How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[michkim2]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Please please, I'm no master...


No need to tag along cos read my siggy, I'm retired hehehehe
Maybe it's time you ventured into HFJs rather than KTVs, it's more potent & fun and also where all the creme de le creme exists!

Bro DYBJ,
You are too modest.

I noticed in small print: until further notice. Heehee, looking forward to that day and hope to have the chance to meet you.

Maybe my understanding is wrong but I am of the impression that HFJs are expensive and the joints are just trying to get the patrons to pay more from which they get a big cut! At the same time, the gals are more reserved. Curious about your remark that it's more potent and fun?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro DYBJ,
You are too modest.

I noticed in small print: until further notice. Heehee, looking forward to that day and hope to have the chance to meet you.

Maybe my understanding is wrong but I am of the impression that HFJs are expensive and the joints are just trying to get the patrons to pay more from which they get a big cut! At the same time, the gals are more reserved. Curious about your remark that it's more potent and fun?

When a gal ploughing KTVs has honed her skills to a certain stage, there's only so much she can earn from the KTVs and STs.
But, HFJ are way more different.
Of cos, we're not talking about whores who spread their legs for 200 bucks but those that are really tuned to near perfection as a predator.
Although all are whores, the despise each other in this order:
Singers see KTV gals no up
KTV gals see Massage palour gals no up
Massage palour see Prostitutes no up
Funny rite, Whores also got status ok wahahaha
To know more about HFJs, go to HFJ thread, dun pollute the Guru's thread!
http://sbfsg.agency/showthread.php?t=47710

[locker]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Oldest trick in the book & never fails.
You: 你是谁的？
Her: 我是你的
You: 我是你的谁？
Her: 宝贝or男朋友or老公
You: 那我要你给我一个你没给过任何人的证明给我你是真的！
Works all the time!

Good ideas

[michkim2]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro,

There is only one Jiangsu gal who is still around. She is 23, 172 in height n abt 52-53 kg, fair, very pretty n classy, long legs/arms n nice ass, but only A boobs. She goes to LV n TAM. Student visa. Very few gals can match her classy good looks n height. If only she had natural B/C boobs...BTW, I last saw her abt 10 days ago at LV SH.

I need to find her ctc as my HP suddenly mal-functioned 3 days ago n I couldn't tell who was calling or texting me. I hv since transferred the sim card to a new phone but I hv lost abt half the ctc list!

Forget her if u want a least B/C boobs like I do now.

Good luck!

.....

I dropped them off at a MRT station. The cost of my fun-filled late afternoon n evening w/ two chio n sexy SYTs who r non-WLs? A grand total of $87. And they were very appreciative...

Why go to KTVs or hang flowers???

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB, thanks for your advice as always ( from reading your comments!)

No issue on the Jiangsu gal. If you managed to find her ctc, appreciate if you can pm me. Would definitely like to check her out.

On your new interest, actually I am also looking out for salon girls and others. Would be thankful if you could share some tips on picking those who are more receptive although I understand it is about your confidence and it is not always 100%.

Thanks again.

[Kalv]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

... escapade ... a WIN to her.... 200 bucks.. didn't have to drink 跑台 ... relaxation and R&R ....WLs perspective ....earn $$$$ ..damn shiok,.. no colour wolf .. dinners ... movies .. shopping .... call him when .. bored (ouch!!)..keep me company .. .gentleman to me ... WIN WIN WIN all the way ...... get the meat in the shortest time and the least $$$$$ invested. ...

Great advice - a bit too realistic and blunt!! Very useful info for all. Nice signature too. Will Upz you tomorrow when regain power.

WLs are definitely here for $$$ - whatever their backgrounds /situations. We should sympathise with them but not be KC (ed) / ripped off or laughed at as "carrots". Ideally a win-win situation when both parties ended up happy and got what they want. Usually difficult as WL's aim: KC/make most $$ in the shortest time. Ours: Get WL with least $$ (meaning soonest).

IMHO, being happy with the outcome/relationship is most important - it is your $$. Opinions may / will often differ - just like "Beauty is in the eyes of the Beholder". Wishing all a Very Happy & Prosperous Dragon Year 2012. May all your wishes come true. Cheers.

