Long Distance Tirak Relationship - Myth or Reality

[chanthira]

Originally Posted by ThaiPolice

Like that you are the thai version of WEI SIAO BAO. All thai girls are the same jealous and $ minded are the most common disease that will occur. Too many wife is not a problem but no $ is big problem!

Location: Sutthisan Police Station
Just look at your location
You are already localizes
What is the situation around Thanon Sutthisan area ?

[sacs]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Seriously I do not think it has any advatage for me if I can read or write thai.

I know it won't get me a better job as no companies employ foreigners because of the ability to read/write thai but rather on certain expertise that they could not find in Thailand (they can find 65 million people who can read/write thai).

I don't think it can get me better girls as the girls don't really care whether you can read/write thai. They care more for the amount of security you can provide for them.

I don't think the Thais will look up to me at a higher level as more often than not, my collegues, friends, etc prefers to me have a translator next to me whenever I have official discussions, etc as it gives the other party a very different impression than if I speaks on my own in Thai, or read and write everything rather than the translator checked every document in front of them for me.

My brother speaks "Kang" "Nua" and "Yisan" perfectly that he could easily pose as a thai and you wouldn't even know the difference. Even the Thais wouldn't know so they thought of him as a Thai. Heck, I wouldn't want that to happen to me. I Would want Thais to know I'm a foreigner.

My sister reads and writes Thai better than you (I don't even have to check) and she also acts as an official translator during her 3 years term in the SG embassy in Bangkok. And as she said, picture this " Do you prefer to be the translator or do you prefer someone translating for you when you are in an offical meeting?" Who calls the shots?

As for being able to communicate online with Thais, etc... These are unimportant things and it doesn't really help a person in life.

Like I said, I do not find it any advantage if I were to be able to read/write Thai.

hi, i believe its based on different cirumstances. erm.. what you are describing is on working or business situation and the other side of the story is having a tirak.

well, of cos, if a foreigner on a business trip has a translator beside, it does looks good. I do agree with you. but if we are able to understand their language and culture, sometimes it does narrow the gap between the business partners.

As for tirak, I do hope i can speak thai well, so that I can communicate with her and express ourselves so freely. If I could read and write thai, it would be an added advantage as she can email me when I'm away from singapore. I could reply her too.

I guess its which situation we are in. Just my thoughts. Not trying to penalise you.

[sacs]

Originally Posted by Sex Pistol

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FINANCIAL AND CAREER STABLITY

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Thats pretty right. I believe everywhere we go is the same. Imagine going over to another country. No jobs, no income. How to survive. Well, I do hope I can bring my love one back here and settle down. Anyway, can always fly back to visit her family.

Too soon to say all this. But we always hope for the best. Who knows, I'll end up with a Spore gal again. hahaha

[sacs]

พี่ Free.....

ตอนนี้ผมเขียนภาษาไทยแล้ว! ฮ่าฮ่าฮ่า!! มีความสุขมากมาก. ขอบคุณ ครับ. เขียนภาษาไทยให้ที่รัก.

เดี๋ยวก็เขียนภาษาไทยเก่งแล้ว

[free]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

This is karma on the girl's part. She can blame no one but herself. Not say I am hard-hearted. There are more people out there in the world who need more pity and sympathy than these girls. And there are more worst off cases than what you see. Of course your judgement will have swayed in a way or another as you said the girl is a good friend of your tirak.

She chose the man. She love the man. She chose to have the baby. She chose to give birth to the child. She chose to support the man. She chose to make her mother suffer to support her baby. All this can be avoided if she made a correct decision. No pun intended.

What goes around turns around. We con the girl's feelings, one day a girl will con us back. The girl con our feelings, one day other men will con her back. KARMA!!!

SC

Guess you are kinder than me, You said it is Karma, I said it is Stupidity, That is what I told my tirak and then to her friend straight in her face, In front of her mother. We passed her some money and next thing I know, she asked my tirak to help contact her bf. I said to her "I am sorry, this money is for your baby. If you want to pass it to your bf, I think your mother can do better things with it. The mum thanked me. And my tirak did not help her to do any hunting.

[free]

Originally Posted by sacs

พี่ Free.....

ตอนนี้ผมเขียนภาษาไทยแล้ว! ฮ่าฮ่าฮ่า!! มีความสุขมากมาก. ขอบคุณ ครับ. เขียนภาษาไทยให้ที่รัก.
เดี๋ยวก็เขียนภาษาไทยเก่งแล้ว

เก่งจังเลย พีฟรีดีใจ มากและภูมิใจจริงๆ อยากจะขอให้คุณ2คนอยู่ที่สำเร็จ อย่าลืมนะต้องให้ที่รักของคุณโอกาสทำให้คุณมั่น ใจ แล้วก็อย่าคิดมากเพราะว่าไม่มีประโยชน์เลย

ผมอยากบอกให้ เดินทางของน้องแคนจะเรียบร้อยแล้ว อิกไม่นานเขาจะแต่งงานกับที่รัก พีก็ดีใจช่วยเขาได้

พีฟรีอยากจะขอให้คุณโชคดีนะครับ

P.s. So this is why u were looking for the key to type the ' character as in ฮ่าฮ่าฮ่า

[free]

Originally Posted by free

Guess you are kinder than me, You said it is Karma, I said it is Stupidity, That is what I told my tirak and then to her friend straight in her face, In front of her mother. We passed her some money and next thing I know, she asked my tirak to help contact her bf. I said to her "I am sorry, this money is for your baby. If you want to pass it to your bf, I think your mother can do better things with it. The mum thanked me. And my tirak did not help her to do any hunting.

