Now you see the power of women charter

[firefoxy]

The law protects the women. But man are like tat when blinded with love. Women will only show their true character after marriage. And show their evil character during divorce.

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

in a divorced lady's pov,

i myself did not even ask him for a single cent when we signed papers. ( u can say i'm stupid or watsoever).

Nt all ladies divorce will ask the other half for half his assets.... My fren divorce his wife and his wife did not ask him for any alimony... all she ask for is my fren to pay the utilities bills monthly & my fren gave her the apartment on his own will. 2nd case, my best bud divorce her husband nt asking him for any alimony as well. nt only did she nt ask for alimony, ahe gave up custody of her kid as well. u can say her heartless or watsoever. i dun give a damn.

in these days now, we gals can b damn independent. we dun have to depend on guys to live on....

divorce tis days is far too common, guys so pls rem to clean ur mouth aft pinching outside.....dun juz blame the law for protecting women....

tou chi yao cha zui......

My exwife had 2 affairs. I forgave her the first one. After I caught her the 2nd time, I divorced her. After the proceeds of divorce, I found out about sammyboyforum and learnt that I am not the worst case. She wanted alimony because I must compensate her youth. No children and she makes a decent income capable of owning a car comfortably. We are still fighting. Fuck the woman charter. Fortunately i resisted the thought of having children. I will never have children with a lying bitch. Otherwise I will have to pay her immediately even though she is the one having an affair. Talk about declining birth rates. Fuck the woman charter.

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

My exwife had 2 affairs. I forgave her the first one. After I caught her the 2nd time, I divorced her. After the proceeds of divorce, I found out about sammyboyforum and learnt that I am not the worst case. She wanted alimony because I must compensate her youth. No children and she makes a decent income capable of owning a car comfortably. We are still fighting. Fuck the woman charter. Fortunately i resisted the thought of having children. I will never have children with a lying bitch. Otherwise I will have to pay her immediately even though she is the one having an affair. Talk about declining birth rates. Fuck the woman charter.

**** PEACE ****
Look, for ur case i'm sry to heard tt.... My only advice on tis kind of women u can juz fark her off....To my knowledge in divorce cases is tt if both of u do nt have kids n able to wrk n earn for ur own living, u juz have to sit down trash things out if both parties r willing u DO NOT have to pay her a single cent of alimony.... correct me if i'm wrong.... tis was told by my lawyer fren....


nt bcos i'm divorced n i'm a lady then i speak up for ladies. Guys..... at the end of the day if u reali wanna have a fark bud or kept mistress or watsoever u wan cal the other party.... do it outside n dun bring it hme... i would suggest u get a prepaid line to ctc tt person rather than givin ur own num to court trouble in e end...

Ladies..... i nt helping e guys to cheat their wives/gfs. i'm trying to b fair in tis issue..... Ladies who r wives/gfs to hubby/bfs, guys r aft all very ego wan....do b fair to ur other half...... to all e wives n gfs out thr in tis forum, guys who u reali tink he can b w u 4 e rest of ya life DUN b too sticky n DUN try to probe too much into their personal lives. If u wan them to give u some personal space u too have to let them have some personal space to breathe


Guys who reali love their partners will return to them eventually even aft they fooled ard outside.....

I'm nt tryin to impress anybody or offend anybody in tis thread. I'm onli sharing hw i feel abt y guys hated law tt protect women. Once again, I'm sry if i've offended u ppl in a way or another.

**** PEACE ****

[Haunt]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

**** PEACE ****


Ladies..... i nt helping e guys to cheat their wives/gfs. i'm trying to b fair in tis issue..... Ladies who r wives/gfs to hubby/bfs, guys r aft all very ego wan....do b fair to ur other half...... to all e wives n gfs out thr in tis forum, guys who u reali tink he can b w u 4 e rest of ya life DUN b too sticky n DUN try to probe too much into their personal lives. If u wan them to give u some personal space u too have to let them have some personal space to breathe



**** PEACE ****

Ladies, please listen to her

Bro Tattoo, I know you're a lady, but you're so cool I'm gonna treat you like a bro with boobies
Too bad we can't go looking for FL together tho

[Ninja_Assassin]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

To my knowledge in divorce cases is tt if both of u do nt have kids n able to wrk n earn for ur own living, u juz have to sit down trash things out if both parties r willing u DO NOT have to pay her a single cent of alimony.... correct me if i'm wrong.... tis was told by my lawyer fren....

