Why do you all cheat?

[dman19]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Thx bro, have up u pts. And after knowing they are ok to proceed with the cheating?

Yeah… they are not saints, and you are not their only fish

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by dman19

Yeah… they are not saints, and you are not their only fish

So true, so many bros out there as their ‘boyfriends’. Ok thx bro

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros, hope to seek your advice. Do you tell the woman you are cheating with/steal eat with that you are attached/married?

For example if your FL/ML/xiao san ask you whether you got gf/wife you will be honest with them?

Thx senior bros.

I did tell the FL and she was the casino and she said she didn't mind

Later through the years she pretend to mind and used it as reasons to break up or justify her cheating.

But honestly, I told her, you were with married men before as well and what trade are you in? KTV, escort, FL, ML, drugs, gambling, let's not pretend to take some high moral ground when one has been in the pits.

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros, hope to seek your advice. Do you tell the woman you are cheating with/steal eat with that you are attached/married?

For example if your FL/ML/xiao san ask you whether you got gf/wife you will be honest with them?

Thx senior bros.

if u knw how to gong tao them until accept yr current married background then that is ok.. but if you tell too early also not good.. you will have to handle jealousy long term.
regardless my 2 cents is get 2 phones, always use the other when with xiao san. Make sure she has the impression u always busy & need to travel overseas for work. Remind yrself this one for sex.. dont need invest so much $ pampering caring and other time waste rubbish

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi senior bros, hope to seek your advice. Do you tell the woman you are cheating with/steal eat with that you are attached/married?

For example if your FL/ML/xiao san ask you whether you got gf/wife you will be honest with them?

Thx senior bros.

why be honest to a woman from these parts? just get into her parts, say whatever you need to get in.

Honesty is not the currency with these women. Money is, and in exchange we want sex and their body to put our juice.

believe me, these women are never going to be good and decent wives and gfs for anyone.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

if u knw how to gong tao them until accept yr current married background then that is ok.. but if you tell too early also not good.. you will have to handle jealousy long term.
regardless my 2 cents is get 2 phones, always use the other when with xiao san. Make sure she has the impression u always busy & need to travel overseas for work. Remind yrself this one for sex.. dont need invest so much $ pampering caring and other time waste rubbish

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

why be honest to a woman from these parts? just get into her parts, say whatever you need to get in.

Honesty is not the currency with these women. Money is, and in exchange we want sex and their body to put our juice.

believe me, these women are never going to be good and decent wives and gfs for anyone.

Thx both senior bros for the tips and tricks to up ML. Up you both humble pts

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Thx both senior bros for the tips and tricks to up ML. Up you both humble pts

Up you back, take care!

[Tonnerre]

The fundamentals of 1 man 1 woman is flawed.
It is just a most beneficial for all party practise.
There's no need for a reason to cheat, like the sun has no need to explain why it is bright and hot.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Tonnerre

The fundamentals of 1 man 1 woman is flawed.
It is just a most beneficial for all party practise.
There's no need for a reason to cheat, like the sun has no need to explain why it is bright and hot.

I can agree with that in some way. but then again, its a subjective view

Some women just need to have more men, some men need to have more women.

And then some men just need 1 woman, and some women just need 1 man.

I would say, as a cheater, I went into cheating only because the 7 serious relationships I have had, they all ended up with me being cheated on, the serious, stable, decent man who put in his heart and soul.
In response, I realise that it pointless to be the one at home, crying over someone else's actions.
They have fun, you bleed. This is not right. And it happened 7 times, being the good man I was.
I then decided if you can't beat them join them. And now, at least on the emotional level, I am happier.

I don't feel great when we look at the actions through morality, but morality is seldom worth it's weight in gold. And at least, I am not the one, standing at the altar of commitment and crying my eyes out alone whilst my partner has gone off to have her fun.

Cheating is now my defence mechanism.

https://vt.co/lifestyle/groom-weddin...bride-cheating

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I did tell the FL and she was the casino and she said she didn't mind

Later through the years she pretend to mind and used it as reasons to break up or justify her cheating.

But honestly, I told her, you were with married men before as well and what trade are you in? KTV, escort, FL, ML, drugs, gambling, let's not pretend to take some high moral ground when one has been in the pits.

They would say that is in the past.

[Adamapples]

Cheating is not always because of the need for sex. but because sometimes our partners don't pay attention to the attention we want

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Adamapples

Cheating is not always because of the need for sex. but because sometimes our partners don't pay attention to the attention we want

Or our partners with long standing incompatibility character which becomes evident over the years

[Dragonfish78]

I once cheated because I felt like I was never appreciated. and my ex wife no respect me. I still love her, but I feel like my self is not a priority. I only survive because of love for my family. So that I can go back home after work feeling happy, I fill it with having a gf

[Downnwatch]

Sometimes cheating there are some people out of habit

[thediviner]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Or our partners with long standing incompatibility character which becomes evident over the years

Yes that's right . they hold on for integrity, but their hearts are no longer compatible. so in order to remain normal at home they fill the void by having an affair