How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Good morning!

Everything changes constantly and unexpectedly.

Paradoxically, letting go of what we want is the only way to get it.

Lao Zi said: "When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need."

A modern guru writes: “When you don't get what you want, you suffer. If you get it, ... You will suffocate. The only way to get anything in the physical universe is by letting go of it. Let go & it will be yours forever”.

I lost XW in Dec of 2009 n KK in April of last yr. I let them go n didn't beg them to come back. And of of course I "lost" XX when she went back to PRC in April 2009.

I had completely forgotten abt them...

I hv several pleasant surprises this yr.

My one key investment has gone up n paid me a big bonus in a very tough yr for equities markets. Is it bcos of TC, my good luck charm?

Then my 1st BAO-ee XW made overtures to me in Jan this yr n became my lao po shortly later.

Exactly a month ago, KK reestablished ctc w/ me n begged me to take her back. She broke off w/ her 21 yo BF for a no of reasons. He is a tall 帅哥，a PRC student from a well to do family. He has spent over 50% of what I would hv paid her over the past 14 months...but they hv had many problems n conflicts while together...but I suspect one crucial reason is his inability to give her COS, hehehe. She hinted that she had suffered greatly n is sexually very hungry. She will go to Changi at very inconvenient hrs to welcome me back. She will don a sexy new dress to show off her natural D assets. I jokingly said that I might lose control...she replied that 耐不住才好呵，证明你是个正常的男人, hehehe.

Will I ever see XX again? She is 22 n may be married now.

One of my most respected gurus sent this email to me the other day:

Creating 'Subliminal' Attraction

Hey Bro Warbird , what's up?


Today, it's time to talk about how to connect
on a SUBLIMINAL LEVEL with females. More
specifically, I'm talking about how to SEEM like
an extremely confident guy.

Now, clearly this sounds a little at odds with
my usual policy. I'm not a big one for 'faking it
til you make it', because I think it's pretty easy
for women to sense any kind of inauthenticity and
be instantly and MASSIVELY turned off by it. It's
like a bucket of cold water in the face: any
progress you've made so far gets instantly reversed.

Another reason I don't tend to advocate the
'fake it til you make it' approach is because
there's often a lot of stuff to REMEMBER, and that
gets in the way of your ability to relax, get into
the momentum of what's happening, and involve
yourself intensely in what's happening around you.

It's a little difficult to be spontaneous and
chilled-out if you're repeating bullet-points
inside your head to 'keep you on track'.

But fortunately, today's subject matter is a
horse of a different color. Yes, there's going to
be some stuff to remember here - but this isn't
'bullet points' that we're talking about here. No
factoids to learn by rote.

Instead, this about showing you how to get in
touch with your own, physical confidence and then
portray it to those around you.

This is about positioning your BODY in such a
way that her instinctive impression of you is that
you are an at-ease guy.

It's another way of LEADING her: you're setting
an atmosphere of easy relaxation which she can
then enjoy and contribute to.

So just to clarify: this isn't about 'faking'
ANYTHING. It's about making an EFFORT to man up
and prove to her on a subconscious, GUT LEVEL that
you're a calm, competent, laid-back kinda guy.

And after we've dealt with the physical aspect
of confidence, I'll have a few words to say about
the importance of congruence, as well. But that
can wait til later.

Onward ...

There's a phrase that's remarkably appropriate
to today's subject matter, and that is: 'Motion
creates Emotion.'

In other words, your body and what you're doing
with it has not only a massive impact on how
OTHERS PERCEIVE YOU, but - first and foremost - it
actually impacts HOW YOU FEEL inside yourself.

So if you STAND like a dude who's in control,
chances are, you'll start FEELING like one too.
Authenticity guaranteed and 'on the house' ... which
means your CONGRUENCE is ALSO guaranteed.

Meaning, you're not going to be attracting
females using a 'trick' that they'll soon figure out
... it's actually the REAL DEAL.

Not bad for a quick postural realignment.

Think about most of the 'nervous' guys that you
see who are trying to forge connections with
women.

Chances are, they're looking pretty
uncomfortable. And that winds up making HER
uncomfortable.

Once again, this is because most women will
unknowingly FOLLOW YOUR LEAD. If you seem anxious
and weird, she'll pick up on it and start feeling
that way herself ... and she'll rightly blame you
for it.

