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nong hao...

brothers, how are you today? im working here in pudong, near jing mao and i would like to look up some local singaporean kaki to TCSS and learn some more tricks to the trade. apparently there always seems to be a very face value approach to get the best out of every deal. but also standing firm on whatever that has been agreed. how do you guys do it and last so long here? i dunno. but kudos to LKY and his kin. i speak chinese. that always help. your views greatly appreciated.

che we

[PuTonRen]

Bros SGP and Shengge,

Both of you have already shared quite a lot with brothers in this threads already. Please continue to do post for our benefits.

I am retiring from the "Chenog" scene very soon, and have no much things to share anymore. The brothers here depend on you on the sharing of information and experience.

With best regards

PTR

Originally Posted by nongho

Hi there,

"Sister" can also means their cousins or good friends. As China has only a 1 child policy.

cheers
nongho

that would make more sense...thanks.
at another place, one pair of "sisters" were from hubei, another pair from fujian. each pair indicated they were sisters, confirmed by me showing them "sister" in an english to chinese dictionary. this really surprised me as they all looked quite different and didn't seem at all embarrassed by each other during threesomes.

so is there a chinese word for REAL sister, I wonder?

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bros SGP and Shengge,

Both of you have already shared quite a lot with brothers in this threads already. Please continue to do post for our benefits.

I am retiring from the "Chenog" scene very soon, and have no much things to share anymore. The brothers here depend on you on the sharing of information and experience.

With best regards

PTR

Dear Big Bro PTR,
Thank you utmostly for the compliments you've for me. I'm very flattered!
I'm only sharing whatever encounters or info I have here with all bros, dun think I deserved any of these big flattery.
I am also on the verge of 'retiring' from the S'hai scene being that work load is getting heavier as well as my dear 'Empress' is watching very closely! But I guessed it's also the usual scenes & encounters that makes me too 'sian' of it all.....
Nowadays, I spent most of my time at work till late, after work is usually spend with my 'Empress' dinner every night, then back home to just simply relax watching DVDs, movies. Simple, family life now! Weekends are pretty much the same either at work in office or staying home indoors, spending time with my her.
I will still continue to contrbute whatever info I can share here with all bros unless the info are outdated or simply too irrelevant...pardon me if any of my info contrbuted here now & before are outdated & have caused any bros here misunderstanding or unpleasantness.
Thank you.
Best regards to all bros....

[marji]

Originally Posted by cateyes1001

..... I am afraid to live alone in her gf empty appt. Yes, afraid. Afraid of boredom and loneliness. I have got no friends in SHA except my gf and her gf only. .

just read this and would like to add my 2 cents worth if the bros don't mind...

I have lived in china for 2+years back in 2000-2002 and will be moving to china again for a couple of years soon next month.

Although I am on a nice expat package enjoying the high life, partying almost every night, bonking different girls everyday, good food nice apartment, etc, BUT loneliness can be a HUGE issue. After all the fun, you are still all alone in a foreign country.

I wished I was more active in Sammyboy back then so maybe I would have met more Sg friends.... Felt lonely inside sometimes....

I remember on during X'mas period in Beijing, 1 morning I woke up, opened the window and it was snowing! It was a beautiful sight but suddenly I felt so lonely and misses my friends and family back home so much... a few tears just rolled down uncontrollably....

So I can understand what bro cateyes means by "afraid of broedom & loneliness"....

Hope I didn't bore the bros here!! me outta here....

Forgive me for being stupid, but what is PM? i want to contact some of the bros here as i'll arrive in s'hai on 11Jul. and bro SGP says to pm? how to do that?
Have a good Cheong Day

[tsuyoyi]

Bro PTR,

Please don't retire! We need you! Badly! all the NTTL gals need you! All the mummies need you! They will definitely miss your warmth and secure feeling that you always provide. How can we ever make it up to them?
We need you badly!

As everyone can see, the thread is mainly due to the precious contributions by yourself, Bro SGPShanghai69, shengge, ascott, sinoview etc etc.
Without you and even SGPShanghai69, this thread will definitely miss your presence! Just like myself, we gradually do not have much time to cheong or write much, but when we do, it is usually QUALITY over QUANTITY, right?
The QUALITY will def be helpful to the bros here.......

See you all soon!
Cheong ah!

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bros SGP and Shengge,

Both of you have already shared quite a lot with brothers in this threads already. Please continue to do post for our benefits.

I am retiring from the "Chenog" scene very soon, and have no much things to share anymore. The brothers here depend on you on the sharing of information and experience.

With best regards

PTR

[shengge]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bros SGP and Shengge,
Both of you have already shared quite a lot with brothers in this threads already. Please continue to do post for our benefits.
I am retiring from the "Chenog" scene very soon, and have no much things to share anymore. The brothers here depend on you on the sharing of information and experience.
PTR

Dear Bro PTR,
You should have not mentioned my name, cos I got nothing much to offer. Beside giving you on some streets direction in Shanghai, I don't even know where to go. That's why, some bros have PM me for cheong places, I have to say sorry.
Well, I know a few HCs （posted by some bros here）, not familiar with KTV, don know any mummy, not to mentioned about the Tua Liap Ni....haha （Like tongue twister huh）
No wonder this site is getting less active, since Bro Shanghaitan left, you are retiring........... I think may be bros junior_cannibal should take the lead.
Shanghai is changing very fast, what I have gone thru was already history, most bros here, especially new comers in Shanghai really know how to survive here.
Anyway, really hope to see you around!
Take care!

