Not true leh. For both my kids, my wife did natural birth and I just view it like normal while the gynae and nurses busied along. It is definitely bloody and messy. Nothing really sexy about it if you ask me.
I think you guys are kept out because of fear that later they need a hospital bed space for you when you faint from the bloody scene.
Maybe it's on a case-to-case basis or it's different from hosp to hosp..but tis is wat bro andrews9030 said...
maybe so in the case of natural birth, but the decision to see and watch the childbirth or not shd to be left to the husbands concerned...if he is so afraid of blood i m sure he won't want to be around voluntarily by himself no need for the hosp staff to block him off...
wat i was referring to is even when the nurses want to shave your wife's pussy hair "botak" b4 the caesarian ops a simple harmless painless procedure they also want to block husbands off making them stand outside the curtain and some nurses even shoo the husband away saying "don't see, nothing concern you, go and take yr lunch 1st"
Maybe it's on a case-to-case basis or it's different from hosp to hosp..but tis is wat bro andrews9030 said...
maybe so in the case of natural birth, but the decision to see and watch the childbirth or not shd to be left to the husbands concerned...if he is so afraid of blood i m sure he won't want to be around voluntarily by himself no need for the hosp staff to block him off...
wat i was referring to is even when the nurses want to shave your wife's pussy hair "botak" b4 the caesarian ops a simple harmless painless procedure they also want to block husbands off making them stand outside the curtain and some nurses even shoo the husband away saying "don't see, nothing concern you, go and take yr lunch 1st"
Guess the shooing you off during the shaving is a way of protecting the modesty. You know how some can be very conservative.
Guess the shooing you off during the shaving is a way of protecting the modesty. You know how some can be very conservative.
Thks for yr input bro yardstick ...talking abt modesty...there is no more modesty left anymore for yr wife once she arrives at the birthing section in the hospital ..she will be told to strip herself completely naked for all the necessary pre-procedures to be done, having to remove her maternity gown and her bra and panties especially ..for all the medical personnel both male doctors and attendants and female nurses to see if they are the ones involved in the preparation for the birth of the baby...or for those who are not, they may just pop in to 'discreetly' watch in the guise of helping to do something related to the procedures
Thks for yr input bro yardstick ...talking abt modesty...there is no more modesty left anymore for yr wife once she arrives at the birthing section in the hospital ..she will be told to strip herself completely naked for all the necessary pre-procedures to be done, having to remove her maternity gown and her bra and panties especially ..for all the medical personnel both male doctors and attendants and female nurses to see if they are the ones involved in the preparation for the birth of the baby...or for those who are not, they may just pop in to 'discreetly' watch in the guise of helping to do something related to the procedures
You must treasure your wife but it must be traumatizing for her?
You must treasure your wife but it must be traumatizing for her?
Yes, i treasure her very much bro ...i tink the one who is more traumatized is me and not my wife...she was traumatized by the fear and pain of going thru' the caesarian ops whereas i am more traumatized mentally and emotionally ...being forced to separate and blocked off from her by all the hosp staff as if i am a stranger guy who is not her husband and who has no business to be around her from all the procedures, all the time in the hosp until they delivered our baby and she was rolled into her ward room to recover...
Yes, i treasure her very much bro ...i tink the one who is more traumatized is me and not my wife...she was traumatized by the fear and pain of going thru' the caesarian ops whereas i am more traumatized mentally and emotionally ...being forced to separate and blocked off from her by all the hosp staff as if i am a stranger guy who is not her husband and who has no business to be around her from all the procedures, all the time in the hosp until they delivered our baby and she was rolled into her ward room to recover...
That's what I meant what she is about to go through may be life or death and that's nothing compared to just watching it.
Always remember her decision to bear a kid for you, that's your motivation for loving her for life .
That's what I meant what she is about to go through may be life or death and that's nothing compared to just watching it.
Always remember her decision to bear a kid for you, that's your motivation for loving her for life .
Yes, u r rite bro, agree with u... childbirth is a thrilling experience for both husband and wife and we r now talking abt the hosp having no right to rob the couple of watching this wonderful experience by separating the husband away from his wife during the birthing process from the time they reach the hosp till the time they leave it...
My gf didnt see doctor for checkup... she was sick and lazy to wear bra. With her jacket on, others cannot tell she not wearing bra. She sometimes take mc because lazy to go work so went back often. The doctor remember her and she has a feeling that the doctor was trying to see if she wear a bra when she see him.
Probably doctor remembered her for not wearing bra previously
Doctor do get weird ideas. Got one when i go for natal checkup, he ask me how often i have sex, then when he wants to check my inside, he put the jelly on my private part, then flick my clitoris part three times with finger, and i don't know why. later he put scope inside to see, and he put inside for a long time.
Doctor do get weird ideas. Got one when i go for natal checkup, he ask me how often i have sex, then when he wants to check my inside, he put the jelly on my private part, then flick my clitoris part three times with finger, and i don't know why. later he put scope inside to see, and he put inside for a long time.