First time visiting hookers. Help!

[TommyPingPong]

Read the sexual health section. If you scared, go the legal GL houses first to 壮胆. They are subjected to health check and at no means will bbbj or raw with you and the way they clean you up and remove the used condoms is pro.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by TommyPingPong

Read the sexual health section. If you scared, go the legal GL houses first to 壮胆. They are subjected to health check and at no means will bbbj or raw with you and the way they clean you up and remove the used condoms is pro.

They go for health checks but only a handful of tests are done. They are not checked for Hep B / C, Herpes and HPV etc.

The legal whores are tested for HIV, Syphilis, Chlamydia and Gonorrhea and that's it. They can also catch infections in between tests and pass it on. By the time they discover the infection, they could have already infected numerous customers.

[Summerhillt]

just go fuck your right hand la

[incognito]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I have never fucked a whore. I don't want to take the risk. It is not worth the consequences for me.

However, everyone has a different perception of risk and some view the risk to be worth the reward. Some are scared shitless after the first episode but gradually get bolder if they emerged unscathed.

Condoms do not make the risk virtually nil. In fact, condoms offer very little protection from viral infections that are transmitted via skin to skin contact eg Herpes and Genital Warts.

At the end of the day, it's your life. Your destiny is in your own hands. If you want reassurance that everything will be fine, it won't come from me as I have seen lives ruined. Check out Dr Tan's blog for a reality check.

Why the need to fuck whores in the first place? Is there something missing in your life? Is it emotional or physical or a combination of both or are you just curious because of all the stories you read here?

Your responses are most helpful and informative, really appreciate them.

There are 4 reasons why I am looking to visit whores:
1. Some of them are really gorgeous.
2. Reading FRs make me on edge
3. Real life is drab, lacklustre, and largely mundane and boring and I could use a sizable dose of excitement.
4. A guy's biological desire to fuck > 1 woman

Given the risks for the customers, I could imagine it is exponentially worse for the FLs themselves. I really wonder why they would they place themselves squarely in harm's way knowing the potential consequences. What's the point of all that money when you're stricken with an STD that could devastate your life? Do they know something that we don't?

Could it be that they think that in practice, it's rare, much like in the case of driving wherein there's always a slim possibility of getting into a fatal accident but people still do it anyway because such incidents are relatively few and far between?


It seems to me that there are only five possible transmission vectors. Namely, blood, vaginal fluid, semen, saliva, and skin.

1. Is vag fluid a medium if you don't swallow it? i.e. it remains in the mouth and is then spitted out or it merely gets onto the body. (Painting, fingering)

2. Is saliva one of them? (Frenching)

3. You mentioned skin contact. I was rather taken aback hearing that. Does that mean that if you merely hold hands with a friend with, say, herpes, you will be infected? Or do you mean only if the skin is in some way scraped, broken or cut?

4. If say, you come into contact with the whore's blood. (e.g. She gives you a BBBJ and she has an ulcer or cut in her mouth or lips and it gets onto your dick) Does infection only happen if her blood enters your bloodstream? What if it merely get's onto your body?

5. Am I right in saying that infection occurs only if any of the a/m fluids (excluding skin) enters your bloodstream through means other than penetration, which the condom takes care off, or gets swallowed? So, if you don't have any cuts and you don't swallow anything risk is precluded?

I am a complete noob, thanks for putting up with my numerous queries!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by incognito

Your responses are most helpful and informative, really appreciate them.

There are 4 reasons why I am looking to visit whores:
1. Some of them are really gorgeous.
2. Reading FRs make me on edge
3. Real life is drab, lacklustre, and largely mundane and boring and I could use a sizable dose of excitement.
4. A guy's biological desire to fuck > 1 woman

Given the risks for the customers, I could imagine it is exponentially worse for the FLs themselves. I really wonder why they would they place themselves squarely in harm's way knowing the potential consequences. What's the point of all that money when you're stricken with an STD that could devastate your life? Do they know something that we don't?

Could it be that they think that in practice, it's rare, much like in the case of driving wherein there's always a slim possibility of getting into a fatal accident but people still do it anyway because such incidents are relatively few and far between?


It seems to me that there are only five possible transmission vectors. Namely, blood, vaginal fluid, semen, saliva, and skin.

