basically you cant even stand on own feet given that there is no career in this island let alone holding on to a job that is constantly rob by F-trash unless u venture and succeed in your biz( if you made it...). what cash you've got left? Then come the moderate house, 98% live or rent hdb units and mind you most on hire-purchase( who really own a hdb unit not counting the early dwellers in their old age), same goes with your 10 year car( if u can last that long and what car? a beemer? ).

CPF? cmon... so you think your PRC gf really stand by you ? how many ? Fxxk it, dun be brainwashed by the propaganda to settle down and start a family. There are plenty more stuff you can accomplish.

Today chinese paper got another case of prc bride halt all mating season becoz the hubby refuse to be a guarantor for her thus may jeopardize her PR status. tit for tat? If do a simple statistic count... usually those in the late 40s and above got caught, pants down dick high up long-lost love/lust found for PRC women, and they fall straight to it. cross-out left hanging high and dry, self-impose misery.

Those who travelled frequently and you are still stuck on PRC women in this island you r a goner mann...

GDI

[sun814]

another singaporean who grumbles and complains, pushes all the blames to foreigners.

[Peggie83]

Originally Posted by justfuckit

Bro peggie, is it really so bad for prc girl's reputation? How you compare prc girl to the local sg girls?

PRC so big, there always good ones and bad ones. SG so small but still got good ones and bad ones, it is all how guys choose and his destiny

bro just, don't get me wrong. I like PRC girls but the chinese press do not give a good opinion of PRC girls.

SG women & her families will look normally at men's earning power to determine his character or personality. The higher the better regardless evaluating the men's background.

PRC women also looking for men with good income but when choosing their life partners PRC women usually go for personality & whether the men that choose maybe average but their men must be willingly to work hard,upgrade themselves & strive to have a better life.


In today modern society, SG women is also very cunning not just PRC women.

PRC have a much larger than population than SG. So a small percentage of good pretty PRC girls say 1% is still bigger than the whole SG population.

I treated the PRC women & SG women equally my discussion is based on non-working ladies context.

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

anyhow, thanks for all your opinions.. basically, i am just gathering some views to help my decision.. i won't marry her so fast lar.. just wonder if i should start a relationship with her and find out more.. anyway, you guys have been helpful.. thanks!

We all hope you make the right decision, and happy forever hehe But sometimes future is difficulty to predicate lao

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by Peggie83

men must be willingly to work hard,upgrade themselves & strive to have a better life.

In today modern society, SG women is also very cunning not just PRC women.

Wooo, it sounds more like the Govment tone hehe, a good citizen to be choosen

SG woman just more materialzed, like woman in China's big city like Shanghai woman. most city female are more $$ minded and it doesnot matter which country they from