Sis, you'd better dun engage the service of tis half baked lawyer friend...... just remain as friend...... I tink he is the only lawyer who claims tat no need to pay the ex-wife maintenance if no children involved?

I have talked to many lawyers and ALL of them agree that the guy has to pay the ex-wife maintenance if she demands it regardless of whether she is earning more than the ex-hubby..... the only scenario where the guy dun have to pay is when the ex-wife waives her rights to the maintenance..... or when she remarries.

I oso say fuck the womens charter !

[tattoofetish22]

Originally Posted by Ninja_Assassin

Sis, you'd better dun engage the service of tis half baked lawyer friend...... just remain as friend...... I tink he is the only lawyer who claims tat no need to pay the ex-wife maintenance if no children involved?

I have talked to many lawyers and ALL of them agree that the guy has to pay the ex-wife maintenance if she demands it regardless of whether she is earning more than the ex-hubby..... the only scenario where the guy dun have to pay is when the ex-wife waives her rights to the maintenance..... or when she remarries.

I oso say fuck the womens charter !

Bro,

thanks for ur advice....but i'm sry to say tis .... at e end of the day if u guys dun do the women wrong thr wun b so many divorce cases rite?
Ultimately, i wun say it's all guys' fault as ladies oso play a part of it in divorce cases..

Ultimately, it take 2 hands to clap....

Guy, take it easy... dun blame the law.... We all shld juz reflect ourselves when it comes to a breaking up of a r/s. We r aft all human.... Human err isn't it???

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

Bro,

thanks for ur advice....but i'm sry to say tis .... at e end of the day if u guys dun do the women wrong thr wun b so many divorce cases rite?
Ultimately, i wun say it's all guys' fault as ladies oso play a part of it in divorce cases..

Ultimately, it take 2 hands to clap....

Guy, take it easy... dun blame the law.... We all shld juz reflect ourselves when it comes to a breaking up of a r/s. We r aft all human.... Human err isn't it???

OMFG....Talk about hearing from a Women's perspective on the Women Charter!

For some reason, I almost want to throw vulgarity at this...
WTF.... I mean... how can you say this kind of CRAP what 2 hands clap and reflect on ourselves when the guys are saying that TECHNICALLY this law is FLAWED and UNFAIR. Sis, we're not talking about HOW the r/s breaks down nor fault finding, we are... arrghhhhh.... WTF....

.... someone please continue... I go vomit blood....
(feel like going through another one of those stupid argument with a women when quarreling)

[xyman]

Man and woman can never be equal.... Stupid woman charter, flush down the WC

[kentlim26]

Woman charter = who..? who created them.. ? who to vote Next man choice..?
that is why.. Pap is always in super power. singapore has more then 50% are woman. + Foreigner talent = always prefer pap...
Woman charter is the best income for the whole society,, lawyers real income+ property sales+ woman protection income.. woman charter is also a woman retire fund best income.. (better then any other insurance policy)

Who suffer the most.. No need to say lor... Singaporean man are just too.. weak. But there is no protection Outside singapore !!..

[makemecum]

Originally Posted by Ninja_Assassin

Sis, you'd better dun engage the service of tis half baked lawyer friend...... just remain as friend...... I tink he is the only lawyer who claims tat no need to pay the ex-wife maintenance if no children involved?

I have talked to many lawyers and ALL of them agree that the guy has to pay the ex-wife maintenance if she demands it regardless of whether she is earning more than the ex-hubby..... the only scenario where the guy dun have to pay is when the ex-wife waives her rights to the maintenance..... or when she remarries.