[shengge]

Originally Posted by tsuyoyi

Just like myself, we gradually do not have much time to cheong or write much, but when we do, it is usually QUALITY over QUANTITY, right?
The QUALITY will def be helpful to the bros here.......

Bro tsuyoyi,
I thought young man like you, you get the quality out of the quantity that you had, as you always do it like no tomorrow. As such, please feel free to share some FR, I am sure many bros like to read and they will up your points.
Cheers!
SG

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by tsuyoyi

Bro PTR,

Please don't retire! We need you! Badly! all the NTTL gals need you! All the mummies need you! They will definitely miss your warmth and secure feeling that you always provide. How can we ever make it up to them?
We need you badly!

Dear Bro Tsuyoyi,

Thank you for your kind words that I am not sure I merit them. I have my fair share of fun and experience (both positive and negative) over the past 12 years or so in China. I am getting old and hence my small brother down south. I cannot do it like there is no tomorrow like you, young turk!

For the NTTL gals and mummies, there are many people more precious than me in this thread, and I am sure they are more than willing, much better than me in sharing information with brothers here. You know how to get me, when you are in Shanghai, we can go for a cup of TEA, without milk (from NTTL gals). I need to concentrate on my company in Shanghai, and need to work hard, rahter than cheong hard.

My wish from you is to request you to share information with the brothers here and yours truly. I shall let you know when I wash my small brother with golden container. Hahahaha....

See you soon.

PTR aka UFO (Ugly, Fat and OLD (Really old))

[Ascott]

Bro. SGP69,
Any TCSS this week?

Ascott

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by lobo1

Forgive me for being stupid, but what is PM? i want to contact some of the bros here as i'll arrive in s'hai on 11Jul. and bro SGP says to pm? how to do that?
Have a good Cheong Day

Dear Bro Lobo1,
To PM is to send a Private Message to any one here simply by clicking on the nickname off that person u want to send the PM to.
Hope that helps u bro.
Hear from u soon.

Regards,

[SGPshanghai69]

Originally Posted by Ascott

Bro. SGP69,
Any TCSS this week?

Ascott

Dear Big Bro Ascott,
Greetings from Shanghai.
When will u be back here? Will arrange for another one when u r here.

We just had a little gathering last with afew new bros here (Bro Cateyes001, Caffeine, WakkO, Frankie) had makan at a Jap rest followed by drinks at Manhatan Bar on Tong Ren Road. Wonderful time we had! Thanks for being there bros....shall do it again sometime soon.

Regards.

[cateyes1001]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Dear Big Bro Ascott,
Greetings from Shanghai.
When will u be back here? Will arrange for another one when u r here.
We just had a little gathering last with afew new bros here (Bro Cateyes001, Caffeine, WakkO, Frankie) had makan at a Jap rest followed by drinks at Manhatan Bar on Tong Ren Road. Wonderful time we had! Thanks for being there bros....shall do it again sometime soon.
Regards.

Hi,
Had a good time last nite. Thanks SGPshanghai69 for taking time and effort for arranging the gathering. I appreciate it.
I think we should try VIP next time. I heard it is happening there but I do not know where is that place.
Cateyes1001

[PuTonRen]

Dear All,

Before I retire from the scene, please allow me to share with you my experience with Free Loaders, a kind of persons that Bro DumbAss, Bro SGP and many others have encountered.

Few years ago, I was still in Beijing quite often. Whenever Singaporeans came to town and contacted me, I would bring them around, and at times went places with them. However, this group of people was not limited only to people who just arrived or were new to China, it included some old timers whose names I would not reveal in this open forum. What I am going to describe would also happen in other cities, such as Shanghai.

Their modes of operation were quite simple. For example, when we went to a KTV with some brothers amongst whom some of them were newbies, some were old timers. The usual things happened, choosing girls, ordering drinks, Singing, talking, etc...Then came the bill paying time. This was the moment the free loaders would reveal themselves, and there were several things that would happen:

1. Very often, we found this type amongst the old timers: They would pretending to be drunk, and not knowing what you told them about the cost, etc. Strange enough, they were able to find their way home, sometimes with a girl. I am sure finding a way home would be more difficult to paying up the share. I am also certain that he knew how much to pay the taxi driver, and, perhaps the girls. Beware of old timers whom you are not familiar with, but know that they are old timers in the city.

2. This type happens more among the low-class newbies, and at times, the old timers. Going to KTV, before bill paying time, they would go to the toilets, sometimes with a girl, and disappeared.

3. This type happens both in newbies and old timers. They would stay until bill paying time. They would ask you to pay first. When asked to pay their share to you, they would say that they did not have enough money and would pay you later. Ask yourself when he would pay you? Probably, the next time when you ask him to go KTV, he would tell you that "Sorry I am busy"

Bro DumbAss and others, maybe you can also add on other modes of operation to educate brothers in this forum.

My advice to brothers here is that, please "Cheong: with style and honesty to your own brothers. For newbies that you do not know, do tell them about the likely cost, and do it like the KEFOS group is doing (and I think it is great), ask everyone to pay up front. Some of the old timers who behaved like free-loaders are still in the forum. To you, please wise up and be honest. Do not let people reveal you mode of operation.

To newbies, please note that many of us really do not need to, or do not really like to go KTV. We do so to accompany you and to bring you around. At the same time, we pay our own share. Please be honest.

If I am free, I may recount some of my personal experience.
My 2 cent worth.

Always a Simple Man