By the way, I better clarify, our sympathy was not for her friend. Rather it was for the mother who had to bear the burden of her daughter's mindless actions. She is desparately trying to convince her daughter to get herself sterilised now as she cannot take the strain of another baby.

Originally Posted by free

Guess who is feeding this woman and her 3 young gals? Her 50+yr old mother, a retired teacher! She speaks very good english! Our hearts goes to her, really.

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by free

Guess you are kinder than me, You said it is Karma, I said it is Stupidity, That is what I told my tirak and then to her friend straight in her face, In front of her mother. We passed her some money and next thing I know, she asked my tirak to help contact her bf. I said to her "I am sorry, this money is for your baby. If you want to pass it to your bf, I think your mother can do better things with it. The mum thanked me. And my tirak did not help her to do any hunting.

This is very common in Thailand, especially the TG is naive and lost in love. I think part of their culture taught them by working and supporting a man is alright. And also that's why so many of us prefer TG and SG.............

Originally Posted by chanthira

Location: Sutthisan Police Station
Just look at your location
You are already localizes
What is the situation around Thanon Sutthisan area ?

Localises I won't dare to say but just adapt to the envoironment, situation is the same as before many working girls as usual for us to sian keke

by the way your nick, is your thai tirak's name issit?

[Nesferatu]

Bro Free

May I know how u get to Phayao? I also got a Thai gal in that region & I plan to visit her there. Fly to Chiangmai then find my way up or fly to Chiangrai then find my way down?
She's someware around Mae Chai district.

Thks, man

Vamp

[free]

Originally Posted by Nesferatu

Bro Free

May I know how u get to Phayao? I also got a Thai gal in that region & I plan to visit her there. Fly to Chiangmai then find my way up or fly to Chiangrai then find my way down?
She's someware around Mae Chai district.

Thks, man

Vamp

Easiest way is to fly to chiangrai, rent a car at CEI airport and drive to Phayao, Turn left on the Airport exit (right goes to MaeSai) and follow the road straight all the way. This the highway (A2 Superhighway I think they call it) that leads to Phayao.

Best to ask her to meet you at CEI airport. If you need contact for car rental, let me know, I normally rent at the airport from the National Car Rental (aka SMT) cos we know each other well by now and they give me discounted rates. Yet to fail me so far. And their docs are also in English so u wont get cheated.

P.S. if she doesn;t have a driving licence {kap mai dai} (even if she can drive {kap bpen}), be careful when driving inter-province cos of police checks. Once in Phayao

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by free

P.S. if she doesn;t have a driving licence {kap mai dai} (even if she can drive {kap bpen}), be careful when driving inter-province cos of police checks. Once in Phayao

Recently a lot of checkpoints had been set up(on the way heading to Bangkok which is the way that will lead you to Phayao) due to tackle illiegal immigrants and drugs trafficking by the burmese. Average per 20km, there will be a check point. So make sure you have the necessary documents when you use the road route be it driving yourself or taking a coach.

[chanthira]

Originally Posted by ThaiPolice

Localises I won't dare to say but just adapt to the envoironment, situation is the same as before many working girls as usual for us to sian keke

by the way your nick, is your thai tirak's name issit?

Yes
Even have so many years of experience and go to her village to asses her family carefully
Go thru very painful process due to my kindness
But steady now
It invovled the following stages
money stolen
cheated a few time
nearly chased up from village
missing in action
A few girls working at hotel even told me if she did'nt me
They want me even I have other wives
cos they had watch thru the process
But anyway a uncle with a girl just to reach 20
Get a lot of jeolous when walking along the street with her
Go to her village again soon

Chok dii Plain Chok rai
Chok rai Plain Chok dii
Khon dii Dtong Dai dii

Originally Posted by chanthira

Yes
Even have so many years of experience and go to her village to asses her family carefully
Go thru very painful process due to my kindness
But steady now
It invovled the following stages
money stolen
cheated a few time
nearly chased up from village
missing in action
A few girls working at hotel even told me if she did'nt me
They want me even I have other wives
cos they had watch thru the process
But anyway a uncle with a girl just to reach 20
Get a lot of jeolous when walking along the street with her
Go to her village again soon

Chok dii Plain Chok rai
Chok rai Plain Chok dii
Khon dii Dtong Dai dii

bro like that you are suffering from the old man young girl syndrome..hehe

nevermind if it's the trend nowdays, i got lots of friends doing the same thing but just be careful when handling them as some are jai rai. by the way which province is your tirak from maybe i will see you in the same village someday!

just make sure you have enough money in your pocket and the most important thing is have enough sperm to make love

I think you should change the last sentence to khon dii dtong chok dii instead and maybe your luck will change from there! chok dii na krub

[chanthira]

Originally Posted by ThaiPolice

bro like that you are suffering from the old man young girl syndrome..hehe

, i got lots of friends doing the same thing but just be careful when handling them as some are jai rai. by the way which province is your tirak from maybe i will see you in the same village someday!

just make sure you have enough money in your pocket and the most important thing is have enough sperm to make love

khon dii dtong chok dii

I offer to assist her as a friend but she insist to bring me to the village
and develop the relationship

Ruk jin jin
Jai Kwang Kwang
Mai Dtong Sai jai
To protect her
As the province of the village is not wise to expose because I do not know if any of our bros were conned by her before.
If you know any girl's same as my tirak
You may send me a private message