Do married/attached women bonk around discreetly?

[burner88]

thumbs up - hahaha

[haikim999]

Originally Posted by InvasiveThought

Hi,

I'm a guy in my late 20s and due to get married soon. My partner and i don't bonk due to our conservative households and families. Although that, i do have needs. Should i "eat outside"?.

Although that, i am worried that it would jeopardize everything i've worked towards and i realized that the safest would be to bonk someone who's attached/married as they have equally as much to lose.

Does this happen often nowdays? How do you guys keep it discreet and continuous? How did you meet them too?

Thanks!

Just curious , all the time that u guys are together till now no sex yet ?? No urges to have sex meh ? You never test drive ur partner how you know that u guys are sexually compatible?


I find it puzzling that you are both adults and still held back by each other families conservative values.

It sounds abit weird tbh . Did you have a heart to heart talk with her on this issue ?


Tell her how u truly feel , u feel like cheating on her . There’s no point going into a marriage and thinking of bonking other ladies at the same time ….

[owlette]

Originally Posted by InvasiveThought

Hi,
I'm a guy in my late 20s and due to get married soon. My partner and i don't bonk due to our conservative households and families. Although that, i do have needs. Should i "eat outside"?

based on your post, it seems like you have some sexual experience? or maybe that you have previously already test driven your partner? i think it matters alot to "test drive" before getting married. since sexual compatibility will play a part in the long run. you buy car dont let you test drive you dare to buy anot. even if household conservative, can bonk outside mah. if its because of her religion that believes that sex should only happen when trying to conceive a child, personally i would run far far. end up you cannot satisfy your own needs you go out and eat

suggest that if you havent started eating outside, dont start. its a pitfall that is hard to get out of.
if you eventually do "eat out", the cleanest would be paid services. even paid providers has the potential to get emotionally attached, let alone attached/married local/prs. at least paid services, they tend to have "limited stay period" in sg, even if things get complicated more often than not they have to eventually leave

[shimasu]

Originally Posted by Ivann

The safest is paid, bonk and forget, not ask " Do married/attached women bonk around discreetly? "

Agree. Most of the bros here going thru d1-3 and L are married anyway..

[Saunders]

Reminds me of another thread - what men wants.

[Continental]

Originally Posted by Saunders

Reminds me of another thread - what men wants.

There are many other threads on this popular topic

[InvasiveThought]

Originally Posted by 10019999

What if you realised your wife actually bonk with other guys before? Just saying because it happened to my friend.

How did your friend find out?

[InvasiveThought]

Originally Posted by owlette

based on your post, it seems like you have some sexual experience? or maybe that you have previously already test driven your partner? i think it matters alot to "test drive" before getting married. since sexual compatibility will play a part in the long run. you buy car dont let you test drive you dare to buy anot. even if household conservative, can bonk outside mah. if its because of her religion that believes that sex should only happen when trying to conceive a child, personally i would run far far. end up you cannot satisfy your own needs you go out and eat

suggest that if you havent started eating outside, dont start. its a pitfall that is hard to get out of.
if you eventually do "eat out", the cleanest would be paid services. even paid providers has the potential to get emotionally attached, let alone attached/married local/prs. at least paid services, they tend to have "limited stay period" in sg, even if things get complicated more often than not they have to eventually leave

Honestly got test drive before, so pretty sure the compatibility is there. Just feeling really guilty about it so no more

[InvasiveThought]

Originally Posted by haikim999

Just curious , all the time that u guys are together till now no sex yet ?? No urges to have sex meh ? You never test drive ur partner how you know that u guys are sexually compatible?


I find it puzzling that you are both adults and still held back by each other families conservative values.

It sounds abit weird tbh . Did you have a heart to heart talk with her on this issue ?


Tell her how u truly feel , u feel like cheating on her . There’s no point going into a marriage and thinking of bonking other ladies at the same time ….

I would say i've talked to her about it, and just really different drives.

[InvasiveThought]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

This kind topic + new account + sch holiday...

Working adults don't take off days and leave ah? You too imaginative ah bro. Maybe you too old cannot relate

[wantedbryan]

Safest is paid service, not using other people's wife/gf.

[10019999]

Originally Posted by InvasiveThought

How did your friend find out?

My wife is his wife bestie, since poly.

[Saunders]

Originally Posted by Continental

There are many other threads on this popular topic

Not so much the topic but the thread.
Thread started strange, ended fake, trying to advertise until exposed.

[Nekofear]

Originally Posted by InvasiveThought

Working adults don't take off days and leave ah? You too imaginative ah bro. Maybe you too old cannot relate

No sex with each other, okay.

If you want to relief your needs, just go for basic HJ service.

We as human don't know our partner's past so we can only trust or find out after heart to heart talk. So don't have too high expectations otherwise you will be devastated if things don't go as you intended.

Maybe you want to wed/ solemnise earlier? :P

[ArmKarn]

Originally Posted by InvasiveThought

Hi,

... Should i "eat outside"?.

Thanks!

Bro TS,

You're asking this question in a sex forum of course the answer is obvious ...

even wives also eat dicks outside ...