Need advice on Sour marriage life..

[sean69]

Originally Posted by alan0338

u very fast bro ...

at least this time, he will not be getting married too fast.... i think..

[S.B.Y.1]

Originally Posted by alan0338

u very fast bro ...

Kalender we tear we dont even notice that time flies

So must faster grab while we can

Kudos bRuR topcook01

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by hotstuffm8

Good luck with your new relationship bro. I hope you are more discerning this time around.

Hope so...cheers will update u guys..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Ok not trying to start any wars etc but posting on a neutral ground, not siding anyone.
How did you 2 get married in the 1st place?
How did you 2 end up wif 2 kids if there's no connection between 1 another in the 1st place?
How did she end up wif the ang moh in the 1st place.
Yes bro TopCook1, I feel ur pain but then, there's always 2 sides of a coin.
No normal human being, especially a woman n mother of 2 will just say I dun love u anymore, run off(figure of speech) wif an ang moh like u dun even exist.
Sorry about ur situation but personally I feel there's more than meets the eye here cos everything we hear is only from u.
Your version, so wat we know is what u want to let us know.
I bet my last dollar there's more that we dun and is not suppose to know.
Nothing just ends up like that for nothing!
Period.
Pity u or your ex wife to be????
No, Y shud I, u 2 will lead a new life of your choosing.
I only pity the kids, have to live a new life not of their choosing!

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Ok not trying to start any wars etc but posting on a neutral ground, not siding anyone.
How did you 2 get married in the 1st place?
How did you 2 end up wif 2 kids if there's no connection between 1 another in the 1st place?
How did she end up wif the ang moh in the 1st place.
Yes bro TopCook1, I feel ur pain but then, there's always 2 sides of a coin.
No normal human being, especially a woman n mother of 2 will just say I dun love u anymore, run off(figure of speech) wif an ang moh like u dun even exist.
Sorry about ur situation but personally I feel there's more than meets the eye here cos everything we hear is only from u.
Your version, so wat we know is what u want to let us know.
I bet my last dollar there's more that we dun and is not suppose to know.
Nothing just ends up like that for nothing!
Period.
Pity u or your ex wife to be????
No, Y shud I, u 2 will lead a new life of your choosing.
I only pity the kids, have to live a new life not of their choosing!

You are right bro, it takes to hands to clap in a relationship. I do admit that I played a part in the divorce. Basically our communications has broken down 6 years ago our daily conversations are just only kids and money only. We went into marriage just few months of courtship and I admit that this was my fault too. There were many problems behind it ie : Mother in law - daughter in law relations , money , tine, character differences, hobbies . Guess the trigger point is that no love was around. I really do pity my daughters coz there were the innocent party. Anyway I just wish them luck and have my blessings. Hope they will remember me as their biological father. Anyway there wont be war going on here.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by topcook1

You are right bro, it takes to hands to clap in a relationship. I do admit that I played a part in the divorce. Basically our communications has broken down 6 years ago our daily conversations are just only kids and money only. We went into marriage just few months of courtship and I admit that this was my fault too. There were many problems behind it ie : Mother in law - daughter in law relations , money , tine, character differences, hobbies . Guess the trigger point is that no love was around. I really do pity my daughters coz there were the innocent party. Anyway I just wish them luck and have my blessings. Hope they will remember me as their biological father. Anyway there wont be war going on here.

Glad u can understand the moral of my post.
Sad but remember, u r still the kid's biological father & yes, do not wish them well only, but always be the eagle watching over them.
When they grow up, they will understand, keep in touch, n u will nvr loose the love of your life.......you offsprings...I am a father too, i know how this feels.
When they r old enuff, tell them...they hv the rite to know, uncensored!
Else this incident will affect their mentality.
Take Care dude!
Life is nvr smooth sailing, but it's how we make do of current affairs tat can turn a sour thing to sweet.
Cheers

[milford]

Just stay in the marriage for the sake of children. However, you can play with your lover while she can play with her lover.

[milford]

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[HugeDoggy]

Be strong, life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you gonna get. Next round, check out the chocolates before consuming them

[Viridian]

Originally Posted by topcook1

You are right bro, it takes to hands to clap in a relationship. I do admit that I played a part in the divorce. Basically our communications has broken down 6 years ago our daily conversations are just only kids and money only. We went into marriage just few months of courtship and I admit that this was my fault too. There were many problems behind it ie : Mother in law - daughter in law relations , money , tine, character differences, hobbies . Guess the trigger point is that no love was around. I really do pity my daughters coz there were the innocent party. Anyway I just wish them luck and have my blessings. Hope they will remember me as their biological father. Anyway there wont be war going on here.

It's great to hear you are in a new phase of your life, no matter what happens, stay happy always, everyday, every seconds.....life is always full of smiles.............

[kim-seng-heng]

Your ex wife sure will regret one day if the ang mo dump her away.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Viridian

It's great to hear you are in a new phase of your life, no matter what happens, stay happy always, everyday, every seconds.....life is always full of smiles.............

Very difficult bro...I still suffering from depression. I often feels that I am alone and no direction in life. Although I have a new gf it dosen't help much coz she dont understand my problems and keep on adding pressure on me..

[iossshee]

Bro suggestion go for a dive ... enjoy the silience of the sea ...
infact is a stone in your heart that suffocate you ...

your wife matters let it go ... you still have 2 daugthers mah ... life is short live it to a meaningful 1 ... this things doesn't happened without a reason ... it will make you stronger in relationship and a mor responsible father ... look on the good side of things ...

Your wife will be thinking ... your world will stop turning without her presence ... You have to make sure it you have a better life without her ...

Take care ...

[Suharto]

Originally Posted by topcook1

Final divorce will be out next month. House already sold liaoz...Is a peaceful ending as she pleaded mercy not to contest for my children. However she will be marrying the caucasian guy soon. Wish her luck.

Let bapak tell mas topcook1 a story.

Many years back bapak had this friend (still my friend), he was extremely
wealthy, had a factory dealing in plywood. Also had many bars in Bali. Now
then 1997 came he almost bankrupt, this is his low point in life.

Now the bars in bali were usually frequented by those foreigners from UK and
etc, but his wife was taking care of the bar operations those day. So
because bapak's friend nearly went bankrupt in 97, a guy from the UK tried to
get fresh with his wife, now my friend almost bankrupt so wife said no point
and left my friend and went to marry the UK dummy. She left him in his time
of need.

Now many years later, just last year he went to the UK to do some business,
he now even became more wealthy then before, he saw his ex wife working
in a restraunt. he went there to eat because to meet his bisuness partner.

So he ask the partner, who that girl, he said he hired her because he pity
her, his wife now stays in east london welfare home and lives basically on
welfare, so he pity and just hire her. Appareently the UK guy that she
married lied to her telling he had this and that in the UK actually he not even
have peanut all, bullshit and bapak friend wife believe. he was actually
jobless in the UK but told the girl that he was millionaire in UK, all lies

So bapak friend tell me see, she left me for another man when i need her
most now she pay back all my tears.

I also think she stupid because bapak friend so rich, she go marry and idiot
because he is caucasian

So bapak tell you honestly mas topcook1 do not feel dpressed, go get laid
and remember that she left you not other way around so one day maybe you
become someone great and you will remeber these days