Real life account of being in relationship with Thai FL

[jlanjut]

Waiting patiently for new updates.

[Smee]

Hmmmm, this is not a story.
This is at best a badly written summary of a story.
You skip through important details, you just go like, they stripped, they fucked.....
And without saying what happened, how to know how to react ?

Originally Posted by RockerLee

Part 5


While going thru and amending the deck and rehearsing, with Leaf leaning again his shoulder beside him, he caught a sight of her on Facebook and asked candidly if she could add him as well.

To say things escalated quickly will be an understatement.

That night, no bang, no kisses, after Mr T is done with the presentation prep, he slept outside on the sofa, got ready for work and as usual, left some money on the bedside table and left without a word or acknowledging Leaf, despite her pleas for his understanding.

After us bros heard this part, we all ask ourselves how we would have reacted in his shoes.

How would you guys react in this situation ?
 

Why did things escalate, how did it escalate ?
Her pleas for understanding ? About or for what ?

[RockerLee]

Originally Posted by iLuvSashimi

What did Leaf reply or what reason she gave bout adding her on FB?

Patience, there are things that need to fact check first

[RockerLee]

Originally Posted by Smee

Hmmmm, this is not a story.
This is at best a badly written summary of a story.
You skip through important details, you just go like, they stripped, they fucked.....
And without saying what happened, how to know how to react ?



Why did things escalate, how did it escalate ?
Her pleas for understanding ? About or for what ?

Says the leech with a 2011 account but only 11 post
Judge les you be judged

Contribute something better to the forum if you find this sharing of low quality

I look forward to your legitimate contributions

[RockerLee]

Part 6

After a successful presentation, Mr T joined his team for celebratory drinks and got piss drunk, surprising his coworkers as he is well known in the company, limiting himself usually to 1-2 drinks.

As he didn’t get back to the hotel at the usual time, Leaf was worried and kept calling him on his phone. One of his team members answered the phone and explained that Mr T is pissed drunk and they do not know which hotel he is staying at or what to do.

They carried him back to the hotel, greeted by a worried Leaf at the lobby.
Mr T mentioned he do not know what happened that night from his drunken stupor, but knew that Leaf was extremely concerned for him and despite the language barrier, went out and got him medication for hangover and what not.

Next morning, Mr T woke up with a splitting headache and Leaf hugging him. His movement awoken Leaf and immediately she got up and checked on him.

After she poured him a glass of water, they spoke, trying to recall what happened the night before, Leaf unlocked her phone and handed it to Mr T before going out to the living room.

Mr T deliberated awhile before locking the phone and walked out gingerly to join Leaf at the sofa and returning her the phone.

He just rests his head on her thighs, told her he didn’t check the phone and want to hear what she has to say instead of forming his own story or judgement.

She massaged his head after apologizing again for reacting badly and freaking out when he wanting to see her Facebook, only her family and closest friends are able to see her Facebook and even then, not everyone is able to everything she post, she is careful with who sees what and the contents of which are all her private thoughts and memories.

They both opened their hearts to each other and spent the whole morning talking and Leaf walked him thru her Facebook posts.

[Pokenpigs]

share more enjoy reading it

[RockerLee]

Part 7

Leaf showed what is exactly on her Facebook and came clean.

Most of her post were of her attending parties, travelling the world with her “Sugar” while she is actually travelling to work as FL and going out with customers to fancy places.

Technically not wrong, as she probably does have a sugar daddy or two in each of the countries she has visited. Judging from what I saw on her Facebook, should have at least 1 in each of Japan, Australia, Canada, Germany, Austria, Malaysia and Singapore.

According to Mr T, Leaf confessed that she has never held a normal job before in her life, from her teens till now, she always had someone to support her financially be it as a boyfriend, sugar or whatever and therefore afraid of actually finding an normal job despite holding a degree.

Latest post is a selfie of herself standing behind Mr T while they were ordering coffee from the evening before, with the caption, “Language is no barrier when Love is the language.”

Next is a post of the iPhone purchase, again a selfie with Mr T in the background making payment.

Slowly going thru the post till finally arriving at the post with a screen shot showing X amount of Thai Baht transferred to her by her “Sugar”, who turns out to be none other than Major Ops.