I oso say fuck the womens charter !

ya...
hitch exwife wih another guy to pay alimony for u
the worse scenario is that exwife hav FB w/o remarry n u have to pay for her F escapades...

Women Charter, thums down...
election round the corner
how come no opposition fite for Men Charter?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

.... at e end of the day if u guys dun do the women wrong thr wun b so many divorce cases rite?
Ultimately, i wun say it's all guys' fault as ladies oso play a part of it in divorce cases..

Ultimately, it take 2 hands to clap.... - Equal?

Guy, take it easy... dun blame the law.... We all shld juz reflect ourselves when it comes to a breaking up of a r/s. We r aft all human.... Human err isn't it???

Marriage is a sacred thing and getting married is special and an expression of our love and commitment for our partner. Being Equal (pun intended) Everyone goes into marriage with the best of their intentions and believe marriage is a worthy life-long commitment.

However, as with all things in life, there are successes and failures in marriages cos feelings may change with time as needs and expectation change. If you ask 10 people how they define viable reasons for wanting a divorce, you'll most likely get 10 different answers because they'll answer you from their perspective, not yours. Sure, there may be similarities to the way you feel in some of those answers about 'real' divorce reasons, you may even agree with some. But, the real answers to this question can only come from you. You have to figure out what reason or reasons would be viable in your mind in order to actually go through your decision about getting a divorce or staying married.

Everyone has their own reasons for wanting a divorce. Solid divorce reasons for wanting or going through a divorce usually come from some sort of occurrence, behavioral pattern, and/or change in the viewpoint of the marriage itself. However, some reasons that people give for getting a divorce, or wanting a divorce, are purely selfish and have no substance. An example of a reason for wanting a divorce that has no substance is not liking the fact that the spouse has constant unfounded jealousy. There is a deeper problem that exists here, and in the case of this example, it could be that the spouse who constantly feels jealousy has a confidence problem or some sort of 'fear of loss'. Whatever the case, the divorce reason in this example clearly isn't viable and should relatively easy to fix. Often times when people give 'surface' or flimsy reasons for wanting a divorce, they really have much deeper feelings about something and they're just using the shallow divorce reason as an avoidance of some kind. Or, they give these 'foundation-less' reasons for wanting a divorce because they actually aren't aware that there are other deeper rooted reasons that are the cause of the way they feel now.

Common reasons that cause people to think about or want to get a divorce:

1) Couple has conflicting personal beliefs
2) Couple’s marital satisfaction decreases
3) Desertion
4) Adultery
5) Cruel treatment
6) Bigamy
7) Imprisonment
8) Spousal Indignities aka humiliating treatment. It is a conduct which renders the other spouse's condition intolerable and life burdensome
9) Irretrievable Breakdown of some kind

Unfortunately, nowadays people are seeking divorce abusing the sanctity of marriage:

10) Lack of commitment
11) Lack of understanding
12) Lack of tolerance
13) Family pressure
14) Material satisfaction increases and unfulfilled

Having said all above, the laws defining the difference between 'fault' and 'no-fault' divorce reasons that have enough merit that allow for the divorce to be granted have always been on the advantage sides of the women regardless of who is at fault.

IMHO, Women and men are the 2 most essential and EQUAL part of any society. Men and women being equal, is a religious right, as well as a constitutional right. A woman is working in her home and looking after her children or in an office and A man is working outside the home – therefore both are working and are equal partners in a marriage. Unfortunately, the role of men has been suppressed deliberately due to the pressure of this WC. But the women, who stood up and spoke for their rights AWLAYS deserve to be applauded.

A woman seeking to start a New Life of greater fulfillment and happiness should start to live her life's purpose without any reminder of her old life! She should put the past behind her and clear out all mental debris of the past: the failures, bad experiences, misunderstandings, unfortunate decisions, unresolved emotional upsets, guilt, negative thoughts and cut all ties with her old life for the benefits of everybody. Why let the old life affecting her still when her ex-spouse fail to pay for maintenance? Why the need to make an ex-spouse OLD life difficult in her NEW life?

