An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[reddevil3d]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

June reappeared and sat back down. Darren and I had already gotten dressed.

J: Well that has been rather interesting.

She eyed the glass of Moscato that I'd left untouched so far and gulped it down in one go.

D: Refill?

J: Yes please. Thanks.

He topped up the glass and got me another.

N: Don't think you learnt much though.

J: I guess I'm the jealous and impulsive one and I need to talk to my husband more.

D: Yes you do. These things work both ways.

J: Would she really not feel jealous if another woman made a move on you?

D: As long as we talk about it and both parties are in agreement.

J: And she'd wanna watch as well?

D: Nah. What we do in private is private.

N: I like it when he watches though. Haha. You saw how turned on he got when I was blowing Mark.

J: And you just left him as it is?

N: Look, it's not about that. This is just one of the ways we maintain the spark in our marriage. Managing two kids is very tiring. Teasing each other livens things up a bit.

D: It helps when I have a wife whom I can't satisfy normally. It shows her that I'm still very much attracted to her you know.

N: But we're happy because we understand and accommodate each other's needs. And that only happens because we communicate.

J: I was thinking you guys were the weird ones for being able to have such an open and honest relationship. I guess maybe it's me who's weird.

N: You're not weird. You're just not being honest with your feelings. And you jump to conclusions about your husband. Just have a nice chat with him. Better yet, invite him over, we can talk to him as well.

J: Oh no. I wouldn't do that. I don't know how he'd react if he knew I was here.

Me: He'd probably just assume you're out with your FWB and give you a good fucking later.

J: Haha. You're probably right there.

N: I hope we managed to give you some ideas of how our relationship works. But it may not work for everyone. At least it's better than sneaking around and always wondering what the other party is up to.

J: I'll see how I can talk to my husband.

Me: You had a threesome with him and your first FWB right?

J: Yeah. I thought he would break up with me after that but we didn't. For that period of time it actually made us more open with each other.

Me: Maybe it's time for another threesome then.

D: Yeah. Those are fun.

N: I totally agree.

J: I don't know if there's chemistry between those two.

D: There's only one way to find out. When Mark was looking for another cock for Jasmine, do you seriously think there was chemistry between us? We just went with the flow. Plus there was the unexpected 4th person.

J: And you guys actually managed double penetration.

D: Yup. We did. Lots of lube.

J: I can't even get either of them to try anal. They're so scared of hurting me.

N: Start small.

She pointed at me and pretended to whisper to her.

N: He's not that big.

Me: Very funny Nat.

J: Haha. You won't believe the number of PMs I've gotten from guys who want to volunteer. But seriously no. If I'm going to do it, it's gonna be with my husband or FWB.

Me: Make sure you have loads of lube then.

J: I guess I have a lot of things to discuss with my husband.

Darren reappeared with another bottle of Moscato.

D: Hey, so I just found this open bottle…

N: Ya right. This is just an excuse for you to drink.

We all laughed.

We continued chatting and drinking till it was way past midnight. I stopped at 4 glasses in total though, as my stomach was still relatively empty from not having dinner. Thanks goodness for the Korean crackers or whatever those things were that they had brought back.

Close to 1am, June suddenly sobered up.

J: Goodness. Look at the time.

N: Is your husband expecting you home?

J: Ah. Not really? But I never stayed out this late without telling him before.

D: I guess we can call it a night.

J: Yeah. Let me try to get a Grab.

I helped Darren to clear up the table. Nat came into the kitchen.

N: Hey, why don't you offer to send her back? She seems to be having trouble getting a Grab.

Me: I drank.

N: You didn't drink a lot. Compared to us.

Me: Not very appropriate right?

N: Why? Afraid she'll get the wrong idea? Or afraid she'll want you to try her ass. Hahaha.

Me: Funny.

June called out from the living room.

J: I can hear you from here.

Darren and Nat laughed. We all went back to the living room.

N: Well, I hope you can see yourselves out. I need to take care of my husband's erection.

D: Huh? I don't have an erection…

She grabbed his crotch.

N: Soon you will.

She led him to the room by the dick.

June looked at me.

J: They're pretty hilarious. I wonder if my husband can be like this.

Me: Just talk to him. I'll need to talk to Jasmine too.

J: You do that.

Me: Managed to get a Grab yet?

J: Nope. Nobody wants to come here apparently.

Me: I could drop you off.

J: Don't be too nice. It's not good.

Me: Why?

J: The trend I noticed in your stories is that you're too nice to everyone. Then they all want to sleep with you.

