Want to set up 2 family....

[EtherC]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

So i convert to muslim and cut skin?

If you can’t take the pain , perhaps you are not deserving of the gain?

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I really can't take it anymore....i really want to set up 2 family. One in Europe, one Singapore

But i already married here and i hate life in Singapore but love it in Europe. My wife don't want migrate.

Problem is europe need to send a certificate of right to marry (bachelorhood) from Singapore.

ROM say they don't issue but will issue a search of Marriage in data base as proof.

THE ROM database search is not proof that someone is single or married - it just shows how many times you have been married before.

Someone who is divorced (once) will still have his original marriage entry against his IC number on the ROM database, with no indication whatsoever that he is now divorced.

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

THE ROM database search is not proof that someone is single or married - it just shows how many times you have been married before.

Someone who is divorced (once) will still have his original marriage entry against his IC number on the ROM database, with no indication whatsoever that he is now divorced.

Thinking of submitting a fake document to EU country.

Anyway i am in a sexless marriage with my wife. I do love her and kid but totally no sexual desire when with her. Ppl tell me its time to quit but i can't. It's a wonderful family but j felt "dead" inside me everytime i come back Singapore. I am happy to see them but the excitement of life is gone, like there is nothing to look forward to. But its opposite when i go back europe, its like a whole new world possibilities and puxxy to explore...such wretched man I am. Sigh

[fallen11]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

But its opposite when i go back europe, its like a whole new world possibilities and puxxy to explore...such wretched man I am. Sigh

so i still dont understand why you need to marry again?

[Peacekeeping]

The more you say the more I suspect you not thinking clearly. Ask yourself, is the love you experienced in europe real? Did you kena kamcheng?

[EtherC]

This is call backside itchy.

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Thinking of submitting a fake document to EU country.

Anyway i am in a sexless marriage with my wife. I do love her and kid but totally no sexual desire when with her. Ppl tell me its time to quit but i can't. It's a wonderful family but j felt "dead" inside me everytime i come back Singapore. I am happy to see them but the excitement of life is gone, like there is nothing to look forward to. But its opposite when i go back europe, its like a whole new world possibilities and puxxy to explore...such wretched man I am. Sigh

justwanadoit, you are starting another thread about your situation? No offense but do you seriously expect any different POVs (point of views) from the last?

Honestly nobody here will tell you how to set up your second family, why? because there is no formula to do it. There are so many factors involve, your lifestyle, lifestyles of your wife(s), money, time etc. and each person is different...what works for one may not work for another, can you get that into your head??

calling a spade a spade, the only you have to remember is that legally the kid(s) of your european partner will be illegitimate; if you and the mother are ok, then?

Everyone's life (and experience) is different...

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by iluvbreast

justwanadoit, you are starting another thread about your situation? No offense but do you seriously expect any different POVs (point of views) from the last?

Honestly nobody here will tell you how to set up your second family, why? because there is no formula to do it. There are so many factors involve, your lifestyle, lifestyles of your wife(s), money, time etc. and each person is different...what works for one may not work for another, can you get that into your head??

calling a spade a spade, the only you have to remember is that legally the kid(s) of your european partner will be illegitimate; if you and the mother are ok, then?

Everyone's life (and experience) is different...

Hi bro, it warms my heart you still remember me. I struggling between stability of loving family and my desire for novelty and excitement overseas. I am as honest as i can be here. Its been almost 2 yrs since i last posted and i still having the same challenge. Asking for advice from people of various experiences is always better than no advice right

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Hi bro, it warms my heart you still remember me. I struggling between stability of loving family and my desire for novelty and excitement overseas. I am as honest as i can be here. Its been almost 2 yrs since i last posted and i still having the same challenge. Asking for advice from people of various experiences is always better than no advice right

Wow I also feel touched that both of you still remember each other after 2yrs. This pandemic is not all bad, it can give birth to new friendships

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping

The more you say the more I suspect you not thinking clearly. Ask yourself, is the love you experienced in europe real? Did you kena kamcheng?

The European girls are all independent, they have no lack of finance because the system there sponsor you even if you have no jobs. Most of the girls are well educated, sporty and have good jobs. They have free time to pursue their own interest and develop both body and soul.

When you date they always be happy to go Dutch. The European girls i know they even ferry me around in their cars. So its totally no kam cheng

[iluvbreast]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

Hi bro, it warms my heart you still remember me. I struggling between stability of loving family and my desire for novelty and excitement overseas. I am as honest as i can be here. Its been almost 2 yrs since i last posted and i still having the same challenge. Asking for advice from people of various experiences is always better than no advice right

not the cockles of your heart?

Then again, my older colleague does have 2 families, I recently found out my ex-boss have 3 (2 in Singapore and 1 in Malaysia)! Maybe the older generations are way better than us...

Although, I beg to differ (to your argument); in this case no advice is better than the wrong advice, sure everyone will tell you from their experience, but then again do they tell you the whole thing?

Like I said this kind of thing, depends on you, your wife and your european girl friend as well as your life, something which nobody else can fully understand.

[papanapa]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I really can't take it anymore....i really want to set up 2 family. One in Europe, one Singapore

But i already married here and i hate life in Singapore but love it in Europe. My wife don't want migrate.

Problem is europe need to send a certificate of right to marry (bachelorhood) from Singapore.

ROM say they don't issue but will issue a search of Marriage in data base as proof.

migrate to europe dont need to marry i think ? find a job there work there stay there. u have kids?

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by papanapa

migrate to europe dont need to marry i think ? find a job there work there stay there. u have kids?

I already been staying in Europe for many years alone without my Singapore family. Fk a quite a few angmo charbo but just could not bring myself to start a family with them even though there is love because of my Singapore family connection

[riotspace]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I already been staying in Europe for many years alone without my Singapore family. Fk a quite a few angmo charbo but just could not bring myself to start a family with them even though there is love because of my Singapore family connection

Bro I'm just curious what your wife reaction will be if you slowtalk her and say you want mistress or family overseas. Have entertained the thought before but no guts to ask mine. I mean last time if our forefathers can do it, surely there's a precedent? Albeit the situation, education and society is different now.

[papanapa]

Originally Posted by justwanadoit

I already been staying in Europe for many years alone without my Singapore family. Fk a quite a few angmo charbo but just could not bring myself to start a family with them even though there is love because of my Singapore family connection

hmmm if you have already been living alone for years, you like it there they dont want to move over, so... it is like a long distance relationship... with kids ?