How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

>>> 1. Pay Attention

I talk about this idea of "paying attention"
all the time. I believe that it is one of the
most important ideas that a man MUST understand
to become a truly great lover.

It is a particularly important concept when
it comes to going "down town".

The CRITICAL thing to remember when it comes
to great sex is that every woman is DIFFERENT.

This fact just gets lost on most guys because
either, they read about some great move in a book
or in a magazine article or website... and they
are SURE that it will work if only they keep at
it long enough...

Or, there is a thing they did that drove their
first/last girlfriend absolutely crazy... and they
keep doing it over and over on every new woman they
date... even though NONE of them respond to it.

This is just the way we men are built. We
like hard and definite solutions to problems that
will work in a variety of situations.

We like to problem solve-- but once we've
solved it, we can be very stubborn about holding
on to our solution.

That just doesn't work when it comes to
making love to a woman.

Some women like direct pressure that is
so firm that you might fear injuring her, while
others like feather-light and even indirect touch.

Every woman is unique, and finding out how
to touch her takes experimentation and paying
attention.

It is very unlikely that she will come out and
TELL you how she wants it... "a little to the left,
now not quite so hard, but a little bit faster..."

Not going to happen.

Yet, she WILL "COMMUNICATE" all of that
information to you, and more... if you know how
to listen with your body.

You've got to "tune in" to the woman you are
in bed with.

Listen to changes in her breathing, the way
her skin softens and her muscles tighten, the
way the blood flushes beneath her skin in her
face and breasts, the way she moans...

She is definitely communicating. She is
telling you all of the secret ways that she wants
to be touched and teased. But it's up to you to
understand what she's communicating...

And that comes back to paying attention.

If you are doing it right, you will really
enjoy it and it will really draw you deeply into
the experience of her.

It will make it better for both of you.

If you insist that you need a bunch of different
"techniques" to experiment with... you can get all
of the positions and specific techniques by going
HERE

But I want to say again-- that kind of basic
information is available many places online...

But the fact remains:

You can do EVERYTHING right. You
can make all the right moves with your fingers,
lips, and tongue... and still not really drive
her crazy...

On the other hand, you can do only the most
basic stuff, and if you can dial into her emotional
state and stay connected with her, you'll completely
fry the circuits in her brain.


>>>2. Stay Connected

I guess I really should back up a bit and start
with "Get Connected" before I have you worry
about staying there.

MOST men never really figure out how to connect
to a woman's sexual emotions. And that's a shame
because that is where the most intense orgasms
begin-- not in her vagina, but in her brain............................

She needs to feel connection, and she needs
to feel trust, and she needs to feel that she
won't be judged or humiliated by her partner
before she can have her deepest and most powerful
sexual experiences.

You make those connections with the things you
say, the way you hold her eye-contact, the way
you smile confidently at her, the tone of your
voice, the way you put your hands on her, and
the way you hold her.

Making her feel connected and then STAYING
connected is especially difficult when you are
going down on her because she is pretty much
ALONE UP THERE.

No doubt a woman can really "enjoy" oral sex
even if she is not feeling connected to you down
there...

But she can't really have mind-melting orgasms
that way. And more importantly, for many women,
they just begin to feel awkward... or even have
feelings of anxiety.

But it's so easy for you to completely take
care of all of those issues for her.

All you have to do is give her some small
signs to let her know that you are still aware
that there is a whole person attached to that
clitoris.

Look up at her and make eye-contact once in a
while.

Stop and tell her how much you are enjoying it
or how hot you think it is.

Reach up and stroke the side of her face and
hair.

Take her hands and give them a gentle squeeze.

Any signal that lets her feel that you are
connected to her as a person...

You don't have to do all of these things, and
you don't have to do them all the time. Just
give her a few signs every few minutes and watch
what happens immediately afterwards...

First, her body will relax into what you
are doing, and then, very quickly, she'll have
a MUCH more intense orgasm.

And just as easy as that, you are in the
Master Class!


>>>3. Push Her Limits

WARNING: This tip is for RELATIONSHIPS
ONLY.

This is not something you ought to bust
out on a third date.