This is EQUAL?

Take it EASY? Tell those men that need to carry their burden while their ex-spouse are enjoying their NEW LIFE!

Take it EASY is a straight easy ticket with the judge!

Please reflect!!

Cheers,
IK

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

Bro,

thanks for ur advice....but i'm sry to say tis .... at e end of the day if u guys dun do the women wrong thr wun b so many divorce cases rite?
Ultimately, i wun say it's all guys' fault as ladies oso play a part of it in divorce cases..

Ultimately, it take 2 hands to clap....

Guy, take it easy... dun blame the law.... We all shld juz reflect ourselves when it comes to a breaking up of a r/s. We r aft all human.... Human err isn't it???

What about it when the woman do the men wrong? And the man still pays? Fuck the woman's charter.

[peanut123]

The only perspective we need really consider is that a man should help pay for his kid. His wife's income has nothing to do with it.

What, you expect the wife to pay everything to bring the kid up and the guy just walk away whistling with his hands in his pockets ? It's also his kid.

Any guy worth his salt would pay for his kid, even if he makes less. And he makes 90K per year, which is abt 3 times the average pay in Singapore. Want to fuck and make a baby, better pay up. Simple concept. Don't want to pay, dun get married and make babies. He gets no sympathy from me.

Originally Posted by samsam33

No doubt, we need to see things in perspective. But I think in this case, the judgment is based on simply since both kids expenses is 4700++, so husband needs to pay $2400, without taking into consideration of the vast differences in finances between husband and wife

Let's see things in perspective. Wife has 5 properties, earns 1m per year and has 3.2m cash in bank. Husband earns 90K a year

So having 2400x12 is quite a big portion to his 90K. It's not that the husband does not want to pay for kids expenses which he wants to pay $1600, which I think is fair

Since the kids are living with mother, and mother is so rich, of course the expenses would be higher than normal families. So still fair to expect husband to pay 50% of the kids expenses?

In other cases of divorce whereby husband is more wealthy than wife, man is expected to pay 80-100% of the maintenance. Now, if man is so much poorer than wife, he still need to pay 50%

So, is it fair to men?

[Ionic]

Originally Posted by tattoofetish22

Guy, take it easy... dun blame the law.... We all shld juz reflect ourselves when it comes to a breaking up of a r/s. We r aft all human.... Human err isn't it???

I think the issue here is not why a relationship breaks down, but what happens to the guy when a relationships breaks down.

Guy unfaithful - Divorce have to pay alimony/maintenance.
Wife unfaithful - Divorce guy also have to pay alimony/maintenance.

Granted, if a wife says that she is willing to forgo any monies, non will be awarded. But when a guy is caught screwing outside and goes to divorce courts, the wife wants maintenance, the court will award her maintenance. If the wife is caught having an affair, guy goes to divorce court, will still have to pay maintenance if the wife demands it. Although courts have been known to award nominal sums in cases where the wife has income that is deemed sufficient to maintain herself.

All things being Equal, it isn't really Equal.

[tattoofetish22]

Guys,

i'm sincerely sry if i've offended u in any of my posts here. I've alrdy mention tt i'm nt tryin to impress or offend anybody here..... Wat i've post here is hw i actually feel abt marriages n divorces.


Law is unjustifiable to guys as tis women charter reali help ladies alot. However, whether lady gets the alimonies anot dun based on wat is in women charter always. It's hw e judge c situation on his/her pov.

Juz bcos of this charter u all get so angry for wat since u ppl said fark the women charter???? C'mon lor, u all seen too little le..... I was pregnant 7mths & i caught my hubby red-handed in my bed w another slut @ hme.....Go tink abt it lahz.... If a woman who been thru tis situation can b so cool-headed & tel u tinks on divorce cases wat is ur case to her???? (nt boastin abt my situation, it's real life story)

If i still offend u w tis post & u wanna zap me, pls tel me reasons & leave me ur nick.... Many thanks....


W tis, I shall juz keep my mouth shut then.....