Which is a lesser 'sin' : HJ, BJ. FJ? - Page 2

jasdude · #16 08-12-2010, 04:22 AM

whatever you do , its only sinful when you get caught . cos you will not hesitate when its given to you .

sammyboyboy · #17 08-12-2010, 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by jasdude

whatever you do , its only sinful when you get caught . cos you will not hesitate when its given to you .

Nike say, Just do it.

threetreasure · #18 08-12-2010, 08:37 AM

whether is less sinful or most sinful, is still sinful, so wad the different? if ur gf/wife know abt it, even is so called less sinful, they may feel is still sinful in ur action... unless u assume ur gf/wife dun mind u go for those "less sinful" stuff.. of course.. there are gf/wife who dun mind at all....

to me, honestly i felt is all sinful, if u assume it is sinful in the 1st place.. i mean there is no so called less or more sinful... as another bro mentioned, to someone, is not sinful at all.. so is subjective to individual thinking...

thanks

jasdude · #19 08-12-2010, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyboy

Nike say, Just do it.

like wat we are taught in the army . everything is fine , you can do whatever you want but just don't get caught !

NewMartin · #20 08-12-2010, 10:23 AM

Whatever you do, make sure that you always have a condom with you so you can avoid bad accidents! Always remember that AIDS is still around and it does not give a break to anyone!

Cheating on someone is not a good thing, but if you ever are in such a situation (for example when you are on holidays with your friends, or in a professional trip), have these questions in mind. It is nice if you can avoid the “traps”, but one night stands are not a huge mistake.

If you are in love with the new person you have met, then this is another story and the best thing you can do is to break up with your current Gerfriend. Good luck with your new fling!

freezetheDB · #21 08-12-2010, 03:57 PM

HJ less sinful as it can be considered as a massage of the groin

and less risk as well

newyorker88 · #22 08-12-2010, 04:04 PM

HJ, BJ, FJ, all consider about the same.

Matter most is not to get attached to someone else when you have a steady one.

Just to note that Monica Lewinsky BJ on Clinton, and Hilliary admitted sh would love to wringle his neck, and imagine, if she did a FJ on Clinton, what would Hillary do to Bill?

ken_v2 · #23 08-12-2010, 04:43 PM

just asked bill clinton who got a bj on the job. no sin..

suce55 · #24 08-12-2010, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by jasdude

everything is fine .....

Look, why are H, B & F sins in the 1st place???

If (BIG IF) they are sins then there is no 'lesser' or "seriouser", commit means guilty as charged!!

The correct attitude is; they are not sins if u did not commit any to 'do it' eg. adultery, lying etc.

That is the real sin, to 'do it' by way of sinning.

So by logic, monetary exchage for sex, 'in love' sex are NOT sins !!!

Cheers!!

hamsapkwai · #25 08-12-2010, 09:58 PM

HJ is no sin if you do it yourself

kick_ass · #26 08-12-2010, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by hrodger25

My opinions will be :

a. If found out, jialat.
b. If found out, more jialat.
c. If found out, most jialat.

Based on these since all are jialat, do all and still same jialat from gf/spouse.

So just do our usual F&F and remember to wipe clean clean.Do not leave any trail behind your back....

to me all 3 also same consequences.

wifes can sue u for divorce and take half of wat u hv.

gfs will break up wth u & may even destroy half of wat u hv (as in house hold items)

worst of all, they may sniped off half of "wat u hv"

maxpee88 · #27 09-12-2010, 08:46 PM

Dear Sis and Bros

First let me say : A sincere Thank You and Appreciation for all comments in this discussion thread. I know it may sound like boh liao or that a sin is a sin mah... where got lesser sin leh?

What I meant was that if supposing (and this is really for the sis to comment) CO/GF finds out one day you just visited a Massage parlor which is known to offer special (happy endings) and your CO/GF knows it for sure and YOU CAN'T deny it.. so from a woman's perspective which is more forgiveable or lesser evil from their perspective lor...

And from the Bros point of view, then if you were in that situation, I like to get the discussion and sharing session going on how so to explain to your GF/CO that having a HJ is not as serious as havving a BJ or FJ because there is no exchange of body fluids... etc...

Thanks everyone for jumping into this discussion thread.

Chery QQ · #28 09-12-2010, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by maxpee88

And from the Bros point of view, then if you were in that situation, I like to get the discussion and sharing session going on how so to explain to your GF/CO that having a HJ is not as serious as havving a BJ or FJ because there is no exchange of body fluids... etc...

Let say you find out your gf/wife went hotel with her ex-bf and caught by you, your gf/wife later confessed that she did not have sex but just been fingered by her ex-bf and Of cos she also tell you tat there is no exchange of body fluids.

Is it less sinful or you are less angry hearing that?