Ode to the Nice Guys

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

wow.. mr nice... how abt add my points then

No problem Mr Sexy..... can U return me too?

Up U liao.

[Big Sexy]

thanks bro... i exercise my power for you after 24 hours also...

Originally Posted by poolhot

That case I am the nicest guy!!!!!!!!

[watmidoin]

yo bro macho, i juz cut n paste. really paiseh to accept 4 pts u wrote a good essay. added u to list of bros to up rep. (sian. now got 3 in waiting list. duno need how many days to fulfill this promise...)

ur first paragraph about nice gers i totally agree. myself guilty of that. and retribution on me is never realising it until too late. she found her fated man who's a nice guy. good for her.

but not so agree with ur statement in bold. i tink from time to time ppl will stop and look at themselves (usually at new years and birthdays). these self reflection periods allow us to find our own faults. i think its just much much more easy to find bad points in others than ourselves.

the next para abit too much info in too little space. sigh. online forum, not convenient to write long essays. so its boh bian i guess. don't know enough "gong zi ge". anyways, agree dat generalisations about all rich ppl not being gentlemen is obviously not fair. but of the few I see around me, only 2 in 7 are real gentlemen. and they have a tough time finding a gf because its very difficult for them to see whether the ger loves them or their money. some gers can act real well!

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

If we think in terms of guys, if there are two girls who equally love you and treat you well, and both girls are equally educated... But one is pretty and one is below-average looking.. Which one will you choose?

trick question. I almost wanted to say the one i feel more happy and comfortable with but that is answering loopholes and not the Q. haha cause there's really juz one answer if u want to put them totally equal except for looks. its primal. guy, ger or animal its the same thing.

the way society puts so much emphasis on beauty had lowered our ability to appreciate other qualities. they are still around but usually need some trigger to arouse. but beauty is also primal. read somewhere that beauty is associated with good health and thus stronger offspring. a better chance for a successful continuation of your genes. but the human invention of virtue complicates matters since beauty is not often seen as a virtue.

Originally Posted by uglyger

i like nice guyz...i m tired of bad guyz...all jerkz hope to find a nice guy somedae

yo ger. dun look so angry lar (although some gers look very sexy when angry). something to say which might not please u or might even hurt you but better let u know den allow u chance of relapse.

i read u go irc look for romance. wah kau. u go irc look of course get burn lar. irc and chatlines are full of ppl such as me. we are there very often for lust!

guys, whether nice or not are all over the place. sometimes will have ppl juz fall in love with u for no reason. sometimes u have to put in a little effort to make them love u. but giving man sex is not the way. so often said liao. man have two heads. giving sex only makes the dick head fall in love with you. more important is to make the big head addicted to you. wish you continue with your new life well. and hope actblur gets u a good vibrator :P

(so sian. how come can only put two smileys???)

Originally Posted by ·Ïñ§ØmÑ¡â·

I super nice guy...always kana dump jialat jialat...so sad.

yea rite u nice...u r one realli realli BAD n HORNY guy...hahahahha scare ger away...i also scared of u

[tittyhawk]

Originally Posted by uglyger

yea rite u nice...u r one realli realli BAD n HORNY guy...hahahahha scare ger away...i also scared of u

Halo...hows yr day?

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by uglyger

yea rite u nice...u r one realli realli BAD n HORNY guy...hahahahha scare ger away...i also scared of u

Then are U scared of me too?????? keke

Originally Posted by watmidoin

(so sian. how come can only put two smileys???)

hahhaha... too bad...:P

Originally Posted by tittyhawk

Halo...hows yr day?

typing out my own notes for one of my modules

[cbjuiceyumseng]

ANYONE TO GO GEYLANG TO RELEASE SPERM ?

[jeronimo]

Originally Posted by Noobie

simply, nice guys get no girls

It reminds me of a t-shirt I saw
Good girls go to heaven,
Bad girls go everywhere!

There is also a Chinese saying - Girls don't dig good guys and go for the bad boys

[tanner132]

Originally Posted by poolhot

Then are U scared of me too?????? keke

No wonder neber see you the other side. Come here and sian MM.

[poolhot.]

Originally Posted by tanner132

No wonder neber see you the other side. Come here and sian MM.

I nice guy lar....... Tlak to gal not sianzzzzzz.

I go where U also can find. How to hide from U??????? Haizzzzzzzzz

[tanner132]

Originally Posted by poolhot

I nice guy lar....... Tlak to gal not sianzzzzzz.

I go where U also can find. How to hide from U??????? Haizzzzzzzzz

You dunno that night I planted a detector with you hor... hiak hiak hiak

[watmidoin]

weekend at home and nothing to do. so did some more thinking on what it means to be a nice guy/ger (popular topic for the past week). and what ppl are looking for when they say they wana find a nice guy/ger. (discussions should apply to both sexes as we share similar experiences and frustrations.)

when i first stumbled upon this forum almost a yr ago, i wasn't expecting much since stereotypes didn't give people who dwell in commercial sex much credibility. but any samster who had been around knows of the unwritten code of honour. The good samsters who give out good advice, give a different point of view and take care of newbies. There is indeed an honorable brotherhood here. in fact, from wat they show of themselves here, many bros/sis could easily qualify for the nice guy/gal tag. (Tell this to anyone else along the streets and they'll probably say you are crazy. "where got such thing as honorable ppl in the commercial sex scene?")

and this led to the deadlock of whether ppl who cheong can actually still be a nice person. (we have enuf proof dat ppl who dun cheong can be complete assholes already. but we shan't discuss that.)

imagine people who love and take good care of their spouse. the wife/husband fell ill and they took leave to bring her/him to doctor. they spend quality time with the kids. but alas! they have a tremendous sex drive that could not be satisfied by their spouse. commercial sex and ons offered sex without obligation (except $$$ and some respect for the ger/guy). they go there to release their urge and feel guilty each time but they are mentally too weak to control. they hide it from their spouse because the truth will hurt. is such a person necessarily bad? or are they still eligible to be nice guy/gal? the same me one year ago will answer "wat rubbish". now, i m writing this

A question without a simple yes/no answer but juz wana hear the views.

[jeronimo]

Originally Posted by watmidoin

and this led to the deadlock of whether ppl who cheong can actually still be a nice person. (we have enuf proof dat ppl who dun cheong can be complete assholes already. but we shan't discuss that.)
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A question without a simple yes/no answer but juz wana hear the views.

I believe you have just related a real life scenerio of the Robin Hood
He robs the rich and corrupted to disseminate to the poor civilians and is termed a thief
It may not be the best example but it goes to show that doing the right thing thru a wrong method or the wrong thing with a right intention

When you seek to relief the urges and stress you betray your spouse but on the other hand its also a way to maintain the balance of the marriage too

I don't think there is a straight yes/no, right/wrong debate.