Me: I'm sure that's not the main reason.

J: Oh well. Being a nice guy helps.

Me: So where can I drop you?

J: Erm. I don't really stay that far away. If you're ok you could send me home.

Me: Sure.

We left their place just as we heard Darren groaning.

J: That's really fast. It's barely been 5 minutes.

Me: Well Nat's blowjobs are really out of this world.

J: Right.

Me: Weren't you in the least bit tempted?

J: Nah. Nice cock. But I wasn't here for that.

Me: I see.

We headed to the car park and got into the car. June gave me the address and told me she was going to take a short nap.

I reached her place and gently shook her awake by her shoulder.

Me: Hey, we're here.

J: Wow that's fast. Were you speeding?

Me: No. It's been 20 minutes already.

J: Oh. I must be really tired then.

Me: I'll walk you to the lift.

J: Haha. You're too sweet.

We walked to her lift lobby and waited for the lift.

J: Hey Mark?

Me: Yeah?

J: I was wrong.

Me: About?

J: You. You're not that small after all. Just rather average.

Me: Erm thanks?

J: Well I wish you all the best.

Me: Same to you.

I waited for the lift to stop at her floor before I headed to the car.

I dropped her an email to ask if she was home safely yet but as expected there was no reply so I headed back.

After I got home and took a shower, I headed straight to Alicia's room. It was empty, so I just lay on the bed. Kate and probably even Shirlyn were probably in the master bedroom.

I noticed a notification on my phone. June had replied to my email.

J: Thanks for arranging tonight. It wasn't really what I expected it to be but I'm thankful. By the way, here's my Telegram, XXXXXXX. And congrats, you're the second guy on my Telegram.

I closed my eyes and went to sleep. Drinking on a relatively empty stomach was definitely not a good idea.

This june and the user junebaby same person?

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Good life - ok only.

Not enough sex - definitely not. I meet my FWB around twice a week now. Sadly it's mostly quickies at that stupid staircase.

I don't meet clients f2f so tailored or not, my blouses won't really matter.

TS, don't mind hijack your thread

Sis junebaby ,ask your FWB to purchase this types of outdoor sex short or pant

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Good life - ok only.

Not enough sex - definitely not. I meet my FWB around twice a week now. Sadly it's mostly quickies at that stupid staircase.

I don't meet clients f2f so tailored or not, my blouses won't really matter.

Looking good is not just for business or work. It's more of a matter of taste and self esteem. To be fair, there could also be those who dress well but lack substance to have a good finishing.
Hmm.. You must have regretted to have quickie at the staircase. Maybe it's time to exute your dominance by telling your FWB that you need variety and not just quickie at the staircase.
Last but not least, you consider twice a week with your FWB as enough sex? That's rather low on sex drive. I know of some who feel even once a day as inadequate.
Anyway, to each it's own. 🙏

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by ah rat

TS, don't mind hijack your thread

Ask your FWB to purchase this types of outdoor sex short or pant

I'm usually in skirt/dress so it's easier.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Looking good is not just for business or work. It's more of a matter of taste and self esteem. To be fair, there could also be those who dress well but lack substance to have a good finishing.
Hmm.. You must have regretted to have quickie at the staircase. Maybe it's time to exute your dominance by telling your FWB that you need variety and not just quickie at the staircase.
Last but not least, you consider twice a week with your FWB as enough sex? That's rather low on sex drive. I know of some who feel even once a day as inadequate.
Anyway, to each it's own. 🙏

Could be more, but it's enough for me.

Very hard for my FWB to go hotel, he's married so quickies the most convenient.

Anyway when I get home and my husband is awake, it's round 2 or more.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by Asakura

meaning the quickies are not satisfying you enough

They are. More wouldn't hurt but I'm satisfied.

Originally Posted by reddevil3d

This june and the user junebaby same person?

Yes. It's me.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by junebaby

Could be more, but it's enough for me.

Very hard for my FWB to go hotel, he's married so quickies the most convenient.

Anyway when I get home and my husband is awake, it's round 2 or more.

From your earlier writing, you mentioned you and your hubby are in your 30s or late 30s? If so, the frequency you have with your hubby and FWB are not high at all, yet you mentioned you were hoping for more sex.
To be fair, there are also those whose sex life a year that's countable within the two palms. That one is very sad, especially if one party merely giving in to the other who either has a low to no sexual urge, or is actually engaging with FWB for CCA outside of the marriage.
I once saw a news about a Chinese man wanted a divorce as the wife has very high sex drive. Everyday she wanted to do at least thrice which the husband couldn't manage physically.
Even if physically he can ejaculate thrice a day but when he's required to do that everyday, he will probably die early like those ancient emperors who got to service the empress and concubines.

