Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by damong777

Anyway simple advise just enjoy ur honey moon period

As stated by some here ady, ask urself u r in love or a moment of folly? Knowing them in sing and video call in vn mean nothing, go there open ur eyes. Then come back share.

Now is honeymoon. If u can be with a vb over 3 years, then consider marry. If not fnf.

Out of curiosity which ktv was that. U can pm me...i may know the gal if in certain joints.

Dun waste time...he is in love will not listen...now he thinks his gf who is WL is always different from others...

If she not receiving money from him means he has other sponsors giving her enough money to live now...those sponsors are bfs screwing her but cannot marry her...typical cases which we highlighted so many times in other similar cases...

We highlighted cost of vb expenditure coming one month...go read them...if you trust WL pigs can climb trees...

[yookevinyoo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Dun waste time...he is in love will not listen...now he thinks his gf who is WL is always different from others...

If she not receiving money from him means he has other sponsors giving her enough money to live now...those sponsors are bfs screwing her but cannot marry her...typical cases which we highlighted so many times in other similar cases...

We highlighted cost of vb expenditure coming one month...go read them...if you trust WL pigs can climb trees...

Initially feel puzzled when I saw your comments, but after I thinking back, you got your point, and I got you, the point!

Sounds like I am defending her....what if your point is correct...Then why is she still continue doing bia om in her howntown as she already have sponsors? Because sponsor not enough $? or She just simply like the job? of doing bia om continuously 7 days a week from noon until midnight, not having off day unless she has to take care of his baby. So money-minded but yet she loves me and not really take money from me?

Please enlighten me or "slap" me ya?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by yookevinyoo

Please enlighten me or "slap" me ya?

Are you prepared for a rough ride?
Not just about this period of lovey dovey, honeymoon
Ready to discover and accept?
Ready to support and provide?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by yookevinyoo

Initially feel puzzled when I saw your comments, but after I thinking back, you got your point, and I got you, the point!

Sounds like I am defending her....what if your point is correct...Then why is she still continue doing bia om in her howntown as she already have sponsors? Because sponsor not enough $? or She just simply like the job? of doing bia om continuously 7 days a week from noon until midnight, not having off day unless she has to take care of his baby. So money-minded but yet she loves me and not really take money from me?

Please enlighten me or "slap" me ya?

dun be lazy...go read other similar cases which we posted here since 2008...

Do you know the Singapore PR worth S$ 1mil...and Singapore Citizenship worth S$ 5mil...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Are you prepared for a rough ride?
Not just about this period of lovey dovey, honeymoon
Ready to discover and accept?
Ready to support and provide?

he will not know what to provide means...he already claimed he is poor man...he dun know what he is getting into yet as Buy 1 get 1 free....till he discover he is the least priority in her family ties structure...

I will never advised any friend to have a gf that has 1 kid...worst Viet WL...the kid fathered by dun know who is the most important priority to her...bf or hubby (leaglly married) always last after son, mother, father, brother, sister, then him...also the rough ride of applying LTVP, PR, Citizen...the anxiety when she had to leave our shores because of application rejected/delayed...

thru the years we had advised so many and did anyone of them came back to tell us what happened now or thank us...

he should read my story 1 and 2 posted recently...

[pusielover]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

only give ang bao to her mum and sis only mah. but based on the expertise of the VB bros here, does a VB bring a man to her hometown during TET mean anything? in sg, if bring girl home during cny is 100% confirm gf mah. just want to know this VB of mine got score any points or not.

TIA!

I totally agreed with Bros here.. It's meant nothing, mine was a live example. I spend 10 days during tet with her family Travelling fr hcmc all the way to da lat... End up she ain't my final destination
But that gal was a deputy director of in a mmc, so I didn't actually vomit out much blood lol

[hugs]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

thru the years we had advised so many and did anyone of them came back to tell us what happened now or thank us...

i feel u bro, salute u!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by hugs

i feel u bro, salute u!

Thank you to reply me...

I had seen, advised and dealt with so many cases that I am immune to Viet gal and WL...

My advice seriously if you want a Viet wife go to SOURCE Vietnam to choose and learn their culture...lots of different compared to ours...

Once again I knew of cases whereby the guys married WL and turn out good...but takes time to trust WL as wife...^^

[nightren]

I think the problem is she wl and got 1 kid...if go to marry got many many risk there...bro yookevinyoo 要三思。。if you can tell your family what is her background and you can take the risk make you mind already anything happen to you ....just accept what you chose...i think you just go for it dont ask anymore you will not find correct answer...good or no good is all about your luck also...anyway i now still single dont have any marry exp...just take me as busybody ba...

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by yookevinyoo

Sounds like I am defending her....what if your point is correct...Then why is she still continue doing bia om in her howntown as she already have sponsors? Because sponsor not enough $? or She just simply like the job? of doing bia om continuously 7 days a week from noon until midnight, not having off day unless she has to take care of his baby. So money-minded but yet she loves me and not really take money from me?

Please enlighten me or "slap" me ya?

Just know her well enough 1st. I know my bx for 4 years till today and yet I still have not married her legally in Singapore yet.

[Uncouth]

Originally Posted by damong777

Actually does not mean a thing. Just to lock in u as prospective bf. Usually a bit serious then bring u home. Dun think so much fast. Just ask her do u need to give any angbao. If not follow what fs suggest. Give the parents will do.

Actually for my case, it was a big commitment from her to meet her family. 1st time after 6 months, i was in HCMC for work and she stayed in HCMC but her family (more than 10 pax) took a 6 hours bike ride up to see me. I stayed there for only 1 night and left HCMC the next day.

2nd visit took place couple of months later, I went to her village with her and even her father who is divorced with her mum came home just to see me. Family treats me very well and her mum likes me alot. Sometimes when we quarrel there in the village, her mum always side me.

In general, meeting her family in their hometown is a big thing because they cannot have foreigners coming home with her every TET. 1 means serious relationship.

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by damong777

Actually does not mean a thing. Just to lock in u as prospective bf. Usually a bit serious then bring u home. Dun think so much fast. Just ask her do u need to give any angbao. If not follow what fs suggest. Give the parents will do.

she is bringing my to her hometown home and i will be staying at her home for 1.5 week. during this time, will be meeting her relatives, her hometown friends, classmates and also might travel to dat lat to visit her uni classmate, then go back hcmc together where i will take my flight back to sgp.

whats the situation i am in?

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by pusielover

I totally agreed with Bros here.. It's meant nothing, mine was a live example. I spend 10 days during tet with her family Travelling fr hcmc all the way to da lat... End up she ain't my final destination
But that gal was a deputy director of in a mmc, so I didn't actually vomit out much blood lol

tai sao? if u can tell me is who dump who, it makes a difference to me :-)

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by Uncouth

Actually for my case, it was a big commitment from her to meet her family. 1st time after 6 months, i was in HCMC for work and she stayed in HCMC but her family (more than 10 pax) took a 6 hours bike ride up to see me. I stayed there for only 1 night and left HCMC the next day.

2nd visit took place couple of months later, I went to her village with her and even her father who is divorced with her mum came home just to see me. Family treats me very well and her mum likes me alot. Sometimes when we quarrel there in the village, her mum always side me.

In general, meeting her family in their hometown is a big thing because they cannot have foreigners coming home with her every TET. 1 means serious relationship.

today, are you still together with her may i ask?

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

she is bringing my to her hometown home and i will be staying at her home for 1.5 week. during this time, will be meeting her relatives, her hometown friends, classmates and also might travel to dat lat to visit her uni classmate, then go back hcmc together where i will take my flight back to sgp.

whats the situation i am in?

How you go dalat ?