Faked orgasm with bf

[exge]

TS my gf also has a similar problem she only can cum in 1 position. maybe you just haven't found yours yet? If you like rubbing your clit can try cowgirl, at least thats how she cums.

But even if she cannot, she will tell me lol so we both know each other's style very well. still, no session ends without her cumming, so sometimes just end up rubbing her clit till she cums.

good luck

[halcyon77]

hi sis,

speaking from experience, I think communication is the key.
my gf and me love to share what excites and stimulates us and this, in turn, makes us both super horny and adventurous to try different positions, use different techniques and fuck in different locations.
anyway, as long as you both feel good when you fuck, then the orgasm shldnt be the be all and end all, shld it?
it's not exactly a competition that you both must come during fucking right?
just enjoy the session and each others' fluids and let nature take its own course.
don't put pressure on your bf to make you come but like what the bros say, encourage and maybe talk dirty to turn him on.
hope this helps!

[DemonicSS]

Hi TS,

You may want to try using a toy. It should somewhat reduce your time needed to stimulate yourself. Perhaps guide him to use it on you Use non invasive ones like a bullet.

Good luck

[Nikkikoh]

As a girl...
Toys help and really can help spice up the sex life.
But first ask him if its okay first....
Some guys don't like it as it will hurt there ego.

[Blackenrose]

Originally Posted by royaling

Will i crush his ego if i tell him i've never come with him before? :/

Yah, actually most guys are quite concern whether they can make you have the big O. So I suggest just keep it to yourself first.. Try out more positions with him.. You might find some "acrobatic" styles would bring out the big O in you. Just remember to make him feel you want him, I think that is important to keep up the drive..
Oh 1 more thing, dress up, relax, feel sexy, it will really ease the path for you to get to your big O as well..

[DemonicSS]

Originally Posted by Nikkikoh

As a girl...
Toys help and really can help spice up the sex life.
But first ask him if its okay first....
Some guys don't like it as it will hurt there ego.

I will be delighted to know that toys get my partner off. nothing beats what will actually help you. But personally, if a guy's ego is really that small, I would really ask you to ditch him, too emo for anyone's benefit.

[fictionman]

For me, i always started off kissing then slowly move down to her breast...fondle it gently & kiss gently her nipple...Once her nipple is steam, i go down to her pussy...Lick it gently at first...Then attack her clit...My gf always will say "yes dear...tts the spot" while grabing my head...Then insert my finger into her love hole...Licking & finger fuck at the same time..I knw she likes it very much...

Usually i will lick her ard 5 to 7mins...Always make sure she cums...She always will push me away once she cums coz too sensitive aldy...Tts my cue to fuck her wz my cock...Think she only cums when i lick her

My point is unless i can fuck like a porn star non-stop thrusting, my tongue will always be mightier then my cock...Diff ppl got diff way of cummin...Try to guide him how u wat him to lick u or which position u like to be fuck

We all have our flaws

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by Nikkikoh

As a girl...
Toys help and really can help spice up the sex life.
But first ask him if its okay first....
Some guys don't like it as it will hurt there ego.

Toy is a good idea if sis TS is keen to explore deeper, is a good way to elevate your pleasure senses. You can chat with your bf about it to test his reaction.

[mcyeoh]

Originally Posted by OsamaBinLaden

he cant satisfy u... i can... seriously...
he might know that he cant satisfy u during sex... he should hv at least made up for it by making u climax in other ways...
i can show u how...

only a fucked up new generation singaporean guy will think this way...ARE NEW GENERATION SINGAPOREAN GUYS THAT WEAK, TINY, SICK, INSECURE AND NOT TO MENTION PUNY NOWADAYS..NO WONDER THE WHOLE MALE SPECIES SS LAUGHING AT YOUR RACE..HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

[risingeast]

I think for the next round, try not to fake an orgasm, and after that, tell your bf that he need to put more effort in the foreplay and more imaginative ways in the love making. Probably end up you getting your orgasm, and he getting more from the prolonged love making. I always will work to get my partner to orgasm, and when she does, I feel very good.

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by risingeast

I think for the next round, try not to fake an orgasm, and after that, tell your bf that he need to put more effort in the foreplay and more imaginative ways in the love making. Probably end up you getting your orgasm, and he getting more from the prolonged love making. I always will work to get my partner to orgasm, and when she does, I feel very good.

wow. I can imagine after her BF shoot and "arggggg"
she turn around and say "bey song leh"

[Falicia]

fake orgasm is a no no