In another post, she posted a screen shot of their conversation about looking for a ring, with the caption, “lucky girl or silly man, not even a month already asking me to look for ring.” on Facebook.

Leaf confessed that she has always maintained contact with Major Ops since returning to BKK.

She shared further that he will frequently check in on her asking if she has enough money, sometimes transferring money before she could even respond in time.

And most importantly expressed his desire to get engaged with her and getting married within a year of engagement.

And thus, over time, she has developed a liking for Major Ops.

Love him or love him for the money?

Mr T also shared, while he personally does not use social media, he is aware that Thai girls, especially in Bangkok are addicted to social media.
They generally use Facebook, Instagram and tiktok to show off or craft a very careful image of themselves to gain followers, friends, envy and clout.

As with most people nowadays, have the fake it, till you make it mentality and thus his curiosity of how Leaf portrays herself.

Leaf shared further, she always felt that Mr T is busy with work, no time for her and have yet to express any signs of commitment to her.

She also felt Mr T is too perfect a guy for a working girl like her, and feels Mr T will be embarrassed to bring her out to meet his friends or family since they are like from different worlds, different status.

Mr T of course retorted back at her, this time and their past encounter in the past, they only in contact for less than 2 month, it is too soon to talk about engagement or anything of that sort.

Anyone who promises that to her is a liar or so caught up and head over heels, that once woken from the honey moon period, what ever feelings and relationship they have will end.

Mr T explained further, that he just wants to better understand each other before promising Leaf anything and he does not look down on her and asked if at any moment from before did he do or said anything that is in anyway degrading.

He just wants to do what he can to prove himself and to her that he is more than capable of fitting Leaf into his busy schedule and also to better understand her and does indeed still see a future with her, the same one that he has shared with her before.

Basically, Mr T do not want to promise the stars and in the end give Leaf only a picture of a star before waving bye bye if things don’t work out.

Leaf nodded in agreement, she is also sick and tired of being in relationships that burns brightly at first before fizzing out quickly and is indeed looking to settle down.

Yes, I am acutely aware how ridiculous it sounds that in less than a month, both Major Ops and Leaf are discussing about getting engaged and eventually married

[RockerLee]

Part 8

This is where Major Ops plays a big part in the story

As shared earlier, Major Ops has from the start expressed his desire to date Leaf with the idea of ultimately getting married with her.

Painted a beautiful picture of how he envision their future, not needing her to take care of his kids.

Not needing for her to stay with him permanently in SG after getting her
PR, allowing her decide when to alternate between SG and BKK.

Promising to let her stay in a nice hotel/service apartment during the initial months to slowly get used to Singapore and his kids, giving her space and freedom, while at the same time provide her with financial support and promising to give her family a large sum of money when they first get engaged.

In a nutshell, a tai tai lifestyle of no worries that many ladies desire and at the same time can securing her families’ future.

Leaf is of course swayed by this notion.

She has tested Major Ops a few times, asked for iPhone, for expenses, for money to celebrate friend’s birthday, for rent, for anything, no questions asked, Major Ops will quickly send the money over to her.

Granted most of the transfers were around 10,000 Baht (around 400 SGD), with iPhone being the exception, it does all adds up.

Basically, Major Ops is a yes man to whatever whims and desires she has.

And by the time Mr T’s work trip came, Leaf and Major Ops both have reached the stage where they are talking more about engagement, which countries traditions and customs to follow, what are the gifts required for her family and most importantly, they have agreed on a date and dollar amount.

It all seems too good to be true, but Leaf chose to believe the dream

Leaf agreed to join Mr T as she wanted to spend with Mr T for one last time and also to test her own feelings.

To see if her feelings for Mr T and Major Ops, which one is stronger and find a good / amicable reason to end things with Mr T, she even made sure she has enough cash to book a last min flight back to BKK if things get horribly out of hand.

She has expected her feelings for Major Ops to be strong, but as it turns out, the opposite is true. She is unable to find a reason, excuse or motivation to fault and leave Mr T, she is unable to carry on the lie and decided to come clean.

