Advice From the Bros please ... Extra Marital Affair

[crood]

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yr friend got read newspaper about china girl kena kill & bbq by 51 year marry man?

Yup, that man look so ah Peh! What did the pretty prc see in him?
**Faint**

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Then ur Friend is the prob not the guy... isn’t it?

Wan or dun Wan to give up? Not can or cannot

Only she can help herself... like I mention in this forum u can get some of the best advise ard here definitely better than auntie agony... prob is ppl don’t listen to them and choose to follow their heart instead

Yup, sound like ownself kc by the lady herself.
Just don't think too much and focus on work itself if it gets too hard, is more professional to move on.

[Marq]

There are always ppl like this, especially girls. The stupid ‘I know its wrong but I still love him’ kind of shit statement. Confronting/Making a decision is not causing drama, its called moving on. Infact, staying on IS making drama

[crood]

Originally Posted by Marq

There are always ppl like this, especially girls. The stupid ‘I know its wrong but I still love him’ kind of shit statement. Confronting/Making a decision is not causing drama, its called moving on. Infact, staying on IS making drama

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

Yup, sound like ownself kc by the lady herself.
Just don't think too much and focus on work itself if it gets too hard, is more professional to move on.

Yea Lor .. like 自作多情，自作自受。
Anyway she has been reading and she appreciate all the replies。

This is the song that she has dedicate for u guys :-)

[YELLOW]

nonsex involved leh .... maybe this ger loves the guy but the guy no response .... jus treat her as fren...

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Tell her it will never work. The guy is looking for free pussy without paying.
Tell her to tell him that she wants to stop. Period.
Prepare her resume, just in case.
Either way, involved with him or not career prospects same same.
If she thinks otherwise, then she wants to use her charms to get her way. In that case, she should not complain as that is her moral decision.
Don't after few years,go n join MeToo.
Now open eyes big big n see.
If want to eat, don't complain

[c0cktailov3r]

Originally Posted by crood

Better not eat and shit at same place.

So true!! Well said.

[yasuohate1]

I'm struggling to see how this is an extra marital affair in any way. There's no sex, no flirting, no mention of time spent away from family, just alot of constant coaching (as what a superior should do).

The only thing that remotely points to any flirting on the guys part is that he finds ways to get her attention but even this is not substantiated.

Perhaps there is something we are not seeing or maybe you haven't shared clearly. But like what other bros say, I suspect your friend might be reading too much into it and she might have had a crush on her boss.

[sexresearcher]

Agreed. It is technically not an affair but what I call love entanglement. I see it even as a one way street in some sense.

She can please find another job or he has to. There is no point mixing it up and screwing up their careers and those loved ones around them.

It's quite a clean cut IMHO. Much better than some of the shit other bros have gotten themselves into.

没完没了

[superdogsg]

Should be easy to move on if no sex is involved. Worse case is to change job. Pay cut better than heart pain

[c0cktailov3r]

Girl dont like guy, is so easy to reject.
But guy dont like girl, is more difficult to reject.

[crood]

Thanks guys

My Friend is moving on and has told him very clearly after finding out that he has been treating the other gals the same too with lovely dovey messages calling every female dear, �� and give an hug.

Maybe he is just looking for a easy target, that’s all.

She has been leaded on and she has wake up to her sense.

[dvilla]

Originally Posted by c0cktailov3r

Girl dont like guy, is so easy to reject.
But guy dont like girl, is more difficult to reject.

well, not true though. might or might not be difficult to reject. and sometimes it could be a case of like, but cannot be together.