How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by warbird

Thanks bro.

I guess I may be afflicted w/ a chronic case of TWONEITIS which is a form of ONEITIS, as my two long-term mistresses r still 我的女人, one of them will come here in a couple of days n will stay until I leave for Gotham country. The other will be here after CNY.

I'm a bit disappointed. Although she is a chio SYT who has slim n proportionate body n nice boobs (B/C?), I like my 2 current gals moreBro WB

I have not dropped by for a while. But, wha lou, surprise surprise, I see you've developed a couple of durable relationships! I remember a time you were changing gals like baju in a matter of weeks ...

Nonetheless, I take my hat off at your doing 2 at a go ... the only time I do that is during transition from one long term baoee to the next with a 3-4 mth overlap (i.e. handling 2 at one go) to make sure the next baoee (on probation) can fill the previous one's shoes. I still get sideline bangs from KTVs, MPs, spas etc strictly for ST fun. Gotta do something if the current mistress heads off to the mainland or if she's on code red

I got my current baoee in April and wound down the one before her by July. Kinda sad to lose that one 'cause of her exquisite bod ... but she got kinda too clingy - she was on the final stretch of her '20s, and the present one is quite a firecracker in bed.

I guess the gal's banging quality still the main KPI for me ... kicked out a couple of probationary gals, who despite their great packaging, just could not cut it in bed. Maybe I've changed, but I've become kinda too impatient to spend elaborate courtship phases just to see how they perform in bed. So, absent sexual chemistry from the get-go, I've let quite a few potential might-have-been relationships wilt. Probably cannot manage two-front wars in this lifetime.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

I have not dropped by for a while. But, wha lou, surprise surprise, I see you've developed a couple of durable relationships! I remember a time you were changing gals like baju in a matter of weeks ...

Nonetheless, I take my hat off at your doing 2 at a go ... the only time I do that is during transition from one long term baoee to the next with a 3-4 mth overlap (i.e. handling 2 at one go) to make sure the next baoee (on probation) can fill the previous one's shoes. I still get sideline bangs from KTVs, MPs, spas etc strictly for ST fun. Gotta do something if the current mistress heads off to the mainland or if she's on code red

I got my current baoee in April and wound down the one before her by July. Kinda sad to lose that one 'cause of her exquisite bod ... but she got kinda too clingy - she was on the final stretch of her '20s, and the present one is quite a firecracker in bed.

I guess the gal's banging quality still the main KPI for me..............

Hi Bro Dragonkeep,

Ths for sharing ur experiences w/ us.

Having long-term RS is a new adventure for me as I used to keep my gals from 1-12 wks. It has many advantages n a few disadvantages.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Happy New Year!

IMHO, to maintain a successful n happy long-term RS w/ any gal/woman, WL n non-WL alike, n regardless of the arrangement, including BY-ing n marriage, a man must hv more control n more power in the RS. He must be the one who is dominant n who cares less. He must fulfill his masculine role n she must fulfill her feminine role which is a win-win situation for both partners, despite what feminists would hv us believe. It's the result of over 100,000 years of evolution.

It's vital that, in an ongoing RS, the man must continue to fulfill his masculine role, otherwise it will fail.

Supposing an very confident n dominant male enters into a long-term RS w/ a beautiful female n they really love each other initially.

Let's fast forward. After a while, be it many months or many years, assuming that he now loves her more than she loves him n he thinks that he is not good enuff for her, for whatever reason. This is the kiss of death for the RS. He feels very insecure n tries to cling to her. Very bad idea. She begins to pull away n he responds by becoming even more needy n desperate...his wussy attitude/behaviour is so repulsive to her that she will try to leave him. If she doesn't, both of them will be miserable.

Sound familiar?

Cheers!

Bro WB

[calex]

happy lunar new year...

thanks for the initiation to the ktv scene wb

[warbird]

Originally Posted by calex

happy lunar new year...

thanks for the initiation to the ktv scene wb

Happy New Year!

You're most welcome!

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Good morning!

Knowing that certain emotions ( n resultant actions/ behaviour) such as anger, hostility, fear, jealousy, insecurity, shyness, guilt, timidity, etc. r extremely unattractive to gals/women n to everyone else for that matter...n, in some cases, may even put us in hot soup or worse. Yet most of us r unable to control our negative n destructive emotions.

If we don't hv self mastery n excellent emotional control, we r not MEN, but merely immature n pathetic little boys trying to be adults. We will get KC-ed when we don't want to be KC-ed n do things we will later deeply regret.

Let me give u an example.

I read w/ interest two former Govt bigwigs who hv lost their coveted n powerful positions n may face fines n get to stay free at Changi Hilton, hahaha.