PS
Things start to get really complicated next and I need to double check with Mr T again, what is correct and what can be shared

[ssspikeee]

Originally Posted by RockerLee

Part 8

This is where Major Ops plays a big part in the story

As shared earlier, Major Ops has from the start expressed his desire to date Leaf with the idea of ultimately getting married with her.

Painted a beautiful picture of how he envision their future, not needing her to take care of his kids.

Not needing for her to stay with him permanently in SG after getting her
PR, allowing her decide when to alternate between SG and BKK.

Promising to let her stay in a nice hotel/service apartment during the initial months to slowly get used to Singapore and his kids, giving her space and freedom, while at the same time provide her with financial support and promising to give her family a large sum of money when they first get engaged.

In a nutshell, a tai tai lifestyle of no worries that many ladies desire and at the same time can securing her families’ future.

Leaf is of course swayed by this notion.

She has tested Major Ops a few times, asked for iPhone, for expenses, for money to celebrate friend’s birthday, for rent, for anything, no questions asked, Major Ops will quickly send the money over to her.

Granted most of the transfers were around 10,000 Baht (around 400 SGD), with iPhone being the exception, it does all adds up.

Basically, Major Ops is a yes man to whatever whims and desires she has.

And by the time Mr T’s work trip came, Leaf and Major Ops both have reached the stage where they are talking more about engagement, which countries traditions and customs to follow, what are the gifts required for her family and most importantly, they have agreed on a date and dollar amount.

It all seems too good to be true, but Leaf chose to believe the dream

Leaf agreed to join Mr T as she wanted to spend with Mr T for one last time and also to test her own feelings.

To see if her feelings for Mr T and Major Ops, which one is stronger and find a good / amicable reason to end things with Mr T, she even made sure she has enough cash to book a last min flight back to BKK if things get horribly out of hand.

She has expected her feelings for Major Ops to be strong, but as it turns out, the opposite is true. She is unable to find a reason, excuse or motivation to fault and leave Mr T, she is unable to carry on the lie and decided to come clean.

PS
Things start to get really complicated next and I need to double check with Mr T again, what is correct and what can be shared

Looking forward to the next update!

[RockerLee]

Part 9

Leaf shared further.

During her time Singapore, despite meeting Major Ops almost every night, they hardly had sex.

She also does not trust him enough, always insisting on protection.

This in contrast to when she is with Mr T, she cannot control herself and since their time years before always end up summiting herself to him, wanting to feel every ridge of Mr T without the pesky rubber coming between them, everything was just natural and she enjoyed the passion they shared.

When they are out, she seldom holds Major Ops hands, but with Mr T, she instantly wants to hold on to his hands and feels proud that she is the one holding his hands instead of others.

Then comes the kicker, there was never the feeling of passion with Major Ops, he has never made her climax, but with Mr T, she cums hard nearly every single time.

She has accepted Major Ops because how ready he seems to be to fully commit to her.

Because of the promise of freedom and not controlling her life, she thought that she can her cake and eat it too, believing it is possible to also continuing to have a relationship with Mr T despite engagement.

To which Mr T replied, “So, I’m your gik lor?” and Leaf went silent.

During their moment of silence, Mr T realised that it was their last night in Country X, and all of his coworkers were either on their flights back or flying back later in the day.

He decided to just enjoy whatever remaining time he has with Leaf in the city, but making sure Leaf understood the situation and got her to promise that she will give it sometime and think it over clearly before coming to a firm decision.

Mr T shared that the rest of the day, they painted the town red, and were both drunk on passion and alcohol.

Before they left country X, Leaf got Mr T to create a Facebook account and added him, give full access and permission to him to view all that she has ever posted. 

[RockerLee]

Part 10

A couple days passed since they both returned to their respective countries.

They still continued talking late into the night as usual, this routine has started affecting Mr T’s overall health and concentration levels at work.
Their conversations were deeper and more was shared by her, topics covering how she sees her future to what Major Ops talks to her about amongst other stuff.

Mr T was uncomfortable with Leaf talking about another man with him, still felt compelled to offer a listening ear or advice when needed.

One afternoon, she sent Mr T a screen shot of a diamond ring on her finger, followed by screen shot of her conversation with Major Ops.

