I think I got ED from over fapping... Any cure?

[sayana]

Originally Posted by LoverSon

It's all a matter of psychological.

once you encountered such problem of ED, it stays with you for life.

You must let your brain/mind know and UNDERSTAND that PORN are FAKES and the whore/gf you're banging/making love ARE REAL.

Porn are never real, the feelings and orgasm the pornstars (INCLUDING MALE) are all fake, it's like how drama evokes emotions and feelings in us when we're watching.. Same goes to PORN.

Best thing to do is next time when you whore or getting intimate with your gf, RELAX and just enjoy.

Agree bro, I kinda also think that his problem is psychological. It's not coming from the over fapping, just he doesnt get much pleasure from his sex with high expectations after porn watching. Maybe he should fly overseas and bonk one of the pornstars. If she can give him what he wants, then I guess his mind will rest.

I used to watch lot of porn, when I was virgin. But after my first sex, my addiction to the porn decreased, because I got what I wanted. TS seems to have stronger sex fantasies than me, until he accomplishes them not easy for him to enjoy sex.

[chakachaka]

Originally Posted by sayana

Agree bro, I kinda also think that his problem is psychological. It's not coming from the over fapping, just he doesnt get much pleasure from his sex with high expectations after porn watching. Maybe he should fly overseas and bonk one of the pornstars. If she can give him what he wants, then I guess his mind will rest.

I used to watch lot of porn, when I was virgin. But after my first sex, my addiction to the porn decreased, because I got what I wanted. TS seems to have stronger sex fantasies than me, until he accomplishes them not easy for him to enjoy sex.

so thats why i need to really cut down on porn i guess

[hp2k]

Originally Posted by bonkster

Can Ying n Yang energy pass through a condom?

LOL best thing I have ever heard.

[ultraeqd1987]

Originally Posted by sayana

Agree bro, I kinda also think that his problem is psychological. It's not coming from the over fapping, just he doesnt get much pleasure from his sex with high expectations after porn watching. Maybe he should fly overseas and bonk one of the pornstars. If she can give him what he wants, then I guess his mind will rest.

....

This is actually quite possible as a lot of the pornstars work as escorts. I have done it before, it's something to experience. Expect to pay through the nose of course and their service menu is very limited (everything condom and no FIV/FOV or kissing). Your money is for their beauty not the service. The more famous, the more crazy their price. For a better value, you are better off bonking a good looking non-porn FL escort IMHO.

As for the original poster's problem:
This works for me.
Stop PCC at least minimum 3 days before sex session, the longer without PCC the better. If you are horny, you can look at porn but do not PCC at all - PCC will kill the sex session experience. 24 hours before the sex session - DO NOT LOOK AT ANY PORN. Porn creates heightened anticipation and anxiousness that will harm your performance. When you go to the sex session, do not think ahead to anything or be anxious - this creates a bad mood for your mind because you cannot will yourself to have a good time - it must come naturally.

During sex session, DO NOT THINK OF PORN. If you do, you are just PCC-ing with another person, your mr. happy will go limp because the session cannot match your imagination.

The problem (IMHO from my own experience) is 90% psychological and 10% hormonal/physical. You must de-condition your mind away from porn and onto the real thing. The physical aspect from over-fapping is that your sperm level is always low - thus your libido is always sated. With low libido (from over-fapping and porn conditioned mind), any real sex session will be a disaster.

[ultraeqd1987]

Do a blood check, you may have low testosterone hormone levels:
http://www.nebido.com/en/patients/lo...rone/index.php

Reduced sex drive (libido), difficulty achieving an erection (erectile dysfunction)
Increased fatigue and lethargy; diminished energy, sense of vitality, or sense of well-being
Depression, anxiety, irritability
Difficulty achieving orgasm
Decreased muscle mass and strength, reduced exercise stamina
Obesity
Excessive sweating and night sweats
Loss of body, facial and pubic hair
Increased breast tissue (gynaecomastia)
Poor concentration and/or memory
Insulin resistance
Loss of bone mass (osteoporosis)

[Scrabble]

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Originally Posted by ultraeqd1987

This is actually quite possible as a lot of the pornstars work as escorts. I have done it before, it's something to experience. Expect to pay through the nose of course and their service menu is very limited (everything condom and no FIV/FOV or kissing). Your money is for their beauty not the service. The more famous, the more crazy their price. For a better value, you are better off bonking a good looking non-porn FL escort IMHO.