The story is still unfolding but, from what I can gather, I think they granted some lucrative Govt contracts to a certain co in return for some perks n fringe benefits, but not much money?!

What is inexplicable is that they got seduced by the one n same pussy! What amazes me is that this woman is much, much older than ur average MILF. She is in her 40s n has two children!

C'mon, I understand that one man's meat is another man's poison, but losing such powerful positions, getting publicly disgraced n facing jail time, all for the same 40 plus yr old pussy which has given birth to 2 kids??

Fact is stranger than fiction. I don't get it! I seldom consider fxking, let along BY-ing, gals/women who r older than 25, despite the fact that I'm OLDER than these two disgraced jokers.

I surmise that these two hapless crowns had very strict, perhaps religious upbringing, had studied n worked hard...but, unfortunately, they hv had little real life experiences w/ a variety of pussies of their preferred type. In othe r words, hey had very few options, hehehe. Had they been SBF bros n read all my posts...

Yes, these two former govt bigwigs r immature n insecure little boys w/ zero self mastery n they r hypocrites as far as I'm concern.

Knowing what is the right thing to do n doing it r very different. That's why self mastery matters, n matters a lot.

After CL posted this in her QQ space:你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被 人玩死；你用全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只 有像懒人养花一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时候 ，往往能把这个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢甚 至崇拜这样的男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依人的感觉, she had not ctc-ed me for a wk. I thought she had learned her lesson. Good for her!

She hasn't. A few days ago, after I sent a msg w/ one word: 在, she has resumed her daily msg n voice barrages thru QQ. Can't blame her for hving no self mastery as she is only 17. The more I avoid her, the more she craves me...

Cheers!

Bro WB

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

I surmise that these two hapless crowns had very strict, perhaps religious upbringing, had studied n worked hard...but, unfortunately, they hv had little real life experiences w/ a variety of pussies of their preferred type. In othe r words, hey had very few options, hehehe. Had they been SBF bros n read all my posts...

Sometimes I could not help but wonder if strict religious upbringing plus studying and working hard is a set-up for something like this to happen. Especially when you hit middle-age.

[woody17]

Dear Bro Warbird
A belated CNY greeting to u. May u have another great year of BYing in 2012...
Woody

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To All Samsters,

祝你在新的一年：

一帆風順
二龍騰飛
三羊開泰
四季平安
五福臨門
六六大順
七星高照
八方來財
九九同心
十全十美

百事亨通 千事吉祥 萬事如意

Wishing All of You a Happy and Prosperous New Year!!



Bro WB[/QUOTE]

[woody17]

Dear Bro Warbird
I was actually in Taiwan from 22nd -26th Feb, back to HK on 26th evening
Woody

Originally Posted by warbird

To all samsters,

I'm taking a short trip to Taiwan n PRC, before returning to SG. May be too busy to post for the next 1 wk.

无微不至， 不动声色。

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Stimsia]

Bro wb

Same criteria <25
Is that a benchmark for ol men..haha

Wow 17 yr ol crave for you, care to share secret of your success

[beautyhunter]

今天正月初七人日快乐
祝大家
贵人帮你小人躲你

爱人爱你老板疼你

友人罩你彩卷中你

金钱黏你好运跟你

祝Warbird
心想事成，身体健康

[michkim2]

Bro WB,

Thanks for sharing your experience. I had picked up a lot from this thread and your advice.

I am newbie to BY and not sure what to do. Had a session with a FL (working in KTV) and on my RTF session with her, she propose for me to BY her. Of course, I knew that these girls cannot be trusted and probably have two or three guys BY-ing her. But from the last two mths, I must say that there was no evidence of her doing that or any FL. But not sure about her 出街 with her KTV clients.

Anyway I tried to break off with her but she is trying to hang onto me. Do not want to cause a big commotion and need advice on how to break away from the BY arrangement.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by michkim2

I am newbie to BY and not sure what to do. Had a session with a FL (working in KTV) and on my RTF session with her, she propose for me to BY her. Of course, I knew that these girls cannot be trusted and probably have two or three guys BY-ing her. But from the last two mths, I must say that there was no evidence of her doing that or any FL. But not sure about her 出街 with her KTV clients.

Anyway I tried to break off with her but she is trying to hang onto me. Do not want to cause a big commotion and need advice on how to break away from the BY arrangement.