It is very important that you know the girl
you are with and understand her on an emotional
level before you attempt this sort of thing.

Please note that nothing I am about to
write involves the use of force or of doing
ANYTHING against a woman's will.

I hate having to write that, but unfortunately
there are a few dumb-asses out there that can
twist the meaning of things, and I want to make
sure I am perfectly clear:

You should NEVER do ANYTHING to a woman that
she does not consent to and want you to do.

Okay, with that out of the way...

Women are frequently "resistant" to having their
most intense orgasms. They can feel it's about
to happen... and they nearly panic.

It's bigger than anything they have experienced
before and it can be frightening.

Usually this happens after she has come a few
times already and is on the verge of going into
multiple orgasms. And suddenly she feels like if
she comes that hard, she just won't be able to take
it...

So she clamps her legs closed, or she wiggles
her hips out of the way. She may even moan,
"Wait! Wait! I can't take any more!"

If you and your partner are in a trusting
relationship, and if she is emotionally healthy,
try to ease her past this limit.

Here is a great way to do it...

When she begins to squirm or resist as she
reaches her "pleasure limit", reach up and place
your palm firmly in the center of her chest, and
press her "down" onto the bed.

This will not prevent her from squirming
away, and it will not prevent her from closing
her legs, or confine or entrap her in any way...

It is simply a dominant and masculine gesture
that let's her know that you want her stay calm
so that you can continue taking her higher.

Most women, if you do this gently but with
confidence, will become sexually submissive, and,
if there is enough trust between you, she will
surrender her fear to you and let you take her to
the "next level."

You can also do it verbally by calmly and
confidently saying to her, "I'm going to take you
higher, all you have to do is relax and remember
to breath."

Or "You're okay, I've got you," and then
continue.

Saying something like this... that is both a
gentle command and a reassurance that you know
what is going on and that you can confidently
pilot her through the experience will do amazing
things.

It allows her to psychologically surrender
control of the "decision" to you. She simply
can't make the decision herself to experience that
much pleasure-- but if she completely trusts you,
she will LET YOU make the decision for her.

At this point, if you have followed the first
2 steps...

You have been paying attention so that you know
exactly how to drive her wild...

And you have stayed connected with her so that
is feeling the emotions of sexual trust...

Then by taking her past what she had thought
were her limits of pleasure, she will experience
an orgasm that will knock the walls down.

PLEASE remember:

When you give a woman this kind of pleasure it
is not something YOU did alone. It is something
that SHE ALLOWED TO HAPPEN.

Allowing this to happen, for her, is emotionally
dangerous. She will feel EXTREMELY emotionally
vulnerable afterwards.

DON'T SAY OR DO ANYTHING STUPID.

Just hold her, stroke her hair, and say something
nice.

Be aware that if you laugh-- even if it is
just a laugh of pure happiness and pleasure,
she may misunderstand and become very upset.
Sarcasm is strictly off limits.

Be gentle.

If you are in love with her, tell her so.

If not, tell her that she is amazing and that
you really enjoyed what just happened.


I'll repeat at this point that these 3 tips
are "advanced" and that they will produce
amazing results.

You probably were not aware before of just
exactly how LOUD your woman can scream........................

And don't forget... with great power comes
great responsibility. I was a little bit nervous
sharing this stuff. It is much more powerful
than it seems on the surface.

I hope that you, like me, cherish the woman
in your life and that you don't use this kind of
knowledge without understanding the emotional
responsibility that goes with it.

Enjoy.

And I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

XA

[assky]

alright man hurry come back !!! keep me updated and if possible an FR as well!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by assky

alright man hurry come back !!! keep me updated and if possible an FR as well!

Hi bro assky,

I hv also requested a trusted TAM mummy to extol my virtues to her, hahaha. She knows exactly what to do...

I know u n many other bros find her drop dead gorgeous, but my only concern is that she is not even my type as my taste is different. I place undue emphasis on a certain head/ figure/limbs proportions above all other attributes.

One man's meat is another man's poison.

Merry Christmas!!

Bro WB

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Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy and Prosperous New Year!!

This is a joyous time and a good time to be introspective and reflective on life in general...