So let's take a closer look at the unseen
pitfalls that your body's setting up for you.

Here's something that literally MOST MEN
unknowingly do when they're not 100% at ease: they
actually can't even stand up straight on their own
two feet.

I bet you know what I'm talking about here.
They're rocking all over the place, they might
have one ankle hooked around the other one, or
they've got one foot kind of heeled over to the
side, or they're leaning on the wall, or they're
leaning on a chair ...

This connotes a very strong message of UNEASE
to whoever happens to be around. It's very simple,
but not even being able to stand comfortably on
your own two feet makes it quite clear that you're
not at home with yourself. And if you're not
comfortable with YOURSELF (so the logic goes) how
will you ever manage to be comfortable with HER?

... and if you're not comfortable with her, you
can just bet that you're going to transfer that
discomfort onto her ... so that EVERYONE'S having a
nervous, anxious, and all-round low-quality time.

Hmmm. That's a lot to infer from just one
little postural imperfection.

But unfortunately, it's true. Think about any
'alpha males' that you know. Now think about how
they hold themselves. As a general rule, men who
are 'high value' tend to KNOW IT, and hold
themselves accordingly - in a way that's very
calm, very powerful, and with very little 'wasted
movement'.

(To be Continued)

[warbird]

So now might be a good idea for you to get a
full-length mirror and practice striking some
poses in front of it. Pay attention to the
difference between how comfortable and at-ease a
posture LOOKS, and how it actually FEELS.

Most guys get fidgety because they can't slot
themselves into a posture that feels as though
it's going to look natural, so they end up
squirming all over the place.

But if you actually pay attention here, you'll
notice that postures that might FEEL WEIRD at
first actually LOOK very natural and relaxed. So
take a look and get used to how particular
positions feel so you can use them in public.

A few quick pointers:

- Shoulders relaxed and down.

- Midsection tight and sucked in toward your
backbone.

- Feet a good distance apart.

- Hands hanging relaxed at your sides.

But WHY are these things attractive to females?

Does it REALLY matter if your feet are a couple
inches apart or not?

It's like this. None of these things are
attractive PER SE. For example, a woman won't take
a look at a man's relaxed hands and think, 'Wow,
check it out.'

But it's the UNDERLYING OBSERVATIONS that are
CAUSED by these little physical details that DO
count in a very big way towards gut-level
attraction.

Specifically, all of these physical postures
have the cumulative effect of portraying you as IN
CONTROL and RELAXED.

In other words, they're the physical hallmarks
of a high-value, confident, dominant man. And as
you know, these are the types of men who tend to
CONSISTENTLY SUCCEED with quality women.

It's a little like the little physical details
that we, as guys, pay SUBCONSCIOUS attention to
with women.

For example, something that I've noticed is
that men tend to be attracted to females with small
noses and long eyelashes.

Now, neither of these characteristics is
necessarily something that we'd bother noticing in
and of itself. You don't usually hear a guy
talking about what a 'sexy nose' a woman has, or
going on about her eyelashes.

But if you take a look at some pictures of
really attractive females, not a ONE of them will
have short eyelashes or a big nose.

Just as things like long lashes connote
FEMININITY for women, certain POSTURES connote
MASCULINITY for men.

Know it. Use it.

The 'little details' are more important than
most people believe.

Your body screams out the truth about what
you're feeling and thinking, long before you could
articulate it verbally.

If you want proof of how important, and SUBTLE,
body language is, then check this out:

... the case of the Counting Horse.

About 20 years ago, this horse trainer claimed
to have taught his horse to be able to add,
subtract, and multiply mathematical figures. He
actually proved it many times over, throughout
county fairs, vaudeville acts, and theaters
throughout the country.

Audience members would call out complicated
equations, and the horse would tap out the answer
with his hoof.

And every time, the horse got it right. Nobody
could figure out what was going on. Scientists
examined the horse closely. They screened for
electronic cheating devices - none were found. The
trainer stood absolutely motionless every time -
no cheating there, either.

Finally, a communications expert videotaped
what was happening. It was discovered, after many
YEARS of debate about this phenomenon, that the
trainer wrinkled his brow slightly and blinked
whenever he expected the horse to stop tapping his
hoof.

I.e., whenever the correct answer was tapped
out, his HOPE that the horse would get the answer
right showed itself upon his face. The horse
noticed this TINY little change in his expression,
and stopped tapping.

