Married wife as FWB/FB

[georgie1994]

we consider lucky and know how to hide
after we meet in sugarbook.live, she already married, we continue date out, she is using a spare phone when come to contact me and hide in the safety box that her husband would not aware of.

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by TuttiFruitti

Luckily you managed to survive and moved on already! Cheers!

can survive, fwb is not wrong, just friends with some special benefit

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

I avoid married women because I was also a victim of infidelity. The only married woman I shagged was a PRC whose husband took our sovereignty with contempt.

Found out about my ex wife during our marriage that she had been sleeping with other men when she came back one day to demand for divorce and alimony. Being a goody two shoe I was, I attempted to salvage the broken marriage. Her relationship with her bf didn't work out but that didn't stop her from trying out others over the years. It happened for a few times until I could no longer take it. Emotionally hijacked, I attempted suicide after having a huge quarrel with her at a coffeeshop. A stranger stepped forward and tried to talk me out as I was crying along the road. He introduced me to sammyboyforum and encouraged me to continue living my life.

Although I survived that, I will not be automatically optimistic when a man discovers his wife has cheated on him especially if he married a Singaporean woman. Because that will also mean imminent financial ruin and possible suicide.

i always think married woman has some kind of attractive, but your points made me rethink

[georgie1994]

why some people needs fwb, mostly you will get this answer...not happy or satisfied in current relationship

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by fatuncle

Wa bro, ur ang mo sibei chim.
I abit catch no ball. Like can catch cannot catch feeling when reading your experience.

Can simplify abit for ppl like me?

Gum sia gum sia.

english too good, normal people like us cannot understand full

[entering]

Originally Posted by georgie1994

i always think married woman has some kind of attractive, but your points made me rethink

For me I've to be fair to my wife. If one day she come back and tell me she's fucking someone, actually I'll be very happy for her.

After our daughter passed away I think she really just don't want it. If not previously, we fuck almost everyday.

If she can find a FB outside, actually I don't mind as long as she doesn't get any serious STD and she doesn't neglect the children.

Only a few years more our kids all independent already. And we are early 40s. So she's got quite a lot of good fucking years left.

[zhenghuaboys]

I've heard of many wives cheating behind the husband's back. Quite common nowadays. Remember woman are always looking to level up. They can never settle.

[MisterBig]

Originally Posted by sleepy80

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here

I didn't say that the hubbies knew... In fact, on the contrary, the hubbies of my FBs didn't know because they trust their wives. I would add... too much.

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

Don't mean to offend any bros here who had their partners doing this to them... just saying as it is.

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

I was lucky I was able to secure a no maintenance clause. Because my lawyer did advise that since she resigned from her job, nevermind even if it's rage quit, I stand to lose if i continue fighting. I lost almost everything but the clause of no maintenance set me free. Also, legal fees are also costly. Lawyers win, she wins, I am the only loser in it. Count my losses and bail myself out when i could. Looking back, I am glad I survived. A costly lesson.

Thanks bro JacqueMerlin for your valuable sharing.

I am in my mid-40s now, and still not married. After reading your story, I hope to keep it that way

Just wondering, how did you almost lost everything? I thought you are still entitled to 50% of the monies when you sell your house?

[TuttiFruitti]

Originally Posted by MisterBig

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

I believe for woman, having more / many men is a trophy / entertainment rather than a need because they already have a husband and wants others only.

[audioslave666]

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by audioslave666

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

Unmet expectations are mere excuses for infidelity. What about the situation when she married him when he's rich but by no fault of his own he loses everything? Does thta constitute as a justification for infidelity?

[MisterBig]

Originally Posted by audioslave666

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

Bro... I'm with you. I can understand when you say your woman putting all the blame on the hubby, and not herself.

I had an married FB some time back and she was quite a willing partner. Couple of months after we started, she discovered her hubby was having an affair. And she started blaming the hubby for everything, kick up a storm, etc., while she was still actively having an affair (with me). Saying things like she married the wrong man... I was like WTF?!

I tried talking to her about it. But there's no talking to her about her share of infidelity. Cos she just didn't see it that way. So her version of reality is quite warped.

Just hang in there bro...

[spaman7]

Originally Posted by MisterBig

I didn't say that the hubbies knew... In fact, on the contrary, the hubbies of my FBs didn't know because they trust their wives. I would add... too much.

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

Don't mean to offend any bros here who had their partners doing this to them... just saying as it is.

Indeed, I have encountered 2FBs which behave the same as yours.

[Ahboy111]

Originally Posted by entering

For me I've to be fair to my wife. If one day she come back and tell me she's fucking someone, actually I'll be very happy for her.

After our daughter passed away I think she really just don't want it. If not previously, we fuck almost everyday.

If she can find a FB outside, actually I don't mind as long as she doesn't get any serious STD and she doesn't neglect the children.

Only a few years more our kids all independent already. And we are early 40s. So she's got quite a lot of good fucking years left.

Oh no...i am really sorry to hear about your story. I hope this would not affect your marriage too drastically. Try speaking to her, hopefully time heals all wounds and you both can close this chapter and move on slowly with your life.