1. Is vag fluid a medium if you don't swallow it? i.e. it remains in the mouth and is then spitted out or it merely gets onto the body. (Painting, fingering)

2. Is saliva one of them? (Frenching)

3. You mentioned skin contact. I was rather taken aback hearing that. Does that mean that if you merely hold hands with a friend with, say, herpes, you will be infected? Or do you mean only if the skin is in some way scraped, broken or cut?

4. If say, you come into contact with the whore's blood. (e.g. She gives you a BBBJ and she has an ulcer or cut in her mouth or lips and it gets onto your dick) Does infection only happen if her blood enters your bloodstream? What if it merely get's onto your body?

5. Am I right in saying that infection occurs only if any of the a/m fluids (excluding skin) enters your bloodstream through means other than penetration, which the condom takes care off, or gets swallowed? So, if you don't have any cuts and you don't swallow anything risk is precluded?

I am a complete noob, thanks for putting up with my numerous queries!

Whores do it for the money. It's a quick way to relative luxury and they are willing to take the risk in order to achieve their objectives.

With regards to the various questions on STDs and transmission, there is already plenty of information on the net. Use google.

EG if I google "herpes transmission" this is what comes up :

http://www.iwannaknow.org/teens/sti/herpes.html

How do I get herpes?

Herpes is transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact. You can get herpes from touching someone else's skin that has herpes, including:

Kissing someone with a cold sore
Oral, anal and vaginal sex
Touching any area infected with herpes

There are also many stickies above containing useful links and useful information. There's no point repeating everything over and over again.

[pearlnjewel]

ts I know the whores are really chio, this is an addiction, you start you can't stop liao, its hard to quit like smoking.

I understand that life is mundane here becos girls are so hard to get, especially the girl we like, we crave for intimacy but can't get any. I suppose its your environment that is pushing you to this adventure. Try to change your environment or the way you look at things, hopefully that will get you in good books of some pretty girls. Or do some extreme activities.

Going to fl does not help. In the end, if you choose to go, you will feel guilt towards your future gf or loved ones, risking stds and upping a underage girl unknowingly, those girls will not care whether you get jailed, the most they get sent back to their country.

[Andyly]

Haven't visited a Hooker for a year and counting now. Used to visit one every 4 to 5 months for 3 to 4 years before the stress and worry of STDs got to me. Even when my knowledge of STD transmission has widened (hence me stopping) it's still so tempting. Used to see hookers overseas and price was inhibiting more visits, but here in SG, much cheaper and temptations definitely higher. In the end of the day, TS sounds like you have many concerns and researched thoroughly, sounded like myself when I first started. Really just wanted someone to say "it's ok, you'll be fine"
Unfortunately no one knows, what we do know is that if you go down this path, you might not be fine and it's definitely not worth it.
I came out unscathed. Had a bout of clam a few years ago (still did not stop) that resolved with antibiotics, considered very lucky. Now life caught up with me and I have too much to lose.
Think TS should find a better hobby.

[Aladeen]

ts, before u go see or book FL, u jerk off first, then u save money bcoz no urge anymore.
if u still got urge, jerk off 1 more time.

[vivianee]

Originally Posted by pearlnjewel

ts I know the whores are really chio, this is an addiction, you start you can't stop liao, its hard to quit like smoking.

I understand that life is mundane here becos girls are so hard to get, especially the girl we like, we crave for intimacy but can't get any. I suppose its your environment that is pushing you to this adventure. Try to change your environment or the way you look at things, hopefully that will get you in good books of some pretty girls. Or do some extreme activities.

Going to fl does not help. In the end, if you choose to go, you will feel guilt towards your future gf or loved ones, risking stds and upping a underage girl unknowingly, those girls will not care whether you get jailed, the most they get sent back to their country.

agree with u.

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by pearlnjewel

ts I know the whores are really chio, this is an addiction, you start you can't stop liao, its hard to quit like smoking.

I understand that life is mundane here becos girls are so hard to get, especially the girl we like, we crave for intimacy but can't get any. I suppose its your environment that is pushing you to this adventure. Try to change your environment or the way you look at things, hopefully that will get you in good books of some pretty girls. Or do some extreme activities.

Going to fl does not help. In the end, if you choose to go, you will feel guilt towards your future gf or loved ones, risking stds and upping a underage girl unknowingly, those girls will not care whether you get jailed, the most they get sent back to their country.

Find intimacy elsewhere if you can't be stone cold, and heartless to break off the r/s. This game is not for the faint hearted.