IMHO, to be very successful in any area in life, one needs to do something opposite to what 99% (or >99.9%?) of people r doing. Take investing for example. Most investors become more n more bullish when the stock markets hv been climbing higher n higher, until it becomes a mania. In Nov 1999, a janitor in a large building at Gotham City asked me abt stock tips, I knew the bubble was going to burst, hahaha. I started selling short several dozens internet companies. Difficult to do n potentially very risky cuz the stock markets may keep on climbing.

The opposite occurs in a severe bear market when all the stocks continue its steep declines, lower n lower. It's sickening...but that is the best time to back up the truck n load up. Time to get rich! It's more difficult to do than most people realize cuz we humans hv a herd mentality which is in our genes n primitive parts of brain. Our ancestors had to follow the crowd just to survive because, as a loner, the chances of survival r very slim in those days. It takes balls or lots of emotional control/self mastery to go against the crowd, hahaha. Dun become a lemming like the other 99%...

Put it another way, to succeed big in the stock markets, one needs lots of self mastery. High IQ n encyclopedic knowledge of the markets r not enuff.

BTW, I'm addicted to only two things in life:

First, how to hv absolute self mastery/unconditional happiness.

Second, how to accurately calculate the intrinsic value of public companies.

Everything else in life is secondary to me. Owning n KC-ing chio pussies of my type is only a minor hobby.

IMHO, if u hv supreme self mastery, getting the prettiest pussies of ur type n even ur dream gal is very easy, it's too easy...

The secret is that u must behave opposite to what 99% of men r doing when u r infatuated w/ a beautiful gal or ur dream gal. What would most men do? They put her on a pedestal n worship her. Some may become insecure n needy n when the gal pulls away, they call n text her many times a day...the worst is to confess his true feelings, his liking for her, his love for her, etc. He will likely lose her forever. Do the opposite, hahaha. Even if u r dying to make love to her or you're deeply in love w/ her, never show her ur hand, ur trump card. You want to be attentive to her, like an Ang Moh gentleman, but dun tell her how u feel abt her, hehehe. Give her the impression u want her, but u don't need her n u could walk away anytime if ur boundaries r violated in any way. Say NO to her, ignore her, let her chase u! Be very slooow to reply her texts or her calls, break a date...

Recently, a PRC guru in Beijing gave me the 8 magic words in dealing w/ women: 无微不至，不动声色。 It works very well for non-WLs n WLs alike n it doesn't matter if u r meeting the gal for the 1st time or u hv been w/ her for 10 yrs. In my personal experience, he is right on! It's very difficult to do as it's counter-intuitive n the craving n sexual tension could become unbearable.

I must mention two other factors in addition to self mastery in attracting n keeping ur gals. No1, adopt a positive body language. I used to move n talk too fast. That was negative n repulsive. I'm learning to slooooooow down in every movement n speech...n of course we all can hv better posture n stay physically fit. No 2. give ur gals COS n sexual pleasure she has never experienced before. Push her limits, make her squirt. You will need extensive knowledge n lots of practice. Every woman is different n u need to pay attention to her...n find out exactly what makes her tick n scream n squirt...

Just my 2 cents.

Pls share ur personal experiences w/ us. Comments r also appreciated.

Cheers n hv a great day!!

Bro WB

[Rolec]

Bro WB
Good summary to remind ourselves as we prepare for the new year ahead!

The only problem now I see is that stock markets are too volatile... Hence, its a challenge to form a view (long or short).

Merry Xmas n Happy New Year! Huat Ah!

cheers

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Rolec

Bro WB
Good summary to remind ourselves as we prepare for the new year ahead!

The only problem now I see is that stock markets are too volatile... Hence, its a challenge to form a view (long or short).

Merry Xmas n Happy New Year! Huat Ah!

cheers

Hi Bro Rolec,

I love volatility more than SYTs, hehehe.

If you're an investor, buy when high quality stocks r very undervalued, sell when they become very overvalued.

If you're a trader, buy when there is very negative sentiment n sell when there is very positive sentiment.

I truly wish there will be violent volatility, such as STI dropping to 2,000 n then surging back up to 3.000 every couple of months, haha.

Happy New Year!