As for the original poster's problem:
This works for me.
Stop PCC at least minimum 3 days before sex session, the longer without PCC the better. If you are horny, you can look at porn but do not PCC at all - PCC will kill the sex session experience. 24 hours before the sex session - DO NOT LOOK AT ANY PORN. Porn creates heightened anticipation and anxiousness that will harm your performance. When you go to the sex session, do not think ahead to anything or be anxious - this creates a bad mood for your mind because you cannot will yourself to have a good time - it must come naturally.

During sex session, DO NOT THINK OF PORN. If you do, you are just PCC-ing with another person, your mr. happy will go limp because the session cannot match your imagination.

The problem (IMHO from my own experience) is 90% psychological and 10% hormonal/physical. You must de-condition your mind away from porn and onto the real thing. The physical aspect from over-fapping is that your sperm level is always low - thus your libido is always sated. With low libido (from over-fapping and porn conditioned mind), any real sex session will be a disaster.

[chakachaka]

Originally Posted by ultraeqd1987

This is actually quite possible as a lot of the pornstars work as escorts. I have done it before, it's something to experience. Expect to pay through the nose of course and their service menu is very limited (everything condom and no FIV/FOV or kissing). Your money is for their beauty not the service. The more famous, the more crazy their price. For a better value, you are better off bonking a good looking non-porn FL escort IMHO.

As for the original poster's problem:
This works for me.
Stop PCC at least minimum 3 days before sex session, the longer without PCC the better. If you are horny, you can look at porn but do not PCC at all - PCC will kill the sex session experience. 24 hours before the sex session - DO NOT LOOK AT ANY PORN. Porn creates heightened anticipation and anxiousness that will harm your performance. When you go to the sex session, do not think ahead to anything or be anxious - this creates a bad mood for your mind because you cannot will yourself to have a good time - it must come naturally.

During sex session, DO NOT THINK OF PORN. If you do, you are just PCC-ing with another person, your mr. happy will go limp because the session cannot match your imagination.

The problem (IMHO from my own experience) is 90% psychological and 10% hormonal/physical. You must de-condition your mind away from porn and onto the real thing. The physical aspect from over-fapping is that your sperm level is always low - thus your libido is always sated. With low libido (from over-fapping and porn conditioned mind), any real sex session will be a disaster.

Very nice advice bro... how to up ur points?

When I first started thread, I manage stop porn or pcc for 1 week... after that... okay la manage to control it better... instead of every day I do it like once every two or three days... without porn if i can help it. I also begining to workout more... but it seems to make me more horny

I use to have an ex gf, sometimes my bro performs, sometimes doesnt. I still watch porn at that point. Still go soft sometimes but no problem getting orgasm. then just 1 or 2 mins before shooting my bro will suddenly bankai and become really hard, and thats when my gf starts moaning loud until i cannot tahan...

Then i've been single for 2 years... have one or 2 FB but always problematic until they sian liao. Then did met someone i fell in love with. Shes not that pretty nor sexy, infact kinda bah bah (not my ususal kinda girl). But at that point for some reason, really fall in love with her... so even while kissing and frenching my bro goes hard that she can feel it through my pants...

Too bad things didnt worked out between us... But perhaps you are right. Psychological... im actually more emtionally attuned than looks (but dun give me auntie or bah cai la) and FL's i found ususally lacking in GFE to make me erect... ... sometimes I really wanna tell them, actually, dun have to HJ me so hard, or blow me so hard, or do so much... All i need is good GFE hahaha...

But maybe i not handsome so hard for them to GFE me LOL... thats why Im still finding a FL who can make me erect naturally so i can stick to one

[PowerTAN_P_W]

should stop PCC for at least half a year. if really cannot tahan then follow the american pie movie formula.

[sniper968]

I got a different problem - I just cannot cum properly. My dick is hard but I just cannot cum inside my girl - cunt or mouth.