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

From your earlier writing, you mentioned you and your hubby are in your 30s or late 30s? If so, the frequency you have with your hubby and FWB are not high at all, yet you mentioned you were hoping for more sex.
To be fair, there are also those whose sex life a year that's countable within the two palms. That one is very sad, especially if one party merely giving in to the other who either has a low to no sexual urge, or is actually engaging with FWB for CCA outside of the marriage.
I once saw a news about a Chinese man wanted a divorce as the wife has very high sex drive. Everyday she wanted to do at least thrice which the husband couldn't manage physically.
Even if physically he can ejaculate thrice a day but when he's required to do that everyday, he will probably die early like those ancient emperors who got to service the empress and concubines.

I think an average of 3-4 times a week is higher than the national average for people of my age group.

I'm not going to be some Mark or Jasmine or Shirlyn or Nat. That's just crazy.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by junebaby

I think an average of 3-4 times a week is higher than the national average for people of my age group.

I'm not going to be some Mark or Jasmine or Shirlyn or Nat. That's just crazy.

GG, you actually believe in those stats?

[junebaby]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

GG, you actually believe in those stats?

Like I said, could be more, but I'm happy with what I've got right now.

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

GG, you actually believe in those stats?

I think those stats are decent. It's more than what I'm getting now anyway. A lot more than some guys I know as well.

[Shrouded]

It was still dark when I awoke because I felt someone's lips and tongue around my cock. I hoped it wasn't Kate.

Whoever it was brought me to full hardness and climbed on. I squinted to try to get acquainted with the darkness. It was Jasmine.

Me: What's going on?

She whispered.

J: We're having sex?

Me: Why so secretive?

J: Kate and Shirlyn are still sleeping.

Me: And? Not as though they don't know we have sex.

J: Don't want them to wake up and want to join in.

Me: Ah ha! You do get jealous!

J: No? But sometimes I don't feel like sharing.

Me: Oh.

She rode me awhile longer and came, then lay down beside me.

J: So how's that girl? Nat texted me just now, said you sent her home.

Me: I did. That's all.

J: I know. I trust you. But if you want to do anything, please tell me first.

Me: I don't want to do anything.

J: In case you want to do anything then.

Me: Right.

J: Nat says she's got nice tits. Like Alicia and Shirlyn.

Me: I think it's a good bra.

J: How can you tell?

Me: I'm assuming.

J: Never wanted to check it out for yourself?

Me: There's no interest between us. She just wants to find out more about Darren and Nat's open relationship.

J: Nat also said she saw both of your cocks. And she wasn't interested.

Me: Yup. So you got nothing to worry about.

J: What a strange lady.

Me: I think she's just curious and wants to make the relationship between her husband and her fwb better. That's all.

J: Of all the people she could have looked for, she chose you.

Me: Well I do write about it on the forum.

J: Yeah yeah. I know.

Me: She's a reader.

J: Obviously. You want her to be a joiner?

Me: No?

J: Good.

Me: You're worried.

J: Of course I am. You're the village bicycle.

Me: Have you been actively reading the story?

J: Now and then. Why?

Me: Because I don't recall saying I was the village bicycle. Someone else did.

J: Yup. I read that.

Me: Then you also know that we need to talk about our relationship properly.

J: Yup.

Me: Are we going to?

J: Yup.

Me: Yup isn't an answer.

J: Look. I'm happy with you. I can see myself growing old with you. But I also see how happy everyone else is. I don't want to lose you, yet I don't want to make others unhappy. You're not my property, but if I make you mine, will you be happy knowing others are unhappy?

Me: You know the phrase short pain is better than long pain?

J: Did you just directly translate that from Chinese?

Me: Yeah.

J: Funny. But I know for sure 2 people will be upset. One is Alicia and the other Shirlyn. Both are my close friends now, and Alicia is like a sister to me.

Me: Do you still want to get married? To me?

J: Yes. I really want to spend my life with you.

Me: Why?

J: Why what?

Me: Why do you want me to spend the rest of your life with you?

J: You were there for me when I was at my lowest, you never judged me, you comforted me, and you did more than anyone else in a similar situation should. You didn't give up on me. And you did it while sacrificing your other relationships. I don't know many guys who would do that. Why did you do it?

Me: Because I like you?

J: Do you love me?

Me: I don't think either of us truly knows what love is.

J: Agreed.

Me: Do you think marriage is really the best choice?