[LovePotion]

Originally Posted by locker

Good ideas

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Oldest trick in the book & never fails.
You: 你是谁的？
Her: 我是你的
You: 我是你的谁？
Her: 宝贝or男朋友or老公
You: 那我要你给我一个你没给过任何人的证明给我你是真的！
Works all the time!

does it really work !??! so cheesy but i like !! ^^

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Hooters666

Bro Warbird

cannot help it but this is damn good story to start the weekend!

I like that part about JR having couple secs of gao chao and VO looking down. I can just visualized that scene there n then!

Again I am learning heaps from this thread as I said 1plus year ago. I don't have much to contribute as I have no success stories on conquering young attractive ladies.............

Anyway I am not giving up on playing this game.

Best of Health n fuck well!

Hi Bro Hooters,

Yes, VO was blushing n looking down...occasionally glancing at me ...very submissive body language n I knew her pussy was wet...haha.

No success stories? Don't be discouraged. Failure is the mother of success. It's great to fail early n fail often.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

My Humble greetings and Salutations Guru, actually, after reading this above post over & over & over again, I do see a "WANT!"
Why?
I want to BY you = Want
How much do you want to be BY = Want
She then asks for 10k
8k can or not = Nego = Want

Yes Guru, we have cheong together several times & we both know darn well we do have different approaches towards the same matter.
Thus, we're the captain of our ship's & we reserve the right to whichever way we choose to steer them.

As you know me, I will:
Every month how much --> Come with me
She only has room to answer YES or NO and nothing else entertained.

Different strokes for different strokes ya bro WarBird.
Most importantly is that we, get the pussy and KC the shit outta them hehehehehe

My Dear Mr. Chairman,

You're right, but it's also a matter of semantics.

Having many "WANTS" in life is great as long as a MAN remains in control of his emotions n desires.

If I connect w/ a chio n sexy SYT of my type n, if she doesn't do ST n rejects me for ST, I WANT to BY her. As a healthy heterosexual male n a lao chi ko pek, I'm unabashed for hving the desire n sexual urge to BY gals as young as 18. I respect n cherish my primal urge.

However, WANTING to BY many gals of my type neither equates w/ neediness n desperation nor does it indicate my loss of emotional control/self mastery. I can n will walk away if the terms r not acceptable to me. In fact, I hv dumped gals I hv already BY-ed after varying periods, some as short as a wk, for various reasons...for example, if a certain exposed anatomical part is not pleasing or aesthetic to me or if my rules n/or boundaries r violated in any way.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by Big B

Hi goodpartner,

I think it is very important to understand what you want out of the relationship. What works for others may not work for you.

If all you want is pussy, by all means, be the alpha male that both WB and DYBJ described. Its easy because there are limited emotions involved (mainly lust). You clinically access what is required to bring about the desired outcome and JUST DO IT. If you fail, so what? There's always the next woman to practice on.

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Techniques such as focusing on a woman's negative points is a skill designed to help bring about this outcome. In fact, by not caring, you will not fall into the trap of behaving like a love sick puppy. And yes, a woman greatly desires a macho man who takes charge - especially if she thinks she can't have him.

Such emotional self mastery is difficult to completely achieve. On the flip side, I believe that when you do reach such a stage, your abilty to love with wild abandon becomes irrecovably lost and you will never find a soul mate. This is because you will never allow yourself to pour everything you have into a relationship.

By way of background, there are "good" working ladies worth chasing (women who have been forced into doing what they do for whatever reason). These are extremely rare BTW.
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Based on Sifu DYBJ's analysis, I do not believe your WL fits my definition of good. Please feel free to unleash your inner alpha!

GL!

Hi bro goodpartner,

I disagree w/ ur assertion that a MAN w/ formidable self mastery can't love a gal/woman deeply. He can. The difference is that he retains control of his emotions n hence the RS n will walk away from her if she commits a grave error. The fact that u r such a MAN will keep her forever attracted n faithful to u.

On the other hand, many previously confident men w/ good self mastery become needy n clingy puppies, after falling in love n spending time w/ their dream women. Sadly, their changed behaviour is very unattractive n will make both of them miserable.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Very very good post, kudos to you.
Yes, you're right & also wrong.
For the single male, it's DEVASTATING to master such an ability.
But, for married men, it's a blessing cos you will have less headaches to deal with i.e the other one

My Dear Mr. Chairman,

Very, very few men hv very good self mastery n emotional control, especially under stressful situations or after spending lots of time w/ their dream gals.

