Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

If talking about going to Vietnam to cheong than no problem. But if going over to sian decent girls will be very difficult due to language problem.

If got language problem, then no matter u cheong or no cheong also have language problem. Even buying a drink by the roadside will be a big problem. One group of viet gals are quite interesting, they are the undergraduates. Young, pretty and some are sexy. Most of them speak english.

[69Sniper]

Originally Posted by boysaigon

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for any relationship, go in with your eye open wide wide lah...esp sin-vn relationship...they are good...very good...be careful not to fall into the traps and be more mindful not to miss 'real' good girls lah...i have fren who now live happily after with their vn ba xa...some guys just have all the luck...me, still looking...

me too me too!!!

i oso got 1 fren kena very goot vn wife, when we play mahjon overnite at his house she wah so goot bring us drinks & makan whole nite & neber sleep somemor, I velly envy him.....

me still lookin too.....

[69Sniper]

Originally Posted by SingViet

One group of viet gals are quite interesting, they are the undergraduates. Young, pretty and some are sexy. Most of them speak english.

wah brudder if u becum matchmaker can i be 1st cust????

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by 69Sniper

wah brudder if u becum matchmaker can i be 1st cust????

Wah lao bro. I am not match maker la.

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Vietnamese Mail Order Bride

Any bros tried matchmaking agencies before? Better than find baxa in laup bars right?

Hey Bro, you didn't notice the matchmaker drives a Honda Accord 2.4 V-Tec?
Do you think they earn nothing meh? Out of 10 marriage they provide, how many really are very happy?

I think you can go and find market research of those people..

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by 69Sniper

wah brudder if u becum matchmaker can i be 1st cust????

If you are seriously interested, bro SS08 got one good recommandation.

[happy000]

Right. it can be done and certified by a medical doctor in Singapore. I understand from Jason of lifepartnermatchmaker if no virigin price drop to half meaning $5,000 instead of $10,000 +++

Originally Posted by SammyHulk

Hah?? serious?? medical chkup i believe, certified virgin???

[happy000]

I still remember last year a friend of mine who is married to a Vietnamese gal introduce her cousin to me. Unfortunately I am interested in her neighbour and I suggested that my friend ask his wife to recommend her neighbour. But she said cannot as the whole village already know that she is bring a Singaporean guy to marry her cousin. No choice just have to go through the motion during the 3 days in the village and on the last day just give an excuse. Now I cannot go to that village arleady

Originally Posted by Thom07

If you are seriously interested, bro SS08 got one good recommandation.

[happy000]

In fact in HCM matchmaking to foreigners is illegal

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Is this the legal type of OKT?

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by SingViet

If got language problem, then no matter u cheong or no cheong also have language problem. Even buying a drink by the roadside will be a big problem. One group of viet gals are quite interesting, they are the undergraduates. Young, pretty and some are sexy. Most of them speak english.

Guess can only aim undergraduates if really want to go into serious relationship.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by happy000

I still remember last year a friend of mine who is married to a Vietnamese gal introduce her cousin to me. Unfortunately I am interested in her neighbour and I suggested that my friend ask his wife to recommend her neighbour. But she said cannot as the whole village already know that she is bring a Singaporean guy to marry her cousin. No choice just have to go through the motion during the 3 days in the village and on the last day just give an excuse. Now I cannot go to that village arleady

Yes bro. You are correct. The fact is that even before you went to the village, almost half the village already know that you will be introduced to that particular cousin. So u lan lan have to stick to their game plan when you are there. Gossiping is a favourite past time in Vietnam, especially the provinces. If nothing comes out of u and the cousin, its lost of face to the cousin and many people will start to gossip if the cousin have slept with u... hehehe

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by happy000

In fact in HCM matchmaking to foreigners is illegal

Bro, not only HCMC, but the whole vietnam. Although illegal, there are still lots of people doing it. first was get married to taiwanese, then to Singaporeans + Malaysians, then now the koreans.

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Yes bro. You are correct. The fact is that even before you went to the village, almost half the village already know that you will be introduced to that particular cousin. So u lan lan have to stick to their game plan when you are there. Gossiping is a favourite past time in Vietnam, especially the provinces. If nothing comes out of u and the cousin, its lost of face to the cousin and many people will start to gossip if the cousin have slept with u... hehehe

Yeah Bro SingViet, you are absolutely right. As though they get paid for gossiping. I think all of us here know why Vietnamese unable to strive out a career and unable to make money already, because they are busy with gossiping here and there everyday, every moment of their time, which after left with NO time to work and earn money.. I also had a hard time when i go there. Either you are a monster or a God of Fortune when you go there.. Everyone would be coming over to surround you, talk to you even you just smile back when you do not know how to speak. etc ... too much too list out..

If the bro went to their Village, remember to go to their KTV (those with gals), i think you would probably fainted, really like in your own room type, a small TV with a system, but luckily got air con..

Get a taste of their Village life also not bad..

[Honey Boon]

haha, like what?

tell "standardised" grandfather stories in order to ask for money; want face/hao lian; gossipping; spend long hours on phones; when they see their own breed, they can talk until cow come home; ........

whatever it it, we still enjoy the relationship with them right?

Originally Posted by SingViet

There are some things that's just `in the blood'.

[Honey Boon]

still got a lot of villages to go around .

Originally Posted by happy000

Now I cannot go to that village arleady