My wife accuses me of pawning her stuff which she cannot find. How do I prove my inno

[orangeproud]

Ask her to recount if she misplaced in d office, function place or anyplace outside. Next time, valuable item place in a safe better.

[gilacewek]

Originally Posted by sadfa

This kind of small family squabble you oso wan to air in public.

Just tell her ya limpeh did it.
You don't shutup limpeh oso pawn u later.
N drink a bottle of stout bottoms up.

Show her who's the man of the house.

Wooho bro i like your style. Looks like the ts kia his wife. Best advice bro. Cheers.
I also lim stout now

[BeverlyCrusher]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

The immediate issue is I cannot find the items she claims are lost. In future a safe would be useful.

I think u are a parrot, kid. Stop your nonsense or I wallop u.

[passiontea]

How come your income is not combined with your wife? You meant to say that the house living expenses is always divide by 2?

[SupremeMaster]

The more you explain the worst it is and so best for TS to keep quiet.

[Hngata92]

you help her find the stuff.. or check if she was the one who pawned them herself.

[Happy555]

Since ur doing very well, buy new one give her la.

[FreebiezWanker]

Since she dun believe u, say u din pawn, u just say u gave to ur number 2. Simple. Can find a new one after she leaves u.

[dinzmarck]

Just ignore her lah.... god know where it is.... she will soon realize how stupid she is to accuse you... you do it for a reason and that reason is for your family mah... so just ignore lor...

[BMW69]

If there's no trust between the two of you then what's the point?

[orangeproud]

I feel that in order to buy a new jewellery to replace her lost 1 is not a wise move as there's will be 2nd, 3rd, 4th.....countless times especially she has this bad habit of misplace, if really wan to buy, better buy her a safe ask her to safeguard her valuable jewellery properly, no more finger pointing & accusing u again if she can't find.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

I feel that in order to buy a new jewellery to replace her lost 1 is not a wise move as there's will be 2nd, 3rd, 4th.....countless times especially she has this bad habit of misplace, if really wan to buy, better buy her a safe ask her to safeguard her valuable jewellery properly, no more finger pointing & accusing u again if she can't find.

Wahlao. Youre seriously advising him on this????
Every family got complicated problems n difficult to solve. Not possible to offer perfect solution.

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sadfa

Wahlao. Youre seriously advising him on this????
Every family got complicated problems n difficult to solve. Not possible to offer perfect solution.

I juz suggest him, it's up to him to decide mah.

It's no a perfect solution, juz an alternative way to prevent occurrence finger pointing & quarrel.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by orangeproud

I juz suggest him, it's up to him to decide mah.

It's no a perfect solution, juz an alternative way to prevent occurrence finger pointing & quarrel.

Please la.

The quarrel is the outer issue.
The inner issue is no trust n other problems between the couple which outsiders don't know n can't get into.

So no point offering solutions to a superficial problem

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by sadfa

Please la.

The quarrel is the outer issue.
The inner issue is no trust n other problems between the couple which outsiders don't know n can't get into.

So no point offering solutions to a superficial problem

Since TS here is asking 4 our advice, n bros & sis here also give him some suggestions to this matter. We juz suggest to him, it's up to him to decide wat he shld do next. If he really wan a more professional advice, he can go for family counsellor.