IMHO, such an attribute is great for single men, married men, young men, old men, ugly men, rich men, poor men, fat men, handicapped men, for men such as Sean Stephenson...it's good for everyone, including females.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro WB, thanks for your advice as always ( from reading your comments!)

No issue on the Jiangsu gal. If you managed to find her ctc, appreciate if you can pm me. Would definitely like to check her out.

On your new interest, actually I am also looking out for salon girls and others. Would be thankful if you could share some tips on picking those who are more receptive although I understand it is about your confidence and it is not always 100%.

Thanks again.

Hi bro michkim2,

Be careful. Some PRC salon gals r FLs.

Strategies n techniques r helpful, but the key is ur degree of self confidence n emotional control.

A guru writes: The secret to becoming amazing at attracting women is to remember that you already are.

Cheers!

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Good afternoon,

I'm obsessed w/ developing absolute self mastery n achieving unconditional happiness. Everything else in life is of secondary importance to me.

For most of my life, I used to hv poor self mastery n being unhappy whenever I encountered minor inconveniences...

"Great successes are built on taking your negatives and turning them around." --Sumner Redstone,

I'm reaching my goals slowly n steadily, hahaha.

Good day!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Good morning!

I hv more musings on bedding KTV gals.

I started another thread on "KTV kakis" n I hv received many responses.

Some kakis r rich, others r not.

Let me stress that money is a prerequisite for getting into the pants of these PRC WLs, even for those who r regular gals n non-WLs back in PRC.

You need money to connect w/ them, then n only then u can give them COS n/or KC them.

There is another way.

If a bro has little money, the only way is to pick up a pretty gal outside KTVs n connect w/ her n develop deep rapport w/ her. Not knowing that she is a KTV gal or WL is an advantage.

Who knows, if u hv formidable self confidence/self mastery, a healthy sense of humor n, though still poor, u are a man going somewhere, dedicated to a definite purpose or path in life, a very chio SYT might just fall for u, hehehe. Of course u must give her regular COS no man has given her n never, ever be needy n can walk away from her anytime...kudos to u!!

BTW, hving real self confidence is abt improving urself, improving others n improving something. You r genuinely comfortable in ur own skin n hv NOTHING TO PROVE.

If u hv something to prove or like to show off, that is arrogance, which reflects ur innate insecurity n inferiority complex. Can't fool me, hehehe.

On the other hand, I hv some frens/bros here in SG n a few frens in Gotham City who r very wealthy. BY-ing a gal for 10-20K a month or hanging 10-20K flowers for a singer is like spending $10-20 for an ordinary "salary man," no, maybe only $1 for some of them, or even $0.10 for at least a couple of them. They want to keep as many chio gals as humanly possible. I dun expect hem to hv time to pick up or court any gals.

There r different paths to chio pussies, just like there r different paths to enlightenment, hahaha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[michkim2]

Bro WB,

I am learning every time I come to this thread!

Thanks for sharing and will definitely read up on your other thread!

[mercedes500]

Originally Posted by warbird

You need money to connect w/ them, then n only then u can give them COS n/or KC them.

bro warbird,

mind enlightening what is COS, been seeing this term many times over many posts

thank

[Big B]

Hi bro goodpartner,

I disagree w/ ur assertion that a MAN w/ formidable self mastery can't love a gal/woman deeply. He can. The difference is that he retains control of his emotions n hence the RS n will walk away from her if she commits a grave error. The fact that u r such a MAN will keep her forever attracted n faithful to u.

On the other hand, many previously confident men w/ good self mastery become needy n clingy puppies, after falling in love n spending time w/ their dream women. Sadly, their changed behaviour is very unattractive n will make both of them miserable.

Cheers!

Bro WB[/QUOTE]

Hi WB,

I made the comment, not goodpartner. LOL

As you can no doubt see, we are men with strong opinions and tend to stick with our "conclusions" in the absence of overwhelming proof to the contrary. Still, we are not blind and can change our minds as and when required.