Bro WB

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Happy New Year to all samsters!

I hv not received feedback from my trusted frens on how pretty YY is.

In the last 1 wk, HY, a 22 yo SYT whom I met only once n who had agreed to BY arrangement which was not consummated n who later was BY-ed by a young man, has been warming up to me in her text msg. She apparently broke off w/ her BF of 3 months. Her saga w/ him was detailed in her QQ. Some frens rate her very pretty, at least 8 w/ little makeup. But her boobs appear small. I think I'll go for ST but she is likely to say no.

I hope YY is my type n has natural B.

I just received an email from another guru:

What Make a Lesser Man?

Hey Guys,

In this day and age of the girlie men, there are many behaviors
that make a lesser man. But one of the worst ones, one that is now celebrated by the girlie men in the media is mooching.

No one likes a mooch, that cad who shows up, partakes of
everything, contributes nothing, then repeats it again.

The girlie men in the media love mooching. Most of them are
incapable of producing anything on their own, but feel entitled
because of their position. So, they celebrate mooching.

The recent "Occupy Wall Street" protest was nothing more than one, giant mooch-fest with moochers stealing food, coffee, and sleepin space. What should have been dismissed as unmanly mooching wadelightfully celebrated and squealed over by the media, breathlessly identifying with the moochers.

Don't you buy it. Mooching is unattractive behavior, something no man should ever do, and no man should ever tolerate.

Mooching is the lifestyle of getting something for nothing, taking without compensation.

You want to have the opposite attitude. You want to be a man who produces value, and demands compensation for it. You want to be a man who is generous to women, but not a chump. You want to be a man who believes in abundance, not scarcity.

In the end, the mooch has the worst kind of scarcity mindset. He doesn't believe he can produce anything, nor does he have the inclination to learn. But because he arrived on this earth, he believes others should share what they earned with him, and he owes them nothing in return.

I can always tell the measure of a man by seeing if he ever reaches for the tab. A man who never has his wallet handy, but always shows up for the fun is not a man I want to associate with.

This has little to do with how much money he makes. I have friends who have been up and down, flush and dead butt broke, but reached for the tab with no compunctions--if they didn't feel they could afford it, they never went out. They share my aversion to mooches.

Mooching is always an unmanly behavior, perhaps the worst kind.

Don't do it, don't tolerate it, and damn sure don't celebrate it.
It's the surest way to drive women away.

On with the fun...

Mr. XYZ



I'm more blunt. The type of man he describes cannot be called a man. There is a subset of men who r a lot worst: Your "frens" or "relatives" who want a loan from u, w/ no intention of ever paying back.

I hv had frens n relatives who belong to the subset. I'm sure every bro here knows a few.

Never lend them a penny.

If u hv money coming out of ur wazoo n dun know what to do w/ it, throw some money at them as gifts.

IMHO, these subset of humans r a lot more shameless n more deceitful n heartless than a 婊子. He is a human parasite n a coward. I hv much more respect for a man who sticks a gun at my ribs n rob me. At least such a man has guts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[besafe]

Bro WB,
I would love very much to rob you.
Please tell me when is the next time you will be carrying a load of cash.
Looking forward to read about your "next conquest".
Cheers.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by besafe

Bro WB,
I would love very much to rob you.
Please tell me when is the next time you will be carrying a load of cash.
Looking forward to read about your "next conquest".
Cheers.

Hi bro besafe,

How r u?

Never rob someone in SG. The penalty is too stiff, the risk -reward ratio is too high, hehehe.

There will be no conquests, I'm merely trying to qualify these gals to find out if their pussies r suitable for me n if my assumptions r correct.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[besafe]

Hi Bro WB,
Am now domesticated, as GF is now working and residing in SGP, and keeping an eagle eye on me.
No more KTV outings and late nights, except for the few forages into the legal GL domain.
Cheers.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by besafe

Hi Bro WB,
Am now domesticated, as GF is now working and residing in SGP, and keeping an eagle eye on me.
No more KTV outings and late nights, except for the few forages into the legal GL domain.
Cheers.

Hi bro besafe,

I know you're joking, hehehe.