J: I don't know. All I know is I want you by my side. I depend on you a lot. You're like my invisible pillar of support.

Me: I know.

J: But what about the rest of them? You're their support too. I can feel it.

Me: Do you think we can be like Darren and Nat?

J: Isn't that what we're doing right now?

Me: I guess. But do you think we can continue like this if we're married?

J: I don't know. I really don't. I'll find it harder. And I might lose two good friends. Maybe more.

Me: Then I think we need to be selfish. Do what we want to do. Don't care about the others. Can you do that?

J: I don't know. Can you?

Me: I don't know either.

J: I don't think there's much point talking to Darren and Nat and trying to adopt their values and lifestyle when we don't even know what we really want at the end. All I know now is that I'm happy with this arrangement, and I hope you can be happy too.

Me: I am happy. I just don't want the others to get hurt.

J: Alicia already left. It's only Shirlyn now.

Me: Yeah.

The door suddenly opened and Shirlyn walked in, then lay down beside me.

S: I heard everything.

Me: Oh.

S: I'm already hurt. It's fine. Just don't hurt me more.

Me: How would I hurt you more?

S: By leaving me out completely? I don't know.

Me: There seems to be a lot of things none of us know.

S: It's my fault that I got involved. I know that. And I tried to leave. You know that too. I've tried to distract myself with other guys and it doesn't work.

J: We know.

S: Until I find a devoted partner of my own I would want things to stay this way.

Me: And what if you don't find a partner?

S: Then we'll just have to wait and see.

Me: It's like back to square one you know.

J: Back to square one is you going back to Ann and none of us ever existed.

Me: That's not possible.

J: Then we'll just carry on for as long as this goes.

S: I'm ok with that.

Me: Don't I have a say in this? What about the short pain and the long pain?

S: It's still pain. But I'm happy when we're together.

J: Me too.

Me: Then I really don't have a choice right?

J: Let's just sleep on this. Think about it later.

S: Ok.

They both curled up beside me and went to sleep.

For me the choice was clear. I would have to leave all of them. Hurt everyone and myself in the process and wish none of this ever started.

But that wasn't a choice I was willing to make.

[Yirkin]

Excellent stuff, camping for more!!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by faketobey

Now i remember why i gave up my singaporean citizenship. The kiasuness among sngaporean is just too funny. Dont worry i will not comment or read this post or any post that junior canible post in. Yawn boring not here to argue but if people on here need a morality check then they should not be on a sex website. Whatever signing out forever. Can even ban me. Dont really care.

same as me, I'm a quitter (Stayer vs Quitter controversy back in the 90s, although I quit sg in early 2000s), haha. We can shake hands.

But I didn't forget why I quit sg (look at my signature). As China folks say, I'm a 理工男, and thinking further about it, many, even most sg men are 理工男 pattern.

While sg gals, life has been so good to them, they have so much luxury that they can afford to "don't exactly know what they want", or worse, really don't know what they want! And they are protected by the law & Women's Charter.

There's already enough cases where at the time of engaging in the act, the female was willing. But after the act, the female regretted, made report they are unwilling victims. That ruined the guys.

I'm also kiasu + kiasi, to protect myself, keep a distance from sg gals. There's plenty of pussies in APAC region, even if u sleep with an unmarried & unattached girl from another APAC country every night, u can't finish sleeping all of them in your entire life! Give up 1 tree, I still have the forest! hahaha!

And that not only protect me from the double standard or unfair law. Not that I wanna molest or rape any gals, as I said, there's more than I can sleep in my entire life!

Not to mention, I also have FWBs in Europe. It was difficult decision to make about marrying my German FWB or my current wife. Back then, my German FWB broke off with her then bf, even changed job to be together with me (I prefer to be in APAC, favourite being in China). And she went to attend evening classes to learn Chinese cos of this.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

I think those stats are decent. It's more than what I'm getting now anyway. A lot more than some guys I know as well.

What I saw trying to say is, when I was in my 30s, I was like a rabbit. That's why rather surprised by June and the stats, now that you also said so, perhaps that's the norm in Singapore.
Anyway, as said, to each it's own. No right or wrong.
Cest la vie.

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

What I saw trying to say is, when I was in my 30s, I was like a rabbit. That's why rather surprised by June and the stats, now that you also said so, perhaps that's the norm in Singapore.
Anyway, as said, to each it's own. No right or wrong.
Cest la vie.

I'm sure there's some exceptions to the norm. Maybe I'm just tired on the weekdays due to work and weekends are sometimes equally exhausting.