While I do advocate not giving into a woman's whim completely, there will be instances when a man is chasing after a lady of strong character (WL or none-WL).

This is a case where a man has to give some leeway (but he will be completely aware of his actions) while setting clear boundaries. If you behave like a complete alpha male, such women will be turned off because it feels like dating a brick wall. The smart & observant man will know when he meets a woman of this type.

Women of strong character love to test a man's manliness so do remember to lay down the law when boundaries are crossed. Say something steely in a calm tone:

"如果你继续不尊重我，我们连朋友也不能做."

Cheers!

Big B

[warbird]

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro WB,

I am learning every time I come to this thread!

Thanks for sharing and will definitely read up on your other thread!

Bro michkim2,

You make my day!

I come across new info n new revelations on self mastery, RS n sexology almost everyday. I like to share what I think is useful cuz it helps me learn faster. And I want to practice n practice n practice...

Cheers!

Originally Posted by mercedes500

bro warbird,

mind enlightening what is COS, been seeing this term many times over many posts

thank

Hi bro mercedes500,

COS is Continuous Orgasmic State. It's NOT the same as multiple orgasms.

Some gurus/authors use such terms as stacked orgasms, expanded orgasms, cascading orgasms, etc. which may be slightly different.

And then of course there r many types of orgasm such as clitoral, g spot, deep spot, vaginal (during penetration), combined, anal, nipple, squirting, etc.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by Big B

Hi bro goodpartner,

I disagree w/ ur assertion that a MAN w/ formidable self mastery can't love a gal/woman deeply. He can. The difference is that he retains control of his emotions n hence the RS n will walk away from her if she commits a grave error. The fact that u r such a MAN will keep her forever attracted n faithful to u.

On the other hand, many previously confident men w/ good self mastery become needy n clingy puppies, after falling in love n spending time w/ their dream women. Sadly, their changed behaviour is very unattractive n will make both of them miserable.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Hi WB,

I made the comment, not goodpartner. LOL

As you can no doubt see, we are men with strong opinions and tend to stick with our "conclusions" in the absence of overwhelming proof to the contrary. Still, we are not blind and can change our minds as and when required.

While I do advocate not giving into a woman's whim completely, there will be instances when a man is chasing after a lady of strong character (WL or none-WL).

This is a case where a man has to give some leeway (but he will be completely aware of his actions) while setting clear boundaries. If you behave like a complete alpha male, such women will be turned off because it feels like dating a brick wall. The smart & observant man will know when he meets a woman of this type.

Women of strong character love to test a man's manliness so do remember to lay down the law when boundaries are crossed. Say something steely in a calm tone:

"如果你继续不尊重我，我们连朋友也不能做."

Cheers!

Big B[/QUOTE]

Hi Big B,

It depends what u mean by "complete alpha male."

The "alpha male" most people come to understand is a self-centered, domineering, arrogant, aggressive n quick-tempered male. Such a male actually lacks self confidence n self mastery n has something to prove to the world. He tries to bed as many chio gals as possible cuz it gives him validation n boosts his fragile ego. Whereas a real MAN has nothing to prove. He has real self mastery n he wants to improve himself, improve others n improve everything around him...

A woman of strong character? Pls define such a woman.

Every healthy heterosexual woman, even if she is a fanatic feminist, is hard-wired to be attracted to a real MAN w/ masculine traits n formidable self mastery.

A woman displaying pervasive disrespect towards u??

Why r you still talking to her?? Pls walk out of her life asap even if u love her n truly believe that she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I'll say calmly n gently to such a woman as she is begging me not to leave n wondering what she should do n where she should go:

"Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn."

You know the rest of the story, hahaha.

If she is a PRC gal, this will be be my last words to her (delivered calmly n gently):

“坦白地说,亲爱的,我现在一点也不在乎（你的死活）.”

Be a MAN bro.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Big B]

Hi Bro WB,

I think we're thinking the same thing, just expressing them differently.

How about this then. Even if a person is the completely confident man as defined in your post, can this person say he can win every woman he desires?

The answer is no because there are too many variables to consider. Even the bad@ss that is Sean Stephenson can only win a certain category of gals (those who look for inner strength/beauty of which he is a highly evolved specimen).