Mr T immediately called Leaf and asked if she understood what Major Ops is actually saying. Leaf didn’t understand or care what Major Ops is implying, as she just likes how the ring looks and wants to buy it.

Mr T called her back, asking for the price and offered to pay for it instead, but it was too late.

Ring was purchased, money was transferred, proposal indirectly accepted.
Mr T just told her he accepts her decision and hang up, rejecting all attempts by Leaf to call him back.

Checking her Facebook, Mr T can see that she already posted a selfie of herself wearing the ring with a bright smile. With a lot of congratulation messages from her friends, Leaf however is still blissfully unaware of the symbolism of the diamond ring.

[RockerLee]

Part 11

Later that night, Leaf finally understood the gravity of the situation during her daily call with Major Ops.

Once that call was done, she immediately tried to call Mr T.
After trying to contact Mr T on all platforms to no avail, she finally made an international call to his mobile, and Mr T finally answered the call and told her there is nothing to talk about anymore, she already decided and hung up.

Later that night, around 3-4am SG time, Leaf called Mr T again, nonstop calling till he finally answered. She was pissed drunk and kept apologising to him, telling him she made a mistake, blah blah blah before she fell asleep.

Mr T tried to move on with his life, only reading her messages and not replying, ignoring her drunken attempts to call him almost every night.
Until one night, he received an image from her, showing blood in her vomit. He grew concerned and replied.

She immediately video called him and before he could even question her about the vomit, showed him her toilet sink where she just vomited, her face full of concern and worry.

Probing further, she shared that she is very troubled by what she got herself into, committed herself without thinking, fearful of it and have been perpetually drunk the past few days, she doesn’t know what to do or how to resolve the situation.

Major Ops is also apparently angry with her for her constant drunkenness, so much for freedom to do what she wants.

Mr T just listened and before ending their call, told her to rest and sober up before calling him again.

[RockerLee]

Part 12

Knowing Leaf well, Mr T ordered some medication and supplements to be delivered to her house and sent her an image of the order and tracking details.

But not get drawn into a conversation, continuing to ignore her calls and messages the whole day.

Only after he gets home, showered and ready for bed did he replied to her messages with a good night, remember to collect the parcel when ready.
And continued ignoring her calls and messages, he has a lot on his plate, preparing for yet another work trip.

Mr T arrived in Country Z.

Having the reminder of the day to himself. He was out and about, to see what has changed, last he was there was pre covid.

As he walked the streets, rediscovering the areas he was familiar with from before. His work phone rang and without thinking, he just answered it.

It was Leaf calling via international call.

He told her to not waste money, and quickly explained that he is not in Singapore and is at work, will reply her when he is free and ended the call.

Next day, in the late afternoon, Mr T answered an unknown call, it was Leaf calling from a public phone in HK airport. He was surprised, yet skeptical and told her not to play this kind of joke.

Leaf told him to check Telegram, she tried calling and even sent him a selfie of herself at the airport.

After ending the call, checked his phone. Leaf is indeed in HK, he quickly video called her, directing her to the location to take a taxi to the hotel he is staying at and told her to approach the concierge when she arrives, he will make the arrangements with the hotel for her.

Mr T tried to arrange for a room for Leaf, but it was full for the night. Left with only suites or family rooms. Thus, Mr T instructed the concierge that he is expecting a guest and to please give her access to the hotel’s lounge and gym facilities to freshen up if needed, billed under his account.

After the work day is done, Mr T sat at a nearby café to try process what has happen before heading back to the hotel.

[dyin9]

Hahaha this story seems very familiar as it is the same thing over and over again with Thai women. Thai women are not to be trusted, they should be used that's all. This leaf probably has a husband in Thailand which she introduce as 'friend' or 'cousin'

[titan]

This story is so so similar to a Chinese ML I knew and love for a short while. She has a bf who fed her money but no time to accompany her and then an army regular who she doesn't do anything to him and gives her money regularly. And I'm the jerk who came in between them who screwed up all her plans then left her after she got white card in SG. To my acknowledge, the army guy is still giving her money while the rich fella has left her with a chunk of money. SG really got a lot of rich bros who don't mind giving money to MLs..