Here's the weird part.

The trainer didn't even know he was doing it.

He wasn't TRYING to help the horse cheat. But
his face twitched just a TINY little bit when the
horse reached the 'right answer' ...

... which was all that was needed for the horse
to cotton on, and stop tapping.

Now, granted, women are not horses. But the
fact remains: YOU ARE TELLING PEOPLE THINGS WITH
YOUR FACE AND BODY, EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW IT.

You need to accept the fact that right now, you
are communicating things to others via your body
language that you are NOT EVEN AWARE OF. That's
spooky stuff.

Obviously, this isn't something to get bogged
down in. It's just a small, but IMPORTANT, detail
to consider in the overall scheme of reinventing
yourself as a top-notch, high-caliber, EXCELLENT
human being who's worthy of the women of his
choice.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Be cool,

Your Guru

[nickgoodfellow]

Interesting post, Warbird. =)

[warbird]

Originally Posted by nickgoodfellow

Interesting post, Warbird. =)

Hi bro,

Life is always interesting...pls share ur sexcapades here, haha.

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Good morning!

Yes, life is interesting. It's all fun. Even the recent turmoil in the global markets is more than interesting. It's time to get ready to load up on high quality n undervalued stocks. Buy when others are very fearful...hahaha.

Of course nothing is more interesting n more fun than BY-ing SYTs for a lao chi ko pek. An incident reminds me that I'm getting quite old. When I was in Beijing recently, my PRC lao po CL accompanied me on our sight seeing tours. In the taxi, the driver asked my gal: 小姑娘你要去那里玩。。。这位先生是。。。she said...我们要去故宫。。。他是我的干爹。Turning to me, he asked: 老先生， 你从那里来的。。。even though he himself is in his 50s.

I'll return to SG soon. KK insists on coming to greet me at Changi. It will be our 2nd honeymoon, hehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[erkianpeng]

Does that mean bro Warbird is in his 60s or 70s? Anyway if you are old, you are old. There is no running away from time and tide. And the more you expend your sperm on the young PRC pussies, the more you lose your "chi" and the faster you grow older and weaker. I am 55 but look like 30 plus because I abstain.

[MoralEpitome]

Thanks Bro WB, thanks to all your sextics, I managed to up this very beautiful ChengDu girl in 3 days! She told me that many guys propositioned her but I am the only guy in Singapore who upz her yet....although maybe not for long unless i bao her

[besafe]

Originally Posted by erkianpeng

Does that mean bro Warbird is in his 60s or 70s? Anyway if you are old, you are old. There is no running away from time and tide. And the more you expend your sperm on the young PRC pussies, the more you lose your "chi" and the faster you grow older and weaker. I am 55 but look like 30 plus because I abstain.

Bro...what for look young and die without tasting the pussies?

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by besafe

Bro...what for look young and die without tasting the pussies?

I am reminded of this man who saw his doctor, and asked, "Doctor, what must I do to live a long life?"

The doctor paused, and answered, "Do not smoke, do not drink and do not womanise, and you shall live a long life."

The man paused even longer, before replying, "Then what is the point of living a long life?"

[Legend]

I'll return to SG soon. KK insists on coming to greet me at Changi. It will be our 2nd honeymoon, hehe.

Bro WB[/QUOTE]

Bro WB, let me know when you're back... i wont go to Changi to greet you but we can catch up for a drink cheers

Legend

[warbird]

Originally Posted by erkianpeng

Does that mean bro Warbird is in his 60s or 70s? Anyway if you are old, you are old. There is no running away from time and tide. And the more you expend your sperm on the young PRC pussies, the more you lose your "chi" and the faster you grow older and weaker. I am 55 but look like 30 plus because I abstain.

Hi Bro EKP,

Good for u!

Although I look much older than 35, my wt is unchanged since I was 25, my BP is actually lower than when I was 20 n the only prescription drug I take is occasional Cialis.

I don't believe making love n ejaculating my sperm into young pussies every day will deprive me of chi. However, it may hurt my health if such activities reduce the time I hv for sleep n exercise.

Don't abstain from sex. It increases ur risk of getting prostate cancer...

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Thanks Bro WB, thanks to all your sextics, I managed to up this very beautiful ChengDu girl in 3 days! She told me that many guys propositioned her but I am the only guy in Singapore who upz her yet....although maybe not for long unless i bao her

HI Bro ME,

Well done! I like to hear more success stories like yours.