What if a girl has too much pride to ever beg or show she needs you? Saying "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." heralds a complete end to a potentially viable relationship. Such a man chooses to walk away because a relationship of "almost" equals is not what he desires.

This dominant male wants to possess, own and control. Essentially, "my way or the highway." Push-pull techniques are simply lures to ensnare the unwary into falling in love with you. By the time the victim(s) realise it, the poison has already spread.

Letting a strong woman "appear" (I cannot stress this word enough) as the boss while you secretly pull the strings is a completely workable and successful technique. The power couple Bill (the thinker/doer) and Melinda (the charismatic "shock and awe" speaker/presenter) Gates is just one such example and they bring out the very best in each other.

So far, the ladies (and please forgive this presumption) you have conquered are:

- young
- potentially immature
- lacking in self-mastery (in comparison to you)
- money minded

To a MAN like you, this is the equivalent of sending lambs into the tiger's mouth. Fortunately, young + super chio SYTs are exactly what you are looking for. You can never fault a man when he is genuinely happy.

BTW, I have realised that my topic is on winning a true life partner that helps a man achieve self actualization. Nothing absolutely to do with "Picking up KTV gals outside KTVs" so I shall conclude my little diatribe with apologies for derailing the original intent of the thread.

What have you done goodpartner!!?

LOL

Big B

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Big B

What have you done goodpartner!!?

I've move back to the peanut gallery on this thread.... Too much testosterone at the seats upfront. LoL

Great posts there! Love the way you delivered them too

I wanted to say that's how I interpreted your first post and glad you've made effort to justify it.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Big B

Hi Bro WB,

I think we're thinking the same thing, just expressing them differently.

How about this then. Even if a person is the completely confident man as defined in your post, can this person say he can win every woman he desires?.....................

What if a girl has too much pride to ever beg or show she needs you? Saying "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." heralds a complete end to a potentially viable relationship. Such a man chooses to walk away because a relationship of "almost" equals is not what he desires.

This dominant male wants to possess, own and control. Essentially, "my way or the highway." Push-pull techniques are simply lures to ensnare the unwary into falling in love with you. By the time the victim(s) realise it, the poison has already spread.

Letting a strong woman "appear" (I cannot stress this word enough) as the boss while you secretly pull the strings is a completely workable and successful technique. The power couple Bill (the thinker/doer) and Melinda (the charismatic "shock and awe" speaker/presenter) Gates is just one such example and they bring out the very best in each other...........................

BTW, I have realised that my topic is on winning a true life partner that helps a man achieve self actualization. Nothing absolutely to do with "Picking up KTV gals outside KTVs" so I shall conclude my little diatribe with apologies for derailing the original intent of the thread....................

Big B

Hi Bro Big B,

Even if a MAN has absolute self mastery, there will be many, many women (married women n those in love w/ other men, etc) beyond his reach. He is perfectly happy w/ that. Otherwise, there will be chaos...

No, I was not talking abt gals who r "proud," confident, poised, aloof, cool ...n never needy or overly possessive... they hv very attractive qualities, to me at least; I was referring to gals who display PERVASIVE DISRESPECT towards me. I couldn't walk out on them fast enough.

I know some men who get KC-ed by such "strong" n abusive women who show pervasive disrespect towards them, n chose remain in the RS, thinking that it's a potentially viable RS. It's not, n will never be. It's a very miserable RS for both partners.

IMHO, all healthy heterosexual women r attracted to a MAN w/ masculine character traits, high ranking on the Male Dominant Scale n strong self mastery. If You're such a MAN, u will attract ur true life partner, soul mate, true love, etc., not just a lover or mistress.

My mindset has changed radically since I started this thread in June of 2009.

Now I'm not trying to conquer anything or anyone, or to prove anything to the world. My singular mission n purpose in life is to improve myself, constantly n relentlessly, everyday n in every way possible, to improve others n to improve everything around me...

My interest in n focus on this thread hv evolved profoundly in the last 32 months n are not just abt picking up KTV gals or any gals or even man-woman RS. It's more abt self actualization, self discovery n SELF MASTERY. My RS w/ everyone else n w/ the world I live in is merely a reflection of my inner true self n my self mastery...

Your comments n criticisms will be appreciated.

Cheers!

Bro WB