How to get him to do more - Page 2

mistiquerose · #16 22-07-2018, 07:19 PM

Bored. Anyone care to chat? Pm me for wechat

prettymannequin · #17 22-07-2018, 08:00 PM

Babe just wondering what happened with that dude? So was he just not interested? But how is it that he can go on 3 dates and still nothing? Men...

boyboyme · #18 22-07-2018, 08:38 PM

PM-ed you (:

mistiquerose · #19 22-07-2018, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by prettymannequin

Babe just wondering what happened with that dude? So was he just not interested? But how is it that he can go on 3 dates and still nothing? Men...

I confronted him about it instead of being frustrated. He says he's very much interested but just taking things slow. Aiya dont know la shy maybe

JuzOldGuy · #20 23-07-2018, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by mistiquerose

I confronted him about it instead of being frustrated. He says he's very much interested but just taking things slow. Aiya dont know la shy maybe

ur dating the wrong guy! open ur availability here n prepare to get plenty of fruitful dates

mistiquerose · #21 23-07-2018, 04:13 PM

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ur dating the wrong guy! open ur availability here n prepare to get plenty of fruitful dates

I'm looking for quality. Not quantity. Anyone can get away with a quick fuck.

MyNameIsFour · #22 23-07-2018, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by mistiquerose

Hi! This is going to be my 1st thread here. I'm 32 malay and married. No kids. I have my fun outside without hb knowing. Went out with a 46yo chinese guy. We hug n cuddle while watching movie at the cinema. But other than that he doesn't kiss me and hold my hand. How do i get him to do more? I don't want to be the more forward one as i like to be controlled and see the guy take the situation. I foresee if he doesn't do more he will be friendzoned as i do enjoy his company and talking to him. He also needs a companion as he was divorced last year and want someone to talk to. Help a sister out. Thank you in advance!

Start a topic by saying you and husband has not been doing it for awhile now

ask how was his sex life previously with ex, especially prior to divorce

Then shift the topic to how is he settling his sexual needs now

If he still don’t get the drift, he is probably too timid to touch Married women, maybe he was cheated on and don’t want to cheat on someone else wife, subconsciously he wants it, all men wants it

But the guilt might be holding him back

Hope this works for you, good luck sister

justl00king · #23 23-07-2018, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by mistiquerose

I confronted him about it instead of being frustrated. He says he's very much interested but just taking things slow. Aiya dont know la shy maybe

Is he bro CW, sure sounds like him

Can go slow but if taking too long, next better player

have fun

mistiquerose · #24 23-07-2018, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by justl00king

Is he bro CW, sure sounds like him

Can go slow but if taking too long, next better player

have fun

Wonder how bro CW looks like? Always asking other's pics?

I think if he kena friendzoned also he won't realise it

Yardstick · #25 23-07-2018, 10:52 PM

Did you make it clear to him that what you want is sex? It seems like he is in either the zone of where he wants it to slowly build up, or he is satisfied with the hugs, cuddles (he just to feel good).

I think it is important to start spelling out the conditions of the relationship since you both know that you are married and it constitutes to a cheating relationship.

JuzOldGuy · #26 24-07-2018, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by mistiquerose

I'm looking for quality. Not quantity. Anyone can get away with a quick fuck.

how do you justify quality when you haven't given any chance to the quantity?

storymode1 · #27 25-07-2018, 02:50 AM

Maybe you make him feel more dominate like when he auto-hug you can caress his wee-wee( at least seduce a little bit la ) said something like you bird bird hard liao you want some some or kiss him everywhere especially the nehneh area.... If he still can hold it, just buy some beer or something that can hype you and him mood up before anything can happen... Sometime mature men their "manly" works it other wonders...

If it still doesn't works, maybe take him to doctor.. perhaps he got "dys_________" you know