Need advice to hook up with a guy

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by mymail

Hey Sis, please do the risk calculation. Don't bump around. Rather you take things slow and observe first. What if he reject you, how are you going to work in that environment?

I actually don't get to work with him so even if he upfront reject me I can still live with it. I don't even see him at work daily because our work scopes are totally different

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by tigerwoody74

31 high flyer .... And very likely to climb even higher

Chances are he will not shit in his own back yard.

If he is Notti type , he will very likely take it outside work place.

I might be wrong thg.

Cheers.

My thoughts exactly. If he is the don't eat & shit at same place sort then no chance for me to hook up with him liao. But if I don't try I won't know. Maybe not so upfront approach him to ask him be fbs right away

Hey, even Bill Clinton hooked up with his intern so I'll keep my fingers crossed

[AmeShin]

To ask directly may not be advisable

Rather ask contact for future dates or drinking would be better as he may catch the hint

Also by doing so its not really immoral

As the incident could be initiated by him not you. Who knows

If you ask direct of ons or fb then yes its immoral
Worse knowing he had a family and you soon will have one too


But if he don't mind staying contact with you then the immoral feel will be lowered.

As only decent guys or strong morality guy or rare guy will reject giving gals contact if they are married or attached.

[lotsfits80]

Monogamy is cultural not natural. That means it's unscientific.

Just go for it.

It depends on what type he likes. You can try the 'save me' scenario like pretending to be sick and fainty and looks like too weak to walk. Then just tell him you have already seen doctor and the medicine is in your house. Better if you can find a rainy day to do this.

When he helped you back to your house, then you can start seducing him with all sorts of tricks you can learn from SBF stories. Pretend just broke up, pretend sad, crying... Usually guys heart will melt. Then lean on him get touchy feely...

Just make sure you have condoms ready though. BTW it takes two hands to clap so you don't really need to feel guilty. But after you have 'eaten' him please let him go and back to his family as a cultural courtesy.

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by lotsfits80

Monogamy is cultural not natural. That means it's unscientific.

Just go for it.

It depends on what type he likes. You can try the 'save me' scenario like pretending to be sick and fainty and looks like too weak to walk. Then just tell him you have already seen doctor and the medicine is in your house. Better if you can find a rainy day to do this.

When he helped you back to your house, then you can start seducing him with all sorts of tricks you can learn from SBF stories. Pretend just broke up, pretend sad, crying... Usually guys heart will melt. Then lean on him get touchy feely...

Just make sure you have condoms ready though. BTW it takes two hands to clap so you don't really need to feel guilty. But after you have 'eaten' him please let him go and back to his family as a cultural courtesy.

Wah very 偶像剧. Like I said I don't see him every day because we are based in different offices.

[Johnbass]

I think you'll have a better chance hooking up a high-flyer samster here.

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

I think you'll have a better chance hooking up a high-flyer samster here.

Lol somehow the laws of attraction works in mysterious ways. I also can't pinpoint what exactly that attracts me to him. No doubt he's got good looks, perhaps lusting over something that can't be had makes him even more desirable.

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by hornylittlegirl

Hi Wintermelontea, I will not defend myself but I'm not looking for moral judgment here. No doubt what I do is considered immoral but please look at what forum this is.

If you feel that I have judged you, it is probably your conscience at work. I am just implying that if your hb-to-be is to do this behind your back, please adopt the same attitude as you have when you asked for our comments.

Originally Posted by devilchan78

We are no Saints in this forum

I never once said I am or for that matter anyone is a saint. Else, I wouldn't have said swinging is alright, am I correct?

[MattJB]

Originally Posted by hornylittlegirl

Hi Wintermelontea, I will not defend myself but I'm not looking for moral judgment here. No doubt what I do is considered immoral but please look at what forum this is.

well said sis.

my thoughts, use men's pick up line -
when u meet him again, ask him out for a drink or lunch.
reason: tell him u find him so attractive, want to know him closer.

during the date, u know what to talk abt.
all the best sis.

p/s. u can do a trial date with me.

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by MattJB

well said sis.

my thoughts, use men's pick up line -
when u meet him again, ask him out for a drink or lunch.
reason: tell him u find him so attractive, want to know him closer.

during the date, u know what to talk abt.
all the best sis.

p/s. u can do a trial date with me.

Hah! That's one possibility I've considered

[onlyhuman]

My thoughts are if I m a high flyer...I won't jeopardize my career even I know the lady won't squeal.
U are able to climb is probably...u are good at wat u do, mature, responsible and portray a gd image...think abt it if U were to groom someone to take over ur position...

Do you want to hear PAs and every other colleagues gossiping abt the person day in day out?

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by onlyhuman

My thoughts are if I m a high flyer...I won't jeopardize my career even I know the lady won't squeal.
U are able to climb is probably...u are good at wat u do, mature, responsible and portray a gd image...think abt it if U were to groom someone to take over ur position...

Do you want to hear PAs and every other colleagues gossiping abt the person day in day out?

Exactly. Hence he may reject me

[BiRd13]

TS,

After reading your thread, seems that you already have the answer before posting this thread. So I wonder why you still ask for 'advice'?

There must be a reason for people saying 'Not to Shit at own place'. Moreover, he is married, and you are getting married. If either one is single is still ok... What will you do if his wife, or your hb-to-be found out? Worst case, you are ruining 2 families...

My pov is that... If want find, find outside...

[Xgenre]

From a guy's honest point of view.

Wah! Free fuck. Steady. Hey wait, if I am a high flier, will I want to screw up my career for her? Hmm.. Hey wait, I just got married. Will I want to screw up my new marriage for her? All those planning and money spent gone to waste. Not to mention Singapore got Women's Charter.

Better pretend to be decent and reject her. Go Geylang to fuck and forget better. Later see if Xiao Hong is free. Or surf sammyboy fl dome 2 forum.

Or Maybe I should play it neutral and do some 'ai mei' chat. If everything goes well, I just play the sympathy card by saying my wife doesn't want to have sex with me. I man mah so I have needs. Some girls just like to protect pitiful guys by fucking sexless man. Nevermind if the truth is I bed my wife every night. I just have to say my wife don't want to have sex with me and the whole world will believe me. Haha!

[hornylittlegirl]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

TS,

After reading your thread, seems that you already have the answer before posting this thread. So I wonder why you still ask for 'advice'?

There must be a reason for people saying 'Not to Shit at own place'. Moreover, he is married, and you are getting married. If either one is single is still ok... What will you do if his wife, or your hb-to-be found out? Worst case, you are ruining 2 families...

My pov is that... If want find, find outside...

Yes I had a pre-conceived answer in my head & was hoping to find voices supporting the opposite from the forum. From the general replies in this thread seems like it's just a bad idea after all. Every so often guys complain that they can't find female fbs (got demand but no supply), here I am contemplating an aggressive approach to tackle the guy I lust after but as it turns out, I am just blinded by lust & to eat & shit at the same place is plain dumb.