Breakup

[skihon]

Is best for you both to parted separate ways, as you are married. If found you having an affair, it doesnt look good on you.
If you are in need, go for spa. I believe in this forum sure got a lot of places which can help your needs.

Think about your family 1st.

[oxeso]

Aiyo.. u mid 50s liao, screw tat Love thingy.. what u need most now n further down the road should be ur family ba. To risk tat for a dumb slut who will waste 6 years on a married man is not worth it la. Oh.. if u mind the truth, tell me.. i'll edit.

[donut88]

I'm in mid 50s too and having a married fwb.

My mindset is to enjoy whatever comes with fwb. I don't expect ourselves to be together for long. If we can last v long, then it's bonus. If not long, so be if. I move on.

With this mindset, it do good for myself emotionally.

You say u love your Fwb. But are you ready to leave yr family to be with her? If yes, why are you not doing it?

[chikenpie]

Uncle just go FL Dome 1 or 2 la. If you rich go Dome 3 or L.

Confirm you get over that old cb in 1 night!

[entering]

Originally Posted by darylcch

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

Bro,
You can lead the horse to the water, but you can't force it to drink.

If you tried and she's not responding then you've to let time heal your wounds.

Other than that, if you haven't been hunting for 6 years then, you've to dust the old hunting shoes and find a new one.

If she comes back, good. If she doesn't and you've a new one, good. If she comes back and you have a new one, threesome awesome.

If she doesn't come back and you don't go and hunt for a new one, then it's blue, blue balls.

[plok]

Give me her number. I help u explain to her. 😏

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by darylcch

I m very depressed ( thinking I m already this old to lose my love n suffer quietly alone…. )
I can’t sleep well at night ( fear of falling asleep )
I can’t eat well ( lost 4 kg within 1 month )
I cut off social media connecting with her ( when I see her posts, I have panic anxiety attack )

I wanted to ask her to give me chance before another guy come in
I promised to give us better relationship since I now know my mistake

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

Learnt to let go amicably to keep the fond memories .
A fruitless Relentless pursuit will only tear everything and bitterness begets.
Always remember your position,
you are married man, unless that's about to change.
Thank your lucky star, appreciate you crossed each others' path and were once part of each other life.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Learnt to let go amicably to keep the fond memories .
A fruitless Relentless pursuit will only tear everything and bitterness begets.
Always remember your position,
you are married man, unless that's about to change.
Thank your lucky star, appreciate you crossed each others' path and were once part of each other life.

Learn that his dick doesn't last forever and to let go when the time comes. HAHAHA.

[JoannaJourney]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Learnt to let go amicably to keep the fond memories .
A fruitless Relentless pursuit will only tear everything and bitterness begets.
Always remember your position,
you are married man, unless that's about to change.
Thank your lucky star, appreciate you crossed each others' path and were once part of each other life.

Well said.

From a woman perspective, I think she had enough, be it love, fun and sex. 放手不是放弃，回忆总是最美。

[KinJioKar]

Originally Posted by darylcch

I m mid fifties this year
I have an affair partner for nearly 6 years
She is late forties n not married
She is pretty n independent n lots of friends
She know I m married since day 1

We have weekly sex which my wife didn’t give since 10 years ago
We meet weekly for dinner n she will bring me to places I didn’t go before n eat food n wine I didn’t try before

I feel so young n happy
I was lucky to have a pretty younger lady who can fill the void in my life n still understand I m a married man

We were enjoying our companionship so much until last year
I took her for granted n made many mistakes n messed up the relationship in 2024

She say she wanted to be single again n breakup with me end of last year
And she wanted us to stop messaging
I was left broken hearted n lost
We used to msg each other everyday
Send photos our food
Send photos of loving words
Giving care n support to each other

I know I hv to respect her n cannot contact her now
Give her some space
I know I hv to move on n if she want to come back she will but I can’t force her now
I know it’s useless to explain anything n she may has someone more available than me

I m very depressed ( thinking I m already this old to lose my love n suffer quietly alone…. )
I can’t sleep well at night ( fear of falling asleep )
I can’t eat well ( lost 4 kg within 1 month )
I cut off social media connecting with her ( when I see her posts, I have panic anxiety attack )

I wanted to ask her to give me chance before another guy come in
I promised to give us better relationship since I now know my mistake

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

You know this you know that why the fuck you still want to force. What’s the outcome? Women once they made up their mind, no return.

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by JoannaJourney

Well said.

From a woman perspective, I think she had enough, be it love, fun and sex. 放手不是放弃，回忆总是最美。

You were supposed to stay dead. HAHAHA.
The dead has risen to speak up again. HAHAHA.

Originally Posted by JoannaJourney

JoannaJourney in SBF has come to an end.

下台一鞠躬，大家保重。 :-)

[HornyAlways]

Originally Posted by darylcch

I m mid fifties this year
I have an affair partner for nearly 6 years
She is late forties n not married
She is pretty n independent n lots of friends
She know I m married since day 1

We have weekly sex which my wife didn’t give since 10 years ago
We meet weekly for dinner n she will bring me to places I didn’t go before n eat food n wine I didn’t try before

I feel so young n happy
I was lucky to have a pretty younger lady who can fill the void in my life n still understand I m a married man

We were enjoying our companionship so much until last year
I took her for granted n made many mistakes n messed up the relationship in 2024

She say she wanted to be single again n breakup with me end of last year
And she wanted us to stop messaging
I was left broken hearted n lost
We used to msg each other everyday
Send photos our food
Send photos of loving words
Giving care n support to each other

I know I hv to respect her n cannot contact her now
Give her some space
I know I hv to move on n if she want to come back she will but I can’t force her now
I know it’s useless to explain anything n she may has someone more available than me

I m very depressed ( thinking I m already this old to lose my love n suffer quietly alone…. )
I can’t sleep well at night ( fear of falling asleep )
I can’t eat well ( lost 4 kg within 1 month )
I cut off social media connecting with her ( when I see her posts, I have panic anxiety attack )

I wanted to ask her to give me chance before another guy come in
I promised to give us better relationship since I now know my mistake

Anyone here had such experience?
Any chance for her to patch back?
We didn’t msg about 1 month now n I m very very depressed

I really love her a lot

Just go have an affair with a younger one bro, you may not be 18 anymore but theres always avail ladies at 18 bro. I think in your life you been through worse too lol

[otamay]

Originally Posted by corsiar74

As Chinese say...old one never go, new one will never come 旧的不去， 新的不来。

Move on Bro

Fully agreed with you. After so many years just give her freedom.

[kennese2006]

not sure if this helps, had something similar, took time out. work on yourself. gym, skills, career etc. drop the contact. maybe she'd come back, maybe she'd not. but at the end of 1 year, you'd be a better person, fitter, wiser, richer.

move on from there.

[jdoe]

Your time with her was helping to maintain balance with lack of sex from wife. Now that she is out of the picture, there is no longer balance.

Sooner or later we have to let go of people or things. Even if you succeed in getting her back, maybe one or two years later your kkj cannot make it anymore.. the relationship will die a natural death.

Look for release at one of those spas. This whole industry is catered for you. Find other ways to find a new balance.