the concept of wife, husband and family

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by HCKing

family makes one feels that he's not alone in this cold, hard world.

friends, girlfriends, flings, FB are fun to be with but all come and go easily. rem if u want someone to commit themselves to u totally and love u totally u also have to commit the same likewise.

If I can find a woman who truly loves me, I will marry her even if she's ugly. But I have never met someone like that, even the really ugly ones just want something out of you. And when I had to get rid of them, a variety of resourceful tactics have to be deployed.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

If I can find a woman who truly loves me, I will marry her even if she's ugly. But I have never met someone like that, even the really ugly ones just want something out of you. And when I had to get rid of them, a variety of resourceful tactics have to be deployed.

U dont open your heart keep thinking people want get something out of u how to find?

Open your heart and mind and see I'm sure I can find one. Good luck

[asdfghjkl]

very philosophical thread, seems to me the world is moving backwards.. nowadays I am unable to see who is husband and wife whenever I met a couple.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

very philosophical thread, seems to me the world is moving backwards.. nowadays I am unable to see who is husband and wife whenever I met a couple.

yes you are right in some ways the world is moving backwards. every thing in this world is a cycle. human evolution is the biggest cycle of all imo. we humans are the ones who will eventually end up destroying ourselves taking the whole world with us..but that's out of topic.

what I'm trying to say is what comes around goes around. when we are having other people's daughters as outside food, somewhere along the line for some of us, who knows, our close ones are outside food of others? if one forgot to use protection, a whole lot will be affected cos of trust. so marrying in this case is a dangerous thought for people who think they can enjoy raw sex with the one and only spouse who SHOULD be faithful..you never know that person has been eating without gloves or not....dangerous isn't it?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

yes you are right in some ways the world is moving backwards. every thing in this world is a cycle. human evolution is the biggest cycle of all imo. we humans are the ones who will eventually end up destroying ourselves taking the whole world with us..but that's out of topic.

what I'm trying to say is what comes around goes around. when we are having other people's daughters as outside food, somewhere along the line for some of us, who knows, our close ones are outside food of others? if one forgot to use protection, a whole lot will be affected cos of trust. so marrying in this case is a dangerous thought for people who think they can enjoy raw sex with the one and only spouse who SHOULD be faithful..you never know that person has been eating without gloves or not....dangerous isn't it?

Hahaha old saying from my granny! That husband is does not belong to you till the day he passed away or u passed away with u or him by their side...

Cause my grandpa have many wifes last time wahaha..,
After years and years indeed my grandpa went back to find my granny and they stay together till my granny passed away after 10 mths be follow..

[Hardaway1818]

己立立人，己达达人。

If you are good and truthful to others, others will be good and truthful to you. When you meet your true love, you will understand what is true love.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by Hardaway1818

己立立人，己达达人。

If you are good and truthful to others, others will be good and truthful to you. When you meet your true love, you will understand what is true love.

unfortunately true love only happens in sad endings cos only through crucial moments will you know if your love ones stay or leave you. so when you realize it's true love or not, it's often too late. things already happened.

thats why they have a saying: fu qi ben Shi tong lin nia, da nan Lin tao ke Zi fei..

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by Hardaway1818

己立立人，己达达人。

If you are good and truthful to others, others will be good and truthful to you. When you meet your true love, you will understand what is true love.

Yeah! (: haha

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

unfortunately true love only happens in sad endings cos only through crucial moments will you know if your love ones stay or leave you. so when you realize it's true love or not, it's often too late. things already happened.

thats why they have a saying: fu qi ben Shi tong lin nia, da nan Lin tao ke Zi fei..

U are too negative le I don't think so

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

U are too negative le I don't think so

hmmm, not being negative but can't find other way to prove true love leh.

if not, how else do you know if the love is true?

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

hmmm, not being negative but can't find other way to prove true love leh.

if not, how else do you know if the love is true?

Originally Posted by muscleboi

unfortunately true love only happens in sad endings cos only through crucial moments will you know if your love ones stay or leave you. so when you realize it's true love or not, it's often too late. things already happened.

thats why they have a saying: fu qi ben Shi tong lin nia, da nan Lin tao ke Zi fei..

You certainly have reality in check.

Originally Posted by queeniegal

U dont open your heart keep thinking people want get something out of u how to find?

Open your heart and mind and see I'm sure I can find one. Good luck

You forgot to set you alarm clock.

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

You certainly have reality in check.

ya, couples get together is really literally for fuck sake. aka pro-creation.

we have bros here complaining about how they were neglected simply because after their wife gave birth, the focus is all on the babies. that sign is quite obvious enough that the reason we are in place is cos sillypore expects us to be there, to support the family financially..else sg inc will have a hard time to carry on biz as usual..

excluding some unique cases, girls don't need sex and can stand not having sex much longer than guys. they forgot that not all guys can do the same. in fact, majority of the guys cannot stand not having sex for so long.

ok, the above is out of topic.

marriage is only society driven..and in some sense, marriage can be dangerous because raw sex is performed cos of trust. we cannot defend against what we don't know. with lies all around us, how do we know our spouse is faithful? no way or method can prove their faithfulness. zero. nada.

so some bros and sisters here suggest marriage is to create family so that we do not feel lonely..i quite agree with that becos WL and FL are afterall service providers and not family members. they are only there to exchange service for money.

since marriage is only to curb loneliness, we can simply say sex is not guaranteed and of course, faithfulness is not guaranteed as well. in turn means, safety is even more not guaranteed.

divorce rate increasing is not a coincidence but is cos of the society is waking up to the fact that marriage is just but another short term contract and love is not true afterall..how ironic. the only time love can possibly be true is when sad stuffs happened. (how else can we know our spouse is faithful and true when we are all so happy and laughing together?) when a girl/guy tell you they belong to you only, do you think they really mean it or its jus another sweet nothings to comfort you..? only time will tell.

once again, 夫妻本是同林鳥, 大限來時各自飛.
to bros whom are able to find someone who can really tide over difficult times with you, treasure them and be faithful to them. its simply too rare to meet such people.

the above are just some mixed thoughts..maybe we should propose a more animal system of pro-creation..then there won't be so many bros bleeding financially cos of marriage and WC.

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

You certainly have reality in check.

You forgot to set you alarm clock.

Ha what alarm clock? U referring to yourself?
Anw lots of people does not want to face their inner feeling. ESP guys when the got hurt they just wall up their heart.

Have some thoughts on it ba

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by muscleboi

hmmm, not being negative but can't find other way to prove true love leh.

if not, how else do you know if the love is true?

There are true love I'm certain haha the bro here some shd be still mentally very in love with their wife (;

Maybe shd ask them to share with u?

[muscleboi]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

There are true love I'm certain haha the bro here some shd be still mentally very in love with their wife (;

Maybe shd ask them to share with u?

you are certain but there's no example? some bros? who are they? hmmm, or is that thought a hope? maybe you are just hoping there's true love?