Most PRC gals want to be BY-ed. Period.

Originally Posted by besafe

Bro...what for look young and die without tasting the pussies?

For a heterosexual male, such a sterile life would be meaningless.

Originally Posted by chenzong

I am reminded of this man who saw his doctor, and asked, "Doctor, what must I do to live a long life?"

The doctor paused, and answered, "Do not smoke, do not drink and do not womanise, and you shall live a long life."

The man paused even longer, before replying, "Then what is the point of living a long life?"

Very good question, bro.

Originally Posted by Legend

Bro WB, let me know when you're back... i wont go to Changi to greet you but we can catch up for a drink cheers

Legend

Hi Bro Legend,

I just came back.

KK did come to welcome me at Changi in the wee hrs...

Pls call me when you want to go.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[MoralEpitome]

Bro WB, the girl I mentioned in the earlier post has left for China after just one week of whirlwind romance, I was sad to let her go and we had a passionate kiss before she left, she told me she will be back in a couple of months time and will contact me in china. I don't believe in this long term r/s shit and will forget her. As fate has it, the day after she left I ran into another girl whom she claims know me, a very nice and polite 23 year old singer, hmm, so the saying if the old don't go, the new one won't arrive applies. But as she is a singer, I think the costs will be higher and I will use KC on her to see if I can bonk her without spending too much. I wanted to meet her yesterday but she wasn't feeling well and did not go to work and even more fated, I ran into an old girl whom I always had the hots for, but somehow never managed to consumnerate. Hmmm, she claims that she always wanted to be my gf but because she always see me with other girls ignored me all this while, this time round she said she has changed and is not as greedy as last time, she had earned alot of money but lost it all at the casinos so she is looking for a life of contentment and a simplier life now, she hint to me that if she won't to become my gf/wife, she will just ask for 2k a mth for daily expensess.....hmmm.....I wonder how should I proceed and who should I proceed with...

[besafe]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

I wonder how should I proceed and who should I proceed with...

You should just give me her number and I will visit her in Chengdu. Hahaha

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by besafe

You should just give me her number and I will visit her in Chengdu. Hahaha

The Chengdu one left leow, she said she will contact me when she's back but I doubt it, anyway fucked leow so don't think you want la, now is between the syt singer and the more mature old lover...but now i know why the casinos in spore are thriving, some of my girls lost 100K there! I am convince the girls are richer than me

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

she claims that she always wanted to be my gf but because she always see me with other girls ignored me all this while, this time round she said she has changed and is not as greedy as last time, she had earned alot of money but lost it all at the casinos so she is looking for a life of contentment and a simplier life now, she hint to me that if she won't to become my gf/wife, she will just ask for 2k a mth for daily expensess.....hmmm.....I wonder how should I proceed and who should I proceed with...

Kanina, public toilet!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Bro WB, the girl I mentioned in the earlier post has left for China after just one week of whirlwind romance........................................... ........................ she hint to me that if she won't to become my gf/wife, she will just ask for 2k a mth for daily expensess.....hmmm.....I wonder how should I proceed and who should I proceed with...

hi Bro ME,

Ths for sharing ur sexcapades.

Pls keep it up.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

The mark of a real MAN is his icy calmness, confidence n self mastery, when confronted by the most stressful n life-threatening situations. We should all aspire to be a real MAN.

I came across an interesting book on "macking" recently.

Nasheed Tariq of "The Art of Mackin" fame described a fren whose face was disfigured by a car accident, who was not rich n yet, "And even
with his disfigurements, my friend still has a
different female at his crib every night."

"Why?
Because he knows how to "put his bid in." He
keeps "fishing for females" until one of them
takes the bait. Plus, he has become totally
immune to getting dissed."

"He also understands
that one woman's frog is another woman's
prince."

Very sound advice, hahaha.

BTW, I picked up a very fair skin PRC gal yesterday evening as she was waiting for taxi. She was QQ, abt 22-23, 165 w/ nice figure. Unfortunately, she works at a HFJ. I told a fren if I really like her I would buy all her sessions for the month. My fren's advice is to do it for a month then get her to return to PRC n apply for a different visa to come back. I could save half my money that way. A bit too complicated for me.

Cheers!

Bro WB