It must be the other way round, she is ur domesticate pet?

The gender role reversal is common n very damaging to natural man-woman RS which makes both parties deeply frustrated...

Happy New Year!

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Good morning!

I'm working hard to improve myself, in every way every day, even though I'm a lao chi ko pek.

I just received some coaching from a famed guru on Sexual Mojo. I need to practice n practice. BTW, Sexual Mojo is a lot more than sexual confidence. It will take me 12 months of intensive training n re-programing...

First of all, I need to imitate the body language of a very masculine character...I need to step into his character.

My choice is Humphrey Bogart who was probably less than 168 in height. No smoking or drinking for me though.

Watch him here:



Can anyone compete w/ him? Maybe James Cagney.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[asdfghjkl]

wow.. learnt plenty from this thread.. bookmark it!

[besafe]

Hi Bro WB,
There is no absolute in a RS.
In my case, I gladly play the "domesticated" part when the situation requires.
It is always good to let the other party "feels" that she has control, when actually that is not really the case.
Cheers.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

wow.. learnt plenty from this thread.. bookmark it!

Hi bro asdfghjkl,

I hv also learnt a lot from advice, comments n sharing of experiences from all the bros here.

Originally Posted by besafe

Hi Bro WB,
There is no absolute in a RS.
In my case, I gladly play the "domesticated" part when the situation requires.
It is always good to let the other party "feels" that she has control, when actually that is not really the case.
Cheers.

Hi bro besafe,

You're right! Every man-woman RS is unique, dynamic n constantly changing.

You're good, very good, at playing the mind game.

大哥你是調情圣手， 你是扮猪吃老虎!

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good Morning!

RS is very complex n even if, in the beginning, both love/sex partners like/love each other equally (Balanced RS), an Imbalance will inevitably occur. One partner will like/love or care more than the other. This Imbalanced RS is potentially very unstable n may lead to separation/divorce/heartbreak/misery.

As a MAN, u must make sure ur gal/woman has a lot more KC for u than u hv for her. Be the one who cares less in the RS n be prepared to walk out on her, whatever ur RS w/ her n even if u love her n she is ur dream gal.

We men r simple.

If u see a pretty n sexy gal of ur type, u r instantly attracted. OK, u r different n u want to get to know the gal 1st...me too. I'm going to qualify her to see if she is good enough for me, hahaha.

But gals r complex n emotional.

To keep them attracted n fall for u, u must give them very strong emotions (including regular oxytocin surges). Not only positive n pleasurable emotions, but also strong negative emotions occasionally, hahaha. It's called push-pull method n carrot n stick approach. A guru believes the correct ratio of carrot to stick is 7 to 1.

One thing that works like a charm is to be slow in replying her calls n text msg, be unavailable...even in an established RS.

Hope + Uncertainty = Passion (Attraction)

Any comments?

A bro sent me a text stating that YY is pretty. Will try to qualify her on my return.

Happy New Year!!

Bro WB

[drunken]

halo bro,

i recently meet a WL. quite good terms.
whenever she sms me using darling, dear... i feel very irritated.

to me as long as there are $ involved, please don't address me as darling, dear...

am i mad or something?? i jolly knew is part & parcel of KC, but i just can't stand it. too fake

[beautyhunter]

Bro. Warbird,

I will set tent here, can learnt a lots of thing here, What's is RS

Thanks

[beautyhunter]

Originally Posted by drunken

halo bro,

i recently meet a WL. quite good terms.
whenever she sms me using darling, dear... i feel very irritated.

to me as long as there are $ involved, please don't address me as darling, dear...

am i mad or something?? i jolly knew is part & parcel of KC, but i just can't stand it. too fake

Actually not all the girls like to do KC on SMS.
If I receive SMS using dear, I may like it, no matter fake or real..( the girl I prefer)

I ever look for one Fl more than 10 times, she seldom SMS, last visit asking her why never auto SMS me. She told troublesome to SMS coz so many name inside. I feeling Bo song and told her if u dun sms me i may not look for her. Until now almost 4 months she still no SMS
To another FL, feel irritated and hide phone, only meet her one time, but every 3 days SMS using Darling, dear, miss u make me