Terminology of BY is totally yours, no need to work, just wait & home to service & fulfill your every need.
If you allow her to still work and you cannot financially maintain her $$$ requirement, then you did not totally BY her & you just opened pandoras box.
Like I said before, see what you cant, dun see wat you can cos the TRUTH is 99% usually at what you cant see!
There are ways of catching and very effective but I'll leave that to Guru WarBird to pass on his skills to you.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Terminology of BY is totally yours, no need to work, just wait & home to service & fulfill your every need.
If you allow her to still work and you cannot financially maintain her $$$ requirement, then you did not totally BY her & you just opened pandoras box.
Like I said before, see what you cant, dun see wat you can cos the TRUTH is 99% usually at what you cant see!
There are ways of catching and very effective but I'll leave that to Guru WarBird to pass on his skills to you.

hahaa... guess he needs to know that is no Parttime BY

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

hahaa... guess he needs to know that is no Parttime BY

LOL
BY = Ownership
This is called time sharing!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by chenzong

Sometimes I could not help but wonder if strict religious upbringing plus studying and working hard is a set-up for something like this to happen. Especially when you hit middle-age.

Dear bro chenzong,

It's an unfortunate setup. I know cuz that was how I grew up.

Now I'm going the other extreme, to catch up on lost time...

Originally Posted by woody17

Dear Bro Warbird
A belated CNY greeting to u. May u have another great year of BYing in 2012...
Woody
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Dera bro woody,

Ths so much.

Wishing u a great year in BY-ing too!

Originally Posted by woody17

Dear Bro Warbird
I was actually in Taiwan from 22nd -26th Feb, back to HK on 26th evening
Woody

Were u in Taiwan during Feb LAST YEAR? Many uni students there available for ST...

When will u be in SG again?

Cheers!

Originally Posted by Stimsia

Bro wb

Same criteria <25
Is that a benchmark for ol men..haha

Wow 17 yr ol crave for you, care to share secret of your success

Dear Bro Stimsia,

It's a very long n complicated story.

Become the MAN CL describes in her post.

The lesson I hv learned from CL is that if u meet a gal u like a lot, the best chance u hv w/ her is to treat her like an ordinary gal, at least initially. For example, it was fortuitous that when I 1st made ctc w/ CL, she was only 16 n her age was a strong deterrent n I tried to be indifferent to her. However, I did assume that she liked me n was going to fall for me...hahaha. This belief is always very attractive n powerful.

Next time when u meet ur dream gal, be attentive sometimes, ignore her at other times, use push-pull n never reveal ur true feelings for her. Demonstrate ur masculine traits n self mastery n be prepared to walk away if ur boundaries r violated.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by beautyhunter

今天正月初七人日快乐
祝大家
贵人帮你小人躲你

爱人爱你老板疼你

友人罩你彩卷中你

金钱黏你好运跟你

祝Warbird
心想事成，身体健康

Dear Bro beautyhunter,

Ths so much, u make my day!

Happy new Year!!

Originally Posted by michkim2

Bro WB,

Thanks for sharing your experience. I had picked up a lot from this thread and your advice.

I am newbie to BY and not sure what to do. Had a session with a FL (working in KTV) and on my RTF session with her, she propose for me to BY her. Of course, I knew that these girls cannot be trusted and probably have two or three guys BY-ing her. But from the last two mths, I must say that there was no evidence of her doing that or any FL. But not sure about her 出街 with her KTV clients.

Anyway I tried to break off with her but she is trying to hang onto me. Do not want to cause a big commotion and need advice on how to break away from the BY arrangement.

Hi Bro michkim2,

If u r already fxking or ST-ing her, why do u want to BY her?

Just say no to BY, n if u like her, keep fxking her.

BTW, I will never BY a gal who has done ST.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Terminology of BY is totally yours, no need to work, just wait & home to service & fulfill your every need.
If you allow her to still work and you cannot financially maintain her $$$ requirement, then you did not totally BY her & you just opened pandoras box.
Like I said before, see what you cant, dun see wat you can cos the TRUTH is 99% usually at what you cant see!
There are ways of catching and very effective but I'll leave that to Guru WarBird to pass on his skills to you.

Dear Mr. Chairman,

Good to hear from u.

Yes, BY or 包养 means exactly that: no work n no seeing other men/boys n her pussy is exclusively urs. You own her n her pussy exclusively. Period.

There r many strategies to ensure a gal's faithfulness, hehehe. When I'm 99+% sure of her fidelity to me n after 5-6 months of negative blood tests n gyne exams, then n only then I'll fxk her raw.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by aczeta76

hahaa... guess he needs to know that is no Parttime BY

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

LOL
BY = Ownership
This is called time sharing!

Dear Masters,

Yes, if the gal works, it's impossible to ensure exclusivity, hahaha.

Hv a great day!

Bro WB

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

It's an unfortunate setup. I know cuz that was how I grew up.

Now I'm going the other extreme, to catch up on lost time...

I can understand it very well too, it's the same for me. Unlike you, though, I have gone past the "want to catch up" phase and am perfectly happy at my present situation: home-cooked food with lots of love. I am a very blessed man indeed.