In the end I had to handjob myself to cum....

I think my problem is that I masturbate too much - actually my whole life since I was a boy I do it this way as opposed to fucking girls - because I come from a conservative religious background which frowns on such things. So I think my dick is just too used to fucking with the hand rather than with the real deal. FML.

[stinkaporean]

Bro I feel you. I have the same problem now. I've been single for almost 2 years and recently I got attached to a wonderful lady who is very horny. I feel so sad that I can't satisfy her properly.

I've been fapping twice a day for years now. After seeing this thread. I decided to follow the advice of bros here and stop fapping. See if this will help or not.

I think it makes sense, by watching porn and stuffs we are creating fantasies that we can't fulfill in real life. By cutting down and let our mind return to normal may help balance our sex drive.

[H3artbr3aker]

Originally Posted by stinkaporean

Bro I feel you. I have the same problem now. I've been single for almost 2 years and recently I got attached to a wonderful lady who is very horny. I feel so sad that I can't satisfy her properly.

I've been fapping twice a day for years now. After seeing this thread. I decided to follow the advice of bros here and stop fapping. See if this will help or not.

I think it makes sense, by watching porn and stuffs we are creating fantasies that we can't fulfill in real life. By cutting down and let our mind return to normal may help balance our sex drive.

I think the issue is that porn and real life sex are fairly different, and all these years of fapping has conditioned your mind to be turned on by porn, to the point where real life sex doesn't do much for you.

[stinkaporean]

Originally Posted by H3artbr3aker

I think the issue is that porn and real life sex are fairly different, and all these years of fapping has conditioned your mind to be turned on by porn, to the point where real life sex doesn't do much for you.

My plan is to not fap or watch av or porn for 2 weeks and see if it helps.

[Tripster]

Hello fellow sammers,
Firstly, learn to self diagnose your issue: Do you have a physiological or psychological problem? If you are below the age of 60 and have
no major illness, your issue is most probably caused by your head, plus you can easily achieve an erection. Guys with ED cannot even get hard.

Too much fapping is not a major problem, in fact fapping if done correctly can be a practice to improve your love making.
Learn to practice control to the point of cumming and resist the cumming and learn to enjoy the experience. The ratio could be 4 control sessions
to 1 full cumming session. Remember your cum is precious, there is life force in it. Do not flush it away so often.
Enjoy the hardness and your erection and let it go down again. This practice is good for your body as it re-circulates your
yang chi and it can also help sustain your intercourse and your erection during love making.

When love making, do not have too much anxiety. learn to enjoy your partner and take things slow, learn come foreplay and treat your lady nice,
learn to make her hot and sometimes even help her masturbate. There is no need to have penetration everytime. Focus on love making and not just sex.

What is the whole purpose to do this? It is to improve your horniness and your desire to cum. Your penis automatically become hard and harder when the degree of horniness is increased.

I had this problem for a long time when if comes to sex with my wife as I had problems sustaining my erection. But relaxing and not being too focused on performing but enjoying sex together helped me a lot.

As I got older, though I was able to get erect, my penis was not as stiff as I wanted, so I was not very satisfying to my wife when we had intercourse. So on advice from a friend, I spiced things up with an ED drug and now things are beautiful...
I get erect, sustain my erection until she is fully satisfied (sometime we need to do it 2 - 3 times) and then we hug and kiss. Sometimes I cum sometimes I don't. It does not matter. Sometimes, she likes to give me a blowjob...and guys, having a hard cock is definately satisfying for the woman when she is licking and sucking your cock. So I am glad I have got my ED drug...

So don't get too worried, learn to read your own body and learn to get your sexy back (your horniness) slowly. Don't rush, feel sexy, horny and focus on foreplay....it will come back.

[LoverSon]

Hi TS,

First of all, your problem is not uncommon. It's actually happening ALL AROUND THE WORLD.

Read this and you will be cured.

http://yourbrainonporn.com/porn-induced-ed-start-here

Trust me, it takes time

GOOD LUCK TO ALL BROS OUT THERE.

Rule No.1 - QUIT PORN, OR BE FOREVER CONSUMED BY IT.

[bamaotong]

Hmm is there any TCM to make things better?